here are some thoughts. I am no ''alpha male'' and sometimes that gnaws at me and sometimes not. right now, I am more than content at simply being me. but that too is secondary to mood. [mood produces thought. but that's another story.] this is perhaps a totally non alpha-male s.o.c.

it's not all in your mind. it's not all in your body. it can start in your mind, and it too can begin in your body. make a move. have a momentous thought/attitude. see it through and execute. try and fail. or don't try at all. or try and succeed [score]. or just randomly get laid. it's all gravy. you've got to be clear about where you're at and what your goals are. it's the contradiction -- the hypocrisy -- the lack of clarity -- that gnaws in a clearly unpleasant way.

there are infinitely many options to begin the stone rolling in regards of seduction and getting with women. but you've got to do it. and I don't do it really honestly. it's conditioning somewhat. and it's also a lack of a clear prerogative. what I really mean to say is you've got to go deep inside your mind and connect it with your body and get things moving.

and also, if you've got momentum, keep it going. momentum is your friend.