need help making new friends

AttractandSeduce · 2015-06-14T23:25:25+00:00

Hey Vine_that

Building a social circle is both easy and hard. The fundamental and the understanding of how it's done is easy. Staying persistent is what can be hard. Anyway, the biggest challenge you will probably face since you say you don't have approach anxiety is going to be keeping a good consistent pace. That means don't give up.

Anyway, it's good to hear that your part of a flag football team and that your in college. Since your in college, you have tons of options.

What I recommend is the following:

Join a group/club that your really interested in. Especially if that group/club has attractive girls. You can make friends with the girls and with time they will introduce you to their other attractive friends which you can date/sleep with if you want. It's gonna be easy making friends with the guys too since you guys will be sharing a similar interest. Ask yourself if flag football is something your really interested in. If it is, that part is done. The only challenge is that their probably isn't a lot of girls in that group.
Make sure that the group/club gets together at least once a week so people get used to seeing you.
All you have to do is make sure you do your part and show up to the groups/club activities at least once a week and share your friendship with everyone and not just the "coolest" people. In a group you will either add value or take value away. Ideally you want to always add value.

Also find out if the guys and girls of that group doing other cool things outside that group that you could also be part of.

That is one way to build a cool social circle. You will get along with both the guys and girls more if you follow the advice above because you guys will share a similar interest.

Feel free to ask me up to three good questions after what I just told you.

Title	need help making new friends
Author	vine_that
Upvotes	3
Comments	1
Date	June 14, 2015 10:39 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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