My resolution for 2015.

doiboi808 · 2014-12-30T10:08:54+00:00

This isn't a rant, it's a declaration - my situation is pretty similar to you as well so I definitely feel where you're coming from. Be sure to revisit this post from time to time if you're ever feeling discouraged and feel free to shoot me a msg if you need support.

2014-12-30T06:43:45+00:00

Good luck.

jaxmk · 2014-12-30T09:53:00+00:00

I can really help you get off your feet in terms of daygame. Whenever you come back to reddit, you can message me.

foxyroxsays__ · 2014-12-30T15:32:52+00:00

This post definitely resonates with me. I too will revisit the post for continued inspiration. Best of luck to you!

Gamefart101 · 2014-12-31T02:30:31+00:00

my situation is rather similar, as are my resolutions. The only thing that changes for me is from get a new job to get a job ( the living with my parents thing is going to stick for awhile as im still in highschool.)

as for your hobbies I could happily recommend a few.

Skiing/Snowboarding, unfortunately on the expensive side to begin with but skiers and snowboarders are a really great bunch of people and are all generally very sociable. be it on the lift in the chalet. also if you decide to start and not stop, investing in a pair cheap or used pair of skis and a seasons pass will completely stop the cash flow out of your wallet towards this hobby
- learning the rubiks cube. not only is this a fun thing to due but is also great for your brain. one can learn it in around an hour of memorizing but after that your set, you don't need do anything more unless you either want to learn a faster method, or learn bigger cubes. two huge things I love about this hobby are that its super cheap ( a standard 3x3x3 wont cost much more than $15). ive spent maybe $100 on cubes in the year ive known how to due them and that's only because ive bought way more than I need (currently own 12). the other big thing is that in the ways of this subreddit, it works as an awesome opener. ive always kept one in my backpack and am constantly solving it whenever I am bored, on the bus, waiting for someone, etc. whenever I have it out both men and women seem instantly mesmerized as I solve it, I've gotten more than a few numbers stating from girls just walking up to me and asking what is the trick to it( it helps that I've practiced a shitload and my average for the 3x3x3 is around 25 seconds) but my point is that this is one of the best hobbies out there imho as it is super cheap, great for your brain, can be used to start a conversation, the only issue is it doesn't really get me out of the house much but when I am im still constantly using it.

sneezen · 2014-12-31T17:13:36+00:00

this will not work. start small. one small improvement every few weeks. start with going to the gym/listen to a new album a week...if you try to change so much in such a short time it will probably result in falling back to your old habits...

ymiapheramone · 2014-12-30T15:29:45+00:00

I've done volunteer work myself and I have to say it is a great way to meet people. I do a lot of salsa as well and I can also verify that dancing is a great way to meet people. Taking up a martial art is cool as well.

If your goal is to increase your social circle then really you need to do these kinds of things as opposed to replacing online media with different media such as music/movies and whatever. Doesn't mean you shouldn't do it. Just wanted to point that out.

To that end, I don't think you need to give up reddit unless it's actually a serious addiction that cant get away from. It's just not the central action that changes everything like getting out of the house will. Just go out dancing and volunteering and you'll spend the time away from the computer that you need to. :)

Good luck!

Title	My resolution for 2015.
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Date	December 30, 2014 4:28 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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