(insert some crazy number above 50) % of all human interaction is unspoken or "body" language. While texting can be used to elicit emotions from your girl, the way you go about that is very tricky. Take notice of example 1 vs example 2

Example 1: "Uhhh you're ugly"

Example 2: "You're ugly ;)"

Example 1 is more harsh and pushes the person back while its clear that Example 2 is more joking.

This brings me to my tips:

  • 1 Text like you type! Draw out pauses with ellipses! Want to build up anticipation to something?? Put a shit ton of lines(enter keys) so she has to keep scrolling to see it! Example: Previously to this you built up a frame. Something like "OMG I totally did something fucking crazy today!" And then you make her validate herself to you by making her promise not to tell anyone etc. etc. Finally this comes at the end:

"Okay well here goes nothing...

(lots of lines)

I drove 5 miles above the speed limit today!"

  • 2 Don't talk like an idiot. No one likes idiots who replaces g's with q's or don't follow the basic fucking rules of grammar. Come on man.

  • 3 Keep busy. Text her back when you're free. If you're at school, you're learning. If you're working out, you're working out. Your life doesn't revolve around texting her.

  • 4 Don't be afraid to fuck up It's only a text for Christ's sake. Your main goal anyway should be to hang out with these girls. If your real life frames are strong enough and you interact in real life with these girls frequently enough, your texts are going to start becoming more and more automatic and easy. It's all a game my friend, enjoy it! :)

  • 5 Feel free to share advice that you don't see listed in here, I'd love to get some advice for myself as well! :D