Last night I didn't feel like going home just yet, and the drink specials were still going on. I hung around the bar after my friends left, and chatted up this chick next to me on the bathroom line (why is it so easy to converse there compared to anywhere else?) and found out she lived a block away from me. The door to the pisser opened up and I went inside to take care of my business, came back out and smiled at her as I walked inside.
10 minutes later she spots me in the crowd and is with two of her friends, HB7 and HB6. She ends up introducing me to a very drunk HB7 who is beyond excited to meet me because of my heritage. She exclaims how she's visited and loved it there, blah blah blah. We flirt a bit, and I keep teasing her about how she looks like she's 11, and the cops are going to not believe me.
We are physical from the get go, I continue teasing her about how she's a drunken toddler and all that. Fast forward probably 20 - 30 minutes later, we're making out. We make out on and off and her friends leave us to talk to other dudes in the bar, totally cool.
I propose going over to the bar next door, but she declines saying she can't leave without her friends (she had a long commute home + was buzzed anyways).
We make out some more, she bites my ear and all that fun stuff. I eventually take her number, and head to another bar, which ended up being completely empty. No biggie, time to get some food and call it a night.
I've been going out more frequently during the week to crowded bars alone, and I definitely have been improving. The girls kept asking where my cute friends were, and I told them they all left to another place, etc. Didn't take it too seriously.
Some sticking points I need to work on:
Logistics for the F-close. I live about 10 blocks away from this place, so a walk or quick cab would do the trick. It's hard to pull a drunk girl away from her friends, however. Even though they approved of me and all I had to do was not fuck it up. Any tips here?
She texted me today, we flirted a bit. I propose a hangout this weekend, and leave it at that. No more texting until it rolls around. She even asked if I had a Facebook, which I said I didn't. (I never use mine anyways, plus random girls from bars are probably the worst to deal with on Facebook).
Anyways, there's some improvement. I need to approach when I'm not at the bathroom line as well, and maybe bring a good wing or two. I don't have anyone who's that great at winging, because they end up talking too much about themselves and the girls get disinterested. Or they come across as too needy. Or they're gay, haha.
Definitely an improvement from the other night FR! Thanks seddit.
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