Mindsets, tips and tricks for haveing fun while cold approaching?

hunterpua · 2021-09-07T13:22:43+00:00

I have a habit of doing random acts of kindness for people and that puts me in a really good mood.

It also makes me cold approaching a more natural thing because of how I'm so used to talking to strangers just to do something nice. I do this with anybody, not just girls I'm attracted to.

Also, even when you want something in retun like a date or whatever, focus on doing something to improve her day with whatever you open with, it makes approaching a lot more enjoyable and increases the success rate of your approaches too.

Confused about how to improve her day or you think you don't have a lot of control over that?

If that's how you feel you might think that the only way to cold approach a girl you fancy is by stating sexual or romantic intentions. The whole, "Hey, I saw you over there and thought you were pretty so I had to talk to you" kinda thing.

But in reality, you can start a conversation with a girl in all kinds of ways, not just by stating your intentions. Removing those limitations on what you can and can't do gives you more power to make her day better.

Really, when I cold approach a girl I'm attracted to there's virtually no difference to when I cold approach an old man just to do something nice to have a bit of friendly chit chat.

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UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2021-09-07T13:15:07+00:00

Be in the moment

And when u catch urserf still inside ur head, slap urself and get back in the moment

BoraChicao · 2021-09-07T14:40:37+00:00

its important tho being present in the moment, not just when you go to aproach, but in all aspects in your life ( read " the power of now"). In Seduction, helps you being more grounded, much lees anxious and enjoy more the moment.

Title	Mindsets, tips and tricks for haveing fun while cold approaching?
Author	Important_Maximum_66
Upvotes	4
Comments	4
Date	September 7, 2021 12:53 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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