Something i realized recently is that a few years ago i was really good at making friends, talking, making smart jokes (context jokes) etc. I was a natural. Nowadays i suck at being social i think, or at least i dont feel like being good. Thats why i now use tips and guides, because i want to be like that again but it just feels so akward because is not natural for me anymore. Is like reading a guide or a set of steps and i think i dont want my social life to become that. Has anyone experienced this or something similar? If so, how did you recover your spontaneity or social abilities? (Sorry if there`s any bad word, english not my native language).