Ok just to give some background, I work in a customer service environment, and many of my customers happen to be young attractive women. When I discovered seddit, I decided that I would flirt with these customers as a sort of batting practice I guess.
But there's one problem, I'm awful with memorizing names. So I decided to start keeping a diary of notes from each day about the women I talked to, what we talked about, and of course their names. So each day I would make it my goal to introduce myself to 3 or 4 women. Soon enough, when I would go out on the weekend, I would see some of these ladies that I had met at work. This way I can be like "Remember me, csimpson1162? I'm that handsome young guy that helps you out at [the store I work at]"
I'm not that handsome, but the confidence is innocently inserted into my statement.
Anyway, my point is to keep a diary of all the women you get the names of. (be selective) You may never see them again, but if you do you will remember them.
Also here are some of the things I would tell women I met at work (all to be used with a slight smile on your face):
-"Are you a student around here?" (women in their late 20s and early 30s love hearing this)
-"I can't believe a girl like you isn't married!" This is a neg and a compliment at the same time, (sometimes they will tell you at this point if they are in a relationship or not).
-If a mom and daughter come in (obviously daughter is the target) I will say to the mom "You never told me you had a sister" and then subtly yet flatteringly continue to hit on the mom. (You would be surprised how much attention a cute daughter will give you if you seem to be more attracted to her mom than her)
-If a girl you talk to has some sort of accent (I don't like a really northern sounding accent (no offense)). I will ask "So where is that accent from?" then she tells me where she's originally from and I'll respond with "Well at least you're cute" This is another neg and compliment at the same time. Of course, this can also be used on a girl with a twangy southern accent. I do not recommend using this on foreign girls, but it might work
Hope you enjoy my thoughts. Happy hunting!
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