So tomorrow I'm making my first approach, and I need some open ended questions, just in case something happens where I need to continue the conversation. I've looked up a lot of open ended questions, but they all sound like questions you'd get at a job interview. The only thing I currently know that we have in common is we are both in an after school leadership program (I'm in high school so nothing too mature).

Also as a side note, is shaking her hand (like when I introduce myself or when we both leave) a good idea?

Thanks in advance for the help and ideas