- I am the highest value/coolest guy in the world, and since attraction=value then every women is attracted to me.
- Every women is an EXTREMELY sexual being, and since they are all attracted to me…SEX IS INEVITABLE! 3.Let go of rejection, Open all, Let go of your ego, you do it for references to better yourself & you could be 0 for 8 and then go home with a 10 on the 9th
- Minimize time between sets, talk to everyone in your field of vision (build up the night). Its better for you to be seen talking to a 5 then by yourself PARADOXes Be centered-be persistent Be relaxed-be intent Push-pull Display active disinterest-show genuine interest Play attack-play defense Move forward-go backwards Be outcome independent-always close the deal Internal oriented-External oriented Want and like sex-don't need sex Be open minded-have strong believes Analytical-emotional Routines based game-natural game Observe girls responses-have blinds spots(don't care) Compliment-disqualify Be the prize-chase the girl until she says no Be talkative-be a good listener Don't be needy-Don't be indifferent Express inwardly-experience outwardly Lead the interaction-synchronized with the girl Be generous-be assertive Lead the interaction-respect the girl Be playful-be serious Be a child-be mature Have standards-get past things Have discipline-don't stick to the rules(anarchy) 5.Become more delusionaly confident and dominant in conversations..make it about YOU When you make it about yourself. You take the burden off of her to impress you at first. Thinking that you are awesome and you are giving her the chance to know you.. Give your opinion on everything without apology .Always offer your opinion on every topic.
- Women are operating on old software, manifested over thousands of years. Its rationale to ask their opinion on something, but more natural to just take what you want!
- In our 2 million years of evolution we only spoke in words for 20,000 years. Think of the implications and how it does not matter what you say (logic) but everything else which conveys emotional triggers in women.
- Shape her behavior by saying that you like the behavior. Not that you dislike it. All emotional states are addictive. If a girl hangs out with another guy and you have an emotional reaction to it then she'll do it again.
- If you shaped a girl to be spontaneous then don't be upset when she doesn't like watching tv with you. Shape by rewarding her good behavior with physical affection.
- Live in the mindset of extreme togetherness and empathy with others. Give love to everyone. It is very valuable. All problems are mind created. Reality and the universe can be aligned to give you what you want if you see the simplicity (we're all matter). You control your reality (Insert name here)
- View her ioi by being attentive and listening to you. She can be doing anything else in the club but she's listening to you.
- Anything else is bonus. Pickup is messy.
- In the beginning of the night....you will not pull the girl...the first half is all about having fun and pumping your state...best way to pump state is to take fast massive action. Want to be rejected cause you find it funny because you don't need the girl and fuck your little ego...5 seconds between sets!
Go now! Be amused by what you say Be authentic with no outcome in mind Anticipate positive responses You have better value(don't need her) and she needs your VALUE Everyone is bored in a walking daze cause their egos have taken over, their ego is looking for material things to be happy when living in the moment for the process is what makes you happy...its a default state, be the unstiffled grounding energy that gives people permission to let go, they will fall into your reality, create your own value by being amused in life Approaching girls and assuming positive responses is natural for you, you have the same belief of how easy it is to drink water as she is friendly and easy to get, I want to meet her and if the responses aren't what you anticipate then whatever, you're indifferent because you had no outcome in mind Act through your own intentions...do what you want without apology..being self amused * * State sub comm value...when you're in state, you are totally happy with your life, you are coming from a state of abundance and high value because you are happy with your life. You're not trying to impress because you are totally happy with your life.
Your indifference to the outcome is extremely attractive to women If she's mean when you're authentic. Say "Okay her egos in the way...sucks for her." :) (Laugh at it).
When a girl is thinking logically or you're not being super fun!! Then she thinks -How will fucking him effect my status, how will I get home, will he use a condom etc...when they are in a fun emotional state..they just want more which is SEX. No thinking involved...Vegas mentality!!!!
- When you're being rejected, push it to the next level to be amused and pump your state..create role plays, lie, don't look for reactions, have FUNN
- Don't ask for permission. Not just verbally, but that means to DO what you want without consequence. If you want to kiss or take her home. Go for it!! If you want her to be kinky...tell her...go first YOU ARE ENOUGH
Realize that when you are the man and you have the high value. Her dumb repsonses or not knowing what to say is her being quiet and timid because she doesn't want to mess up and say something wrong.
You are at a higher level of CONSCIOUSNESS!!!!! You don't need to be told what to do. You make decisions!
People are born with Self Esteem. We cannot explain it. We cannot define it. It is like tao or soul..happiness default state.
The Ego is a rational construct for self esteem when it is wounded. Logically see as confidence. Ego seems more real cause its based off of things you can measure and see.
In state---emotional system looks to see if you have value to be your best State Leads to... * a feeling of being completely * a surge of positivity and steadiness and confidence naturallness, everything just clicks, effortless, you just get it * you are the sorce of good emotions and you are the party. * don't look for value...give love you are a full cup of being complete. * Nothing can go wrong. * Dont take anything personality * complete empathy and ability to blast away others' ego
TO game the girl is to try and manipulate her thoughts and behavior. Self-amusement on the other hand is for yourself and is eases her by showing indifference and ease in the interaction.
SHOW genuine interest in others
- The girls are more nervous than you. Girls have "Being Approached" anxiety. Am I cool enough is what they think. Be goofy and let loose.
*Natural Cycle of State and RAS*
Tyler- "You literally will not see the 9 and 10's in the club or out because your mind subconsciously thinks that if you approach it will kill your state."
- Mind hypnotizes you to think that every girl is unopenable. Ex. She's with a guy, She's gonna leave, She's with friends, She knows me through whomever, She's dancing, She's too hot.
This happens cause in new tribe you don't know your STATUS or others. So your brain tricks you to "protect" you from being attacked by an alpha.
Paradigm shift is to say, "Wait. "I'm human, they are human. This isn't a big deal. It is natural and nothing bad will happen."
MAKE YOURSELF APPROACH THE CHALLENGES!!!
How to not give a Fuck (PPL don't give a Fuck about what you do.) Everyone is in their own little world and people don't care.
- One-It-Is=Romanticizing girl. Every guy does this with her. Stay abundant. If you romanticize then you will act weird and not yourself around her. Stick out by not caring so much.
You were NOT rejected, but instead there was a lack of chemistry. Not every girl wants you. Just go through the girls that don't want you until you find one that does.
The Thought of acheiving and getting the girls or using them as a reference experience is essentially taking value, not seeing them as a person, not being in the moment with them and essentially come off as weird.
Cheers :)
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