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Approach women
/r/seduction07/05/19 01:44 AM
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Agree with most of this. Except for MFA. Their advice is a bit too cookie cutter in terms of different outfits
/r/seduction06/05/19 03:19 AM
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Looks help, and they get you in the door. They don’t keep them around if you can’t give them emotions and a good time
/r/seduction06/05/19 01:16 AM
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Yeah. Would also like to add that if her responses are short, she’s likely not interested in meeting up
/r/seduction06/05/19 12:56 AM
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Using an opener as “hey, I know this is random, but...” disarms most women’s fear of an unknown guy approaching them, even if they do reject you later
/r/seduction05/05/19 01:56 AM
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In general saying something like I have a good story to tell etc as bait
/r/seduction05/05/19 01:54 AM
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What about something like: I’ve got a great story to tell
/r/seduction05/05/19 01:22 AM
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Hell yes
/r/seduction05/05/19 12:45 AM
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It’s been years
/r/seduction05/05/19 12:21 AM
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Being 6’3 and over and under 200 pounds isn’t healthy imo for a guy.
/r/seduction05/05/19 12:12 AM
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And being authentic is important as always
/r/seduction04/05/19 04:07 PM
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After your opener, use observations and go from there. Planning any conversation out is a fool’s errand
/r/seduction30/04/19 04:08 AM
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I personally don’t call a girl until I meet her IRL from online
/r/seduction30/04/19 04:04 AM
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Yeah, oneitis is crushing over a girl that’s taken or you’re too scared to ask out/gone on one that didn’t go well
/r/seduction30/04/19 04:03 AM
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Bots rarely exist anymore. Have someone else take your photo
/r/seduction30/04/19 04:02 AM
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I mean I have a job and still live at home as a student because rent is so damn expensive
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:57 AM
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Where I live, it’s common to be at home while working/in school.
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:57 AM
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It’s an automatic copy and paste message if I match with someone who has a blank bio/direct link to her instagram.
/r/seduction29/04/19 01:19 AM
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6’5 is damn close to it where I live. I rarely see guys above 6’3.
/r/seduction29/04/19 01:18 AM
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Keep your head up dude. It will get better. Sounds tough now but trust me, take pride in the small things.
/r/seduction22/04/19 01:35 AM
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Yup. It sucks at first but it’s a great teacher
/r/seduction21/04/19 04:00 AM
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Also use face wipes if it’s hot outside and/or you perspire a lot.
/r/seduction16/04/19 05:45 PM
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Say no
/r/seduction15/04/19 03:21 AM
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This light sound weird but for some reason I dream and go back to encounters I’ve had with women over past videos
/r/seduction05/04/19 02:59 AM
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From firsthand experience, most women do not get approached by guys often, and if they do, it’s a total hack job most of the time
/r/seduction04/04/19 02:54 AM
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Stand out, think of something unique to say in general
/r/seduction04/04/19 01:22 AM
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Yeah, I use online to test text strategies
/r/seduction04/04/19 01:17 AM
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Being more direct with approaches/talking to women has worked wonders for me
/r/seduction27/03/19 03:39 AM
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No
/r/seduction25/03/19 03:12 AM
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Numbers are a means to an end. Only ask for one if the girl is vibing with you well.
/r/seduction25/03/19 03:11 AM
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Say anything
/r/seduction22/03/19 03:27 AM
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Why?
/r/seduction22/03/19 03:27 AM
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Work on yourself before others. It’s tired advice but it’s true
/r/seduction21/03/19 01:58 AM
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To be fair, when you approach a girl, it’s 99.9% due to her looks. Over time your attraction to her isn’t all about her appearance but initially it’s the largest factor
/r/seduction20/03/19 12:28 PM
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Spending time with someone you connect with. It’s generic but man does it feel great
/r/seduction20/03/19 03:41 AM
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Yikes
/r/seduction14/03/19 03:43 AM
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For some reason I attract a ton of brunettes/dark haired girls. Regardless of race, it's certainly interesting.
/r/seduction11/03/19 03:27 AM
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Good post!
/r/seduction11/03/19 03:26 AM
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Dude, that's an awesome story
/r/seduction01/03/19 04:50 AM
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This.
/r/seduction28/02/19 04:49 AM
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PM me your profile
/r/seduction28/02/19 04:48 AM
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This. Put the work in and results will happen
/r/seduction25/02/19 01:55 AM
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Awesome! But you should be on the hunt for the next number
/r/seduction23/02/19 01:07 AM
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Ask them a question about the class during or right before they leave
/r/seduction23/02/19 01:07 AM
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Social circle + approaching women. That's mostly it for me, with dating apps, and clubs mixed in
/r/seduction23/02/19 01:07 AM
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It varies. If you've matched with her on a dating app, and it didn't go anywhere, follow her first. If she follows you back, then go ahead. If not after a few days, unfollow and move on.
/r/seduction16/02/19 02:26 AM
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Nice response to that shit test!
/r/seduction15/02/19 04:58 AM
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Yup, it makes you more social
/r/seduction14/02/19 04:30 AM
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I struggle with this at times. Whenever I get eye contact/signals, sometimes I hold hold it but other times I shutdown and can't proceed with it.
/r/seduction09/02/19 06:10 PM
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Also those super attractive women aren't always your type too
/r/seduction02/02/19 09:03 PM
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Talk to them before hand
/r/seduction02/02/19 09:02 PM
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Being a nice guy to get something out of her is scummy
/r/seduction16/01/19 10:23 PM
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Bingo.
/r/seduction16/01/19 04:24 AM
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Nah, learning about this stuff after basically being a social outcast in high school and doing a complete 180 in college, it helped me grow to who I am now. Taking up fitness helped me with interactions with the opposite sex and guys respecting me. If I could to high school over I'd obviously do things differently but meh, life's about the moment
/r/seduction11/01/19 04:22 AM
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Yeah though it's weird though. Usually when I get rejected it's because they have a BF or they're not interested. I've never gotten the "I enjoy being single" reaction
/r/seduction11/01/19 04:21 AM
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Even girls that you want to be casual with have to follow your qualifications though
/r/seduction11/01/19 04:17 AM
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Good morning beautiful? Christ that's lame
/r/seduction11/01/19 04:17 AM
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The seasons play a role in this. When I see a really cute girl during the summer/spring time I feel compelled to approach and usually do. Right now during the winter, I haven't approached for a month + since it's cold outside and I'm not in the gaming mood half the time
/r/seduction11/01/19 04:15 AM
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Facebook for me is just to use for messenger
/r/seduction11/01/19 04:12 AM
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Yup. I make sure to add people I know who I see on a regular basis in the gym/class/clubs etc on messenger or Instagram since it shows social proof
/r/seduction11/01/19 04:10 AM
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Say anything related to the class or make a comment. If she bites she's at least friendly
/r/seduction11/01/19 04:00 AM
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I only ask for a number if she wants to go out sometime. If she doesn't seem as keen/it's more platonic, IG is 100x better where you can build up
/r/seduction02/01/19 03:28 PM
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Go after what you want! I've found that even if they reject you, more attractive are less cruel than average women
/r/seduction01/01/19 09:26 PM
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Talk to more women dude I get caught up in this mindset too
/r/seduction30/12/18 04:44 AM
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Uhh if it's someone from online texting is the only way
/r/seduction25/12/18 07:43 PM
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I texted back hope whatever it is gets sorted out
/r/seduction25/12/18 06:36 PM
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Why?
/r/seduction25/12/18 03:01 PM
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Thanks man. I think this is a good answer
/r/seduction25/12/18 03:00 PM
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It's not a friendzone, trust me just shitty logistics and timing
/r/seduction25/12/18 03:00 PM
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Thanks I don't think it's a not interested message since she's been complaining about her mom a ton and wants to move out badly
/r/seduction25/12/18 02:16 PM
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I mean if you want to be FWB, this advice works, but for a real relationship, don't rush into escalation
/r/seduction17/12/18 04:46 PM
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I would say go for the kiss if you're feeling you two have chemistry, but be the one that pulls away first
/r/seduction12/12/18 02:14 PM
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It's RSD- but one of the big points was from max saying: "the moment you've said hi, you've already won"
/r/seduction12/12/18 02:11 PM
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Tinder has worked more for me than bumble and I'm also in Toronto
/r/seduction12/12/18 02:07 PM
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Get them off the app before setting stuff up.
/r/seduction06/12/18 05:03 AM
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That's true. If I go direct, it's always style/found them cute. Not attractive or hot. I've also noticed the more pretty the girl is the more receptive they are to approaches even if they turn you down after.
/r/seduction06/12/18 05:01 AM
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I mean if you're approach a new girl just tell them you thought she was cute/like her style. Be polarizing, you're not there to be her friend.
/r/seduction06/12/18 04:59 AM
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I added her in snap one evening (without talking to her yet irl, the username was in her ig). You didn't approach her, thus lower value in her life
/r/seduction06/12/18 04:53 AM
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Yes, but it's a case to case basis. If she's looking at your lips, basically eye-fucking you etc.. unless she's really attracted to you/interested it'll hurt more. If it's more tepid situation, then waiting is good
/r/seduction06/12/18 04:51 AM
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If you live in a big city more than 1/2 the girls in your dating pool won't drive/have cars
/r/seduction06/12/18 04:49 AM
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Exactly
/r/seduction06/12/18 04:49 AM
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For guys, when you're out with a girl and she looks at your lips/escalates on you that's some sort of sexual tension aside from the regular flirty stuff
/r/seduction06/12/18 04:43 AM
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Most men don't approach during the day and those who do are mostly terrible. Plus more attractive women are receptive during the day vs night
/r/seduction05/12/18 02:21 AM
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Ask her how many sets she has left and gave her response. go indirect very slowly
/r/seduction05/12/18 02:20 AM
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Make it clear that it's one on one though
/r/seduction02/12/18 04:53 PM
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There's no perfect girl but I do believe there are a group of girls that fit very well with you. It's up to you to find them
/r/seduction02/12/18 04:43 PM
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Advice for going back to her place but not at night?
/r/seduction29/11/18 05:32 PM
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I am. If they're using a machine I need then it's an easy convo, but I use a uni gym so the transition is easier etc
/r/seduction27/11/18 04:55 AM
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assume things about her
/r/seduction27/11/18 04:54 AM
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For male friends: join a rec sports league/team. Most of my close male friends are from the gym/school teams
/r/seduction27/11/18 04:53 AM
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No, but the desire to approach sometimes just is gone. I still approach girls here on there, but it's not like even this past summer when my goal was 1 girl a day. Now I'm lucky if it's 1 per week.
/r/seduction27/11/18 04:52 AM
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It's essentially having social skills and adapting it to interactions with women.
/r/seduction27/11/18 04:51 AM
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Once I realized that strangers don't give a shit, past a few seconds of staring at what you're doing I got better at this stuff. As long as you aren't creepy nothing will happen
/r/seduction27/11/18 04:49 AM
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sure why not
/r/seduction27/11/18 04:47 AM
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This will sound weird but whenever I see a girl I've seen IRL on an app in my queue, I don't swipe at all on them. Just change the settings.
/r/seduction27/11/18 04:42 AM
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Ehh..... if you do approach her don't go direct. I've done some gym approaches but never direct since it's awkward as hell. Just ask her how many sets she has left/if she's using that equipment. If she seems receptive enough, chat her up platonically and then end it there. (maybe push for a IG if she's really receptive, but just wait) You'll see her again and go from there. But you have to slow play it.
/r/seduction27/11/18 04:42 AM
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99% of the time the girl won't text you first. It's the guy's job to initiate
/r/seduction27/11/18 04:39 AM
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Tend to agree, but Tinder/other apps are more useful during the winter time when approaching is harder to do thanks to the weather
/r/seduction27/11/18 04:39 AM
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Alright, so I'm going to text her exactly something along those lines. But it's out of character for our text convo so far. Still a good idea?
/r/seduction25/11/18 05:30 PM
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Is asking about their week short enough to mean something between meets? What about calling her?
/r/seduction24/11/18 02:27 AM
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Is it fine to text basically for logistics? I suck at building tension over text
/r/seduction24/11/18 01:51 AM
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Good post! But always ask for her number first
/r/seduction24/11/18 01:23 AM
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thanks. I just don't want to over text which kills attraction
/r/seduction22/11/18 04:20 AM
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they stop becoming "tinder girl 2, etc" once you've had a date with them tbh. Until then it's all hypothetical
/r/seduction22/11/18 04:18 AM
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Tinder and other dating app is the exception to double texting. I've had decent success re-starting convos
/r/seduction22/11/18 04:16 AM
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Get them off the app and to texting/IG (since especially texting is more personal). Honestly, I don't even remember the girl's name in my mind until we move off the app and with her number
/r/seduction22/11/18 04:14 AM
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I don't have a good opener but I've found if you've matched with them but it's a dead end/or they go to the same school as you, shoot your shot. If it's a complete and total rando then it's much lower
/r/seduction20/11/18 02:18 PM
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I only send the DM if we match but if fizzles out on the app
/r/seduction20/11/18 02:05 PM
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This should be the highest rated comment here. Have a bio and/or pictures that are clickbaity (for example your bio could pose a question to her)
/r/seduction20/11/18 01:58 PM
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Girls that don't link their Instagram as their only part of their bio are likelier to respond with you/go out on a date in my experience. I auto swipe left on women that only have their IG and nothing else unless they've already swiped right on me
/r/seduction20/11/18 01:57 PM
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yes, but gotta escalate early. See if she looks at your lips etc and go for the kiss
/r/seduction18/11/18 10:18 PM
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I mean I don't like spending money on girls until the 2nd date
/r/seduction18/11/18 04:07 PM
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Coffee is my go to because it's a euphemism. Sometimes I actually go for coffee with them, other times it's just an excuse for hanging out/talking etc where we don't buy a cents worth of anything
/r/seduction18/11/18 03:30 PM
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Go for the kiss earlier than the end.
/r/seduction18/11/18 03:29 PM
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I'd like to add that the first kiss with any new girl is hard to read but once you do it, afterwards is so easy. Pulling away first also usually drives them wild if there's enough tension.
/r/seduction17/11/18 02:57 PM
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Join clubs that meet on weekends and week nights. I've met most of my friends through that and intramural sports
/r/seduction08/11/18 06:21 PM
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I've made more friends at the gym than anywhere else
/r/seduction01/11/18 09:21 PM
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Be social
/r/seduction01/11/18 09:20 PM
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Yeah I mean I get a decent amount of tinder matches so I know I'm not unattractive but sometimes my hesitation leads to screwing things up with women. It sucks.
/r/seduction01/11/18 09:19 PM
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Lol what? The appeal of fit girls to me is that they have good self-care which leads them possibly being good partners/mothers etc... some don't take photos all the time and just do it to be healthy which is ridiculously attractive
/r/seduction01/11/18 01:34 PM
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Girls love getting emotions
/r/seduction26/10/18 12:26 AM
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Looks get you into the door but don't close the deal
/r/seduction25/10/18 05:29 PM
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As soon as she either says she has a boyfriend or I can tell she's not at least interested in talking, I bounce, and you should too. That's social awareness
/r/seduction25/10/18 03:48 PM
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Rejections get you closer to people that you're compatible with
/r/seduction25/10/18 03:47 PM
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How do you hook up from tinder? Maybe it's bad luck but a ton of the girls I get numbers from that app want to go on dates first
/r/seduction23/10/18 12:59 AM
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Nah, I didn't care about women until I was 19 now I'm 21. It happens later for some compared to others
/r/seduction22/10/18 12:04 AM
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Don't plan dates that far ahead
/r/seduction22/10/18 12:04 AM
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Setting out on a common objective together basically
/r/seduction19/10/18 11:14 PM
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Great comment man any more advice? For getting her invested?
/r/seduction19/10/18 09:57 PM
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If they go to your school it helps
/r/seduction19/10/18 09:52 PM
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No, I usually decide if I'm going to potentially approach her by if she's walking fast/headphones in/ring on etc/sitting
/r/seduction18/10/18 09:32 PM
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Direct approaches are polarizing and do work!
/r/seduction17/10/18 01:20 AM
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On tinder, sure
/r/seduction17/10/18 01:19 AM
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Text her asap. I've screwed up situations where the girl gives me her #, texts first wants us to do things
/r/seduction17/10/18 01:18 AM
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Cute is better than beautiful
/r/seduction13/10/18 01:09 AM
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That's true. I'm half white and I match with way more european/white/south american women on tinder than bumble
/r/seduction12/10/18 09:34 PM
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But how do you approach from behind with headphones?
/r/seduction11/10/18 12:04 AM
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my god enough dude
/r/seduction10/10/18 11:22 PM
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What is this terminology?
/r/seduction10/10/18 09:28 PM
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Tinder is a crapshoot. Some awful girls but also some gems
/r/seduction08/10/18 01:34 AM
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Follow your friends/college/clubs etc...
/r/seduction08/10/18 01:34 AM
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Same. Whenever is see a girl that looks feminine, athletic, European/white/South American, I'm always honest to them in that I find them attractive when I approach them. Is that the right way to go? I find that honesty works well with them
/r/seduction08/10/18 01:33 AM
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Numbers over snapchat dude
/r/seduction08/10/18 01:28 AM
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Good post. Statement of empathy is what I do since it shows social intelligence too
/r/seduction06/10/18 08:10 PM
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How do you pick a winner without seeming like a dick? Do you flirt with al the girls there?
/r/seduction05/10/18 12:25 AM
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How early do you go for the kiss? I had a date last week where the girl briefly mentioned she had fetishes and then changed the subject. I kissed her for a peck before she said "she doesn't kiss on the first date". Did I do something wrong there?
/r/seduction04/10/18 11:36 PM
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I mean, it's more of I've gotten 3 dates in the last 2 weeks with tinder, kissed one and seeing her again. Though they are decent quality girls and 2 of those 3 were attractive to me, they weren't my usual type. When I approach a girl IRL, most of the time I go for the athletic/sporty girl since fitness is a massive part of my life, and I qualify them with saying do you work out etc, which I find to be a massively attractive trait in women. Is it also weird that I feel a sense of accomplishment …
/r/seduction04/10/18 11:35 PM
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That's why I've scheduled weekday dates during the daytime since I gym at night.
/r/seduction04/10/18 11:30 PM
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Making assumptions I've found for both IRL and in person is a great way to get them talking
/r/seduction04/10/18 11:29 PM
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hmm. I've gotten a few tinder numbers and just realized that don't have that much time to see them all on dates (I like to get to know them before anything happens). Could this happen?
/r/seduction04/10/18 11:28 PM
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Just say hi, and be honest/direct. Even when you get rejected most of the time they are flattered/happy that you talked to them. Also realize they won't fix your life.
/r/seduction04/10/18 11:27 PM
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Majority of women you talk to are maybe girls. (most of them will lean towards no, but the same). If a girl asks you for your name after you've already exchanged names is that a good sign?
/r/seduction04/10/18 11:26 PM
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Since I'm not as direct as you, I usually go "Hey, it's (my name), let's do coffee/drinks/whatever on x day. Is that good enough? I leave compliments/sexual jokes for face to face convo
/r/seduction04/10/18 11:24 PM
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The better thing to do would be to ask her for advice (even if it's for something you know the answer too).
/r/seduction04/10/18 11:23 PM
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Could you help with my situation: so a girl and I have had eye contact over a few months etc, but it's once in a while. month ago I introduced myself at a machine, exchanged names. I've only seen her in the gym once since then. What should I say next if we cross paths? I love to be direct, but in this case I on purpose wasn't.
/r/seduction04/10/18 11:22 PM
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Yeah, I mean I never approach women in the gym unless I either get eye contact before hand or we've passed each other a few times and are regulars there and I'm just introducing yourself. Spam approaching is a sure way to get kicked out of a gym. And if you're going to approach, you have to be a regular.
/r/seduction04/10/18 11:20 PM
2

Same. I don't hate it, and have met quality women too but there's something about the thrill and chase of an in person interaction, seeing her get excited and acting feminine around you which is awesome
/r/seduction04/10/18 11:19 PM
2

I don't think it's a hard no, some women don't jump right back into dating after a breakup, especially if it's a LDR. But I'd talk to other women, don't cut her off, and put it on the backburner.
/r/seduction04/10/18 11:17 PM
1

To add to this, pick and choose at the gym. One of my gyms has a turf area which makes it easier to talk to women while resting, but at max do 2 girls in one session to approach.
/r/seduction04/10/18 09:35 PM
5

What I've done is this: approach if she's using a machine/has weights that you want to use/is using a bench you need etc... and just ask how many sets she has left/is she using it. If she seems upbeat, talk to her a bit about what's she's training and go from there. If not, then just thank her and get back to your training. Only get her number if you feel attraction there, if not just exchange names, if you know you'll see her again and then go from there. If you're more social on the gym you wi…
/r/seduction04/10/18 09:34 PM
3

I pick and choose my sets. I could do 100 sets in 1-2 weeks if I wanted to but I might get 10 numbers. Rather get 5 solid ones out of 15-20 approaches than that. EDIT (with the weather becoming colder, it's harder to do more sets during allotted time)
/r/seduction04/10/18 09:23 PM
2

Only try to attract girls you're into. I had a date with a girl this past week that I didn't find attractive at all and it was horrible. Don't be with someone since you don't want to be alone. Being ok with yourself being on your own is critical, since this other person won't fix your life.
/r/seduction04/10/18 09:22 PM
1

How can I do that?
/r/seduction04/10/18 02:21 AM
1

Is what they say about girls from x city true? As an example
/r/seduction03/10/18 09:36 PM
1

If you're talking to a random/new girl, and you've been direct, you're flirting with each other.
/r/seduction03/10/18 09:36 PM
1

Yes, but for online dates, go for average girls and see where it goes
/r/seduction03/10/18 09:35 PM
1

Thanks. I've been having issues getting convos going on first dates. Should I go more comfort than attraction first for stories?
/r/seduction03/10/18 09:34 PM
3

No. A woman's face is the most attractive part about her, and as long as she's not overweight the rest of her body doesn't matter.
/r/seduction03/10/18 09:33 PM
2

I like this post, but meeting 100 new people is a better goal than just approaching 100 women. Still mix in women of course to meet but solely focusing on it is a fools errand. Being more social helps out more.
/r/seduction03/10/18 09:32 PM
2

Yeah I agree. Even if it doesn't lead to anything, those are the only times I regret not saying hi
/r/seduction03/10/18 06:04 PM
1

I was with a girl the other day, she stopped at almost every dog to say how cute it was. It's nuts
/r/seduction02/10/18 12:03 PM
1

Talk to one indirectly
/r/seduction01/10/18 11:09 PM
6

Get a pic with a dog, works wonders. And approach in real life too. Tinder/online dating should be supplements for your dating/social life.
/r/seduction01/10/18 11:01 PM
3

Just approach and say hi. You never know, and girls won't fix your life
/r/seduction01/10/18 10:19 PM
1

Also nobody cares if you get rejected around you assuming its total strangers
/r/seduction01/10/18 10:18 PM
1

Fwiw, she said she does to, but just the next block she's free she wants to do something. Our schedules barely line up as is
/r/seduction29/09/18 01:27 PM
1

I think just using social intelligence is key here. If she has headphones in/studying/reading etc, mention that instead of just going hey.
/r/seduction23/09/18 07:07 PM
3

I mean you build some comfort after getting them off the app to #, IG, whatever, then ask them out a few days later. Going for the meetup the day you match them doesn't work most of the time
/r/seduction23/09/18 07:06 PM
1

pm me
/r/seduction18/09/18 09:56 PM
1

Not the best opener. Use your social intelligence instead
/r/seduction18/09/18 09:55 PM
1

If you're at around average, some girls won't like you, some will most are indifferent. Luck of the draw
/r/seduction17/09/18 10:40 PM
1

Great post!
/r/seduction17/09/18 10:39 PM
5

How can I communicate value? I work out, try to learn game, approach bit and do self improvement. I know the world owes me nothing but hell it sucks. I don't hide my intentions either
/r/seduction16/09/18 11:27 PM
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I've done that for literally 3+ years, any non generic advice?
/r/seduction16/09/18 11:21 PM
2

Interesting advice
/r/seduction14/09/18 08:28 PM
2

Way too much text without a purpose
/r/seduction14/09/18 08:27 PM
1

For non approaches/in person meetings I'm talking about dating app matches though
/r/seduction11/09/18 01:47 AM
1

What if she doesn't give out her snap online? Just use IG/FB and make a connection in person and then do that. I never ask for anything but a number if it's a girl I'll never see again or unlikely too
/r/seduction11/09/18 01:05 AM
1

As it's been said before, tinder should be a supplement for your own dating life, behind social circle and IRL interactions
/r/seduction05/09/18 07:05 PM
2

getting conversations is harder than getting matches tbh
/r/seduction05/09/18 01:20 AM
3

Like that thread yesterday, apps should be a supplement for IRL interactions.
/r/seduction05/09/18 01:20 AM
2

Yes. I reset my account once a week since you're at the back of the pile + conversation expire
/r/seduction05/09/18 01:19 AM
2

Anywhere, as long as you use social intelligence
/r/seduction04/09/18 03:25 PM
2

This is the best advice. Or ask her to count/time/record the activity your doing and go from there
/r/seduction03/09/18 11:27 PM
2

Based Zeus line
/r/seduction03/09/18 11:26 PM
9

Great mindset
/r/seduction02/09/18 03:25 AM
2

Yeah, I've had this happen to me where early she was at least interested, but then I go way too slow, and didn't push it along since she's friends with a few guys in my social circle and it would be awkward. We've talked since then, but ever since she asked me if I liked her (I said I saw her as a friend, due to the whole social group stuff) it's not the same spark that was there early. So it's not impossible, but you gotta be a complete different person why you talk to her again, and you have t…
/r/seduction30/08/18 10:57 PM
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Say hi
/r/seduction30/08/18 10:55 PM
1

Thanks. So to keep the convo going but related then?
/r/seduction29/08/18 11:20 PM
2

As long as he isn't hideous, make a dating app account or more. If he gets matches then the fact of the girl thinking about banging him has come across her mind enough to swipe right.
/r/seduction29/08/18 05:00 PM
1

as an aside, what would you text a girl on facebook who you talked to for a minute but didn't have a deep convo with? I approached her a while back, was direct but she was really busy so I could only get her FB. (I like to build some rapport before asking for a number)
/r/seduction29/08/18 04:59 PM
1

if OP's in the states then yeah, but in Canada for example, it depends if your school is known as a party school
/r/seduction29/08/18 04:03 PM
2

you should be making plans for next time in person before texting. It makes the other party decide if they want to see you again which avoids you being hung out to dry
/r/seduction29/08/18 03:59 PM
4

in that case, it was only creepy since the guy didn't try to talk to her, and when she isn't interested (as the post seems like) take the social cue and leave
/r/seduction29/08/18 03:58 PM
6

which you can sometimes tell by the way their bio/photos are set up.
/r/seduction29/08/18 03:54 PM
3

His thing is true for outgoing/party/service industry girls but for reserved/shy ones it isn't.
/r/seduction29/08/18 03:54 PM
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Lifestyle: she might not be a party girl. Depending on her age, it is rare for a woman to not enjoy bars and parties, but there are always those who don't. She might even go out once in a while to stay social and to meet men, but she would rather not have to. Maybe she is interested in a serious relationship or in a friends with benefits that can go to her house and spend the afternoon or evening with her once or twice a week. Or maybe she just want a one night stand but with a guy that isn't dr…
/r/seduction29/08/18 03:52 PM
2

Depends, some are on there for validation, others are legit lonely and looking for someone. Quality varies.
/r/seduction29/08/18 03:48 PM
2

meh, at his age those thoughts are common. He'll be back in a few years
/r/seduction29/08/18 03:47 PM
0

Don't have a car since I live in a major city on transit, it's common
/r/seduction28/08/18 08:28 PM
1

Thanks. Should you always be asking questions in each text to get to know each other more in long term situations?
/r/askTRP27/08/18 10:33 PM
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She was probably overweight TBH. I wasn't that interested in her other than maybe one time
/r/askTRP27/08/18 10:31 PM
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FWIW her bio was sexual and my first comment was too. Is it better to just go for logistics and "hanging out" (read:hookup) since she's leaving in a week anyways
/r/seduction27/08/18 09:17 PM
1

Ask a stranger/Craigslist for cheap photographer, use timer on your phone. Being close to popular places/tourist attractions will lead to better chances of a stranger saying yes to take your picture
/r/seduction27/08/18 09:04 PM
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No idea how to do so. In the future I will. But what advice do you have here?
/r/seduction27/08/18 09:04 PM
1

Yeah, there's a difference between a girl saying "I have a boyfriend after your opener", and I have boyfriend after a short length convo when you ask her out/ask for a phone number. Former could be legit, or could be a shit test. Latter is usually genuine, especially if they seem enthused that you asked.
/r/seduction27/08/18 06:03 PM
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Does it matter to be direct/indirect? As unlike day time, the statement of intent is meaningless no, since women expect to get hit on at bars/clubs vs the daytime?
/r/seduction25/08/18 10:55 PM
1

Dude this is a great comment. At times I even forget that Manson quote from time to time
/r/seduction25/08/18 09:24 PM
1

Was looking for attraction for a 2nd date. Since she was from abroad and not sure about staying long term just something casual
/r/seduction25/08/18 08:04 PM
1

6'2 above sea level, and the zodiac line
/r/seduction25/08/18 05:42 PM
2

Lines 3 and 7 (minus the Tl:dr) are good and is enough
/r/seduction25/08/18 04:34 PM
1

True though from rsdmax, if she's still there it's an IOI. I maybe could've bounced earlier after an hour to save it but meh. If she was hotter I would've gotten bolder
/r/seduction25/08/18 01:52 AM
1

Yeah she seemed cool at first but was boring a bit after the first hour. For the next girl how physical should I get? Early?
/r/askTRP25/08/18 12:16 AM
1

Any other advice? I get that but still
/r/askTRP25/08/18 12:07 AM
1

Just say anything, especially honestly if that girl smiled at you
/r/askTRP25/08/18 12:03 AM
1

That's true. It's just getting out of my head which is the biggest issue
/r/seduction22/08/18 11:53 PM
2

Hmm. Interested
/r/seduction22/08/18 11:03 PM
1

Everybody gets rejected but the true "rejections" are the harsh ones where you get blown out. I can count on one hand how many times it's been that bad for me. Idk if that's normal though
/r/seduction22/08/18 09:42 PM
2

Most guys here aren't ugly, just average
/r/seduction22/08/18 09:40 PM
2

What's going on around us at the time
/r/seduction22/08/18 09:39 PM
1

The thing is for me, I don't think she's too attractive, to not talk to her, it's just judging before how well the approach would go via her body language and if that's the main thing that is hurting my progress right now.
/r/seduction21/08/18 11:40 PM
1

Any more advice? I kinda already do that
/r/seduction21/08/18 11:22 PM
3

Social circle should be the #1 source not pickup, is a mindset I'm starting to believe more and more
/r/seduction20/08/18 09:36 PM
5

Tl:dw?
/r/seduction20/08/18 09:35 PM
1

Really? Seems low investment
/r/seduction20/08/18 09:34 PM
1

How can you apply this in a specific sense?
/r/seduction20/08/18 09:34 PM
1

True but before the last decade or so, work was the easiest way for people to meet their partners
/r/seduction20/08/18 07:55 PM
1

Couldn't you just approach and let her know then? That's why cold is better for attraction.
/r/seduction20/08/18 06:19 PM
3

Rsdmax, that's it. Todd's new channel has the best content IMO of all of the rsd/former guys
/r/seduction19/08/18 12:11 AM
2

Looks get you in the door but don't help you past that. Girls can find you attractive but if you're boring in conversation, and not a great personality overall they will be turned off
/r/seduction18/08/18 11:59 PM
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No, it's a numbers game. Some women will think you're not attractive while others think you're handsome. But yeah, you never know when the next girl in your life appears. The motto of this sub should be, just take action.
/r/seduction18/08/18 11:56 PM
1

How old are you? Potentially interested
/r/seduction18/08/18 11:54 PM
3

Saved. That's good advice
/r/seduction18/08/18 02:18 PM
2

Any good cheap options?
/r/seduction18/08/18 02:16 PM
1

Yeah you seem kinda cold hearted there
/r/seduction18/08/18 02:05 PM
1

Just go up and talk to her
/r/seduction17/08/18 10:42 PM
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Cool post!
/r/seduction17/08/18 10:29 PM
1

Gut instinct
/r/seduction17/08/18 09:47 PM
1

That's a decent one
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:48 PM
1

Thanks. I talked to her during the day and she seemed like a cool person to talk to so maybe the talk about vacation stuff could be a better date
/r/seduction17/08/18 02:01 AM
2

Yes I meet her during the daytime, though she's gone for 2 weeks on vacation this weekend.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 01:27 AM
1

Ok. Maybe I should just text her tomorrow and hen schedule a meet a few weeks down the road then?
/r/seduction17/08/18 12:27 AM
1

Idk. Talked to her and got her #.
/r/seduction16/08/18 11:29 PM
1

problem is she goes away for vacation on saturday for a few weeks. Any examples you've used?
/r/seduction16/08/18 11:02 PM
1

Never get a number without a purpose
/r/seduction16/08/18 05:20 PM
1

For bumble, yes.
/r/seduction16/08/18 05:19 PM
1

Talk to some girls and see where it goes
/r/seduction16/08/18 05:17 PM
1

Unless it's samples 99% of people wouldn't
/r/seduction16/08/18 05:14 PM
1

Don't go in with the intention of flirting, just go in and have fun.
/r/seduction16/08/18 05:12 PM
2

Oh, so you make eye contact for 1-2 seconds before hand and then entire talk to them or not. Cause if that's the case then I see that happen a bit too.
/r/seduction15/08/18 03:08 AM
1

What do you mean by catching girls warming up?
/r/seduction15/08/18 03:02 AM
2

And get the # instead of snapchat.
/r/seduction15/08/18 02:39 AM
2

That's good. When a girl who is taken eats up what you're saying, it means it would've worked if she was single. It's a confidence booster
/r/seduction15/08/18 02:38 AM
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No. if you're having that conversation and attraction is already there, it's a good thing to do.
/r/seduction15/08/18 12:45 AM
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If the girls into you it's a no issue
/r/seduction15/08/18 12:45 AM
1

Even if the BF line is false, you're wasting your time. If she was interested she wouldn't have brought it up
/r/seduction15/08/18 12:43 AM
0

Proof?
/r/seduction14/08/18 07:21 PM
1

Yup
/r/seduction14/08/18 06:21 PM
1

Even if you haven't texted her for a while?
/r/seduction14/08/18 06:20 PM
1

Tinder fake gps trick is that start an account, and wait for some likes. Once you've been liked a small amount, slide the distance down to the minimum, and most women outside that distance are a match since they already swiped right
/r/seduction14/08/18 03:21 AM
1

Yeah, though max has good YouTube vids with solid game + life advice, I wouldn't pay for it, they way that you described it. This sub is more helpful, with that it will help you proceeding it's free. Not to mention tons of good YouTube content on game/lifestyle advice from: Todd valentine, howtobeast, based Zeus, alpha m, teaching men's fashion etc.
/r/seduction14/08/18 03:11 AM
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Todd has his own YouTube channel which is better than most of RSD's work. Max's YouTube videos are good, but you don't need to pay for his programs
/r/seduction14/08/18 03:09 AM
1

Mostly white
/r/seduction13/08/18 07:23 PM
1

Would like to add: be direct in your approach if it's a girl you know you won't see likely again. If you ask for directions and don't cut them off mid way while still talking to her you're not being honest
/r/seduction13/08/18 05:58 PM
3

How come until like 2010 or so workplace was one of the most common ways to meet a partner?
/r/seduction13/08/18 05:56 PM
16

If looks were 100% the whole thing you wouldn't see ugly guys with attractive women. As the post said they matter but to an extent.
/r/seduction13/08/18 05:55 PM
7

Always approach on a double take
/r/seduction12/08/18 05:07 PM
1

Report and move on.
/r/seduction12/08/18 01:10 PM
1

I get that but how can I get invited to stuff like that?
/r/seduction12/08/18 02:53 AM
1

Thanks dude. I try to be that so continuing that sounds good. So just try to put the idea of a party on their head?
/r/seduction12/08/18 12:38 AM
1

Thanks. My only close friends are out of the country right now so I'm kinda lonely right now. One more thing: how do you get invited to them?
/r/seduction12/08/18 12:30 AM
1

I try to be, but it fizzles out. I know I'm probably the problem so what can I fix? I have no idea how to party
/r/seduction12/08/18 12:26 AM
1

So I have to initiate? I mean I set up plans and get flaked on all the time
/r/seduction12/08/18 12:19 AM
1

That's the thing. I have no idea where to find a party, since I've never been to a non-birthday one in my life. Should I ask my friends if he knows of any going on soon?
/r/seduction12/08/18 12:13 AM
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In these cases where you haven't built any physical contact, yes or any contact info
/r/seduction11/08/18 11:39 PM
1

How can you get a girl out if you don't text her
/r/seduction11/08/18 11:21 PM
8

Stop responding to this guy. He's a spammer
/r/seduction11/08/18 11:20 PM
85

Always be closing
/r/seduction11/08/18 09:57 PM
4

Next. A woman who is interested will give you her # if she's at least intrigued. You could send a Hail Mary message out of this but it's up to you
/r/seduction11/08/18 09:50 PM
2

Same spammer.
/r/seduction11/08/18 09:48 PM
3

I mean emotions get a woman to think about you so of course it's good. Just not as it's mentioned here
/r/seduction11/08/18 08:22 PM
3

Spam. Enough
/r/seduction11/08/18 08:22 PM
2

Confirmation bias?
/r/seduction11/08/18 08:21 PM
1

Oh I get that, but the 2) was talking about girls who's #s I already have, offline. Is it the same?
/r/seduction11/08/18 12:10 AM
1

Not asking out a co-worker/classmate in person
/r/seduction10/08/18 11:54 PM
1

Thanks. I've read that going for the meet as the 2nd text is best. Is that true? Just say hey I'm going to x at x, you should come along
/r/seduction10/08/18 11:52 PM
2

Really? Though it's a workplace
/r/seduction10/08/18 11:43 PM
1

Wow that is something that I should add to my conversations. Women loving emotions is something that I've grown to accept
/r/seduction10/08/18 11:18 PM
1

That's true, so what's a good text to send to girls who I got their #s a while back?
/r/seduction10/08/18 11:16 PM
1

Yeah I get that since there's girl I know IRL that are very attractive and have low numbers or no social media at all
/r/seduction10/08/18 11:15 PM
3

Invite her out for something. You build enough comfort
/r/seduction10/08/18 09:15 PM
1

I get that. But it's more about realizing who has more value which sucks I guess
/r/seduction10/08/18 09:13 PM
1

How can you speak with emotions?
/r/seduction10/08/18 09:13 PM
1

If your'e at least 5'8 women don't care about height. I'm 5'10 1/2, and like I can count on one hand how many girls I've talked to and like that are noticeably taller than me.
/r/seduction10/08/18 05:07 PM
1

so fake. Post an imgur picture of yourself and the username so we know you're at least a scammer
/r/seduction10/08/18 04:57 PM
2

I mean we all do. Though we try not to, all of us will fall for a girl who either breaks our hearts or we break theirs. sucks, but it's true
/r/seduction10/08/18 04:57 PM
1

Maybe a FWB benefits deal if you ever come back? I mean some girl messaged me a while back that she was in the city for a bit, but was leaving the next few days. I was busy, but I asked for her whatsapp so that whenever she's in town we could hang. It could be ASD, but also could be her wanting you to be a FWB or something like that.
/r/seduction10/08/18 04:53 PM
1

No other advice??
/r/seduction10/08/18 03:11 AM
1

most of this is true, though strong eye contact and asking questions are two ones that are reliable most of the time. Hair play is ambiguous at best
/r/seduction09/08/18 10:54 PM
5

spam
/r/seduction09/08/18 10:52 PM
1

Any free advice from that course?
/r/seduction09/08/18 08:45 PM
1

It's going to be difficult in your case
/r/seduction09/08/18 05:18 PM
1

Oh so she has a good sense of humour
/r/seduction09/08/18 12:52 PM
4

Make some assumptions about her while teasing her
/r/seduction09/08/18 12:52 PM
1

Who cares if it's a part time job
/r/seduction09/08/18 12:51 PM
2

Some of them will be into what you're into, that's an unfair characterization
/r/seduction08/08/18 09:22 PM
4

this stuff is from 2012, so yeah
/r/seduction08/08/18 03:51 PM
34

saved. This is good material
/r/seduction08/08/18 03:43 PM
2

That's true, but I like saying it off the bat so she knows it's a man to woman conversation
/r/seduction08/08/18 12:33 PM
1

Yes. Just remove it from the apps you use on Facebook each time you create a new account.
/r/seduction08/08/18 03:33 AM
2

That's an interesting line.
/r/seduction08/08/18 03:32 AM
2

Say hey I thought you were cute so I had to say hi.
/r/seduction08/08/18 03:32 AM
3

Oh and too add, you can just use your phone # to create new accounts without FB
/r/seduction07/08/18 11:53 PM
2

Saved
/r/seduction07/08/18 11:37 PM
2

Have outcome independence
/r/seduction07/08/18 09:25 PM
1

Go for what you want
/r/seduction07/08/18 05:44 PM
1

If you talk to 10 random attractive girls on the street/sitting down wherever, there's a good chance at least 1 will find you attractive too.
/r/seduction07/08/18 02:53 PM
26

Dude, asking her out to go for hiking would've been better. It's still being direct
/r/seduction07/08/18 02:05 PM
1

Yeah. Once in a while you'll get a girl asking for your number, but mostly you have to initiate. You could be a handsome MFer but women won't approach you during the day time. People are just wired that way
/r/seduction07/08/18 01:52 PM
44

He could've asked her out for an activity before the number. Never ask for a number without a purpose
/r/seduction07/08/18 01:51 PM
1

Pretty much this. I had a similar situation where our wires got crossed up for a date and she did similar things (asked for my number, initiated texts, touched me first) and I let it slip. Attraction has an expiry window
/r/seduction07/08/18 01:00 PM
3

"fuck it". If you feel there's a moment you should kiss her, do it. Lord knows I've had a few other those where I should've kissed her but didn't. You have nothing to lose
/r/seduction07/08/18 12:56 PM
1

Some girls are on tinder for validation, others legit want to meet up and date
/r/seduction07/08/18 12:56 PM
2

You seem needy AF
/r/seduction07/08/18 12:55 PM
8

Keep on doing that stuff but say "fuck" it more
/r/seduction07/08/18 12:54 PM
0

that's gold, minus the drunk thing
/r/seduction06/08/18 11:22 PM
1

Stop.
/r/seduction06/08/18 10:46 PM
1

No.
/r/seduction06/08/18 07:51 PM
1

the tension is deflated?
/r/seduction06/08/18 07:02 PM
1

max is good, so is based zeus
/r/seduction06/08/18 06:50 PM
3

try one more time
/r/seduction06/08/18 06:28 PM
1

This guy is spam
/r/seduction06/08/18 02:50 PM
1

Some girls will think you're not attractive and reclusive while other ones think you're hot as hell.
/r/seduction05/08/18 11:33 PM
1

Tl:dw?
/r/seduction05/08/18 11:32 PM
1

Women care about looks, but it's with things like confidence, social skills, personality, survival instincts etc as a package. Men (obviously guilty of this) care about looks and looks only with maybe personality as a 2nd thing in a woman. Looks get you in the door but don't help you get further unless you're a literal model which even good looking guys are not.
/r/seduction05/08/18 11:31 PM
1

If it's someone who's friends with someone you're friends with in real life, then no. Completely random girls, yes
/r/seduction05/08/18 11:28 PM
2

What is your bio then for reference?
/r/seduction05/08/18 01:53 AM
0

Indicator of disinterest
/r/seduction05/08/18 01:01 AM
1

Instagram.com/will (double underscore) brom
/r/seduction04/08/18 11:05 PM
1

If used the qualification thing for coffee/drinks/whatever online and have had moderate results from it. It plants the date idea in her head without asking her out, no?
/r/seduction04/08/18 09:05 PM
1

It's an rsd principle from max, but "the moment you talk to a new girl, you win" doesn't matter if you get ejected or you found someone great. That's l it is
/r/seduction04/08/18 08:59 PM
2

I just watch the YouTube vids
/r/seduction04/08/18 08:58 PM
1

If you're using cheesy pickup lines then yeah. If you're being honest while approaching her, no. I've had a girl recently tell me she admired my guts to approach her, cause I was direct.
/r/seduction04/08/18 08:55 PM
1

No. there are attractive women that I'm just not attracted to that I'm friends with (a few). Try to find conventionally attractive women in say a dance/salsa/fitness class/hobby group and go into talking to them by being social/friendly
/r/seduction04/08/18 08:50 PM
1

So be honest about approaching then
/r/seduction04/08/18 08:49 PM
0

It's a IOD but still doesn't mean it's impossible
/r/seduction04/08/18 08:49 PM
1

That's what I prioritize
/r/seduction04/08/18 01:59 AM
0

It's the pink elephant theory.
/r/seduction03/08/18 06:21 PM
7

Not exactly. I'm into sports and they don't chase me
/r/seduction03/08/18 01:41 PM
3

Anyone have a tl:dw?
/r/seduction03/08/18 01:06 PM
1

That is a good mindset. How often do you approach
/r/seduction03/08/18 01:31 AM
1

Same, the feeling of knowing I should be taking action sucks sometimes. How did you get over it
/r/seduction03/08/18 12:59 AM
1

Have you ever done that
/r/seduction03/08/18 12:28 AM
2

Even women that are walking fast?
/r/seduction03/08/18 12:20 AM
2

Great job man!
/r/seduction02/08/18 11:55 PM
1

Holy crap that might work but is it the inside or outside middle do your teeth
/r/seduction02/08/18 11:42 PM
3

She sounds not like a quality girl TBH
/r/seduction02/08/18 11:24 PM
1

Burner account
/r/seduction02/08/18 11:24 PM
1

Unless they're crazy, no.
/r/seduction02/08/18 11:22 PM
2

Just do it
/r/seduction02/08/18 09:35 PM
5

I mean if you aren't physically attractive it's harder though, right? Though you're talking about being at least average looking (face/physique/hygiene) etc
/r/seduction02/08/18 06:23 PM
1

Well yes
/r/seduction02/08/18 05:04 PM
3

I don't consider a tinder girl to be a possibility until I at least get her number and even then it's a coin flip And to add to your point, maybe slip in a question before hand if she likes coffee or drinks so it puts the date idea in her head without you asking her out first. It's a bit more smooth.
/r/seduction02/08/18 05:02 PM
0

well yes, but I've never had a convo this long with someone from tinder on the app
/r/seduction02/08/18 04:48 PM
1

So text like once a week or so?
/r/seduction02/08/18 04:19 PM
1

Either go direct if it's on the street, or make an observation in a crowded place. If she is responsive then go into your intent, and say she's cute/whatever/invite her out for a drink. You can tell quickly through their response level if they're interested or at least intrigued by you.
/r/seduction02/08/18 04:17 PM
1

I'm not an upper echelon guy and it's been ok
/r/seduction02/08/18 04:15 PM
1

No, but once you get to around 30 or so, you should pick and choose your targets if you don't like younger girls. So go to a location that fits your needs essentially
/r/seduction02/08/18 04:14 PM
1

The cute/attractive/like your style line would've been better cause it still shows your intentions but isn't needy like do you have a boyfriend line. If she has a serious BF then when you either try to talk more/ask her out for coffee/whatever she'll bring it up.
/r/seduction02/08/18 04:13 PM
2

I would've just said Hey I thought you were cute/attractive so I had to say hi. And then gone from there. If she has a serious BF she will say it pretty quickly when you go direct.
/r/seduction02/08/18 04:12 PM
2

what are some of those options that would "kick the pants off dating apps"?
/r/seduction02/08/18 04:10 PM
2

how can you tell if there's sexual tension?
/r/seduction02/08/18 04:07 PM
4

In OP's case, I'd imagine he's fairly good looking, but not male model material. Which means girls give off ton of IOIs, but never open you. I'm not that good looking, but above average in looks, so I get IOIs once in a while, but girls won't approach you. You have to make the first move. They can come close to you, smile etc, but they still won't talk to you first. And just show intent, if it's a random girl that you want to talk to, tell her when you open here than you find her cute/attractive…
/r/seduction02/08/18 04:06 PM
8

They see your failure to capitalize on their interest as either rejection or disinterest. Men usually still have to make the first move.
/r/seduction02/08/18 04:03 PM
0

Why didn't you ask for her number long before setting the date up?
/r/seduction02/08/18 03:29 PM
3

Not even close
/r/seduction02/08/18 12:09 AM
1

Yes
/r/seduction01/08/18 08:57 PM
1

that's a good post. But I think I have the opposite of one-itis, where I can't fall for a girl at all or think about her more than other women. Sometimes I get a number or two and then completely forget to text them until weeks later if at all. It's not disinterest, it's just that I'm not a big texting fan, so that could play into it. What advice would you have for someone who has the complete opposite traits of being needy?
/r/seduction01/08/18 05:42 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/seduction01/08/18 05:32 PM
1

I get where you are coming from, but why wouldn't you have just gone on say a coffee date? Less pressure than sitting down for food and you could've done something interesting rather than just talking sitting, and maybe connected on something.
/r/seduction01/08/18 05:19 PM
20

Do you live in a rural area? I mean I've gotten matches within 1KM too, but I live in a dense place
/r/seduction01/08/18 05:16 PM
1

Cool. So how would you contest if there was some attraction?
/r/askTRP01/08/18 01:01 AM
1

She's the first approach I've had in a while where it was clear early she was disinterested, monotone. Even when I have been rejected it's been with more gusto. She was just so blasé
/r/askTRP01/08/18 12:48 AM
1

Indirect approach and don't ask her out unless you can tell she's into you.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 12:16 AM
2

Try again. Why not
/r/seduction01/08/18 12:16 AM
1

I get that. This is about when you approach a girl and about a minute in or so she says that.
/r/seduction01/08/18 12:15 AM
1

Get a buzzcut. Might look like shit but some guys respect you more
/r/askTRP01/08/18 12:07 AM
2

1 then done if they don't offer another day. 2 if they offer another day. But if it happens 3 times, just say goodbye.
/r/seduction01/08/18 12:04 AM
1

Agree but even if she didn't it's not worth the hastle, no?
/r/seduction31/07/18 11:56 PM
1

What should my 2nd pic be? I have a decent background gym one done by my photographer friend and a team sport pic with girls in it. My first is just me and a dog which somehow works
/r/askTRP31/07/18 11:54 PM
1

So it's more of looking for subtle IOIs like proximity/subtle eye contact etc? Any more?
/r/askTRP31/07/18 11:47 PM
1

I mean even if you increase your attractiveness, some girls just won't be into your type. It happens
/r/askTRP31/07/18 11:43 PM
2

It also drives your urge to approach
/r/askTRP31/07/18 11:42 PM
23

Dude most girls never text/message first even if they're into you
/r/seduction31/07/18 11:29 PM
3

Just approach them.
/r/seduction31/07/18 11:29 PM
2

what do you use
/r/seduction31/07/18 07:27 PM
1

How do you do foreplay on apps
/r/seduction31/07/18 07:20 PM
1

Just approach and be direct while honest
/r/seduction31/07/18 05:31 PM
2

Or use apps to practice joke/rapport. but with actual numbers I agree, maybe make a callback joke/observation 1-2 times but then get to the logistics
/r/seduction31/07/18 05:25 PM
1

You can use your number without facebook now
/r/seduction31/07/18 05:22 PM
1

his youtube vids are enough
/r/seduction31/07/18 05:22 PM
1

I mean watch/read their free stuff, sure but don't pay for their services unless you really want to. There's enough decent free content on youtube/other sites that it isn't needed.
/r/seduction31/07/18 05:22 PM
2

most apps do to. You can also tell by their photos for the most part if they're into drinking a bit. I have no issues with girls drinking, but if it's in every photo you know you aren't compatible with them
/r/seduction31/07/18 05:19 PM
4

enough.
/r/seduction31/07/18 05:18 PM
6

stop trolling dude
/r/seduction31/07/18 05:17 PM
1

If that's the type of line that works I'll legit have that as my bio and see how it does. Cheesy one is kinda like this "I cook a 4 course meal in my easy bake oven, once a rattlesnake bite me, it died 4 days later from the pain, bacon enthusiast etc." A parody of self humour + a play on the most interesting man in the world commercial quotes
/r/seduction31/07/18 03:46 PM
1

Dude enough
/r/seduction31/07/18 01:25 AM
1

Most of them usually are
/r/seduction30/07/18 11:01 PM
3

Then do it, shoot your shot
/r/seduction30/07/18 11:01 PM
3

I usually do. It's only cause we made eye contact t TBH
/r/seduction30/07/18 11:00 PM
1

I get that. It was just that it looked like maybe she was maybe she wasn't
/r/askTRP30/07/18 10:57 PM
1

I agree. I've only approached with headphones before if the girl is sitting down/not moving.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 10:56 PM
1

Approach girls with intent. They won't treat you like a friend
/r/seduction30/07/18 10:40 PM
2

Try to talk to her first
/r/seduction30/07/18 10:39 PM
1

Meant to say feminist hair (blue/pink)
/r/seduction30/07/18 10:35 PM
1

Could you give off a sample bio that isn't yours but has the same tone as yours? I go for the cheesy one I've seen here a bit
/r/seduction30/07/18 06:24 PM
2

It can be done, but you gotta be careful and use social intelligence. Firstly, don't approach if there's a ton of people around and never go direct, even if the girl is giving you signs. Go indirect, ask how many sets does she have left. Then just ask about what exercise she's doing, or I've seen you around for a bit in the gym, would be rude if I didn't introduce myself etc (if it's something you don't do, ask her what does it do, how can you do it), for a small bit. If she gives off short answ…
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:53 PM
1

Yup. But in your case, girls that talk for that long in the gym are interested in you, so that's kinda of a layup. I've only had that happen to me once recently. I just asked her what you said here and the we exchanged numbers. In other cases, most of the time if the girl talks back in will be for a few minutes. Go indirect, ask her what she's working on today, what she does, make a few assumptions if you think she's interested at least a small bit etc. If you can't really tell her interest leve…
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:48 PM
3

Maybe 1-2 times total. But she's out of the country, so she likely isn't thinking of you
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:44 PM
1

Which gym do you go to? If it's a school gym you can get away with the pretense of being social, which is amplified if the staff there sees you talking to your friends/people there the whole time (happens where I go). As long as you go indirect you should be fine. Never go direct in a gym since even if the girl is into you, some other person nearby could be offended and report you (unlikely, but that's what being direct is). Direct in general should be for people that you know will have a 99.9% …
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:35 PM
1

Depends on how often he uses it, what time etc. It's not as bad as a job, but tread water carefully
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:32 PM
1

jesus that sounds awful
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:31 PM
1

While tinder can be a good supplement, you're more likelier to find compatible people both short and long term during the day and sometimes at night. If it's a bookstore/gym (yes I know)/school/class/shop/park you're likelier to have the same values and interests than a random chick who liked you for your looks only.
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:30 PM
2

Ironically for this guy I would suggest getting coffee and then going to a park nearby.
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:27 PM
1

Tinder's weird. I use the same pics/bio on bumble for the most part and I get more matches on tinder and have matched with some cute girls. Bumble I'm lucky if the girl is more attractive than I am. How do you go on those dates? I've gotten numbers from the app on the premise of meeting up but sometimes I feel to direct about it.
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:26 PM
6

I asked if we should meet face-to-face for a coffee or sth. No. Say "lets get coffee, or how about we grab it on x day" Lead the interaction.
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:25 PM
4

Put her on the backburner, she isn't a total writeoff but don't worry about her for 2 weeks
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:24 PM
2

Is there a difference between suggesting a date activity/place in conversation (I know of this place, we should go/have you heard of/have you been to) but you don't say a specific date? I've found recently that doing that then asking for their schedule leads to better numbers from online apps.
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:18 PM
1

How come there's more active users on tinder vs bumble?
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:16 PM
1

Good point. I mean a better shirtless one would be you playing soccer/outdoor sport that doesn't have you looking at the camera. What type of demo does your bio go after? Humor? Seriousness?
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:16 PM
1

Best ones for pictures are: a) Get a picture with a dog/other adorable animal b) Get a picture that shows off your physique, either clothed or shirtless. Though with shirtless it should be you doing a physical activity, since just a staged photo shirtless is try-hard.
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:12 PM
13

really?
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:08 PM
3

Dude
/r/seduction30/07/18 12:35 PM
1

Sure
/r/seduction30/07/18 03:20 AM
4

Girls rarely text first even if the guy is attractive
/r/seduction30/07/18 02:53 AM
3

What?
/r/seduction30/07/18 12:26 AM
3

Don't have the first few things you talk to her about being that you think she's attractive. Sets the tone of the interactions now and in the future
/r/seduction29/07/18 08:53 PM
2

Go indirect if you're seeing each other regularly. Even if there is mutual attraction this is the safe choice
/r/seduction29/07/18 08:23 PM
24

Just talk. You never know
/r/seduction29/07/18 12:16 AM
1

Have positive mindsets, which we'll help out more
/r/seduction28/07/18 11:28 PM
1

Good post
/r/seduction28/07/18 03:13 PM
2

Thanks. The thing is I literally did that yesterday and cold approached a girl last week that went differently. Maybe it's due to being in not the best mental state at the time
/r/askTRP28/07/18 02:47 AM
2

I know. However I've been using excuse me instead of hey. Doesn't that make a difference?
/r/askTRP28/07/18 12:07 AM
2

I've approached before and gotten over AA which sucks. I only get AA when I see the girl from a whiles away, not if I see her within a few seconds
/r/askTRP28/07/18 12:01 AM
1

And?
/r/askTRP27/07/18 11:41 PM
3

Good post. I just wrote one on bitching out and this is helpful
/r/seduction27/07/18 10:54 PM
1

how do you game on instagram
/r/seduction27/07/18 08:10 PM
1

how much is rent?
/r/seduction27/07/18 08:04 PM
1

Basically do more open ended questions. Even go off of stuff that you can observe that's going on around you
/r/seduction27/07/18 08:01 PM
8

What's with the increase in incel posters recently
/r/seduction27/07/18 06:38 PM
3

This is true.
/r/seduction27/07/18 01:29 AM
3

If you're opener or intro convo says to her that you find her attractive you are good. What moves does a girl make for kino?
/r/seduction27/07/18 01:28 AM
4

So basically open body language? What about IOIs that guys miss (yes I know approaching is better than waiting but still) as a future post? I enjoy your stuff
/r/seduction27/07/18 01:26 AM
4

Always ask for her number instead of giving yours
/r/seduction27/07/18 01:25 AM
1

Talk to them and just calibrate
/r/seduction26/07/18 07:05 PM
1

She thinks you're not interested since you haven't talked to her
/r/seduction26/07/18 07:02 PM
1

What is this
/r/seduction26/07/18 07:00 PM
1

Maybe it's just don't filter yourself with girls. That could be the main root of the issue
/r/seduction26/07/18 06:57 PM
1

4: Don't make your day's purposes just by itself for approaching. That never works out well
/r/seduction26/07/18 06:22 PM
5

In that case just be discreet
/r/seduction26/07/18 06:21 PM
1

Why do you think? C'mon.
/r/seduction26/07/18 06:20 PM
1

huh. If you're doing kino and still getting a no chemistry vibe from them, you're probably being boring. Make assumptions and statements about her and go from there. Bring up risque topics
/r/seduction26/07/18 06:15 PM
2

Men have to make the 1st move most of the time. Her giving you smiles/glances/eye contact is her "making a move on you".
/r/seduction26/07/18 06:12 PM
1

Two things: Lost interested and/or she's pissed you're with other women
/r/seduction26/07/18 06:11 PM
7

explain?
/r/seduction26/07/18 06:11 PM
3

long story short, go indirect. Direct isn't a good idea even if she's into you.
/r/seduction26/07/18 06:11 PM
3

Break the touch barrier when you meet her (hug)
/r/seduction26/07/18 06:10 PM
2

and she kept telling me about how I should go to a car show since I have never been Invite her out to do something 1 on 1.
/r/seduction26/07/18 06:09 PM
0

She's not a total stranger due to your friend. It's cool
/r/seduction26/07/18 06:08 PM
1

Have you done it
/r/seduction25/07/18 11:14 PM
1

Thanks. I saw that video and was thinking of doing it but a quick search on this sub says that saying hey louder could be better than startling
/r/seduction25/07/18 11:01 PM
3

Same. I care more about people around me that her rejecting me TBH
/r/seduction25/07/18 10:41 PM
1

Humour for your surroundings is good
/r/seduction25/07/18 10:41 PM
2

Talking to hired guns makes talking to women like it's no big deal. Helped me at least
/r/seduction25/07/18 10:31 PM
1

Cool. Going to cancel
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:45 PM
1

Is rescheduling without a specific date a good idea?
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:39 PM
1

The guy on here says you have more value if you do that
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:38 PM
1

I mean I'm 50/50 if I want to see her and am just not in the right headspace right now to meet her. That's all. So I'm going to cancel then. Some other guy on here said to be late on purpose
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:32 PM
1

Cool. I'm not sick but my heart just isn't into it today. I've never done this from online so just say "hey not feeling well, today, let's reschedule for the weekend, what day works for you?"
/r/seduction25/07/18 06:29 PM
1

I honestly forgot what she looks like so maybe be late on purpose? This is why I prefer IRL
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:25 PM
1

Not be overt but I've found that asking them to hang out/cup of coffee/drinks works better than saying a date. Same for you?
/r/seduction25/07/18 06:09 PM
1

Yes. I've learned the hard way that doing that firstly is a better option. There's only really one girl that I've talked to that probably thinks I have feelings for her
/r/seduction25/07/18 06:00 PM
1

I mean if you invite her out for an activity one on one unless she's dense she knows what you're trying to do
/r/seduction25/07/18 05:56 PM
3

It's the only app where the majority of women are unattractive in my experience
/r/askTRP25/07/18 05:50 PM
2

Standards online vs IRL I've found are much different.
/r/seduction25/07/18 05:24 PM
1

It is true that it's a primal thing and that having more sexual energy and putting it to good use is beneficial. Did women become more attracted to you in any ways? Eye contact and flirting etc with you?
/r/askTRP25/07/18 05:23 PM
1

That's true, I mean in the past when I had better streaks, I noticed girls were making eye contact a bit more, and were flirtier with me. It is true that it's a primal thing and that having more sexual energy and putting it to good use is beneficial. Did women become more attracted to you in any ways?
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:50 PM
4

Good post. Goes along with Todd V saying that assumption and statements are better for attraction than interview style questions. And observations as well could lead to deeper topics
/r/seduction25/07/18 04:44 PM
1

Wow that's pretty good. I've been asking more matches and texts the spontaneous/adventurous lines before asking for their number. And sometimes it works. Is it better though to ask for their schedule before telling them when I'm free? The latter seems needier
/r/seduction25/07/18 04:43 PM
1

Also, women will just seem more attracted to you. How is that possible?
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:39 PM
1

I know, it's just that I should have my only release by through interactions with women, not by myself if you know what I mean. As someone else said here, 21 days to break a habit. Have any tips that I could implement?
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:33 PM
1

What are the benefits?
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:32 PM
1

that's just as hard for me too
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:12 PM
1

Sure I'd like to know the routine
/r/seduction25/07/18 04:08 PM
1

In this case sounds like she is into you a bit
/r/seduction25/07/18 04:06 PM
1

Yeah I mean my incentive is to build willpower, and have incentive to seek real women
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:06 PM
1

Sure. I'll try it again, but I did it once, got 2 numbers and no response to my first text. What do you send to that number? Hey it's x from tinder?
/r/seduction25/07/18 03:31 PM
3

Probably, without context hard to tell
/r/seduction25/07/18 03:28 PM
0

I just read somewhere the porn is feminizing so that made me want to vomit. Thanks for the tip
/r/askTRP25/07/18 03:20 PM
1

Does that really work?
/r/seduction25/07/18 01:47 PM
21

Better way to say this would be is that you're not afraid to lose the woman through words and more importantly actions. If you don't show any interest she won't reciprocate
/r/seduction25/07/18 12:27 PM
2

Most people criticize their looks more harshly than others. I even do it quite a bit
/r/seduction25/07/18 12:26 PM
1

Don't get a phone number without a purpose.
/r/seduction25/07/18 12:25 PM
2

Parks/bookstores
/r/seduction25/07/18 12:20 PM
1

Interesting. Being able to not care if I lose the woman has let to better reactions eg not seeking validation
/r/seduction24/07/18 11:48 PM
3

Basically. I've literally never talked to a girl in a gym unless I asked a question about either equipment/specific exercise
/r/seduction24/07/18 11:43 PM
1

It's possible, but don't spam approach, don't go direct. Only open with something like "how many sets do you have left", if you're feeling really out there, how do you do that exercise. Segway from there into just asking what she's working out on and test her responsiveness to you. If she talks a bit, then go ahead and game indirectly, if not that just end it quickly. I'd advise against asking for a number unless you've received IOIs or she's really receptive to you. I've just asked for Facebook…
/r/seduction24/07/18 10:59 PM
2

Ok Kevin Durant
/r/seduction24/07/18 10:57 PM
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Wasn't as big as you, but I got into shape and have noticed similar behaviour. Even people being mroe receptive to you and friendly is a cool thing to observe
/r/seduction24/07/18 10:57 PM
1

even after meeting them during the daytime?
/r/seduction24/07/18 10:55 PM
8

A few people who posted on braincels have popped up here too
/r/seduction24/07/18 07:06 PM
3

I think I read somewhere that disagreeing overtly is actually something that attracts and intrigues people
/r/seduction24/07/18 07:05 PM
1

How did you find them? With hashtags? And how can you get people to take your photo on the other end?
/r/seduction24/07/18 04:18 PM
1

Todd Valentine talks about using assumption and statements rather than questions, which would make them bored
/r/seduction24/07/18 03:20 PM
3

What do you mean? Just build some rapport?
/r/seduction24/07/18 02:35 PM
1

If you know you're going to see her again, wait until the face to face convo
/r/seduction24/07/18 02:20 PM
1

I'm trying to do this too, so after a few replies, bring up chatting about something related to the story and ask her out?
/r/seduction24/07/18 02:19 PM
2

How often did you talk to her for the semester? If you talked to her like 2-3 times then you're fine, if otherwise, well it's going to be hard
/r/seduction24/07/18 02:18 PM
2

Braincels crap
/r/seduction24/07/18 03:21 AM
3

Holy fuck OP's post history
/r/seduction24/07/18 03:06 AM
1

Great advice man I'll try it out. Couple of things though, do you tell them you found them on Instagram from tinder on the DM? And do you ask them out with the first message, or do a small back and forth say 2-4 messages before asking them out?
/r/seduction23/07/18 11:07 PM
1

Yeah adding girls in your pics might give off the Che that they're your GF/best friends Stories is a better option
/r/seduction23/07/18 06:19 PM
1

Yeah this is likely not to work but take your shot
/r/seduction23/07/18 06:16 PM
1

I mean if you're into athletic type girls then give off the vibe that you work out etc, through clothing etc. It's a good point
/r/seduction23/07/18 05:31 PM
1

If a girl follows you back can you do the whole sale job of asking her out then? I've had a few girls off tinder/bumble that have followed me back on instagram.
/r/seduction23/07/18 05:30 PM
1

How long have you known her/how long often do you talk to her? This is key here.
/r/seduction23/07/18 05:29 PM
1

Romance novels outsell the adult industry films I believe
/r/seduction23/07/18 05:29 PM
2

If she's making eye contact that isn't for a split second, you either have something on your face or you're interesting to her.
/r/seduction23/07/18 05:28 PM
1

Assumptions work better in person than online. Online I've found asking questions is 100% ok, but gets boring quick IRL
/r/seduction23/07/18 05:23 PM
2

or they're really desperate
/r/seduction23/07/18 05:23 PM
1

I don't like selfies, but is it better than just doing professional shots? I mean I kinda have to wait to get a friend to do a photoshoot of me so in the meantime could it be better? IG stories is the only place where I take selfies, never on an actual photo. Does it matter to the girl?
/r/seduction23/07/18 05:19 PM
1

I personally never ask for a number without a purpose
/r/seduction23/07/18 03:42 PM
5

Good post. I've found the hardest part to be finding someone who isn't a friend or photographer to take your picture. How do you do it? I've been rejected asking strangers to take my picture in front of something cool
/r/seduction22/07/18 09:42 PM
1

I always do lifting before cardio (basketball/sleds usually)
/r/askTRP22/07/18 07:11 PM
1

At least he goes for what he wants, and if he takes a rejection kindly, there's no creepiness
/r/seduction22/07/18 01:26 PM
1

I took another posters advice and just did no contact
/r/askTRP22/07/18 01:19 AM
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Even if he is attractive to her it's weak. Ask for the number and be direct
/r/seduction21/07/18 11:49 PM
1

It's considerably less, but there's still enough girls who are around campus. Though I've found you can some days find only 1-2 or not even a girl you find cute enough to approach around campus. Happens with me. I go to the campus gyms a bit so I've done a few approaches but nothing like the year where I approach during classes indirectly, at events etc During the year that's incorrect, but it's slim pickings until fall.
/r/seduction21/07/18 11:46 PM
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If you approach a girl and tell her you think she's cute/like her style/seems like a cool person it's man to woman and she knows. If it's indirect like at school then yeah flirting works but me more subtle
/r/seduction21/07/18 11:42 PM
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Decent parks, higher end neighbourhoods/hipster neighbourhoods, trendy bars (clubs attract any type from cool to trashy), university/college campuses, some gyms, etc. Even counting looks, to me a "8" who goes the to the gym, takes care of diet, eats well is a hell of a lot more attractive than the vapid "10" who all she does is drink, party and lives an unhealthy lifestyle. Drinking is cool, but if it's every single weekend/weekday then it's boring AF.
/r/seduction21/07/18 11:40 PM
1

Makes sense. If she doesn't show I save face at least
/r/seduction21/07/18 11:18 PM
1

She agreed to the plans before this so I'll take your advice and have radio silence. Should I be actually late, as I usually don't try to be for a date
/r/seduction21/07/18 10:59 PM
2

I get what you are saying but is just silence until he date better than just restating the plans?
/r/seduction21/07/18 10:46 PM
1

So I guess repeating your line is the best option then Has it worked for you?
/r/seduction21/07/18 10:00 PM
2

So just say meet her in person? I am inexperienced with online girls
/r/seduction21/07/18 09:59 PM
2

So go silent until Mondayish or text her either a:don't use it or b: don't use it meet me for coffee at 4Pm, x place (already told her before)
/r/seduction21/07/18 09:46 PM
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Wondering if I should just be honest and say I have it but I don't use it, it's (my username) and then wait
/r/seduction21/07/18 09:27 PM
1

Already did that
/r/seduction21/07/18 09:15 PM
2

Well. Guess I'll just tell her I don't use it that much and give it to her then.
/r/seduction21/07/18 09:15 PM
1

I get that, but I'm thinking of just ghosting her for a few days
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:15 PM
0

Since we set up a meet next week, should I wait until monday or so and text her something completely different or literally not until the day of the meet?
/r/seduction21/07/18 05:48 PM
1

I'm just not going to reply to her, and then text her something new on monday
/r/askTRP21/07/18 05:47 PM
1

I will, but again just want an answer to this, should I say yes, but I don't use it much
/r/seduction21/07/18 05:11 PM
1

Didn't answer my question. What should I respond to her, just something like I don't really use social media, so no?
/r/seduction21/07/18 04:43 PM
1

What should I say as a response then? No I don't like social media that much, that's why
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:43 PM
1

I'm thinking of doing so anyways, was a number I got off online, so maybe just give her my IG and say I don't use it much, but here you go?
/r/seduction21/07/18 04:24 PM
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Before you have exclusivity, isn't a given that anyone could be seeing multiple people at the same time (going on dates) before labelling the relationship with one person?
/r/seduction21/07/18 04:22 PM
3

Are there certain tells that a girl is open to being approached other than what I listed?
/r/askTRP21/07/18 01:21 AM
1

Thanks. Sending it now
/r/askTRP20/07/18 11:51 PM
1

Thanks. Finally, should I say why I don't have Instagram or just state it
/r/askTRP20/07/18 11:42 PM
1

But even then after initiating they don't chase
/r/seduction20/07/18 11:34 PM
3

Is it true that picking and choosing your approaches is better. For example (if she's walking slow/stationary/sitting down)
/r/askTRP20/07/18 11:33 PM
1

Hmm. Does calling work better if you met the girl IRL be online? I'm thinking about doing this. Also if you set up the meet do you say anything else other than a hard no for Instagram?
/r/askTRP20/07/18 11:32 PM
1

Thanks . So a number in the future is the best idea? And just a simple no I do not have Instagram is good, right?
/r/askTRP20/07/18 11:12 PM
1

So even though I have it just say I don't use that?
/r/askTRP20/07/18 10:54 PM
2

I barely use it
/r/seduction20/07/18 10:47 PM
1

Yes but not that much social proof, as I only follow/have followers of people I know (both girls/guys)
/r/askTRP20/07/18 10:45 PM
2

If it matters I got her # from tinder
/r/askTRP20/07/18 10:20 PM
1

It's more of even if we exchange numbers in person I have to make the first message
/r/seduction20/07/18 08:57 PM
2

It's the latter
/r/seduction20/07/18 07:42 PM
1

What if girls are into to you but they never chase
/r/seduction20/07/18 06:01 PM
1

So what about daytime? just approach girls you find attractive? I do approach from time to time, but it's not close to like 50 sets a week
/r/seduction20/07/18 04:41 PM
3

Get the girl off the app
/r/seduction20/07/18 04:41 PM
1

Is this in person or online?
/r/seduction20/07/18 04:39 PM
6

Lose weight/work out
/r/seduction20/07/18 03:02 AM
1

Should you just phone girls instead of texting them? I'm honesty considering this
/r/seduction20/07/18 12:35 AM
2

It's just that I'm fine with in person interactions but texting I am awful with since I mostly hate it and would rather call
/r/seduction19/07/18 06:53 PM
1

Could you explain this? Two things: is the observation/environment opener something like: "I like your style, I thought you were cut", and secondly is her knowing you're coming at her man to woman implied when you're talking to a random girl in a conversation? I mean that's what the statement of intent in your opener is for, no?
/r/seduction19/07/18 03:09 AM
1

Talk to them and invite them out
/r/seduction19/07/18 12:31 AM
1

Thanks for the comfort reminder. It kinda makes sense about how my interaction have gone that comfort makes sense when a girl talks about stuff I talked about with her first. Comfort is what causes her to chase you right? That's what I struggle with. I can have good interactions but the girl never chases me
/r/seduction18/07/18 11:45 PM
1

Never ask for a number without a purpose
/r/seduction18/07/18 01:34 AM
1

Never ask for a number without a plan
/r/seduction18/07/18 01:33 AM
1

Hmm. So if I respond to her story, she isn't following me, but if she replies, that means that she accepted the message request then?
/r/seduction18/07/18 12:07 AM
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Going use this.
/r/seduction17/07/18 10:02 PM
1

I get that if it was in person but online it's valid for me if the girl isn't comfortable
/r/seduction17/07/18 06:04 PM
1

Yeah, I"m in the same boat too. I've been strictly texting for logistics and it hasn't let to the best results. Maybe go for the opposite of it?
/r/seduction17/07/18 05:02 PM
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You don't get this whole thing to just get the girls that already like you. What are the difference in IOIs between girls that already like you, and girls that don't, but warm up to you after talking to them?
/r/seduction17/07/18 05:00 PM
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My rule is: never ask for a number without a purpose
/r/seduction17/07/18 04:59 PM
2

Yes regularly. In fact if I never did the initiating I'm willing to bet that I'd be still be carryingthe V card, given that no girl has ever approached me. Even handsome guys don't get approached that often, if at all. Only like celebrities/models do. I can count on both hands how many times a girl has approached me.
/r/seduction17/07/18 04:23 PM
2

lol OP's username
/r/seduction17/07/18 04:21 PM
1

I use canned openers if there's nothing unique about the situation the girl is in. That's about it. Though I'm going to start using assumptions and statements instead of questions.
/r/seduction17/07/18 04:19 PM
1

A poker face or a smirk is better than half the crap said on this post
/r/seduction17/07/18 04:18 PM
1

Yeah, I ran into this during high school, but when I went to university, the majority of people I hang with are interested in self-improvement
/r/seduction17/07/18 04:17 PM
1

She's probably mad/pissed off that you didn't ask her out then TBH from the way I'm reading this, and has a loss of interest
/r/seduction17/07/18 04:17 PM
1

Asking her how many sets she has left is a good opener. Then you can tell if she wants to talk or not. Or even ask, what's this machine doing, what would you recommend. I got a messenger add by just doing a cardio/weights activity, girl was over there, resting so I asked what she was doing before, then just talked from there. But you have to be indirect since you'll likely see her again
/r/seduction17/07/18 04:15 PM
1

Get rid of the friend thing, should've just said, I had a nice time. Then invite her by saying instead of "do you want to do x", "lets do x". Asking a question is only for the first time when you ask a girl out. Not for a 2nd date
/r/seduction17/07/18 04:09 PM
1

A 2nd text a few days later isn't the worst idea
/r/seduction17/07/18 03:44 PM
1

Mostly. Some girls just won't give a number to a stranger. For example, I matched with this cute girl on tinder, asked for her number, she said she only gives it to people she knows IRL, so got her protected IG instead. In those cases, it's fine, but if you don't ask, then this stuff happens.
/r/seduction17/07/18 03:42 PM
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Follow her first/like some of her pics and wait. If she follows back, and/or likes your pics, then you have a shot. If not, then unfollow after 3 days. H/t to /u/spinplates for this strategy.
/r/seduction17/07/18 03:41 PM
1

Eh, if they follow back, then you have a shot. But without them following back, is like a dart throw at best.
/r/seduction17/07/18 03:40 PM
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Lack of social calibration Bingo. Also acknowledge if you can tell she's in the middle of something say it out loud so she knows you aren't dumb
/r/seduction17/07/18 03:39 PM
2

From what I've read here, approach the girl you aren't into first and then segway the other girl in, and then if the one you're interested in jives with you, say you're cool, let's do x sometime.
/r/seduction17/07/18 03:38 PM
2

Just go direct
/r/seduction17/07/18 03:36 PM
1

Also.. You invited HER out. You should pay. For drinks, sure. Anything more, I'm splitting
/r/seduction17/07/18 03:24 PM
2

True. Though I know girls 19 who are busier than ones who are 24. It doesn't really change until you're about 27-28 or so, when the overwhelming majority of people that age are not in school. The majority of students in college are between 19-25
/r/seduction17/07/18 03:23 PM
1

An older Russian woman (late 30s) did the exact same thing to me today lmao
/r/seduction17/07/18 12:34 AM
1

Ask for her number
/r/seduction17/07/18 12:31 AM
1

Don't go in completely cold or be direct
/r/seduction16/07/18 09:10 PM
1

Yeah, I guess. In Toronto it's 100% opposite. Mass transit is bigger and I'd rather live in an apartment/better place with no car than a dump and have a car.
/r/seduction16/07/18 08:07 PM
5

Uh, if you live in a big city, plenty of young people don't have cars. Transit is how most people get around. Especially if you have an apartment/roomates, people take transit/walk everywhere. Uber/lyft exist, so does using a bike/motorcycle/carpool/public transit.
/r/seduction16/07/18 04:24 PM
1

If you live in a city, his advice is meaningless. If you live in the countryside, than it's 100% true.
/r/seduction16/07/18 04:23 PM
6

Yeah, no. I'm in great shape, am clean cut, and are all of those qualities with you talk about while having a decent social circle. Maybe it's where I live, but at my school, I really struggle with women at times, past the conversation part. It's not as easy as everyone here thinks it is. Though I'm more of a long term guy, but still, there's no cheat codes that people like to parrot on here.
/r/seduction16/07/18 02:52 PM
1

why do you close with instagram?
/r/seduction16/07/18 02:47 PM
1

What about the saying of if the girl is still talking to you and not trying to get away it means she'll sleep with you if you play your cards right?
/r/seduction15/07/18 10:12 PM
1

Can you list those 3 IOIs or a list of what to see so you don't miss out on any opportunities?
/r/seduction15/07/18 09:06 PM
1

Thanks. Random, but what about neutral kino? Cases where I touch the girl on the arm for a second or two and she doesn't move away but doesn't lean into me or get closer etc. That mean anything? During my approaches I usually do light arm touching when she says something funny.
/r/seduction15/07/18 02:33 PM
3

You can approach women walking, but either target possible approaches when it's on a less busy time on the street, and there's a better chance she'll stop for you. You can also pick a girl that's walking slower than the rest, or is standing up on her phone, or even sitting somewhere.
/r/seduction15/07/18 02:28 PM
1

So next time if it's in a park/street tell her to come with me for a bit as compliance?
/r/seduction15/07/18 02:26 PM
1

So what would you call it then?
/r/seduction15/07/18 02:24 PM
1

As an aside, if you approach a girl, talk to her for 10-15 minutes, get her number and then spend another 10 minutes or so with her is that a mini-instadate?
/r/seduction15/07/18 02:22 PM
1

Is this in person or online?
/r/seduction15/07/18 01:46 PM
1

why? Guys on here say it's possible to take her back to her place
/r/seduction15/07/18 03:17 AM
1

how would you take the date back to her place?
/r/seduction15/07/18 03:08 AM
1

It's so hard. I'm at school and am friendly but can't find a non-frat party. Do I just starting ask them out parties they know?
/r/seduction15/07/18 02:15 AM
7

This story reminds me of a time a girl felt my biceps and liked it and I did screwed up getting her out on a date and she's taken now, so yeah. Ugh
/r/seduction15/07/18 12:00 AM
1

So no Hail Mary attempt after a week or so?
/r/seduction14/07/18 11:59 PM
1

Any other advice that could be helpful?
/r/seduction14/07/18 11:39 PM
3

How do you get invited to parties? I've made friends and that's the thing I still lack at. Should I just crash some?
/r/seduction14/07/18 09:54 PM
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That's more of a warm approach TBH. Cold is where you have no idea how her reaction would be
/r/seduction14/07/18 09:52 PM
1

I've tried. I get invited to anything but parties somehow
/r/seduction14/07/18 09:49 PM
1

Other than that?
/r/seduction14/07/18 07:48 PM
2

So is it cool if I say coffee and then set a time and place in the same text? In some of these cases we already agreed to get a drink/coffee
/r/seduction13/07/18 07:36 PM
1

I know she's busy with her life, but since it's an online date I'm not that invested in it. Just set a time and place on that day and check in with her next wednesday?
/r/seduction13/07/18 04:43 PM
1

No I meant maybe a callback joke?
/r/seduction13/07/18 04:03 PM
1

Like what? I've read texting kills attraction
/r/seduction13/07/18 03:56 PM
1

Going to delete this post since it has her pic, reposting just the text. Is that good advice since I know she's busy? Say let's do coffee at 4 pm at x place, come with? It's just because setting up dates a week beforehand can lead to flakes
/r/seduction13/07/18 03:47 PM
1

Sounds good. I approached a girl last week and while I talked about 50% of the time, there were some awkward silences that she sometimes asked questions about me, but seemed both interested and dis-interested with at times. no idea what level of attraction that was tbh
/r/seduction13/07/18 03:35 PM
2

How do you get invited to parties? It's like the one social event I never get invited to amongst my friends.
/r/seduction13/07/18 02:57 PM
3

Thanks. It's more of the "just do it" mindset that I do sometime but lose it at times which is frustrating
/r/seduction13/07/18 01:12 AM
3

Interesting. I don't approach when they look really busy like today when I was in a park and saw a girl I wanted to approach but she was busy at drawling something. I've found what you said to be true for the most part, even if they reject you they aren't that lean about it but how would you approach those types of situations? Do you screen the girl beforehand to see if she would be open to being approached positively?
/r/seduction12/07/18 10:32 PM
1

Great post, saved.
/r/seduction12/07/18 09:11 PM
3

Saved. Thanks dude, any more advice you could give for in person interactions?
/r/seduction12/07/18 06:55 PM
2

it's the easiest way to make male friends IMO
/r/seduction12/07/18 05:54 PM
1

gym/sports
/r/seduction12/07/18 05:54 PM
1

So true, though I'm not interested in her, I talked to a girl that worked around my campus and chatted with her for a bit. Since we added each other on facebook, she shows up as recommended on instagram, and she looks so unapproachable and cold, which is the opposite of what she was in person
/r/seduction12/07/18 05:51 PM
1

Ask a question or make a statement about her that'll peak her interest
/r/seduction12/07/18 05:48 PM
1

Watched a recent todd video and he was saying something about making assumptions/statements rather than too many questions which gets into interview mode.
/r/seduction12/07/18 05:45 PM
1

in toronto, go to cheaper areas like east of yonge, west of bathurst in more middle class areas. As another note, may be looking to get a roommate eventually so hit me up maybe via PMs?
/r/seduction12/07/18 05:29 PM
2

I will be using these lines. I'll test them out and see what happens. What else do you say after they respond? Just ask them out for a drink?
/r/seduction11/07/18 10:39 PM
2

In your case, simply ask if she's done with a piece of equipment, or how to do a stretch. Then once that's done (I literally do the first one with a guy/girl any time I need to use something), if she looks receptive then say something like "I see you in here all the time, so not be rude, what's your name, and then go from there". Don't get direct like "I think you're cute", because even if she's into you, it's about the worst place a direct approach would work. If the conversation goes well and …
/r/seduction11/07/18 06:49 PM
2

why? I hate texting
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:35 PM
1

Or her place?
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:10 PM
2

Either ask, or go to areas where you know the ages will usually be higher than otherwise (parks/campus etc)
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:07 PM
1

I mean I have friends and decent connections, but like this guy most of them never invite me to parties. Most I get is hanging out with their own friends for a bit.
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:06 PM
2

Older women are people that are 8+ years older than you. Let's say you're 20 years old. Anyone between 18-25 is what most people usually date within.
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:04 PM
1

Dude, stop thinking in the chad/alpha territory all the time.
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:03 PM
1

Did you escalate on those dates?
/r/seduction10/07/18 09:41 PM
1

Thanks so just go up and suggest doing something on the beach? Has that worked for you?
/r/seduction10/07/18 09:40 PM
5

Go to a rec centre/play sports. That's how I've found most of my male friends in non school settings.
/r/seduction10/07/18 04:09 PM
1

Adding to this, pick and choose who you approach. If it's a chick with blue/green hair that looks like the type that would be a problem, then don't do it.
/r/seduction10/07/18 04:06 PM
1

Signals are decent to rely upon when you're talking to a girl for both interest and dis-interest. Before talking to her, I agree, they're mostly useless it's obvious she's looking at you and waiting.
/r/seduction10/07/18 04:05 PM
1

what do you mean by playing a volleyball or going for a workout session?
/r/seduction10/07/18 03:56 PM
1

as long as he isn't obese or deformed, or has terrible hygiene he's fine.
/r/seduction10/07/18 03:55 PM
2

so call instead?
/r/seduction10/07/18 03:54 PM
2

I agree, but it's more of oh if I see a girl I want to talk to, the better, not I have to talk to a girl today, so I'm going to change my whole day around making sure that happens.
/r/seduction10/07/18 03:53 PM
1

Yup. The fact that she and him had some sort of connection before as classmates means that you don't have to be that direct.
/r/seduction10/07/18 03:52 PM
1

Oh ok. I've had those two where I thought the girl was cute from afar/at first and then changed my mind later.
/r/seduction10/07/18 03:22 PM
1

Good, but why didn't you ask for a number? Who knows, you might have changed your mind on her.
/r/seduction10/07/18 02:50 PM
3

Any of the signals that you could expand upon here?
/r/seduction10/07/18 12:19 AM
1

I mean it's not a primary option at all, but just as something for supplication
/r/seduction09/07/18 10:16 PM
1

Has this worked for you?
/r/seduction09/07/18 10:15 PM
1

Two ones: Starting out from zero in terms of social anxiety with women, had to talk to a girl in my class as an icebreaker 18 months or so ago. Stuttered a bit, but then had a decent convo, looking back on it I can't imagine myself being like that now. Manning up and saying lets get (coffee/whatever) in person and having the girl say no. I was too afraid on beating around the bush and realized that it wasn't so bad after all, and later girls have said yes.
/r/seduction09/07/18 05:14 PM
1

Why not? If it's a random girl you know you'll never see again in all likelihood, go for it.
/r/seduction09/07/18 05:10 PM
1

Good on you that you have stones, but don't go that direct. Direct is good, but say something like "hey I saw you there and thought you were cute/I like your style/shoes etc and had to say hi." If she responds in a good way then ask what are you doing today and have a convo from there. If she seems to be in the convo a bit, ask her to to x in the near future (coffee/drinks/sport whatever) and then if she says yes/sure/maybe, then get the number. Otherwise, asking for a number on it's own without…
/r/seduction09/07/18 05:06 PM
1

I'm thinking of just calling some of the girls in my phone instead. I just hate texting and all the small rules that come with it.
/r/seduction09/07/18 05:02 PM
1

I've only asked girls out over text if it's on a dating app. If I met her one person TBH, I always say lets do x, and then get a number.
/r/seduction09/07/18 05:02 PM
1

Difference between waitstaff and women that are behind a desk at an activity place etc. I've found you can chat those ones up more without having to pay a cent.
/r/seduction09/07/18 05:01 PM
1

have a personal friend who has 7K+ followers, and is a guy
/r/seduction09/07/18 02:05 AM
1

Depends. Is this on an dating app on an actual text message? If it's the former, you have nothing to lose, the latter, usually don't, unless you know how she texts.
/r/seduction08/07/18 06:55 PM
2

Ask her to do something that obviously isn't going back to do the deed
/r/seduction08/07/18 05:57 PM
2

or stunning.
/r/seduction08/07/18 05:57 PM
1

Or just say wanna get a coffee/drinks/ice cream soon? Then you get the number and go from there. It's less pressure than calling it a "date", and she knows what it means.
/r/seduction08/07/18 05:55 PM
1

Thanks dude, I'll try this but I thought texting for logistics was one of the main points this subreddit tries to hammer home?
/r/seduction08/07/18 04:30 PM
1

Hmm. I've only called a few girls that I've talked to cute in person (done so online, but whatever) and both of them lost interest over time. So I guess a more direct approach of "I like your style, is better, no?"
/r/seduction08/07/18 04:07 PM
1

Thanks.
/r/seduction07/07/18 04:40 PM
1

How do you message them on sites like okcupid where you don't have to match to message them?
/r/seduction07/07/18 03:31 PM
2

I've already asked her out, just a matter of agreeing on a day to hang out. Is going in person that creepy in that case?
/r/seduction07/07/18 03:29 PM
1

Did you flirt with her? Touch her during the hangout. Call her cute etc.
/r/seduction07/07/18 03:37 AM
1

What if you can see her in person before then?
/r/seduction07/07/18 01:16 AM
1

No I meant you have plans but not a specific day
/r/seduction07/07/18 12:09 AM
1

What if you already agreed to a date? Say I'm going on x day does that work for you?
/r/seduction06/07/18 11:46 PM
3

In my area tinder mostly has quality chicks. I downloaded POF and wow it was filled with trashy chicks and a handful of attractive women. It was full of unattractive, fat women for the most part who had cringing and awful bios.
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:25 PM
1

And the last part, most of the time yeah if it's multiple pics,
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:23 PM
3

I'm 100% going to use this. Thanks man!
/r/seduction06/07/18 04:56 PM
0

Interesting.... making her chase is something I struggle with
/r/seduction05/07/18 06:35 PM
17

Always think instead of what should I say or do to impress her think what can she say or do to impress me? Always be able to walk. Though looks do deceive sometimes, I've found some ugly/average chicks to be repulsive in terms of personality and cute chicks to have a great personality.
/r/seduction04/07/18 11:41 PM
2

More during conversation than not during conversations though that's what I've found at least.
/r/seduction04/07/18 10:26 PM
1

How big is your college? If it's over 20k, you're fine cold approaching, classes whatever. If it's a community college then maybe not.
/r/seduction04/07/18 04:38 PM
3

Don't email him though, 99% of the time with him email is for professional matters. Find him on facebook/instagram and then send him a message. If finds you attractive he will talk back.
/r/seduction04/07/18 04:37 PM
2

Cold approaching a girl with no IOIs vs approaching one with IOIs/warm approach etc is different. In the latter you can pick and choose to which ones you think will have more success. With the former it's a dart throw.
/r/seduction04/07/18 04:11 PM
1

Then become more serious with her, but have her bring up the idea of being in a relationship
/r/seduction04/07/18 04:09 PM
2

If you are average, odds are there are a few thousand girls that would be into you and are equally hot/pleasant to be around in a hundred Kilometre radius
/r/seduction04/07/18 04:06 PM
2

She probably wants a LTR honestly by the way you describe her.
/r/seduction04/07/18 03:32 PM
1

Direct but she won't remember it in all likelihood
/r/seduction03/07/18 09:57 PM
1

It's more of I'm going into talking to her no expectations other than just saying hi.
/r/seduction03/07/18 09:56 PM
1

Rsdmax, mantelligence (though it's more mainstream), based Zeus
/r/seduction03/07/18 09:55 PM
3

seconded
/r/seduction03/07/18 05:40 PM
1

Man to women vibe Examples?
/r/seduction03/07/18 05:26 PM
2

Not scientific at all, but nature finds a way for you.
/r/seduction03/07/18 05:22 PM
1

So literally just say that as an opener? I might try that.
/r/seduction03/07/18 12:42 PM
1

How much did you pay for it?
/r/seduction02/07/18 08:06 PM
1

Is there one for Toronto for people under the age of 30? Can't find one for the life of me
/r/seduction02/07/18 08:06 PM
1

Ask them for coffee?
/r/seduction01/07/18 11:00 PM
1

What about the 2nd half of my comment? I'm a bit intrigued by you saying that
/r/seduction01/07/18 02:00 AM
3

Not in Houston, but could you help a Canuck out with text game and insta/tinder pickup? I sometimes get chicks to follow me but I have no idea what to say in dms. Same thing, is that texting to set something up is harder for me than getting a number.
/r/seduction01/07/18 01:57 AM
1

If you're at least 5'8 that's what 70% of girls at least? What do you mean by increasing our ranking by personality? Is it just character traits?
/r/seduction01/07/18 01:55 AM
11

It's called eyefucking, no? Happens both in passing and talking to a woman.
/r/seduction01/07/18 01:42 AM
3

Ask her to hangout and then there's a reason for the number/contact
/r/seduction30/06/18 06:31 PM
1

It's not impossible, however: only approach them while they're resting at a certain machine/set, and you want to use that same machine/weights etc. Ask anything like how many sets do you have left etc. Then if they seem receptive then ask questions about them and their workout passions. If you feel a decent connection ask if you want work out sometime, and then go for a number. If not, then just go for a IG/Messenger instead and go from there. But don't blatantly hit on them and never go direct.
/r/seduction30/06/18 06:16 PM
1

Thanks. Does it work well for you?
/r/seduction30/06/18 05:37 PM
1

or just be sarcastic when you feel a shit test is coming tbh
/r/seduction30/06/18 05:36 PM
2

That could sound tough for OP, but I was in a similar position 3 years ago and doing small things like that got me to a point where I now do it without even thinking at times.
/r/seduction30/06/18 05:35 PM
1

How about let's get a drink instead? Buying seems to provider-ish, no?
/r/seduction29/06/18 11:35 PM
2

Thanks. I mean she matched with me on tinder so there's at least there's some attraction, no? That follows with the 2 strikes rule of disinterest right? What should you say when a girl agrees to get x but wants to see how far the place is when you mention it?
/r/seduction29/06/18 10:50 PM
1

What's an old fashion? I'll just say that exact line. This was after me asking her truth or dare for which she said dare and thus I asked her out for coffee.
/r/seduction29/06/18 10:45 PM
2

I kinda doubt how true this may be. Any examples that you could share?
/r/seduction29/06/18 08:59 PM
1

Great post dude
/r/seduction29/06/18 08:44 PM
1

saved. I'll read this later
/r/seduction29/06/18 08:44 PM
1

Swimmers build with better shoulders
/r/seduction29/06/18 07:00 PM
1

Somewhat but make it funny/interesting. Don't just list things for no reason
/r/seduction29/06/18 06:59 PM
1

Any advice or examples?
/r/seduction29/06/18 02:14 AM
2

Good advice. Goes with the advice of give her the gift of missing you. So just send the text I posted here and then wait? Again I'm new to online dating apps texting
/r/seduction29/06/18 01:15 AM
2

So just try one more time and then move on?
/r/seduction29/06/18 12:55 AM
2

So what should I say back? This is legit my first number from online as all previous one have been in person.
/r/seduction29/06/18 12:18 AM
1

Really? I mean it is random talking to new girls you see on the street wherever
/r/seduction29/06/18 12:18 AM
6

Adding to this: how do you approach after eye contact with them before? I've had decent success after asking during breaks of exercise, but just go indirect? I've done that all the time.
/r/seduction28/06/18 11:51 PM
1

Scripted openers are good. "Saying I know this is random but" shows social awareness, no?
/r/seduction28/06/18 11:50 PM
2

Random, but: what should you say when you propose a meet up and the girl says "I'll see how far it from my house" after not sure about what days work for her? Kind of a shit test? Just ask her to meet closer to her place? Set a specific day and time instead of x day afternoon?
/r/seduction28/06/18 11:49 PM
1

I'm half white and I get more attention and am attracted to brunettes/dark haired women and dirty blondes. I struggle more with natural blondes.
/r/seduction28/06/18 11:46 PM
1

Cold approach, life classes etc
/r/seduction28/06/18 09:41 PM
1

Adding to the comments, ask a girl or two if they have a frisbee, or if you see them playing, ask to join.
/r/seduction28/06/18 05:39 PM
2

Yup. Go at least 3 times for an hour
/r/seduction28/06/18 05:37 PM
1

So repeated eye contact is a huge IOI then?
/r/seduction28/06/18 01:45 AM
1

Is it a separate bullding?
/r/seduction28/06/18 12:04 AM
14

If you ask her to hangout later she'll say do you want my number etc. But this post is also good
/r/seduction27/06/18 09:33 PM
3

Getting them to respond is harder than getting matches TBH
/r/seduction26/06/18 06:57 PM
1

Ask her when you see her again.
/r/seduction26/06/18 06:56 PM
2

Did you ask for their number and then bolt? Stay in the interaction after you set something up (number/date/hangout whatever). Do you genuinely care about getting to know them?
/r/seduction26/06/18 06:23 PM
20

Saved. Great post!
/r/seduction26/06/18 06:09 PM
3

It's like the pink elephant theory. If someone says something about certain thing, they're 100% thinking about it before.
/r/seduction26/06/18 05:52 PM
1

I meant in general
/r/seduction26/06/18 05:49 PM
1

It's a repeated line but RSDmax's line of "when you talked to her, you've already won" line is gold here. Go into the approach with zero expectations and usually it goes better than you think it will.
/r/seduction26/06/18 05:43 PM
1

You guys go to US campuses right? Where I go to school, there are frats, but it's the minority that are in them compared to the slight majority in the states
/r/seduction26/06/18 05:42 PM
2

FWIW, one cold approach I did that was great was on a girl that looked bored as hell with a resting bitchface. Her face lit up when I talked to her and we had a good convo for 15 minutes.
/r/seduction26/06/18 05:41 PM
1

which involves getting her number, but after you ask her out
/r/seduction26/06/18 05:40 PM
8

What about approaching a group during the daytime on your own? I've found that it's almost impossible without a friend there
/r/seduction26/06/18 05:06 PM
1

What I would do would be to have a decent conversation and then ask, how about we do x. If she says yes, then ask for her number and figure out the rest offline. A number is meaningless without a purpose (date/hanging out)
/r/seduction26/06/18 04:44 PM
1

As long as you aren't that shy with the girl, yes. There are plenty of girls out there that are looking for homely guys. But again, just don't be shy with the girl yourself.
/r/seduction26/06/18 04:43 PM
2

Me too. And how interest windows either close or open at different rates.
/r/seduction26/06/18 04:38 PM
2

If you go up to a girl and use the words "cute,pretty, beautiful" in your opener/talking to her, she's either dense/naive or at least interested by you. If you're hanging out one on one and never knew her before.
/r/seduction25/06/18 10:38 PM
2

Saying hang out or let's get a coffee/drink brings less social pressure than saying a date
/r/seduction25/06/18 09:22 PM
1

Coffee, or go to a bar and get a sparkling water
/r/seduction25/06/18 09:21 PM
1

Observations are critical for this.
/r/seduction25/06/18 09:21 PM
10

Great post man!
/r/seduction25/06/18 09:20 PM
1

Hopefully they work. Maybe it's where I am but girls never message anything funny first if they ever do at all on tinder.
/r/seduction25/06/18 02:48 AM
1

lol I'm going to copy these. Why not.
/r/seduction25/06/18 02:40 AM
2

Great comment
/r/seduction24/06/18 11:39 PM
1

I mean asking to hang out would be received better right?
/r/seduction23/06/18 09:51 PM
1

Bit harsh but idk talk to her an invite her out. Just a reminder at your age feelings change really quickly
/r/seduction23/06/18 03:21 AM
2

Making connections is honestly what drives my to approach etc. I had one connection with a girl and I blew it, and while other women seem interested, it doesn't seem as good as that one, despite them being better looking etc.
/r/seduction22/06/18 08:48 PM
2

How do you escalate on tinder dates?
/r/seduction22/06/18 02:30 AM
1

I think people forget here that the moment you talked to her after an approach, you already won
/r/seduction22/06/18 01:30 AM
1

upper body. Guys in wheelchairs work out
/r/seduction21/06/18 08:13 PM
2

Do bicep machine work instead of just curls in your routine.
/r/seduction21/06/18 08:11 PM
1

ask her out in person
/r/seduction21/06/18 08:08 PM
1

Ask her out dude
/r/seduction21/06/18 08:05 PM
2

I have a decent sized social circle and no one dates within it.
/r/seduction21/06/18 07:52 PM
1

Lol I did this 2 months ago and she was an exchange student.
/r/seduction21/06/18 06:55 PM
3

Even though I've said "fuck it" a few times, and done it again today I let one pass by not taking action. It's really is just a matter of deciding to do it, which depending on the day can either be difficult to do or easy.
/r/seduction20/06/18 09:54 PM
2

It feels like you just did a line of cocaine after your approach in some cases.
/r/seduction20/06/18 03:22 PM
1

in Toronto: bars > clubs, but pick and choose which bars you go to.
/r/seduction20/06/18 02:48 PM
2

Tinder/bumble since you won't care if you screw up texting since you've never spoke to her IRL
/r/seduction20/06/18 01:34 AM
5

Or maybe she's friendly and having relationship issues?
/r/seduction20/06/18 01:34 AM
1

The part about feminine energy is interesting. I've noticed also a different way I interact with women based off of following that concept vs just calling them "hot".
/r/seduction19/06/18 11:32 PM
1

don't go on dates with girls that don't have bodypics. You're asking for trouble
/r/seduction19/06/18 09:31 PM
0

How did you get that many matches if you're legit?
/r/seduction19/06/18 09:29 PM
2

any ideas for free ones? I know of low cost ones already
/r/seduction19/06/18 09:28 PM
5

Talking to them once you get past AA is.
/r/seduction19/06/18 06:48 PM
5

sure, but they aren't totally useless depending on looks.
/r/seduction18/06/18 05:52 PM
1

examples?
/r/seduction18/06/18 05:44 PM
1

Do some daygame.
/r/seduction18/06/18 05:32 PM
1

Yes. Though I've had this with not conventionally attractive women (they aren't fat, ugly etc, just not categorized by many as hot)
/r/seduction18/06/18 04:05 PM
3

It's not what you say but how you say it and how you look
/r/seduction18/06/18 04:00 PM
5

Tl:dw?
/r/seduction17/06/18 11:43 PM
1

Don't ask for a number without a purpose
/r/seduction17/06/18 08:55 PM
1

Aussie girls are attractive! You're in luck there
/r/seduction17/06/18 08:55 PM
2

Would love to hear the answers here I'm in a similar situation.
/r/seduction17/06/18 08:54 PM
2

Talking to random women, using dating apps and having a good social circle will help you to find one
/r/seduction17/06/18 08:54 PM
2

What???
/r/seduction17/06/18 08:53 PM
4

Anyone have a non ad littered site?
/r/seduction16/06/18 07:55 PM
2

Hard to do unless you want to go to a bar/club. In higher denser environments like a campus, you could do it, but I don't want to be seen literally going from girl to girl during the daytime. Makes you look thirsty. If you space em out, then it's fine.
/r/seduction16/06/18 06:17 PM
9

With the woman #3, I think you should've gone for a conversation, and then if that flowed well, asked her to hangout, and then exchange contact info. You could tell then by her responses if she's a bit into you at least. Here, though she wasn't totally bored by you with the smile and thanks, it's now up to her to contact you, not the other way around which is what girls prefer. Never ask for a number without a purpose.
/r/seduction16/06/18 06:17 PM
1

TALK TO HER (though wait for her to smile/our you smile first)
/r/seduction16/06/18 06:14 PM
1

campuses, as long as you look under the age of 30.
/r/seduction16/06/18 06:13 PM
1

Yeah, most of the time they just say not interested and then you bail. You must be saying creepy shit for them to say that do you. Do you workout OP?
/r/seduction16/06/18 05:40 PM
1

From personal experience I never ask for a number unless there's a purpose to it (hanging out with her/going for a coffee/drink/whatever). YMMV, but if I just want to chat and then test the waters without asking her out beforehand, just get her FB messenger/instagram
/r/seduction16/06/18 05:39 PM
2

Ask her to hangout, not on a date. Less pressure with those words
/r/seduction16/06/18 03:07 AM
5

Cringe. Why are you being awkward on purpose?
/r/seduction15/06/18 08:01 PM
1

Good video man!
/r/seduction15/06/18 06:44 PM
2

If she's open to sex first date etc
/r/seduction15/06/18 01:52 AM
3

You could judge by the type of girl she is
/r/seduction15/06/18 01:26 AM
14

So essentially if a girl agrees to be with you one on one alone in a non platonic context, it's 3 strikes and you're out then right?
/r/seduction15/06/18 01:26 AM
2

I do, but I just add them, wait for them to post a story, and make a comment. They reply, I go ahead, and if they don't twice, I just unfollow them. Same goes with bumble. Another method with a lower accuracy is liking 2 photos and waiting for her to like yours back/follow you. I recommend the first option for trying to get something out of random girls.
/r/seduction14/06/18 08:15 PM
1

Why?
/r/seduction14/06/18 06:34 PM
7

that's why until you meet them, getting a girl's number that you met in person >> over online. Vibe, flirtiness etc is noticeable
/r/seduction14/06/18 04:37 PM
2

Saved. Thanks!
/r/seduction14/06/18 04:17 PM
1

what happened after?
/r/seduction14/06/18 03:41 PM
1

How did you approach her?
/r/seduction13/06/18 07:54 PM
2

That's true. Some girls either initiate eye contact and/or hold it for a while. You can tell certain levels of interest through this which I never knew before.
/r/seduction13/06/18 05:50 PM
1

If you don't mind, what was the coles notes summary of it?
/r/seduction13/06/18 05:17 PM
1

Could you PM me a link?
/r/seduction13/06/18 05:08 PM
1

Bingo. Also is nice in that it shows that you two together aren't a good match together.
/r/seduction13/06/18 04:56 PM
2

What I've done, it's low risk, but also some reward is this: I've added girls from tinder/bumble/okcupid (some I've matched with, some I haven't) on instagram, and just waited for them to post a story. Once that happens, I just reply with anything I find interesting about that story and ask them a question. Some haven't responded, some have, and then just go from there and ask to hang out. This is for girls you just randomly have come across. If this is a girl that you've seen at school/work/whe…
/r/seduction13/06/18 04:42 PM
2

From personal experience, it's hard to do, but it's so worth it to become more sociable.
/r/seduction13/06/18 04:37 PM
1

Would like to add, use your own powers of observation if a conversation is breaking down.
/r/seduction13/06/18 04:35 PM
3

Good post. However, there is one magical answer that is a great universal opener: your own observations of the world and you and her at the time.
/r/seduction13/06/18 04:33 PM
1

Or if you get rejected/she wants you to go away say, take it as a compliment (if she says she has a BF), or have a nice day and bounce. Stuff like this gets ruined by guys that just creep around all day and then act shocked when girls hate their act
/r/seduction13/06/18 04:26 PM
2

95% of women like to be approached. 5% of the more radical group don't but, as long as you can scout her out, (not looking like that type, hair color etc) you won't be fine or charged with harassment if you're respectful.
/r/seduction13/06/18 04:25 PM
1

I mean if you're talking to a random girl and compliment her on her style (saying it's interesting is a compliment) shes knows you aren't there to be her friend.
/r/seduction13/06/18 04:24 PM
2

Saying "I thought you were cute" part is fine, but instead of can I have your number, just go with, so I had to say hi and go from there. Asking for a number without a purpose (hanging out, doing something with her) is useless. Have a convo, and if she seems interested then ask to go for a drink/coffee/whatever activity you want later. If she's says yes, then ask for the number. That's what I usually do for cold approaches. For more social/warm ones I just talk about the environment around us an…
/r/seduction13/06/18 12:47 AM
2

In general, it's an invitation to approach them.
/r/seduction12/06/18 08:35 PM
2

Depends. If you're not flirting and it comes out of nowhere then you're screwed
/r/seduction12/06/18 08:34 PM
1

FTC should be used IMO after she's in a conversation with you. Unless you think you could pull her, talking to her for more than say 10-15 minutes gets into a territory where you use up all your talking ammo with her and become too predictable. That's where I say stuff such as, I got to go, but do you want to hang out sometime/what's your FB messenger blah blah blah etc...
/r/seduction12/06/18 05:46 PM
1

Bounce, or at least consider her not GF material.
/r/seduction12/06/18 05:44 PM
1

POF is an awful app/site.
/r/seduction12/06/18 05:43 PM
1

Not uniform as a whole, but there are non specific to a person things that are universally attractive, such as grooming, shoulder to waist ratio etc that the majority of women are attracted to. For certain body types, races, personalities, not a chance.
/r/seduction12/06/18 05:42 PM
2

She was into you, but your neediness turned her off.
/r/seduction12/06/18 05:41 PM
1

It really depends on how often you talk to the girl. Is it 1-2 times a week, then yeah you're in it. Is it a girl you've talked to a few times, but haven't seen her for months, then no you're not in it. (I'm kinda in a situation right now, with a girl I met in september, but only have talked to her once in person, and maybe 3-4 times online since then) If it's a girl from work/social circle etc, don't say a date, just ask her to get drinks/coffee outside of the setting you see her in. That shoul…
/r/seduction12/06/18 05:40 PM
1

Yeah. you could have known her for a year but only talked to her a handful times, then it's fine. If you talk to her like 1-2 times a week in person for a year, then you're in the friendzone
/r/seduction12/06/18 05:39 PM
1

On the train, or on the platform? on the train is tough unless you really think it'll work or there's no one around. Giving a girl no space to exit if its goes badly is not socially acceptable.
/r/seduction12/06/18 05:33 PM
2

I do tend do agree with one part. Don't make it your goal for the day to be solely daygaming. If you go out and feel as if you have to talk to a girl or two or else it's a failure of a day, it'll usually give you bad results. Otherwise if you go about your day, and then you spot a girl or two that you want to talk to that are simply within your path of your day, then you usually get better results (from personal experience). I do think that in line/coffee shop/waiting for something is obviously …
/r/seduction12/06/18 05:32 PM
3

Lol what?
/r/seduction11/06/18 07:46 PM
1

Maybe it'll be nothing, maybe it'll be something that becomes a great experience for you both. I read somewhere that if it's a girl that isn't your friend/you know you'll see her often, treat every time like you see her as potentially the last time you'll see her. Makes flirting a bit easier.
/r/seduction11/06/18 03:53 PM
3

Yes. If she gives you doe eyes, heavy eye fucking, and plays with her hair, looking at your lips, laughs at unfunny things you say, she likes you.
/r/seduction11/06/18 12:22 AM
2

Bingo. Tons of people who are attractive and your age as well
/r/seduction10/06/18 09:54 PM
-1

Do whatever feels right to you
/r/seduction10/06/18 09:23 PM
1

Cool story
/r/seduction10/06/18 09:23 PM
1

I use messenger on FB for girls that don't have normal #/, acquaintances and sport group meetups. I use IG/numbers for dating purposes
/r/seduction10/06/18 08:48 PM
2

Do you mean before or after you talk to her?
/r/seduction10/06/18 08:47 PM
5

That being said. Only do it at a stop/platform not on the bus/train/whatever, so she has an exit route if it doesn't go well. That's why enclosed spaces + elevators are a no go for me.
/r/seduction10/06/18 06:54 PM
8

I think it's more of caring what other people think of you and what you do, which has been proven to not be true. Try doing something relatively out of norm in public (shouting something stupid), people will pay attention for 1-2 seconds and then move on in your life. Same thing with talking to random women, sure people might stare for a few seconds, but if it's a busy area during the daytime, most of the time people don't care about you and what you're doing.
/r/seduction09/06/18 05:32 PM
3

I've noticed that with attractive girls, teasing them or giving them a hard time makes them attracted more, is that true? From experience they enjoy it and even go along with it. I also love it when a girl teases me back too.
/r/seduction09/06/18 05:24 PM
47

Well duh. It shows to the woman that you have confidence.
/r/seduction08/06/18 09:45 PM
1

What about when they don't give a positive or negative reaction to touch?
/r/seduction07/06/18 10:55 PM
1

I assume hanging out with them is on a date right? Cause during the day going for a kiss unless you know she's really into you is risky as hell.
/r/seduction07/06/18 10:55 PM
1

Saved. Great post dude!
/r/seduction07/06/18 10:52 PM
1

Is there anything wrong with what you said? I mean that what most guys do, regardless of where they meet them. They only approach with IOIs/non verbal signals. Can you list any nonverbal signals that are important?
/r/seduction07/06/18 10:51 PM
4

They should be a supplement for in person interactions. OkCupid is slightly better for connections but still only a supplement.
/r/seduction06/06/18 06:27 PM
1

This is great advice. I've found that planning your day around approaching women gets worse results than just seeing a girl you find cute and then going for it when it came out of nowhere.
/r/seduction06/06/18 05:21 PM
-3

She said she couldn’t because she was on her way back to the office and asked for my number, to which I informed her that I don’t give out my number to strange women on the street! After some giggles, I then asked for hers and she gave it to me. Why not just say let's exchange numbers. Don't play games.
/r/seduction06/06/18 05:17 PM
3

Or comment about something happening nearby and then go direct. You won't be seeing her again in all likelihood so shoot for the moon here.
/r/seduction06/06/18 05:08 PM
17

....because if you meet enough women, you'll fall in love with at least one of them, no matter if you don't want it to happen. Catching feelings happens.
/r/seduction06/06/18 05:07 PM
1

Another tip I would add would be to have a question in your own profile that would peak her interest.
/r/seduction06/06/18 05:04 PM
1

Every one of these save the bar tender one are cringey. Just go off of opinion openers or observational ones if you don't want to go direct.
/r/seduction06/06/18 05:02 PM
2

use your own logic.
/r/seduction06/06/18 04:42 PM
3

This is going to end terribly, even if you do end up getting with her.
/r/seduction06/06/18 04:41 PM
1

Coffee, arcade, walk around a park, literally anything dude
/r/seduction06/06/18 03:14 AM
1

Sure. You should've asked her out a few messages ago. You're looking for a date, not a pen pal.
/r/seduction06/06/18 03:09 AM
1

What do you mean by: Not putting on the numbers they want and Flirt + physical escalation anxiety with fear of asking for what they want?
/r/seduction06/06/18 02:16 AM
1

Not a shill but I think rsdmax has a video of him getting blown off by women recently.
/r/seduction06/06/18 12:02 AM
1

Yes. But different women have various tastes for what they find attractive.
/r/seduction05/06/18 11:42 PM
3

Most 18 year olds aren't emotionally up there with most 24 years olds. That's why as say a 21 year old, 19-24 is your ideal range for dating (key word here).
/r/seduction05/06/18 07:58 PM
1

Also really creepy at times but whatever works I guess
/r/seduction05/06/18 06:24 PM
2

I'm kinda happy I avoided all of this stuff until university
/r/seduction05/06/18 03:15 AM
1

Responding to their stories works better for me at least.
/r/seduction05/06/18 03:14 AM
3

Whatsapp
/r/seduction05/06/18 03:02 AM
1

In point 3 can you expand on the last paragraph?
/r/seduction05/06/18 12:07 AM
1

Down for that.
/r/seduction04/06/18 11:49 PM
3

I bitch out way too often which is the problem. It's not AA as I've done it before.
/r/seduction04/06/18 11:18 PM
1

Not one specific girl, but girls that are a certain type that I've had moderate success with.
/r/seduction04/06/18 10:39 PM
1

Yup. I only ask for a number/IG/messenger or date if there's some sort of rapport. Doing it this way will weed out the 'maybe'girls.
/r/seduction04/06/18 07:36 PM
4

Yeah I always am too gun shy to act on eye contact + a smile from walking by women which happens once in a while. Wish I had your balls and courage haha
/r/seduction04/06/18 05:51 PM
1

Sent
/r/seduction04/06/18 05:50 PM
5

Hey dude I live in Toronto too. Want to meet up first? I'll send you a pm if you're interested.
/r/seduction04/06/18 05:38 PM
1

Are you going to pursue it with her at all, or just put her on the backburner?
/r/seduction04/06/18 04:48 PM
1

This is literally the only opener in the gym that works and you don't look creepy.
/r/seduction04/06/18 04:46 PM
1

Or if you do it in the gym, only do it if you've had eye contact multiple times before. Plus you can use the plausible deniability line of "I talk to my friends in the gym etc, and I'm social etc"
/r/seduction04/06/18 04:46 PM
5

RSDmax I think is your height, or slightly taller (5'7 maximum) Watch his videos about nightgame.
/r/seduction04/06/18 04:42 PM
1

Did she have her kid with her current BF, cause if not, then I wouldn't be 100% against this. If it was with him, then nope the fuck out.
/r/seduction04/06/18 04:42 PM
1

I literally made a friend and expanded my circle later by just talking to him at the gym when we were shooting around on a basketball court.
/r/seduction04/06/18 04:23 PM
1

All your posts are gone.
/r/seduction04/06/18 04:22 PM
1

I've found that in my friend group having balance of both is great.
/r/seduction04/06/18 04:22 PM
2

If you want to go really direct, say Hey, are you single. That gets your intentions across really quickly. But more direct that isn't too bold, is hey, I like (non physical thing about her), what's up etc.
/r/seduction03/06/18 05:49 PM
1

I need help how to make her interested in me; It's a very broad concept, but in general of all ages, 33.3% of women won't like you, 33.3% of women will like you, and 33.3% of women are indifferent/on the fence about you. This doesn't take in account taken/married/older women/not your type etc, but that's for all of them. but flirting and seduction is something I wanna learn. I don't wanna be creepy. If you think you're going to be creepy, you'll give off the the vibe that you are creepy. To flir…
/r/seduction03/06/18 05:48 PM
3

I like to call to set up plans, since a few hours worth of texts can be done in about ~5 minutes on the phone.
/r/seduction03/06/18 05:45 PM
1

Nah. I don't spam approach, but I do choose which women to approach based off of where they are in the moment, and how they look. If it's a coffee shop/park/nice part of town street, it's better than just a random chick in a grungy part of town y'know.
/r/seduction03/06/18 05:44 PM
2

People right now would think meeting your GF through randomness (cold approach/class/whatever) is weirder.
/r/seduction03/06/18 05:43 PM
3

Take action man! If she's on a date/hanging out with you alone, she's at least open to it.
/r/seduction03/06/18 05:42 PM
2

In high school, yeah. In non frats college and real world, no one gives a shit if you don't look greasy.
/r/seduction03/06/18 05:41 PM
2

I agree. She might have been one of those girls that prefers IG/snap/FB messenger first and then a number, though in school/places where you'll see the girl again, I like doing that first. But here, where there's a 99% chance you'll never see here again, go for the number since it's the most personal and will make your intentions clear.
/r/seduction03/06/18 05:36 PM
1

Yup
/r/seduction02/06/18 10:11 PM
1

as a supplement.
/r/seduction02/06/18 08:41 PM
1

Saw the update. Wouldn't say it's a hard rejection, but just back off for a week and try again. Nothing happens after that, just drop her.
/r/seduction02/06/18 08:37 PM
1

Exactly. How did people meet before online dating? Social circles, but yeah a good portion of it is random chance, on a street/store/class etc.
/r/seduction02/06/18 08:35 PM
1

if you try to rejected on purpose, you'll get a number or two since what you think won't work will on a few women. Trust me.
/r/seduction02/06/18 08:34 PM
2

Ask to hang out by suggesting an activity in public (essentially a date without the pressure of saying it's a date) If she's alone with you, she knows the deal especially if you met on a freaking dating site.
/r/seduction02/06/18 08:33 PM
3

This. I thought a girl who was "out of my league" wouldn't like me approaching her, but she stared at me a few times in class, smiled after and then asked for my phone number when we talked. I screwed it up with her for a few reasons, but stuff like that is why you should always be shooting your shot. All I can say is attractive women have unique tastes.
/r/seduction02/06/18 08:29 PM
7

Sidebar? Since there's no real specific question here. Anyways, just talk to girls and guys you find interesting. And ask to hang out with them again if they seem interested in you back. With women, you just escalate it with light physical contact etc and game.
/r/seduction02/06/18 08:28 PM
2

Are you on tinder for a pen pal or something else? Think about it.
/r/seduction02/06/18 06:29 PM
5

Girls are better IRL, plus they're usually hotter.
/r/seduction01/06/18 10:57 PM
2

Seems conventional to me
/r/seduction01/06/18 10:34 PM
1

NP. Just that it might get buried here.
/r/seduction01/06/18 07:35 PM
1

Doesn't seem too active....
/r/seduction01/06/18 07:32 PM
2

Ask her out. From first hand experience, attraction windows close quickly.
/r/seduction31/05/18 10:17 PM
2

Saved this post!
/r/seduction31/05/18 05:28 PM
1

How do you usually approach + close?
/r/seduction31/05/18 05:04 PM
1

What action did you take then?
/r/seduction31/05/18 03:21 PM
4

clickbait
/r/seduction31/05/18 03:17 PM
2

I had my first painful non approach in a whole today when realizing it a few minutes after leaving the coffee shop. Stares back and all. It sucks the feeling of regret.
/r/seduction31/05/18 12:06 AM
1

Ugh. I just had an a glance at a girl twice today in a coffee shop that was mutual and I chicken out from talking to her.
/r/seduction31/05/18 12:05 AM
1

And people have different tastes, for which this sub can't understand at time.
/r/seduction30/05/18 06:14 PM
-1

bitter much?
/r/seduction30/05/18 04:38 PM
7

It's more just improving your social skills in general and in turn, social intelligence.
/r/seduction30/05/18 03:55 PM
2

Yup. Proximity is an IOI if there's options to other stuff elsewhere, which is the case here. People of any shape and size can be insecure and not confident, ugly or beautiful.
/r/seduction30/05/18 12:08 AM
6

Lol. What do you think?
/r/seduction30/05/18 12:07 AM
2

Report and move on.
/r/seduction30/05/18 12:05 AM
2

Approach during the day, places where you have commonalities (in class, exercise class/activity) etc
/r/seduction30/05/18 12:04 AM
1

Somewhat important. But not necessary if you have good game.
/r/seduction29/05/18 05:01 PM
1

Awesome post dude!
/r/seduction29/05/18 05:01 PM
1

I'm not on your level, in terms of height, but similar type story. While looks are nice, they get you in the door and don't finish the deal. Women can be turned right off by an good looking guy if he's insecure, timid etc... get out of your comfort zone and ask women out, and make connections while giving them emotions. (Whether bad or good ones, this remake them remember you.)
/r/seduction29/05/18 12:53 AM
2

Ask her out
/r/seduction29/05/18 12:52 AM
4

Yeah I'm just new to online dating
/r/seduction28/05/18 06:42 PM
4

Sounds cheesy but does it work?
/r/seduction28/05/18 06:42 PM
1

Exactly that? I usually ask girls out in person
/r/seduction28/05/18 06:42 PM
5

So just be that direct?
/r/seduction28/05/18 06:42 PM
1

That hasn't worked in the past TBH
/r/seduction28/05/18 06:35 PM
1

Hmm. I've seen a few girls at the gym I go to that we see each other fairly often when I train. Should I say the same thing you did? I've never done a cold gym approach before.
/r/seduction27/05/18 09:54 PM
1

So investing in girls is a bad thing, and just let them do the work themselves? Seems logical.
/r/seduction27/05/18 08:06 PM
1

but that's only in the states, what's the relevance in Canada for say?
/r/seduction27/05/18 07:59 PM
1

How can you get more investment if an instadate isn't an option?
/r/seduction27/05/18 07:55 PM
1

Make friends with people that you don't find attractive or are taken for women friends.
/r/seduction27/05/18 07:52 PM
3

No, since I'm very well fit myself. However though, I usually go for girls that are either in shape or care about a healthy lifestyle (no excessive partying/drinking/drugs etc) since that would lineup best for both a short term and/or long term relationship.
/r/seduction27/05/18 07:48 PM
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