Hi i'm 19 M. Virgin, only had 1 relationship, also a certe toxic One. I'm not here to complain about my Life, i'm kinda Happy but i know it could be way Better.

My goal in Life rn is to be good with girls, but i'm not doing well. I'm still a lot insecure,low confidence a bit awkard and a Little antisocial. Everytime I meet a girl I Say "I can't hit on her if I don't have a good mental state"

Am i right? Idk honestly if I should Just improve my mental health first and then hit on girls or doing both at the same time.

I'm Sorry if somebody already asked this but I'm new in this sub and also new at approaching girls. All the girls I Met Always hit on me , because I was top afraid( infact, i kissed like 7 girls in all my Life)

Hope you can help me, thank you so much.