Missing the hint?

johnnychic · 2016-11-03T23:43:21+00:00

Is this like just a casual interest or you're looking to for a relationship with this one particular girl because it sounds to me like you're obsessing over this one opportunity because there aren't any other girls on your roster right now. I'd say get back on Tinder and get more options or just invite any female you know to go out and hope to meet more prospects in the field. If you're trying to lock down tinder girl then just playfully tell her you're going to make her fall in love with you and there's nothing she can do about. Follow up later on by telling her you have a 9th grader sized crush on her and the goal is make her your girlfriend. Finally, write a good old fashioned will you be my gf , check yes or no letter. If you make it past the second step without being flat out told she's not interested in you like that, you're golden

Classy-Tater-Tots · 2016-11-03T23:45:39+00:00

I'd guess you three her off by drastically changing your texting pattern. Going from texting all the time to very little is a strong sign to her you're not interested.

I'd probably try to send her a fun pic from the show, easy way to reconnect, and then ask one more time for something a few days out and not a Friday when people usually have plans. If she blows you off again, just let it go.

recyclablebanthas · 2016-11-04T00:22:43+00:00

.....she said "...... and I try to make plans like a week in advance!"

Responded immediately, but no "lets reschedule," "lets hang out this weekend though," nothing.

She just told you she likes to plan stuff a week in advance. And you responded rapid fire trying to push another meet only a few days from now.

It would have appears to her as if you didn't read what she said and were trying to bulldoze her.

Not attractive.

I know the move is to look like I'm busy without her,

Not quite. Don't bother trying to take that you're busy when you're not. Something will often leak out in your words or actions, that will reveal that you're just lying trying to look busy when really you're focused on hanging out with her.

You should legitimately have a life that works and gets busy without you working to create that illusion. Like you should be making your own plans within a certain time limit and if people can't get back to you, the train leaves without them.

You should also have responsibilities that you don't compromise by constantly checking your phone for texts, etc.

but I don't know at which point I should just not try to hang with her anymore.

You just invite her out with you a couple times. If she doesn't respond to an invite or ignores it, then you can peace out.

Or if she just makes it impossible to meet up, by canceling or rescheduling a lot.

recyclablebanthas · 2016-11-04T00:23:54+00:00

This post was removed because it concerns a specific situation with a specific girl. Which belongs in /r/askseddit

Title	Missing the hint?
Author	proudkosovo
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	November 3, 2016 11:28 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5b08ip/missing_the_hint/
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