I actually have countless FRs that I really should type up sometime. /r/seduction and the PUA community has changed my life for the better and made my life much more entertaining and made me into a better person.

But this one date, I really had to put up here...

To make a long story short... I usually recommend using the line "Let's hang out" instead of "Let's go on a date" (because it creates less tension and expectations), but this time, it created confusion... And resulted in me going on a date with a lesbian who is engaged.

Looking back, there were signs... her 2 lesbian rage comics on reddit, the ring she always wears and my silly brain didn't realize it was an engagement ring until later... the fact that it says she's engaged to a girl on her facebook (but so many girls do that that I didn't even think twice).

Anyways... if there's something to be taken from my awkward 4-hour date with this girl, continually wondering why she wasn't receptive to anything I was doing and didn't want to cuddle up next to me, it's this...

Make it clear to the girl what you want beforehand. I'm not talking about saying, "Hey, I want to sex you." Because most of the time, that's not going to work. Although I bet some of you could pull that off, haha. What I mean is make it clear that you want her sexually before your Day 2. Just a little bit of dirty flirting, sexual eye contact, sexual physicality (kino), or something! So she knows what to expect.

Anyways, keep on seducing, /r/seduction, and I really should post some stories up on here...