I’m having real trouble with figuring out if and when I should invite her over to my place on first date. For instance last night this girl I met went heavy with kissing. We were an hour into the date and I thought inviting her over within an hour would sound desperate. So, I held back and time came for us to head out. This killed the whole vibe and she started saying she has work tomorrow and can do only one more drink. We went to a different bar. As agreed had a drink and we parted ways. Got a kiss on the cheek. Now I’m feeling like an idiot because I just can’t seem to figure out if and when during a date I should invite a girl over. Literally every date I go on, girls go heavy with kissing but I end up screwing things.