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[–]quinnmcd[M] [score hidden] 5 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]Tbone_the_one 58 points59 points60 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Not to be a dick bro but it sounds like she was just being nice cuz she felt bad. Let this one go and learn from it, keep working at your confidence and game, and eventually you'll be the other guy.
[–]Sunlitstream264[S] 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I took the shot in the dark. If nothing happens whatever but I am gonna let her go for the most part before a reply cuz I doubt I’ll get one
[–]Whereami259 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not only this,but making friends is important too, the more people you know the higher chances are you will meet even more people.
[–]inchhighgal 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think you have a very grown up attitude :) I wish you better luck next time and hope you have a good day regardless :)
[–]Sunlitstream264[S] 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks
[–]CIA888 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Son this is all practice. You’re learning by trying. You’ll get better the more women u engage with. Example: your favorite video game. We’re u amazing at it right when u first started playing? Or did you have to play and play and learn new moves and techniques in order to advance? Exactly. It’s the same with women. C= confidence/control/comedic I = Intelligent/Interesting/ Inquisitive A= Assertive/ Active / Attentive Mission not failed. You’re learning and getting that much better for the next one and the next one after that.
[–]Sunlitstream264[S] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you!!
[–]sahven 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'd say move on brother.
There's hardly so much value found in things available frugally.
Invest in yourself.
[–]bubbycubby69 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
So did she reply ye...?
[–]Sunlitstream264[S] 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nothing yet
[–]Sunlitstream264[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Update: She viewed my snap story but left my message on delivered. Glad I didn’t waste more time on her
[–]bubbycubby69 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My man you learned a lesson here. Don’t waste time on people who would not do the same for you.
Agreed!
[–]Sunlitstream264[S] 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (21 children) | Copy Link
One question I have for you all is, should I dm her in the morning or no? I’m thinking not but I want to hear some good reasons why not to.
[–]Putrid-Existence 17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Ask her to hang out, the reason she went with the other guy is because he engaged her in conerversation and gave her the option of drinking at a bar. What did you offer at the time? If she says no, lesson learnt. If she says yes then good for you buddy.
[–]Sunlitstream264[S] 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Message sent, if she replies I’m gonna do what you said
[–]Putrid-Existence 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's her loss not yours. Never get upset when someone leaves you on read, as you said, you're glad you are not wasting your time on her.
[–]Sunlitstream264[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She didn’t read the message. She viewed my posts but never opened the message and for sure it’s her loss, not being narcissistic but I’m a catch and it’s her loss
[–]Relative_Balance6067 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I always ask people a simple question: "what do you have to loose by doing this?" For this case the answer is "nothing", so go for it. If she was kind enough to come to you this might be a very good thing.
[–]Sunlitstream264[S] 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Message sent, shot in the dark taken
[–]Relative_Balance6067 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Tell us how it goes
She viewed my story and posted on hers but has left me on delivered for like 7hrs. She’s trashy
[–]Relative_Balance6067 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don't worry 👑
Thank you!
[–]dankgamer400 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
But then again that's just my thoughts so u do what u think is right bruh
[–]Sunlitstream264[S] 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I have nothing to lose, just experience to gain so I’m gonna do it
[–]dankgamer400 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Alright brah sounds good
[–]dankgamer400 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Imo just let her go she's not worth it she instantly went for the other guy it seems it I'm sure there will be some1 else bro
[–]Sunlitstream264[S] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]dankgamer400 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yea she's defiantly not worth it I would even block her bc she has no point in being your friend if she is just going to read your stories and stuff
[–]Sunlitstream264[S] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I’m debating it, probably will block her when it gets to delivered for 1day
[–]dankgamer400 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yea that seems good man good luck in the future
[–]Sunlitstream264[S] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No problem have a good day
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