Need advice

flowingandrolling · 2021-03-28T01:48:05+00:00

If you're in frinedzone it's a little hard. It's not about being a nice guy or being an asshole. In this situation, it is more about being flirty/sexual and not being her therapist, listening to her, her issues with her BF and be a friend, which makes it hard because it could be awkward now, especially if she sees you as a friend. So yes, the idea is that of transitioning from a nice friend to a potential intimate partner.

First thing, as you said, stop being a nice friend, don't talk about her bf!! If she brings it up, change the topic. Do things with her more often, from walks, to watching movies, especially fun activities. Try to create situations where you are alone with her more and more. Make her invest in you, like she cooks you dinner, do you small favors. It's ok if she knows you're seeing someone. And actually just try to date other girls.

T3H9 · 2021-03-28T01:23:52+00:00

Ok, don’t be a jerk, nice guys finish last because they don’t have initiative to do something about the girl but jerks never finish, respect yo girl. Now to the advice, take initiative, call her to go out just the two of you, make sure she knows it’s a date, than go on a thew of those and when you feel the feeling go for a kiss, if that works go up the bases little by little and make sure she’s comfortable. Of course much of the game is situational, and if she doesn’t have interest in being with you there’s nothing you can do about it, somethings don’t work out and that is life, and if you think you would be a good bf you should be a great friend.

P.S.: I’m not a seduction god, I’m 14 and a virgin so if you think my advice is bs please don’t use it. I do my best but my game is still being made

BALLS_Energy_System · 2021-03-28T02:10:19+00:00

Let her know what your testosterone wants.

partsaklo2001 · 2021-03-28T10:02:13+00:00

Be clear. Say to her something like this.

" I know you are with (whatever the guy's name is) but I really like you and I want something romantic to happen between us. I am not trying to get between the two of you, I just feel that way and I am pressured by holding these feelings to myself."

This may have some grammar errors, my english is a bit rusty.

Title	Need advice
Author	flowingandrolling
Upvotes	2
Comments	19
Date	March 28, 2021 1:08 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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