Seddit has helped me a lot. Just reading the game, how to win friends and influence people, the art of seduction, mystery method, bits and pieces of psycho cybernetics and the way of the superior man have helped me. That being said, I need advice. Is it an IOI if a girl mentions a guy that was a friend / sorta boyfriend? How can I keep the conversation going when I run out of things to say. If a girl says she is going to go lay in bed, is it an IOI? Was she inviting me? Should I have asked to join her and then said I was joking if she took it wrong? I got another girls number and she invited me out. Shes going bar-hopping/ clubbing on her 21st bday. I'm 19 and don't have a fake ID or black shoes. Any advice? Should I try to get with girls I liked last year but barely knew because I was shy as shit and high everyday? Is that a waste of time? Thanks in advance for the advice seddit.