So I met this girl on campus and she seems really cool and I think she had some interest in me. I thought I was great and decided to put my attention to my friends instead of her. Then she met this other guy who was really needy and clingy. He followed her around everywhere and everyone thought it was creepy. I thought that if I focused on my own life, women would be attracted by that?! BUT, the girl then likes the guy who was stalking her and now she had almost no to little interest in me. I thought girls preferred guys who have their own life? I thought girls didn't like all the attention from a guy? I AM REALLY CONFUSED? I thought girls didn't like needy guys! Please tell me what I could have done and please help me understand.