A month ago i lost mine and i wanna talk about it (im 22yo). I thought about it a little and I'm sure I wouldnt have lost it at this point if it wasnt for me hitting the gym extremely hard.

I got more attractive, instead of a skinny 65kg bone I was, Im now 80kg and Im far from where I want to be but now I look like someone who lifts. Because of this the chance a woman to approach me raised. The chance that if you would approach a girl and she is interested, raises. You give yourself a way better shot before hand. Believe me, its a huge difference if you are a 65kg skinnybone, a 105kg fatass or a 80kg good looking guy.

However its not all looks ofcourse. I would get approached and I would cancel it/cut if off. Too insecure. So this had to be improved aswell. What helped: a job in sales. Talking to people everyday. This is very important for my selfimprovement now. Im not insecure about flirting with a woman anymore. If I wasnt improving in my job I doubt that I would have been able to come even close to get a bound with a girl.

So i can attract a girl, and when she shows interest I can cope with it. Thats step 1 and 2 finally under control.

The next step to get even better at this will be the seduction/approaching part.

Oh and btw to everyone chasing the fact that they want to lose their virginity so bad.. Nothing will chance. No magic switch will turn on. Youre not a better person afterwards and no one will care.