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dxdifr/r/seduction02/07/15 04:58 AM
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dxdifr/r/seduction07/09/12 09:41 PM
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dxdifr/r/seduction04/05/13 04:20 PM
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dxdifr/r/seduction05/09/12 08:52 PM
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dxdifr/r/seduction22/10/12 09:34 PM
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dxdifr/r/seduction05/11/12 05:43 PM
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dxdifr/r/seduction08/10/12 09:48 PM
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dxdifr/r/seduction08/10/12 09:27 PM
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dxdifr/r/seduction25/09/12 04:56 PM
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dxdifr/r/seduction24/06/15 04:35 PM
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dxdifr/r/seduction15/10/12 09:53 PM
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dxdifr/r/seduction06/05/14 02:55 AM
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dxdifr/r/seduction10/10/12 11:22 PM
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dxdifr/r/seduction19/09/12 10:58 PM
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dxdifr/r/seduction05/09/12 08:37 PM
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dxdifr/r/seduction17/07/15 10:40 PM
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dxdifr/r/seduction29/08/12 04:02 PM
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dxdifr/r/seduction04/10/12 11:54 PM
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Yeah the longer you wait the less of a chance you'll get a date. Don't waste time on the ones that don't want to give the digits or meet.
/r/seduction02/03/16 04:11 AM
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Keep going to the bar. Go early before it gets loud. Get to know everyone including the staff. Eventually the women can have the privilege to join in on your conversation with all the cool people there that you know.
/r/seduction06/02/16 07:00 AM
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Everything is more of a big deal when you're younger. Plenty of time left. First you get the money, then you get the power, then you get the women.
/r/seduction31/12/15 04:44 AM
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She wants sex and nothing more. Probably seeing someone else but not happy and wants something on the side
/r/seduction04/12/15 07:12 AM
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Meet as many girls as you can, and ask them out. Only way to get over the fear is to face it head on. Also it'll numb your anxiety. Or you'll go completely insane haha, but only if you take each one personal.
/r/seduction23/11/15 04:50 AM
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I already spoke to him and that was the second time , so yeah he's done
/r/seduction05/07/15 11:43 PM
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You guys are awesome. Thanks for all the great replies. And wow i made it to the top. I sent him an email today and explained to him that i'm cutting him out of my life and a included list of other reasons why. I've got too many friends to deal with BS friends that are going to put me down.
/r/seduction03/07/15 01:42 AM
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lol
/r/seduction02/07/15 07:37 AM
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There wont be a next time. I've got several other friends. I have no problem making new friends. I've got a lists of reason not to hang out with this guy anymore, but this weekend after the two incidents listed above, i've had enough.
/r/seduction02/07/15 06:06 AM
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Cool story. He gets laid about 4 times a week. I think he was trying to position himself to look good in front of the other girls so he could get with one of them. And he came with a girl that he was having sex with regularly. Also he regularly exaggerates or makes up stories about himself to make him look good. I"m 37.
/r/seduction02/07/15 05:55 AM
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He gets laid about 4 times a week. Yeah i think though you've hit the nail on the head with part of your post
/r/seduction02/07/15 05:54 AM
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I've already stepped him aside told him several times, but he keeps on doing it. I've got several other friends. I have no problem making new friends. I've got a lists of reason not to hang out with this guy anymore, but this weekend after the two incidents listed above, i've had enough.
/r/seduction02/07/15 05:39 AM
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Awesome!! You just got an upvote
/r/seduction30/07/14 01:37 AM
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i wasn't very sexual with her we were kissing but no grinding or sloppy makeouts. Just a bunch of kissing on the lips and no tongue. I'll update this feed with the results.
/r/seduction06/05/14 03:21 AM
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I was contemplating sending it so i asked my friend who gets laid 5 times a week said send it after i had asked him, so i did. After i sent it i was thinking ...fuck. And then my other friend said don't send it. I think i may have gotten bad advice from friend #1. Only time will tell. I'll update this feed with the results.
/r/seduction06/05/14 03:18 AM
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"Is that a pickup line?"
/r/seduction20/11/12 10:25 PM
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Move to a cool area with bars/coffee houses/sushi places nearby. Have girls meet you near your place. If things are going well, bring them back there.
/r/seduction24/10/12 11:44 PM
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My best and favorite opening line in the coffee shop is "You 'really' look like you need some coffee. Try to warm up a bit before you get to the shop. Talk to a cute counter girl or waitress. The first set is always the hardest.
/r/seduction18/10/12 11:28 PM
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Live near a whore house. Make lots of money to pay for it. Make lots of money. The whores will come to your house...lol
/r/seduction16/10/12 10:40 PM
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Act now and receive a free pimp hat. Operators are standing by. This is a more of a sales pitch and less of an informative video....downvoted.
/r/seduction16/10/12 10:17 PM
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You supposed to write your won based on your goals. One example is.... "I will lose weight"
/r/seduction16/10/12 03:31 PM
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meetup.com for friends Kezia is a girl PUA maybe she can help??
/r/seduction03/10/12 11:53 PM
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Sounds like your not seeing anyone. Just have some girls over to "watch movies" instead of going out. An HB8-10 surely find ways to cheer you up.
/r/seduction28/09/12 04:34 PM
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You goal for now is getting better at approaching.
/r/seduction28/09/12 04:31 PM
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Also, women are aproached all the time. But as men if we want to be successfull with women, we have to do the approaching. Try go get over the AA ASAP
/r/seduction28/09/12 04:31 PM
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What worked for me is this. Me and my friend had a contest to see who could approach the most women that night. Winner got lunch bought for them. Dont think of anything else beyond the approach and opener. Baby steps until you get better. The next step will be to be able to open effectively. Also find a cool event where there will be lots of women, or people in general. Here in Los Angles we have things called Artwalks, which is basically a city wide bar crawl with art galleries that serve up wi…
/r/seduction28/09/12 04:30 PM
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I felt like i was on Cocaine
/r/seduction27/09/12 08:26 PM
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Her husband isn't having sex with her.
/r/seduction26/09/12 08:16 PM
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go to their place or splurge for a hotel room, or setup a date near your place.
/r/seduction26/09/12 02:59 PM
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cool yeah if you can do those three you've built up enough attraction to keep her around. The 'Mystery Method' goes into the mechanisms behind 1-3. I think it's like time investment, physical investment, and there's one more that i dont remember.
/r/seduction25/09/12 11:47 PM
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I'm sure you got a good laugh trolling my post I could care less who does or doesn't believe in God I found several articles on positive affirmation working, only one on damaging. You're obivously not a PUA. Or have heard of David Deangelo "Be the dominant force in your own reality". There are no affirmations in my above statement. Learn what an affirmation is. You obivously arent a PUA or maybe a selfish prick that needs to put others down to get self-satisfaction and to feel better about himse…
/r/seduction25/09/12 11:43 PM
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Dont go for the number. Forget about the number entirely for now. Try to isolate her and take the interaction to the next level. If she: After you two sit down, spends more than 30mins with you Makes out with you Agrees to go somewhere else. Then you can get her number. Dont just do what every other guy does...torpedos in there strong, locks on to something in common, and asks for the number because he's not comfortable staying in the conversation. (I do this a lot, but i'm getting better at doi…
/r/seduction25/09/12 11:03 PM
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Well when you're at the point when you have enough experience at it to where: You have little no anxiety after the approach so your mind is clear You have deep understanding of body language and other cues. I think it comes down to really knowing what to look for, and have it as a subroutine. Watching interactions live or even watching "Keys to the VIP" can help you cue in on these suttle verbal/non-verbal cues. Also being sober during your interactions REALLY helps!!
/r/seduction25/09/12 10:57 PM
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Chick looked like a young heather graham with brown hair.
/r/seduction25/09/12 04:50 PM
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oops not on topic. Yeah dont go out like a slob you never know when your perfect HB8-10 is going to pop up. I have the perfect open ...helping an HB9 with a heavy object at Target, but i had on a crappy shirt and didn't take it further because i felt crappy about the way i looked.
/r/seduction25/09/12 04:49 PM
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Every day you're reinforcing this feeling that you're unattracive an ugly, why not do the opposite? If you feel good about yourself and care for yourself, you'll want to look better, and you'll do stuff to make it happen. I'm in the process of losing 20lbs after seeing some pics on the internet of how much more attractive people are with a couple of milimeters of facial fat off of their face. (it was a plastic surgery site though lol) The point is that it starts inside. Instead of convincing you…
/r/seduction25/09/12 04:46 PM
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Have her meet you near your place so if things go well you can take her back there. Meet in a cool loungy place with couches and low lighting. Dimly lit places make your pupils wider and gives the people there an artificial feeling of liking each other whether its there or not. This is why bars are dimly lit.
/r/seduction25/09/12 04:25 PM
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Own it. Great question. If your getting hickeys from other women this will turn her preselection attraction switch (look it up). What it says if you're wanted by other women you'll get more women. A hickey on your neck shows that another woman was intersted in you enough to perform the task. This will make other women more interested in you. Also, if you want to be cocky/funny about it, just tell the other girls that some jealous girl you aren't serious with did it to mark her territory...lol.
/r/seduction24/09/12 07:56 PM
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For instant friends got ot www.Meetup.com This is how i make friends when i move to new cities. Also, just launched my website today check it out. The design is still a work in progress, but the idea is sound. www.puakungfu.com
/r/seduction21/09/12 11:57 PM
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flask, not creative, but an easy one
/r/seduction20/09/12 03:31 PM
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Wrong...dude its body language 101. NEVER LEAN IN MAKE HER DO IT.
/r/seduction20/09/12 03:03 PM
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turkey baster
/r/seduction20/09/12 03:02 PM
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new show lined with plastic
/r/seduction20/09/12 03:01 PM
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coconut, watermelon
/r/seduction20/09/12 02:52 PM
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Kissing booth
/r/seduction20/09/12 04:41 AM
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lol
/r/seduction20/09/12 04:40 AM
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lol
/r/seduction20/09/12 04:39 AM
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lol. Google the name and type 'pdf' after it
/r/seduction19/09/12 05:26 PM
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Go as Mystery from the pickup artist
/r/seduction19/09/12 05:21 PM
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Turn a cardboard box into a lego by painting it, cutting holes in it, and using round plastic containers for the 4 connectors. I diid this...best part about the costume is that there's room for your beer inside the box.
/r/seduction19/09/12 05:19 PM
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Way of the Superior Man is a good one
/r/seduction19/09/12 05:15 PM
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Always transition (easy one). "So what are you up to today" If she calls you out just come clean...."you just wanted an excuse to talk to her. If the conversation goes well and longer than 5 mins, invite her to a public place like coffee or drink because "you're already planning on stopping there anyway". A park sounds sketchy as joggers often find dead bodies in them.
/r/seduction19/09/12 04:26 PM
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She knows why you're getting her number. Dont lie about it. It shows weakness on your part.
/r/seduction19/09/12 03:44 PM
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Also, always take into account the logistics of your dates and the best possible chance of making it romantic.
/r/seduction19/09/12 03:41 PM
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Having lunch a few times and not taking the relationship to the next level has put you in the friend zone my friend. Escalate if you like her, and move on if she doesn't. That is, unless you're completely ok with having her as a friend, but then can to turn her into your wing girl which is also a positive. Once you're dating other women she'll come back to you. Weird how that works.
/r/seduction19/09/12 03:40 PM
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I %100 agree with generous Kahn. Your wings job is to keep you in a good mood, not to be a drag. I have a trick for going out alone. I tell myself "that i'm not goin out alone because i'll have all these beautiful women to keep me company" It puts me in a right mindset. Oh and i've stopped hanging out at the bars/clubs with my wallflower friends. I do other stuff with them and hang out with them at the bars every so often.
/r/seduction18/09/12 10:38 PM
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Well check this out. She has a boyfriend but she's out dancing with other guys. Good for you if you want to f-close her at some point. Bad for you if you want to date her, unless this boyfirend isn't anything serious. Or if it's a ficticious boyfriend. It's the difference between a good girlfriend (if that's what you're looking for) or come girl that's going to cheat on you down the road. My advice is to go for the hookup and look for the relationship elsewhere if that's what you want, bu then a…
/r/seduction18/09/12 10:34 PM
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I've got one in the works.
/r/seduction18/09/12 06:00 PM
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Frame control - correct body language/leading the conversation Neuro linguistic techniques - google "NLP" bouncing ???? - dunno
/r/seduction18/09/12 05:59 PM
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Yes if you dont have your inner game handled you're gonna suck as a PUA...and it's back to AFC land and being the poster child for the "forever alone" memes here on reddit.
/r/seduction18/09/12 05:57 PM
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Dont just torpedo in , lock on the first thing you guys have in common, and ask her to bust out her cell. Most guys do this. As some practice, stay in set as long as you possibly can until your comfortable with it. Also best thing to do is to isolate. It's the only way you'll get to have a longer conversation with your target. If she wont at least sit down with you to have a one on one conversation, then the number will be worthless.
/r/seduction18/09/12 05:52 PM
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Being an airline pilot is a DHV on your part. Dont brag about it, and think of where that conversation leads. Have a good couple of DHV stories about it...again witout bragging. She's going to want to talk about it every time because it's an interesting topic. Also have some cocky funny stuff lined up. After all this is up. Then move the attention to her. This is done in the comort zone after she's attracted to you. It wont take long after that to sit down your target somewhere. There's a seduct…
/r/seduction17/09/12 08:32 PM
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Just tell her to meet you 30mins before you acutally want to meet her.
/r/seduction17/09/12 08:25 PM
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BS ....15mins is nothing, unless you're going to a movie or show. Chill out man. It's not a job interview.
/r/seduction17/09/12 08:24 PM
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Sometimes you just have to relax and have fun. Some gaming skills will need to be concious while you're learning, but with time and practice it will come naturally. Practice makes perfect. There's nothing wrong with changing for the better. (aka Personal Growth) Happy Hunting.
/r/seduction17/09/12 08:19 PM
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I got 3 numbers last week and none of them replied. Numbers are easy to get. The real challenge is to k-close or f-close. She'll respond to you if you k-close her every time.
/r/seduction15/09/12 08:35 PM
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do the above during your interaction. "Tell you what, i'll shoot you a quick text"
/r/seduction14/09/12 06:58 PM
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Dont be like every other guy that shoots in there like a missle, asks for the number, and scurries away. Best way to increase your responses. Talk to her for more than 30 minutes (make sure you've isolated her from her friends) Venue change with her and her friends Make out with her (k-close) F-close - hey she's right next to you the next day you can just nudge her...lol. Also text her something related to your converstation or a nickname that you gave her so she'll remember you. If you give 10 …
/r/seduction14/09/12 06:58 PM
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Dont be like every other guy that shoots in there like a missle, asks for the number, and scurries away. Best way to increase your responses. Talk to her for more than 30 minutes (make sure you've isolated her from her friends) Venue change with her and her friends Make out with her (k-close) F-close - hey she's right next to you the next day you can just nudge her...lol. Otherwise she's gonna get up the next day and the attraction will be gone.
/r/seduction14/09/12 03:01 PM
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yeah i get it...barnes n noble
/r/seduction14/09/12 01:19 AM
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Read the book "Way of the Superior Man" It explains this in greeat detail. Borders has it or you can find a copy floating around on the net.
/r/seduction13/09/12 09:52 PM
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as an alpha male that's exactly the attitude that will make her want you more, or any woman for that matter. For example. My good friend's friends fiance doesn't like his dog. She suggested he get rid of him. His response was "i love my dog. I"m a dog lover an i will always have a dog. When i have kids, i want them to have a dog. If you're not ok with that then find someone that is. My dog will love me no matter what."
/r/seduction13/09/12 09:51 PM
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You're in. Take the relationship to the next level during your next interaction or be left in friendzoneland for good.
/r/seduction13/09/12 09:46 PM
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She's lucky to have someone in her life that can put up with her crazy bullshit. I think being in a relationship with the desire to "fix someone" is not a healthy one. Show her that you're the catch and you can find someone else at any time. The grass is always greener on the other side.
/r/seduction13/09/12 07:34 PM
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Oh another thing you can say is that I can tell you saw something liked because your pupils are dialated. In fact your doing it right now. (if they're dialated)
/r/seduction12/09/12 09:23 PM
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Play the eye contact game. Like a game a chicken. See who looks away first. She'll probably look away then look back. Open the girl that doesn't look away. Then say "Congratulations you won!!" Her: "huh" or "what did i win?" You: "you see i play this game that has to do with eye contact" "Its kind of like a game a chicken to see who would look away first" You kept your eye contact which means one of two things. You're really into me or you're a confident person, which is good." Her: LOL or "i'm …
/r/seduction12/09/12 09:17 PM
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David Deangelo
/r/seduction12/09/12 09:15 PM
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there are no shortcuts, or magic tricks that's going to make you better wtih women.
/r/seduction12/09/12 02:50 PM
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I did sort of the same thing. I would stop in the same diner after the bars closed. She worked nights. Eventually, I asked her out and we dated for 3 months.
/r/seduction11/09/12 11:11 PM
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Basically it just stems from avoiding the "anticipitation of social rejection" , which is the eqivalent to getting poked in the eye. You have to re-train yourself not to fear this anticipation
/r/seduction11/09/12 11:07 PM
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'Double your dating' and 'sexual communication' are the most awesome and most comprehensive inner game material out there. You need to listen to this stuff first before you start doing pickup and work on it daily as your learning how to game. He's like the Tony Robbins of dating. Part dating coach part life coach. You have to conciously practice inner game daily until it's part of your unconcious. Basically one of the things that Dave says is that you're not going to want to do the things requir…
/r/seduction11/09/12 10:59 PM
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There's an audio version floating around on the internet. There's a video version too if you'd rather that. It's definetly not a book though.
/r/seduction11/09/12 04:43 AM
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Go to the gym after work, near your work. Shower at the gym. Spend time gaming near work. (bars/restaurants/street). Go home. Get up. Do it all over again. Only go out with girls that live near your work. Have those girls meet you after work at a bar. Sleep with them...at their place of course. WOHOO NO MORE 3HRS ON THE TRAIN!!
/r/seduction11/09/12 04:41 AM
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'Double your dating' and 'sexual communication' are the most awesome and most comprehensive inner game material out there. You need to listen to this stuff first before you start doing pickup and work on it daily as your learning how to game. He's like the Tony Robbins of dating. Part dating coach part life coach.
/r/seduction11/09/12 04:35 AM
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'Double your dating' and 'sexual communication' are the most awesome and most comprehensive inner game material out there. You need to listen to this stuff first before you start doing pickup and work on it daily as your learning how to game. He's like the Tony Robbins of dating. Part dating coach part life coach.
/r/seduction11/09/12 04:33 AM
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'Double your dating' and 'sexual communication' are the most awesome and most comprehensive inner game material out there. You need to listen to this stuff first before you start doing pickup and work on it daily as your learning how to game. He's like the Tony Robbins of dating. Part dating coach part life coach.
/r/seduction11/09/12 04:31 AM
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Practice makes perfect - reading books is great but you really have to get out there to get better.
/r/seduction11/09/12 03:47 AM
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My friend always tells them upfront "i'm not looking for anything serious"
/r/seduction10/09/12 03:47 AM
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Caboki - cheap way to fix the baldness. Search for it on youtube.
/r/seduction10/09/12 03:44 AM
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If she agrees, after you pick up present, "hey there's this cool place <place>" Hit a few bars and work your magic from there.
/r/seduction10/09/12 03:41 AM
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I'm heading into town <time/date> to grab a coffee and pick a present for my <sister/aunt/mom>. Wanna tag along? You could help me pick something out.
/r/seduction10/09/12 03:39 AM
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well said
/r/seduction10/09/12 03:31 AM
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If you did good on the initial interaction, what you do doesn't really matter. Just text her and ask her out. Its that simple Generally i like to make plans right there when i'm hanging out with her. If she doesn't agree to see you when you meet her, calling or texting her isn't going to make any difference because she's not going to message you back.
/r/seduction08/09/12 11:10 PM
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Now you have a choice between your "friend" or the new chicks you just met. You're back in controll as to where the relationship is going.
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:35 PM
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cool, and definitely pickup other chicks while your girl is around. It'll make her see you are desirable and she'll want you. Chicks around would will see you as desirable and want you because you're with a girl. They'll probably assume that you're dating. Girls nearby will be way more responsive in general because your with another girl. Opening will be a cake walk.
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:32 PM
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check out my earlier post on "opening a girl walking in the opposite direction" Let me know if it works...i havent tested it yet.
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:29 PM
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Probably best to go for one/two night stands but yes you can go tons of places without spending money.
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:28 PM
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Look in the comments of this post and memorize 1-25. It was written by Tyler Durden. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/zg1z4/tips_and_tricks_to_display_dominance_and_project/
/r/seduction07/09/12 08:38 PM
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Walk right in and find a set in a place where all the other girls in the place can see you. Dont hesitate. As soon as you walk in, walk right up to the set and say "Sorry i'm late. Traffic was terrible" Transition and talk for a bit. No matter what happens you have social proof because you looked like you were with a bunch of other girls. Most girls in the place will be easier to game. Good luck.
/r/seduction07/09/12 08:34 PM
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does skype have a record button??? LOL
/r/seduction07/09/12 03:12 AM
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Skype sex? OMG that's gotta be a new one.
/r/seduction07/09/12 03:11 AM
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Read Definitive Book of Body language. Dialated pupils means she's looking at something pleasing. Take off the sunglasses. See if you can get them to maintain eye contact with you. Always maintain eye contact during your conversations with them. Get David Deangelo's Double your dating book to work on your anxiety issues. You'll have to work on them daily and concuiously until it's unconcious. As you're working on your anxiety issues try to open sets as much as possible. Dealing with women is jus…
/r/seduction07/09/12 03:10 AM
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Anthony Robbins
/r/seduction06/09/12 10:26 PM
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ha ha...i suspected that you didnt write it...lol Will do
/r/seduction06/09/12 08:59 PM
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dude this is awesome. I think it deserves to be its own post.
/r/seduction06/09/12 08:06 PM
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cool!
/r/seduction06/09/12 03:21 AM
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OMG so true...lol
/r/seduction05/09/12 09:37 PM
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In other words you need to get off your but and start applying your knowledge.
/r/seduction05/09/12 09:35 PM
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I"m in the same boat. I am book smart but i'm still not where I want to be pickup wise. Knowlege plus practice equals experience. At this point just work on your game as a whole. Everything up until the point in which you're good at pickup is just practice and doesn't mean anything. Happy hunting.
/r/seduction05/09/12 09:34 PM
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Go for 20 sets, you'll find out what you are doing wrong.
/r/seduction05/09/12 09:17 PM
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Yes the more eye contact the better. Usually the first two opens are always a bit shaky for me. Try to get to the third set and dont worry about the first to so much if you mess up. After the 2nd one it gets real easy. Also best place to get good at opening are concerts, outdoor events/partys/etc, and any type of festival. Generally you want a ton of people and equal amount of guys/girls.
/r/seduction05/09/12 09:17 PM
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Generally you should maintain as much eye contact as possible without overdoing it. If you notice people and couples that like each other have more eye contact then those that dont. You can create a sense of comfort in your target by maintaining eye contact. Also, if it is a dark place, her pupils will be dialated already. As humans, our eyes dialate when we see something pleasing. When its dark like in a lounge or bar, this feeling is artificially created because our eyes have to widen to adjus…
/r/seduction05/09/12 08:34 PM
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oh next time get the lube packets from rite aid/cvs/wallgreens for when the sex lasts too long. It'll be better for her.
/r/seduction05/09/12 08:20 PM
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YOU'RE STILL GOOD!! However, you're supposed to wait 3 days after the first time you have sex with her to text/call. Once her vag heals and she gets horny again, you're the first person she's going to think about.
/r/seduction05/09/12 08:18 PM
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lol...i was just going to post something similar.
/r/seduction05/09/12 08:15 PM
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This is fake....cmon man..really!! Gaurantte..it's really a dude posting this.
/r/seduction05/09/12 08:14 PM
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Also it's better to find out if she's into you as soon as possible so if she's not you can focus your energy on the right girl. If she isn't just friend her, make her your wing girl, and study "pawning" <Mystery Method> You can use her to get other chicks at parties. Friend or not, walking in with a beautiful woman at a party/bar is great social proof. Bascially how you play it is you walk in there but start gaming other chicks within like 5-10mins when you get into the party. Once you find a gi…
/r/seduction05/09/12 05:39 AM
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Do you have her number? If not you could number close by. Having something cool going on or something you'd both like After you have both talked about it during your next conversation tell her "tell you what...i'll shoot you a quick text." (put something related to what you both are doing) . If she doesn't agree to do something with you right there she wont do it when you call her. Make sure you have good eye contact with her. You can number close in front of her friend no problem if you're invi…
/r/seduction05/09/12 05:33 AM
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We had good kino and she was away from her friends standing outside the bar with not to many people around. I did a dance move and we were standing opposite each other. I was already making sure i was keeping good eye contact with her. Then i suggested the contest. I waited 30 seconds or so then I felt a good vibe and kissed her. But then again, when you're staring right into each others eyes it comes naturally anyway. I'm going to try this again like 10 more times before the month is out...lol
/r/seduction04/09/12 11:51 PM
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I'm going on a diet...tomomorrow. Right after i have this massive plate of hot wings. lol
/r/seduction04/09/12 11:36 PM
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For friends: meetup.com For changing your inner self: check out David Deangelo's material on Inner Game. Then you'l need concious daily practice of inner game techniques untill it is unconcious. There was a time you had to concentrate when riding a bike, now you dont think about it. You will have to do the same when changing your "introverted, unsociable, etc"...self.
/r/seduction04/09/12 11:33 PM
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first turn her body so she's facing you and her back toward her friends. then sit her down somewhere if the convo is going good.
/r/seduction04/09/12 11:05 PM
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Dont put her on a pedestal. She may just be a bad person overall. You probably haven't thought about that yet. Guys put beautiful women on a pedestal all the time. People tend to see the only the good qualities in the people we like, and tone down the bad qualities. (and vice versa)
/r/seduction04/09/12 11:04 PM
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When going on dates, make sure you handle the logistics effectively. Dont talk about negative shit Make sure you are at a place where you can have a legitmate chance of kissing like a dark lounge or a place where you can dance. Make sure she meets you somewhere near your place. (or hers). If it's a party, leave early. If you guys haven't been intimate already, get her the fuck out of there before she meets somoene else. Do a venue change to a seduction location.
/r/seduction04/09/12 11:01 PM
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How did you "make out"? Or did you make out for that matter. I would have advised you to imaging 200 girls just like her behind her in line waiting to talks to you when you speak to her. It'll put things into a better perspective for you.
/r/seduction04/09/12 10:55 PM
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I K-closed a girl last night by doing a staring contest. Worked awesome!!!
/r/seduction04/09/12 09:46 PM
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The trick is to sort for all the new users. If you get to her first, your reply rate will go up. Otherwise, it just like hitting on a girl at 2AM at a club as opposed to 9PM or the guy that applied for a job but is the 500th applicant. They only take the first 20 or so resumes, and the other people are SOL.
/r/seduction04/09/12 09:24 PM
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Magic Bullets
/r/seduction04/09/12 08:56 PM
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Experts say direct game is better during the day but i think that you either have to be really good at it for it to work, or really confident. The approach has to come across as bold/ballsy also. I perfer indirect in all situations. Also checkout my post on Opeining girls walking the opposite direction.
/r/seduction04/09/12 08:55 PM
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Artwalks, pool parties, concerts, Las Vegas, and special events.
/r/seduction04/09/12 08:43 PM
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Looks like your getting stuck in the comfort phase and not moving to seduction. Here's some stuff to help progress toward moving toward a more sexual relationship DHV Stories Teasing/ Flirting Wide and deep rapport Congruence in speech Eye contact Kino Routines Conveying your personality and good qualities. Role playing Cold reading Then look at kiss close techniques. Just google 'PUA kiss close'
/r/seduction02/09/12 07:14 PM
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Yes go to frat parties and not drink. In general, never take a girl that you just met to any place where you dont have status/social proof, or have her bring out a few friends/girlfriends to keep her from getting picked up on if you go. Definitely not just you and her. I have a group of guys that i go out and game with and we pickup and dont drink. In my opinion, drinking is a disadvantage for you when gaming. To keep people from giving you shit, just get a soda and tell them it has vodka in it.…
/r/seduction02/09/12 06:23 PM
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DHV Stories Teasing/ Flirting Wide and deep rapport Congruence in speech Eye contact Kino Routines Conveying your personality and good qualities. Role playing Cold reading
/r/seduction02/09/12 05:00 PM
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She's not interested. You gave her body language by leaning toward her and yelling in her ear. You got her number too quick. I'm surpised she texted u back. You werent a challenge especially after that text. You probably gave away too much interest too soon in the initial interaction. Also, There's a good trick in loud places to get her to come to you. Point to your ear.
/r/seduction01/09/12 11:18 PM
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First make sure she responds to you first text. If she does. Unless you have something cool going on with your friends on Saturday (because hey your a fun social guy and not someone with nothing to do on a Saturday night) wait until you get back. If she's busy you have to actually speak to her (call her) to keep the attraction going until you get back. But hey you're away in a fun/cool/interesting place which will have value and make a good conversation starter in itself. Happy hunting.... good …
/r/seduction01/09/12 11:09 PM
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best way to number close these days is to say one of two things Shoot me a quick text, text me the words <whatever you were talking about>" I'll shoot you a quick text, text me the words <whatever you were talking about>" If she got 8 numbers that night and you were talking about sailing, you could text her "hey Sailor!!" and she'll remember exactly who you were.
/r/seduction01/09/12 11:04 PM
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I"ve had two friends in my life that had few guy friends, but dated and was friends with tons of women. In the meantime. Checkout meetup.com. It's the absolute best way to make friends, and there might even be a PUA group in your area.
/r/seduction01/09/12 10:56 PM
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I posted the same thing...check this out let me know if you try it. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/z0x07/opening_girls_walking_the_opposite_direction/
/r/seduction31/08/12 09:38 PM
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Come back and watch my dog do backflips...lol
/r/seduction31/08/12 09:37 PM
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Venue change!!! Get her to go somewhere with you after
/r/seduction31/08/12 09:16 PM
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David Deangelo's program works best. In the mean time. Learn what your shadow is and stop blocking out negative feelings. Only by recognizing them can you defeat them. Write down your good qualities. Say them every day. Some part of you doesnt want to let go of your negative view of yourself. Conciously work everyday to overcome the things that are causing your self loathing. Have a saying that you read every day. I have this one. Feel free to use it. Say motivational line every morning : “God g…
/r/seduction31/08/12 08:48 PM
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did you try this out. I still havent tested it.
/r/seduction31/08/12 08:33 PM
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yeah and if you end up dating the girl you can do the whole love at first site storyline when describing how you met....genius.
/r/seduction31/08/12 08:32 PM
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still have to work up the courage to do it....I hate AA...grrrr I know though that once i do it a bunch of times i'll be more confident and more likely to work it into my daily gaming sessions. Just taking that first step and getting out of my comfort zone seems to be a real challeng. I'm still confident that this is the best way of going about it. I was also hoping someone else would try it first ...lol
/r/seduction31/08/12 08:29 PM
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Yup i'm in the same boat. Check out David Deangelo's stuff for the inner game. It's awesome.
/r/seduction31/08/12 04:27 AM
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Interesting point but think about this if he went there to drink why is he posting about it in r/seduction?? Why not post it in r/drinking (if there is one) ...lol He went there to drink and meet women. There's always girls here and there. It just depends on how you want to play it. You can go home or open mixed sets, or the only sets. He says there were no quality girls, but i'm sure there were some that he didn't approach.
/r/seduction30/08/12 09:40 PM
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Get 10 lap dances before she comes over. Shower off the stripper stink. Take two shots of vodka....you'll be set. Otherwise the sex will be bad because you'll turn into quickdraw McGraw. Fastest shooter in the west...lol
/r/seduction30/08/12 04:33 PM
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You dont need a few drinks to get into the grove. I opened 20 sets a couple of weeks ago....dead sober My advise is to work on your AA. Also, try to get to the 3rd set of women. The first two are the hardest. Good luck!
/r/seduction30/08/12 04:30 PM
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You're absolutely right. Great advice thanks :) After thinking about it for a day: I did have one idea. I saw my friend one time walks backwards next to the girl until she stopped. So here's my idea. Smile. Get good eye contact (force it if you have to) Jog backwards next her. Opener "Are you shy? Because you were just looking right into my eyes and you didnt says hi" If she doesn't stop qualify her. If she says she has a boyfriend ask what is his name? (saw that one on Sasha's video) Basically,…
/r/seduction29/08/12 07:42 PM
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After thinking about it for a day: I did have one idea. I saw my friend one time walks backwards next to the girl until she stopped. So here's my idea. Smile. Get good eye contact (force it if you have to) Jog backwards next her. Opener "Are you shy? Because you were just looking right into my eyes and you didnt says hi" If she doesn't stop qualify her. If she says she has a boyfriend ask what is his name? (saw that one on Sasha's video) Basically, if she pauses you tell her she's lying in a pla…
/r/seduction29/08/12 07:41 PM
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Text game? Well the guys at project vegas told me that if you need to worry about "text game" you didn't build up enough attraction/comfort for the girl to want to meet you again. If you talked with her for 2hrs you're probably good. You could choose to invite her to Thursday during that 2hrs at a time when you guys are laughing so she can associate that night with something that "feels good". Project Vegas recommends that you make plans during the interaction. Text game implies that you need to…
/r/seduction29/08/12 03:57 PM
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also, tony robbins or david deangelo for you inner game issues.
/r/seduction28/08/12 10:29 PM
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Start a PUA group on meetup.com In two months you'll have more friends than you can handle. Not to mention the perks which is getting invited to cool events which will get you more friends and women will be easier to get at the events because you have so much cool stuff going on that the'll want to go and be attracted to you becuase you have so much going on in your life. Also i'm 35 and one thing i've learned the hard way is: YOUR GUY FRIENDS WILL NEVER HOOK YOU UP WITH GIRLS!! Sorry bud, you h…
/r/seduction28/08/12 10:29 PM
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Imagine 300 "the ones" in line behind her waiting to talk to you, because you are a fucking superstar.
/r/seduction28/08/12 10:19 PM
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I'm in the same boat with daygame vs nightgame. I think with daygame, and i just realized this, that at night you have so many targets that there's always new sets if you mess up. During the day targets are few and unexpected. I'm going to try this and i recommend you do the same.... convince yourself that there are lots of women to talk to. David Deangelo talks about scarcity vs. abundance. (a very good topic to look into) Also you may have some underlying self esteem self confidence issues tha…
/r/seduction28/08/12 10:17 PM
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Your underlying anxiety is killing it for you, but yes if she's at your place you could easily start kissing her. Check out some good kiss close techniques and then learn some kino. David D says to stroke her hair with your hand and if she doesn't back away then she's ready to be kissed. Just look in her eyes and kiss her right after the stroke. That's one way, but do it immediately after you are both laughing so that subconciously she associates your kiss with a "good" feeling. So that's laugh,…
/r/seduction28/08/12 10:07 PM
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