Hello r/seduction.

First I learned why the ways of the "nice guy" were flawed. Then I learned I never experienced becoming a man. I was stuck being a boy pretending a man. I feel I realized that learning to be a man is a pre-requisite to being able to use r/seduction's tools.

I was wondering if some of you who have may have gone through a similar path could help guide me in my quest to finding myself. Can some of you who may have had similar experiences share why this is a good/bad to take? You would currently be helping me think about the future of the rest of my life. Thanks!

TL;DR: Become a man, then proceed to acquire women. Is this what I should be doing? or is this a flawed concept.

P.S. I understand women is not the goal of manhood to me it seems to be one of the many positives.