How should you advance this?

WIA20XX · 2018-07-09T22:21:13+00:00

Treat positive responses as female to male interest. After she is digging your vibe, you make her invest, by qualifying herself to you.

Are you fun? Adventurous? Spontaneous?

(I have specific ones for myself about what I like in a chick, and I'll drop a chick in a heartbeat cause I no longer put her attractiveness over my sanity)

In practical terms,

What's your weekend looking like?
Oh you're not doing anything?

A) Lemme scoop you up for this cool thing, wear flats. (High investment from her or she perceives your value is higher)

B) I'm gonna be at this cool thing with my friends, come through with your people. (Low pressure, low stakes)

Going out is no big deal, sex is no big deal, etc.

That is the vibe you want.
You also want to project that you can do better than her.

In this silly status game that girls play, even if she likes you, that's no good unless other cute girls like you.

In terms of the date, What you're trying to avoid is the situation high pressure hangout that results in your hopes going up, only to be fucked by a flake.

__thesandman · 2018-07-09T21:41:47+00:00

Don't do instagram. You have no idea how many guys an even remotely cute girl gets in her dms. Do snapchat or texting instead.

Fnarty · 2018-07-09T21:59:51+00:00

Yeah never follow chicks on Instagram. You look like a supplicant. Also, big time Instagram users are pretty much all attention whores.

If you do follow chicks on Instagram you gotta bust their balls a lot. If you ever say something like oh you look so pretty, you're done. Tease her and make fun of her photos.

Title	How should you advance this?
Author	EnvironmentalTwister
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	July 9, 2018 9:36 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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