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My approach issues

Vetox23

July 15, 2018

1 upvotes

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I’m going to be honest, I’ve never done a cold approach in my life. I’ve always been use to it coming to me because I’m rather good looking but it’s all going to waste and it’s ridiculously frustrating. I’ve lurked and asked a few questions here and there but I’m tired of it. It’s time to take action. Before I go out there I want some things set straight so that I can execute with certainty. I have a few questions.

1) I want to do day game, if I approach a girl should I just get the number?

2) Let’s say an instant date is possible or I set a date after number closing, how can I manage to communicate that I’m not interested in a romantic relationship to escalate it to sex?

3) I live with my parents but I work so money is not an issue. However, I wouldn’t want to be bringing these girls to my house when my parents are home. What are good alternatives locations or places to fuck that are inexpensive and feasible on the spot?

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Title	My approach issues
Author	Vetox23
Upvotes	1
Comments	1
Date	July 15, 2018 4:16 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8yz5dn/my_approach_issues/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/my-approach-issues.1449943 https://theredarchive.com/post/1449943

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[–]DrBalance 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Work on length and quality of the interaction. The first thing I found was that I had 'continuation anxiety'. I would approach, and after a few sentences I would freeze and 'ok, nice to meet you anyway' and bail because I wasn't sure what to do next with the interaction. So obviously I got nowhere. Having an interaction where the girl feels like she connects with you is just as important as getting ~10 digits saved into your phone. I've also found that pretty much any girl will hand out her number - even ones that visibly cringe when I've asked them. I've just said 'actually don't worry about it, I can tell that idea didn't go down well'. No point wasting your time if she is going to either not remember you or you just talked about the weather when you met her which any guy could do.
Be flirty, generate sexual tension. Read more on those as I'm no expert.
Some people would say your car. Feels a bit sleazy to me though. Consider getting your own place? The amount of independence (manliness) you gain just by not being under the wing of your mommy is enormous. Even though rent is probably a significant expense, that's just adulthood really.