I've been on seddit for a few months, and I'm not a average seddit beginner. I've never been bad with girls and social skills, for some people I might even be a natural. But I'm not a kind that is happy with himself, i'm always prone to improve. My reason for why i'm here is that I want to be better in recognizing body language, I want to be better in social skills, get better inner game, and defeat procrastination. During my stay here I've noticed something beginners like to say, which i'm sure is a lie in most of the cases.

I don't want to be rude, and this might not be true for all beginners, so don't take it to personally, although I want you to judge yourself and make sure this isn't true.

Well here goes.. Seddit has to be the biggest lair of introverts. In real life i probably know about 2-3 people for which we could say that they are introverts, but on seddit, every beginner seems to say he's an introvert. As I've said, some might be, but not all of you.. I'd be willing to bet my car(my wife) on that.

I've seen this word in almost every newbie FR, and I'm sure you can't be all that bad. Most of you were probably social in highschool/college. A lot of you had girlfriends in the past, friends, teammates, etc...

The way I see it it's an excuse. It's something you tell yourself to feel better about yourself, well you have to realize something. You'll never be able to achieve greatness if you'll be hidding behind your excuses. Leave them in your bed when you wake up! And next time when you approach, instead of saying; "I can't do this, I'm an introvert", say: "I can and fucking should do this! I'm a fucking social butterfly!"

Some people in here will probably go; what's this guy ranting about after reading this, but i had to. I had to get this out of my system. Since I've been on seddit I've kind of started loathing the word "Introvert".

That's about it, man up, stop making excuses and start doing it!

Read a post on kickass academy which has been sort of an inspiration for this post.

http://www.kickassacademy.com/face-and-overcome-fear-flexing-your-courage-muscle/