Background: First of all, I was once(when I was younger) with my friends, really focused on every type of game and psychological theory you could read. Then I had ~3 gfs in a row for about 3-4 years. Which totally reset my thoughts on how you should interact with girls.

I mainly write this text because I think there is people out there that thinks there is some secret code and patterns you need to follow to pickup girls. I wasted my years with theory just like(some of)you do here. I realized how much following these seductions theories ruined for me, when there was a huge plate of girls served for me out there.

I know I'm looking like a total douché, but I just wanted to warn you that there is people wanting to make money out there, and wont help you, and might set you in the wrong direction.

I'm sharing my(natural) thoughts on girls.

Nothing is real Nothing is real, if you take shit serious when you are out looking for girls, you will either look creepy, needy and not just cool. You will get sad if a girl says something stupid, or nasty . Thing is, its only the insecure girls that does that anyway, so fuck them.(about this rule: I promise you, there is a lot of girls out there that nothing is real for too, and its fine! Well it's a mindset that makes life more fun!)

Have fun Have fun, come on, when you walk into the club, you don't need to be sober, or drink responsible, what girls want is somebody who has fun, they dont go out clubbing to hang around with the stiff people.

Dont be stiff DONT EVER BE STIFF, look, when you walk into the club, 80% of the dudes in there is just going to stand and look hard in the corners waiting for something fun to happened(some of em end up laid because of insecure girls/and or by buying them drinks at 3 a.m). You are out to have fun right? I hope so at least, don't just stand hanging around with your friends, interact with people, everybody(except the stiff dudes, fuck them), party around, comment shit, if somebody have a nice top,nice pair of shoes, nice perfume, tell them that. Discuss the place with the girl closest.

Ride the flow of the conversation I think this is the mistake people in general does(my friends including), they feel like they have to talk about standard shit before reaching any other convo, then you have for sure bored them. And dont drop creepy game-question like "Whats your favorite animal" if the conversation is not leading there, you need to have you head in what you're talking about. If the volume is high in the club and you want to talk to somebody, lean in, talk in their ear.

And this is important: The difference between somebody who always get laid when they go out, is that they are bored of just fucking and kissing, you are out there to get to experience new girls, how they kiss, fuck and talk. You are out to experience new people. If a girl is boring, and the conversation isnt fun, it's not your role to fix it, it's theirs(if she sucks at kissing, dont take her number!).

Last rule: is easy and is what I say in general, do what the fuck you want, don't care about what role you play with your friends, what your role in the place is, and what game you have to play. So many people think to much, just do. What amuses you? is it dancing? is it stealing people caps?

My best tip if you want to kiss somebody, skip the questions, put your hands on their face, look them in the eyes, you will see then if they want too.