Hello seddit, I have come to the well known conclusion that getting girls to talk about themselves is the best tactic when just meeting them at a party/bar wherever. Yes, it's obvious but it took me a lot of trial and error to realize what many of you probably already knew.

So, my question is, what do girls love to talk about most in general? I want to lead them into talking about themselves in a manner that they enjoy. What has worked for you? "tell me about yourself" is to vague. I like to ask about their hobbies, friends, etc. I'm wondering if any of you have go to questions / conversation starters that really get girls going on about themselves. And no, I'm not looking for any opinion openers, thanks.