Hello seddit!

I really need help. I'm 21 now, I'm a virgin, I never had a girlfriend, I never kissed a girl, I dind't even knuddle with a girl befor. I'm a shy, cautious, unconfidet person. I never went out to partys or clubs, mostly becasue I don't like alcohol and I can't stand drunk people, and I never really had friends to go out with. To myself just a short description.

I'm 21, ~143lbs, 5.5 inch. Would say I'm a skinny white person. I have really long hair (nearly to my waist), but I tie it up to a bun most of the time. I have a chin beard ~6cm in with I work woodn pearls into. I wear glasses and I'm not trained at all.

So to get onto it, I moved to another county and live in a coast city with ~50k people. I got my own apartment. When i moved here I wanted to change my life but I don't really know how. I don't know anybody here (my coworks are ~40 years). A week ago I forced myself to go into the city at night and walked around a bit and forced myself to go into a bar. Well then I was there, with no clue what to do. (FR Bar)

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A week ago i went into the city a night walked around a bit and forced myself to go into a bar. Well then I was there with no clue what to do, I didn't know anybody, so I sat at the bar for like 15 minutes. There were maybe around 10-15 people it the bar (it was a small bar in the old town). I'd say 10-12 guys 2-3 girls. It felt like evveryone was here with friends the were all standing in groups of 4 or so and talking. I forced myself to dance (I never dance in my life befor). So I was dancing maybe 1-2 people was dance too most of the time together, I was just shaking around a bit alone. Close to the small dance floor was a group of I think 4 people standing 2 girl 2 guys. They were talking and later on dancing a bit. After some time one of the girls walked up to me while I was dancing and started dancing really close to me and facing in my dirction, while everyone of the groupe including her was laughting and one of the guys started taking photos with his handy from us. After the photo the girl left and went back to them. I felt so bad and embarrased but I kept on dancing for a while and they left soon after that. After a while I stopped and got back to the seats. One of the bartender asked my some questions, just standart stuff so we talked a bit. That was my night. I was ther for ~1:00 till 2:30 and went hom after that. I didn't go out since than ,this was the only time since i moved ther a month ago.

So to keep it short, I have no clue how I should meet someone and if I somehow get into a conversation I wouldn't know what I should talk about and I would never start kino, I'm way to shy to do anything that could be too mutch. It's depressing, I don't know how I should approach girls and every day that i walk around the city, there are good looking men everywhere and i get more disscuraged.