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| 13 | Guys, I fucking did it. My story at 22(m) of how I lost it!!He's mostly 22 and a virgin (was) | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 01:55 PM |
| 2 | What is going on in a girl's mind when she is friend-zoning you?Haha we are screwing with you. It means touching. You can google it if you have internet at home. | /r/seduction | 18/01/17 02:33 PM |
| 1 | What is going on in a girl's mind when she is friend-zoning you?It's a tea from japan. It's really strong so you start softly and escalate to stronger ones with time! | /r/seduction | 18/01/17 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Instant daygame make out using old school mystery method techniqueKid's nowadays hookup like this... Finally something my grandmother can endorse! | /r/seduction | 17/11/16 04:51 AM |
| 4 | I'm an nerdy high schooler with bad social skills. Tips?Damn, it feels like a canned response but i'm happy this kid gets to see this. This is legit! | /r/seduction | 27/07/16 02:06 AM |
| 38 | Here's something I wish I knew in my early 20s...Exactly. Seduction isn't about hooking up with women... it's about hooking yourself up with a life that you enjoy | /r/seduction | 06/07/16 01:49 AM |
| 1 | If you feel that you are not ready for seduction, try friendship instead.Thank you! This is the best post in a while!! Very humane and mature. This is the right way to go to be happy in life AND get laid | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Attracted to my Roommate (need advice)I know right? happened to me the same way... It's kind of the basics of seduction... if you run away, she'll follow you. So the thing is to act as a friend! no more inuendo, no more touching, no more hugging... Just friends for now. It's hard and I'm telling you, in my situation I really tried my hardest, but we still got hurt somehow... But you know what? I think that it all went to shit because we didn't acted like adults... we should have talked about it... we took the cowards way out and it … | /r/seduction | 18/11/15 04:50 PM |
| 16 | Attracted to my Roommate (need advice)Hey man, I have been through the exact same thing. And you know what? For the sake of you both, you should tone it down. For now, if you really care about her, you should just be friends and see other people. But why?? IT DOESNT FEEL RIGHT! Yup, well if it continues like this, the tension will become unbearable... And when that happens, bad stuff happens. You guys will probably get hurt in a unrepairable fashion. My tip is that even if you see other people and wait to not live with her, you can … | /r/seduction | 18/11/15 03:41 PM |
| 10 | So a girl complimented me...You need to have more fun with people all around. Enjoy other's company, and you'll find it soooo easy to close. It won't be about closing either... it will be about "hey, it was so nice meeting you! just give me your number and we'll catch-up at this great bar! it's my favorite" etc... it'll feel natural. | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 04:01 PM |
| 26 | What's your trick when scared?Talk to everyone. Do not think about genders. Just think about humans. If you talk to everyone, you won't even notice you talked to a girl! Try and include this in how you behave. THEN you can go on the next step which may include seduction and flirting. But please baby step it, you seem lost. | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Asked for Girl's number. Is this shit test, or is this hardcore friendzone ?True, sounds legit. Although I would normally have girl "friends" that already have a boyfriend, but really likes me and would try to match me with their other friends because they trust me and know I am a good person. That's how I see it and my life just got better in every regards because of this. Although that's maybe more oriented towards a way I like to live my life, than pure seduction oriented advice... | /r/seduction | 10/04/15 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Asked for Girl's number. Is this shit test, or is this hardcore friendzone ?You've got issues bro. So many generalizations in on sentence. Ouch. | /r/seduction | 10/04/15 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Asked for Girl's number. Is this shit test, or is this hardcore friendzone ?Sounds right. Keep it up! | /r/seduction | 10/04/15 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Asked for Girl's number. Is this shit test, or is this hardcore friendzone ?You do have a point. But it's still nice to have women friends. My 2 cents... | /r/seduction | 10/04/15 05:38 PM |
| -4 | Asked for Girl's number. Is this shit test, or is this hardcore friendzone ?cut her what? Dude, we are humans, not trophies. You know you are friendzoned... so what? Tell her it's fine and meet up with her so you can meet her friends? Every hot girls know other hot girls. Instant qualification. Trust me, it works. | /r/seduction | 10/04/15 05:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR]Girls think Im too much onto her? How do I improve?that's kind of weird? I would answer more in this way (if she told you this) "You wish I was into you" or "Stop hitting on me, we don't know eachother just yet" am i right? | /r/seduction | 28/08/14 02:24 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Had my first successful K-close in a long timeThe others are right, but let's not put the fault ALL on you for not escalating. She was probably not looking for a long term relationship, and you acted a bit more like boyfriend material. Since she probably wanted to have fun with a cool guy, and not break his heart in the process, she cut contact. Not your fault buddy, but maybe with the signs she gave you, you could have read this and go for the kill. Still I'm proud of you and keep it up!!! | /r/seduction | 28/08/14 02:16 PM |
| 1 | FR drunken friends disasterSounds about right. A real "man" would have been able to control the party and manage that his friends are having fun but not overdoing it. I know it's not your fault OP, but if you were the girl, would you have a good impression of a friend not taking care of his friend? | /r/seduction | 27/08/14 08:20 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Busted college party w/ K-close and 1 F-closeI see what you did there. Will keep this in mind next time | /r/seduction | 27/08/14 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Expectations After First Date With New Girl,Possible Oneitiswoah, this is getting complicated. I'm not sure I could give you the right advice on this one because no answer is the right one. What you have to do is follow what you feel deep inside you. Everyone is different, and you have to follow what you want. If you feel you need to talk to her, then do it. If not, then don't do it. You don't owe her anything But you know how it is nowadays with SMS. Maybe it's all weird in your head because of how you guys communicated together. I'm not saying it's all… | /r/seduction | 27/08/14 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Expectations After First Date With New Girl,Possible OneitisI see... well good job my man, we are not in high school anymore and you know what you want! I could not make the decision for you, but you made a choice and it makes you a man! Regardless of the outcome, you won in the end. It seems like all of this went so fast you both could not understand the situation. But hey, next time you know what to do :P ! Keep a good pace but don't get overwhelmed by feelings too soon! | /r/seduction | 26/08/14 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Expectations After First Date With New Girl,Possible OneitisHow I perceive it, is that she was insecure. It looks like she felt you would not commit to this relationship and she was afraid to get hurt. We all have insecurities, but she didn't knew you well enough to be sure you could go over her "less attractive everyday-traits". All in all, it seems you guys went "too fast" for a typical long term relationship. It made her afraid to get hurt and just protected herself that way. Seems like she respects you alot for writing this. It's your call, but all i… | /r/seduction | 25/08/14 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Expectations After First Date With New Girl,Possible Oneitislife is not just about F-closes and FWB. If you think this relationship can be amazing, you have to follow your heart. But don't rush it and be all emotional like before. Be a man, accept that noone is perfect and that if it's meant to work, it will. If not, then you go out and meet beautiful girls! | /r/seduction | 25/08/14 08:40 PM |
| 2 | How can I stop falling in lust ?I have the exact same problem, even with self talk it's hard to not do it. What I have found that helped me is doing sports and flirting with other attractive girls. Doesn't remove it completely, but helps a lot. | /r/seduction | 25/08/14 05:52 PM |
| 1 | The Key To Success - Brainwash Yourselfgreat idea! Not sure if i'm going to do this now but I will try it someday. | /r/seduction | 22/08/14 05:59 PM |
| 4 | MFW maintaining eye contactYou are right. We are not another "meme-based" subreddit. Let's keep this sub informative and relevant. | /r/seduction | 21/08/14 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Long time coworkers/friends?if you guys are already flirting a bit, I don't see why it couldn't work. My advice would be to NOT just kiss her out of the blue, you don't want to freak her out. What I would do, is to Kino escalate slowly, until you guys are close. Then go for it. (I never say this but in this case, a bit of alcohol could set the good mood) | /r/seduction | 20/08/14 08:23 PM |
| 1 | The Great Tinder Experiment Part 4: Data Collection Day 2 (8/15)it's logical to use this app to hookup easily. It's not logical to show it to the internet because it increases the chances of getting patched. I prefer to up my game the "old way" than to "cheat" with an auto-liker bot. But still, this thing is interesting and I would love to read the stats once you are done. | /r/seduction | 19/08/14 09:43 PM |
| 2 | *Ok, so now what?*hang on brother! it's always harder in the beginning. There is so much more to seduction than girls! you have to work on yourself first, it will force yourself to open up your eyes! Since i'm single, I see my life in SUCH a better way! why? because everyday I try to improve myself! I'm never satisfied and I know I can be a better man! I thought I was happy before... omg was I wrong. Life is so good when you take action. Even if you fail continuously, the journey makes you stronger and happier! | /r/seduction | 19/08/14 07:30 PM |
| 2 | *Ok, so now what?*Like the others said. You are 19, you got time. I started out at that age with the mystery method and got instant result. Got in a LTR wayy too fast and lost all my game. Now i'm back to square one... I feel like the worst with women, but at least i'm trying. As long as you are trying to improve, everything will be fine. Just be patient and enjoy life! | /r/seduction | 19/08/14 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Life-changing advice from RSD Tyler regarding insecurities.I like how you see things | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 09:40 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Didn't meet up with the girl who had a boyfriend, had an awkward phone conversation, deleted her numberPersonal advice from me: try and improve your mindset. I mean, why do you NEED to do only certain activity with girls? Running is fun! it's all about having experiences, good or bad. Maybe you would enjoy it to run with an attractive girl. You don't seem to enjoy yourself right now. Ask yourself this question: Would you date yourself right now? You have to be more positive about things! don't judge people so fast. Be more passionnate! You can't fake happiness... You have the balls to approach th… | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 06:56 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Number approach close/fail{?}, need thoughts.Well in my honest opinion, even if she's a hired gun, you can still game her. I mean, you have to make her feel like you are not another customer and talk to her like you guys are just hanging out. btw, he didn't neg, he just teased her about the shirt's color. Teasing is a great way of creating a nice dynamic between you and the girl. Works for me... | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 05:49 PM |
| 1 | [FR]My guess is after you internalize seduction principles, you can just be yourself and you will reflect "being the man". Game is ran only by being who you are, and not falling into traps in the mean time. Sounds like he did this. | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 05:44 PM |
| 1 | I look really young for my age and it's humiliating.lol thanks for your comment, made me giggle. But yeah, another funny adventure for you! | /r/seduction | 15/08/14 02:24 PM |
| 1 | I look really young for my age and it's humiliating.I sure hope you are right! Although I look like I'm 18 (i'm 24), I still managed to get a date with a 28 year old girl last week. It's definitely possible if you pass the shit tests. | /r/seduction | 14/08/14 05:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I set up a friendly hang out with a girl who has a boyfriend, watJust have fun and practice. Hot girls have hot friends. Don't burn her, if you guys go along well, she could invite you to a future party and you will be the VIP amongst her friends. | /r/seduction | 13/08/14 07:42 PM |
| 2 | My friends response to my question of: I suck at flirting, what's a good way to do it and get good?Here's what I think: all of this doesn't sound good to me really... compliments = flirting? But wait, it's good to show your intent... but through body language and teasing. Complimenting girls will maybe open up girls that were already into you to start with. But if you sound like a puppy needing attention, things can go wrong fast. You will look too attainable. right? girls desire what they can't have, and they sure will know they can have you if you compliment them. Push and pull! | /r/seduction | 12/08/14 04:01 PM |
| 0 | BF shit test aka how I fucked upmhh not bad... how about "Is he a good cook? He could make supper for us!" | /r/seduction | 11/08/14 10:12 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First time at the Grocery StoreI am really proud of you! but remember to NOT HAVE A SCRIPT! It's so bad to have canned stuff. When stressed out you will forget your lines and just say incoherent unnatural stuff. It's not the way to go! (my opinion) | /r/seduction | 11/08/14 07:04 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with tipsy/drunk girlsThat's funny. It seems that girls that are normally shy about their feelings will be much easier to read when they have a drink or two. That's what I saw from personal experience. Makes it easier to kino escalate too. | /r/seduction | 11/08/14 04:08 PM |
| 1 | [meta] Sometimes this sub feels like it's the blind leading the blind, am I the only one with that impression?thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/08/14 08:25 PM |
| 1 | [meta] Sometimes this sub feels like it's the blind leading the blind, am I the only one with that impression?As a begginer/intermediate, I have read most of the recommended stuff before interacting with anyone on here. But, I feel that it is much better organized than seduction forums and can help grow faster as a newbie even if not all the posts are quality stuff. Also, I find that after trying a lot of stuff here, I picked up what worked for me and try and help others with my realisations. Is it bad for me to try and help another newbie even if I havent approached 100 sets? Maybe, but I always precis… | /r/seduction | 08/08/14 07:07 PM |
| 1 | 2 Great dates, then she flakes twice in a rowUltimately you are right. But sometimes life DOES happen, and the girl just has some other urgent plans. That's when just asking her out at different occasions with low commitment, can turn around a situation. I would say normally you are right, interested girls would make up for her flake. But hey, if you don't try atleast once more, sometimes it is just a misunderstanding... right? | /r/seduction | 08/08/14 02:28 PM |
| 4 | 2 Great dates, then she flakes twice in a rowyeah, stop thinking SO MUCH about what to do, and roll with it. Be persistent, but NOT NEEDY oh, and if she likes you, you will see her again. If she doesn't, you won't. No amount of texting or jokes over the phone will make change her mind. So yeah, just don't be needy thats all you can do. This video made me realise the difference. Watch and learn... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8cqJziA86S8 | /r/seduction | 07/08/14 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Improving game at workgive her free cookies? girls love dem cookies. no but seriously, you are on duty. Your boss would not be happy if he saw you handing out numbers and stuff. Try and be social and fun! then, when your shift is over, carry that vibe to the streets and do some daygame! | /r/seduction | 07/08/14 08:04 PM |
| 2 | [in-field video] How to get a girls number and a sneaky kisslol at the end is it me or she's like "wtf is he doing?". anyways nice to see this footage, gonna analyse it a bit. | /r/seduction | 07/08/14 07:13 PM |
| 1 | [FR/Questions] Half FR, half asking advice on the type of group this was and one tease of a girl.wow... looks like these girls are young and they just have no idea what they want. Don't put all this pressure on your shoulders. You should go slow and keep trying to hangout with the ones that are more receptive. Since they are young, maybe talking directly about make up sex and other sex shit is coming off too strong on them? I'm not sure though. Keep having fun and practicing the basics (kino and stuff). Even if it doesnt work out with any of them, you will still have experience under your b… | /r/seduction | 07/08/14 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Ok, I just need to vent a little bit...yup, my guess is you skipped a step somewhere in the escalation ladder. But hey, at least you got some of it :P. | /r/seduction | 06/08/14 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Empty and annoyed feelingI feel you. But cutting contact is not what I would say "facing your fears". Who knows, maybe she has some super hot friends she would like to hook you up with? I went and tried to kiss a girl at a vacation site last month. She denied me hard, but I played it cool and we went along real well as friends! I'm still friend on facebook with her so I know if she goes to a party I can maybe come with and meet girls! | /r/seduction | 05/08/14 09:03 PM |
| 16 | FR - Tindate (tinder date) heavy K-closedamn this girl gamed you! | /r/seduction | 05/08/14 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Let's get learnt on true connections.So true, but don't put everyone in the same basket. I'm on seddit not to F-CLOSE everything out there. I want to be able to connect with girls! But the techniques here are all about closing and stuff? Well yeah, but I use them in a way that I can date hot women, and then open up and connect with them once I have a date! Seduction advices and tips are guidelines, not rules. Use them in a way that completes your personality. If you did that, you would have connected with her instead of following a… | /r/seduction | 04/08/14 06:32 PM |
| 1 | How do I get a second date? Badly need helpI feel you, it's not easy. However, I feel like that in a date, you really want to know how the other person is. So the fun and chatty vibe is not exactly what I would personally recommend. In MY point of view, you should be authentic, vulnerable, interested in her real self (not sex), passionate, etc... all of this while applying seduction basics (kino escalate slowly, show high value, being social and confident). | /r/seduction | 04/08/14 03:02 PM |
| 1 | How do I get a second date? Badly need helpDon't text so much! you are sounding needy. I did this before, and normally, it's bad. For example, what I did last date, was arranging a meetup for the following week at the end of the date. Now, I won't even text her until I see her again. I feel like texting should be used ONLY in last resort for arranging meetups. It's much better to talk it through! | /r/seduction | 04/08/14 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Officially have left r/ForeverAlone and joined r/Seductionok kids, let's not fight over this for nothing. You guys are BOTH right! For some, it's better to just run out there, get blown off and repeat until you have enough "I don't care anymore" inside you to play that number's game. For others, it's all about being the best man they can be, and approach when they feel they are ready. Building confidence is about doing shit you respect. If you don't respect what you are doing, whatever it is, you won't build up confidence. | /r/seduction | 04/08/14 02:32 PM |
| 4 | How to approach my Crush? (She likes me too)Don't put so much pressure on yourself! You don't need to be direct since you know she likes you already. Just be yourself! have fun getting to know her! get some kino escalation going if you want something to happen, and isolate to remove pressure off her if you want to push things further. Enjoy yourself! and she will enjoy you even more. | /r/seduction | 01/08/14 05:54 PM |
| 1 | How to handle running into HB from past?Yeah, you should have gone genuine. How I would have done it: "omg it's been so long! you remember name from highschool ? We should totally make plans to catch up with her too!" Make plans for private party of cool people in highschool you still have a connection with Isolate target | /r/seduction | 31/07/14 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Sleeping with multiple women vs. Long term relationshipsExactly! I do not ABSOLUTELY want to F every girl I find cute or attractive. But in the end, I want to be able to seduce a girl that I think I will really like! You don't need to f-close to get better at seducing. I wish I could do it, but I prefer babystepping it and working up my confidence and being the best I can be, before just counting f-closes for my personnal pleasure. | /r/seduction | 31/07/14 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Franks vacation- day 2ProTip: There is no loss in approaching, just learning experiences. You seem to take it too much as a job. The girls were surfing, why don't you go and get a surfboard and join them? Have fun buddy, you are very young to do this stuff, so when you are older things will be so much easier. | /r/seduction | 30/07/14 02:49 PM |
| 4 | Girls let me touch them all over, give me their numbers, but will not meet up.I can't even... what? sucking titties at public pools? come on lol | /r/seduction | 30/07/14 02:29 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Set up a date with a blonde white girl who was receptive to me, halp plzlove your confidence! hope it works out! any news? | /r/seduction | 28/07/14 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible for a girl to lack game making escalation... bumpy?best and shortest answer | /r/seduction | 28/07/14 07:42 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Met a girl at a restaurant, K-Close with a near miss on F, need help with what to do next.Awesome job dude! keep it slow, real life happens beyond hooking up with people. Be comprehensive, make her see how life is beautiful, make her forget her troubles. Be, the, man. | /r/seduction | 28/07/14 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Don't let game make you boring/weirdRegarding your post: I would say that, like anything, it becomes natural the more you do it. At the beginning, I would awkwardly do some kino, think about what I say, try and tease awkwardly... But after some practice, it feels that I can be myself, not think about what I say, but at the same time apply the basics of seduction! because I integrated the good practices In my ways of being! (mostly kino escalation, push-pull, non-needy and body language) Personal opinion: I prefer greatly natural g… | /r/seduction | 28/07/14 03:39 PM |
| 1 | [FR] K-closed Friend/Ex's Best Friendget that threesome going my boy! you got this shit! | /r/seduction | 25/07/14 02:02 PM |
| 1 | How Direct Daygame Revolutionised My Dating Lifeit's maybe a bit advertising, but I am really in line with what he said. It feels natural to act this way, and for me it gave me amazing results. Why not? | /r/seduction | 24/07/14 05:33 PM |
| 3 | First actual [FR] - Old advice you guys gave meHere, have an upvote for your epic name and epic fighting skills! | /r/seduction | 24/07/14 03:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Girl with BF at the club.How could you tell that she was having a bad time? dancing and chatting is not like she had the worst time of her life. | /r/seduction | 21/07/14 03:37 PM |
| 3 | An interesting excerpt i read in Mark Manson's Model on woman who have "boyfriends"I agree with this vision. Although, I will say that personally I wan't to have some self respect, and respect towards my values. I would never sleep with a women who has a boyfriend. I would still flirt and see if she likes me and all but... I feel like its too disrespectful. If in the end it's ment to be, then she will dump her BS boyfriend for you. If not, then you didn't waste time with a teaser. isn't it true? | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 05:24 PM |
| -4 | [FR] - Grocery store Direct Approach pickup and Date same night- KC8/10 troll | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Day 1 Field Report (Day 2 Advice Needed)My personal thoughts about this are: if she's as rich as you think, she probably is getting everything she wants since little. You have to make it more "hard" for her to get you. You are too available for her I think. You did a superb job for the date, but yeah... This seems tricky. If she really liked you, she will probably get in touch. Otherwise it seems you are out of luck :( | /r/seduction | 17/07/14 05:11 PM |
| 2 | The Dilemma of Tinder... (my experience)I see that you are trying to get validation from the girl waay to often. You have to "excite" her imagination. Don't ask her if SHE is free, just tell her you are going to do this AMAZING new thing in town and it's gonna be so awesome she won't even dare to refuse. PS: stop showing Low value. Don't try to impress her either, but try to show you are passionate about things, your past experiences. Build rapport where you can. This is not good tinder game. you should look up on tinder guides on r/s… | /r/seduction | 16/07/14 03:35 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Approached a girl on the street near campus, #-closedThat's the right answer. Always be having fun with or without her. Makes her feel less pressure and like you are a lot of fun either way! | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Did i ruin it?She's probably shy. At the bar she probably drank and was more outgoing so she said Hi to you. All you have to do is test the waters. Be playful, tease her, kino a bit, try and do some push-pull. Be YOURSELF! but follow general seduction guidelines so you don't fuck up. If you can get together alone once more, you will see if she's interested. By now you are probably friendzoned, but you could get out of it if you are good. | /r/seduction | 14/07/14 08:06 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Sort of hooked up with a friend a while ago. She's back. What the hell is going on.I'm a beginner too, but I would say that as a man, you have to go and get what YOU want. Do not care about what people think, and DO NOT start to overthink it. If you like her, try and get her! as long as it's not over, it's not over. | /r/seduction | 14/07/14 02:32 PM |
| 34 | Seddit, thank you. Changed my bitch ass mindset into an alpha one!I think you got the right mentality, abundance!. But you did text her a couple days later, and she did the same to you. Maybe text her faster next time? I'm pretty sure the 3 day rule is kind of just a myth... anyone can confirm? | /r/seduction | 09/07/14 02:04 PM |
| 1 | A guy with a controversial pua (and sex) experience who wants your adviseYour head is FULL of pickup material. You put too much pressure on you, and the girls can sense this. What you have to do is improve yourself! Reset your brain! PLEASE! read the book "models" and forget about the "mystery" stuff. Start by doing this: work out, dress well, eat well, r/NoFap. Then, be productive! talk to people just to get to know them! (ex: talk to the janitor at the job, the cashier, the guy at the food court) Afterwards, when you go and talk to girls, all you have to do is have… | /r/seduction | 07/07/14 08:36 PM |
| 2 | A situation I'm stuck inexactly, what if she is your soulmate? go and find out (ok soulmate is intense but she could be awesome) | /r/seduction | 07/07/14 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Going on my first Tinder date tonight. Need help.how can you think that a stranger on the internet can help you with something as personal as how you will interact with a women we have no idea about? ONE ULTIMATE TIP: don't care if you win her over or not. Have FUN! enjoy YOURSELF! be... YOURSELF! assume... WHO YOU ARE! How can it be stressful to have fun while being true to yourself? | /r/seduction | 04/07/14 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Technique to avoid friendzone?Start by doing some of these things (search on the terms): Kino Push-pull Dhv Tease AND READ ABOUT IOI's Don't put too much stuff in your head. Enjoy yourself and have fun, recognise IoI's that girls give out, and then kino escalate until you have what you want. I would say it's the basics to start and understand what you are doing with girls. | /r/seduction | 03/07/14 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Natural AdviceThanks man! Will look into it! | /r/seduction | 03/07/14 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Natural AdviceGreat answer. My guess is that whinywhiny found how he is naturally, and is exploiting his full natural potential while being himself. Even though this works for him, we have to babystep it to victory since we don't have the same personality. To help us more, maybe he should have told us what he practiced to make him feel more "natural", what he did to accept himself and enjoy himself at this level. | /r/seduction | 02/07/14 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Any Podcast recommendations?http://www.datingskillsreview.com/rankings/dating-skills-podcast/page:3/limit:10/ | /r/seduction | 02/07/14 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Question about getting rejected by someone I see frequentlyBro, don't even pursue her. Make HER chase YOU! I tried to kiss a girl this weekend and she said she didn't felt the same way, so I got rejected. Played it cool as nothing happened and talked to other girls! She didn't looked creeped out because I didn't cared! If I cared about it she would probably have been creeped out. At the end she looked more attracted to me because I go for what I want and don't mind of the outcome! good luck! | /r/seduction | 30/06/14 05:45 PM |
| 1 | All it takes is one sentenceMy opinion is that you cared too much about what she thinks. Be a man, don't care about her opinions and do what you want. Tease her about things like "if you kiss it, it will become a prince!" and fake that you force her to kiss the frog. It wasnt a shit test, but taking womens opinion too seriously is affecting your game. My 2 rules: be yourself at ALL cost + kino escalate. | /r/seduction | 30/06/14 02:48 PM |
| 1 | I opened with the word: ballsy date Fridaylol i did not understand anything he wrote... wtf is this post lol. | /r/seduction | 26/06/14 09:58 PM |
| 2 | I Was on the news yesterday, talking About The Five Dating Mistakes That Most Men Don't Know They're MakingGreat to see a coach from montreal! really good tips! | /r/seduction | 13/06/14 08:39 PM |
| 1 | How do you work up the courage for day approach?It felt AWESOME! By the way, I went all in on looking at girls this past week (with a light smile, good vibe) and it went well. Thing is they dont often look at guys, unless they obviously see you looking at her (you turning your head towards her). I got really good reactions so far! If they see you are alpha and in a good mood, they almost always respond well. It's like forcing a warm approach. | /r/seduction | 13/06/14 03:59 PM |
| 1 | How Seddit helped me in my Fundamentals of Public Speaking class.Exactly like others said. Take the risk! it CANNOT go wrong! she will either find it cute but say she's not interested, or find it cute and ACCEPT. Just do it. don't overthink it. Avoid the friendzone | /r/seduction | 13/06/14 03:56 PM |
| 2 | How do you work up the courage for day approach?yup. I tried it multiple times. The creepy look is not something interesting for them. Go for the light smile or "Smiling eyes" look. It works really good! Last week got an 8 second stare contest with an HB9. totally epic. | /r/seduction | 13/06/14 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Iev done it, finaly become who I want to beNice job dude. With hard work and perseverance everything is possible. I'm still babystepping it to victory, but I feel much better than a month ago. Seduction brings so much value to my personal life, that I feel like a better man in general. | /r/seduction | 13/06/14 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Car talk. [FR?]I think this would have been the best answer. Be playful about it though. Like you guys are so much fun she would regret not to come over. | /r/seduction | 11/06/14 01:56 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a girl's number in my class -cool story! please update! :D | /r/seduction | 09/06/14 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Walking awayyeah, maybe she is not worth it. But don't judge people too fast. Maybe she didn't thought it was rude to do this. Go and see her and be honest. If she thinks you are wrong, then it's not the right girl for you, because you were sincere. | /r/seduction | 05/06/14 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Destroying bad eye contact habits is too hardHey guys! I had this moment today in the subway. Going up the escalator i was standing there just finishing a sentence with a friend. So i had a good vibe/smile on my face. I see this hot blonde going the other way, so i look her in the eyes. So we stare at eachother while turning our heads because we are moving and dont break eye contact for 8 seconds. Wow, she wasnt smiling though, kinda serious face. I didnt go talk to her (fuck me i'm still learning game), but that would have been a warm app… | /r/seduction | 05/06/14 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Guys, help me out. It's usually the other way aroundI would say that you need to go all out natural. As you said, you don't want to be perceived as a player. What I would do: be yourself! don't care about what people may think. Be really social and talk to the most girls you can. At the same time, try to escalate a little bit at a time. So it's natural looking: high-fives, hand games, hand on shoulders, secret handshakes, etc... only fun kino! not sexual escalation. No attraction? try to relate with the girls. If you have the same interests, be e… | /r/seduction | 04/06/14 09:34 PM |
| 1 | '[FR]' I'm a little new to approaching, can you critique my game?probably true he should not have said that. Maybe he should have picked a receptive target and isolate her? | /r/seduction | 04/06/14 03:50 PM |
| 2 | David Wygant - Man Transformation. Can't think of a more comprehensive guide. Whether you're new or advanced, you should be able to learn something from this.that was AMAZING! It fits my style so well. Eye opening! I started his challenge yesterday and it feels great! | /r/seduction | 04/06/14 02:21 PM |
| 1 | All Montrealers, MontrealLair is reopening its doors. Oh yeah!that's great! | /r/seduction | 03/06/14 03:54 PM |
| 2 | A clever approach to conquering Approach Anxiety: Fun Kills Fearthis was great! | /r/seduction | 30/05/14 08:51 PM |
| 1 | (FR) No close but what started as a bad night ended on a better note.yeah, she clearly showed interest. You didn't responded to her level of interest, so she just gave up. Just kino escalate next time. It's like magic, you don't even have to think about it. | /r/seduction | 30/05/14 06:39 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 1-st Daygame. failed K-Close need advice.I'm no pua, but sounds like you went too fast for the kiss? Unless the ioi's were really there. Maybe next time, try to escalate more slowly and read her better. | /r/seduction | 29/05/14 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Beginner questions on picking up iRL/tinder looking for adviceSalut bumpkin, j'allais écrire le message en français mais personne aurais compris ;) So you want to do some day game. I am in the same situation as you. No problem to close when I encounter girls from my social circle. But in the streets, I can't seem to have the courage yet. What I have read though, is that the best day game is from direct approaches. Just go up to a girl you find attractive/cute and tell her that you find her cute and had to talk to her. Then transition with open ended questi… | /r/seduction | 28/05/14 08:23 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Date report "wear something cute"I'm pretty sure you are overthinking the line. This line was nice because it came from within you, no afterthought, and it was in context. But lines won't give you kisses. Kino escalation, eye contact, emotional connections will. my 2 cents. | /r/seduction | 28/05/14 08:17 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Failed a number close, drove home, changed mind and number closedx2, with F-close next dayBest field report I have ever read! WOW! how can you remember whole phrases like that! god damn | /r/seduction | 28/05/14 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Quick advice needed: Just ask her out via facebook?My guess would be to go for it. If you don't ask, you won't get shit. If you try to be her "friend", you will probably get friendzoned. I would go all in and see her reaction. Just do it and see what happens! | /r/seduction | 26/05/14 05:47 PM |
| 1 | So I went to a party yesterday...This is actually pretty simple. Look out for IOI's and Kino escalate. From the BEGINNING of the conversation you should have kinoed a bit. And escalate through the whole 30 minutes of the conversation. If you don't know what is either of those, than google it. It's my thermometer when I talk to girls. It works incredibly well. | /r/seduction | 26/05/14 03:31 PM |
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