long story short i know a girl from the army, i think shes kind off into me, the problem is that while i was in the army she had a boyfriend so i didnt make a move, also the boyfriend was obssesive with her and kind off controling.. so i played the "cool guy" game, and she was very close to me.. problem was i started to see her as a friend becouse of that and didnt really wanted to fuck her.. right now she is somehow back in my life (smoking weed together etc), but shes very depressed for some reason idk.. the point is she looks good and all but i dont want to hurt her.. do you think its a good idea to sleep with her ? i dont want a girl in my life right now, so i dont know if its a good idea to be with her, how she will take it ?