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Need advice with a girl

alexcubi

September 9, 2019

3 upvotes

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So I met a girl about 2 years ago, we hooked up one day after I met her (didn't have sex). I never talked to her after that. 2 days ago I went to the club with my 2 sisters and some friends, I saw her and went to say hi and she was very flirty, I introduced her to my sisters and she danced with them a bit, then she started dancing with me and getting real close but we didn't kiss, after a bit she pulled off and went to dance with another guy, so I kept dancing with my sisters, then she came back to dance with me then with her friends, so nothing happened and I left around 4 a.m. so at first I thought she was interested in me, then I wasn't so sure, I really like this girl and want something to happen but don't know what to do, I know she works in a café and a friend told me to go visit her but I don't know if it's creepy, or if I should text her or what, I would really appreciate your advice

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Title	Need advice with a girl
Author	alexcubi
Upvotes	3
Comments	1
Date	September 9, 2019 5:31 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/d1mms9/need_advice_with_a_girl/
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[–]Dacus_Rex 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Text her, flirt with her, get to a date, move things forward from there. That’s the simple route, not that risky.

The risky option: Go visit her in person. You need to be crazy smooth to pull this one off if you can’t pull off the “I just accidentally bumped into you and started flirting with you” routine.

Same principle but it’s more hands on and you can gauge if you were correct with your instincts that first night. Look for the typical clues; eye contact, forward most leg pointing to you and tracking you most of the time, playful touching, crows eyes when she smiles (the wrinkles in her eyes, if they’re there that means it’s a genuine smile and not a forced one), etc.

At the end of the day the decision is yours to make, you know you best and you shouldn’t follow the advice of somebody if it doesn’t tailor to your personality, and if the person you’re presenting to her isn’t you, she’ll notice and she’ll lose interest. Do what you think you can pull off, I believe in you bro.

Quick tip: if you’re gonna go meet her at the café, before you go in, do 4 sets of controlled breathing (4 seconds in, 4 secs hold, 4 secs exhale, repeat) it’ll lower your heart rate and calm you down making you seem even more confident.