I'm writing this post as I know there is more to life than I am currently experiencing. I have posted on here before and have been given some great advice but I still feel as though I am not getting much fulfilment from my life.

Job. I have just turned 24 years old and am a Physical Education teacher. As a newly qualified teacher I have to work extremely long hours, with planning, evaluations, portfolios and team fixtures. I am currently not really enjoying my job (it's my first as a qualified teacher), I have little job satisfaction and I am always extremely tired at the end of a day.

Exercise. I go to the gym 4 times a week (in the morning before work) and lift weights. I have been going 4 times a week without fail for 3 months and am seeing some great changes in my body. I also play football to a reasonable standard, with matches being once a week and training once a week. My diet is very consistent Monday - Friday with a little indulgence on the weekend.

Home life. Still live with parents. The eldest of 5. Don't get along with most of my siblings or my father who I detest. He is rude to my mother, refuses to work, attention seeks. I do not enjoy living here.

Love life. Non existent. Had 1 relationship that had a terrible ending when I was 19. Countless one night stands since. Currently on week 3 of r/nofap due to some reading/advice I was given. Been on dates with girls I like but never works out. Lately got approached in the gym and got a number, went on a date only for her to put a halt to things.

Social life. My friends from school I have outgrown. None of them went to university. All have got extremely out of shape. Settled in relationships that when I last spoke to them they complained about, constantly lied. I only speak to one of them anymore and he just likes going to the same local club and getting completely shitfaced. My university friends are great. There's a group of 7 of us and we all really get on. We always have a laugh no matter what we do. But 4/7 are in long term/serious relationships.

Drinking. I'm not a massive fan of drinking for a few reasons. It impacts my results in the gym. I hate feeling hungover (if I have a match on Saturday, I don't want to be hungover from the Friday). And I also cannot burp! (r/noburp), which makes me feel very uncomfortable when drinking.

My problem. In an ideal world I would have my own online business that I can manage from anywhere in the world and travel. But aside from that I have no passions. No social life. I very rarely go out. I am tired after work all the time. And my friends all live far away so most of the time it is like I have no friends.

I want to be successful. I want a good social life, I want friends. I want to have a cool interesting life that I really enjoy. I do try but something isn't working. Any tips would be greatly appreciated.