Not sure if this is the right sub for this but I'm gonna try it anyways, sorry if this isn't right but I need help. I just turned 21 a couple months ago and I've tried approaching girls at the bars, online, tinder, etc. Nothing seems to work for me and all i seem to be met with is girls telling me 1. They aren't interested. Which is fine, that's what were doing approaching and giving it a shot and if you get turned down it sucks but you keep trying. 2. I get girls telling me I'm ugly. A large amount of the girls I approach at the bars will tell me instead of "I'm not interested", "you're ugly". I don't have this problem on things like tinder, but even then I struggle with the conversation portions. I've only ever been on 1 date in my life and I've never even kissed a girl. I've struggled a lot of my life with being told I'm ugly and I thought I was used to it, but I keep approaching and I keep hearing it and it's really worn me down. Honestly I'm not even expecting much out of this even I think I really just needed to rant, but I'm not feeling well and I just keep getting shit on. Confidence is wavering and the love life just keeps getting shittier. If you're reading all the way through this thanks and good luck in your endeavours