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Dating apps opener help

EnvironmentalTwister · 2018-07-25T11:02:22+00:00

What is a good tinder opener that would get the girl's attention and start a good convo between the two of us? For example I matched with a model plus...

EnvironmentalTwister

July 25, 2018

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Title	Dating apps opener help
Author	EnvironmentalTwister
Upvotes	4
Comments	10
Date	July 25, 2018 11:02 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/91qudo/dating_apps_opener_help/
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[–]hunterpua 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

[–]EnvironmentalTwister 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

[–]hunterpua 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

[–]EnvironmentalTwister 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]hunterpua 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

Good. I like it when guys take action.

I do one of two things.

First

I really hate doing a direct reference to a past interaction so stuff like, "I really enjoyed the date last night, we should definitely do that again sometime." just makes me cringe like a motherfucker.

Also the whole, "Hey this is Hunter from Tinder" thing. Ugh...

I don't know, feels kinda weak and reactions from girls are usually not favorable so instead I make indirect references like, "What's the weirdest thing you've seen on Tinder?" then put my name one space down. They respond better to that if they were already kinda digging you from Tinder either because of your photos or if you had a longer back & forth before getting the number and they felt some sort of connection.

Second

If for any reason I'm feeling like a girl isn't digging me so much I'd send a message that sort of "forces" a response. So things like, "Can you keep a secret?" or "Is it true??" the ambiguity just drives girls crazy.

I also just recently found a gif of a French Bulldog puppy on its back rocking side to side. I could watch it all day, girls just get cutegasms from it. If you can send gifs that would be a really good gif to send.

Disclaimer: You have to be a little creative to figure out how to pull off a proper transition from something like "Is it true??" so that the interaction actually turns into something meaningful. I've always been able to just wing it but never cared to teach my students this because I just fucking tell them to use Bumble and I use Bumble more myself so I haven't been able to break down an effective pattern of how to transition out of those "curiosity openers".

That said, the truth or dare thing is actually just a part of a cool routine I created for Tinder that's really high percentage so if you wanna know that then let me know and I'll share it to you in the next comment.

[–]EnvironmentalTwister 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]hunterpua 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

Alright.

The opener is "Prettiest smile I've seen on Tinder"

Its pretty good percentage-wise around 60-75 and if you get a response to it then your odds go up to the 90% range as long as you follow the routine and can pull it off (it does require some skill)

Anyway they usually say thanks or act like you say that to everyone. If you get the latter then reassure them by saying something like "No really. I'm brand new to Tinder and in the 5 mins that I've been swiping your smile's the prettiest." being funny instead of serious handles objections like that better.

After that you always say something to the effect of, "I hope you're not boring though." or "A smile's nice but useless if you're boring." just tailor it based on her response and your calibration.

She should want to prove she isn't boring so then you qualify her.

Ask her if she's adventurous and ask her what the most adventurous thing she's ever done is then ask her if she's spontaneous and what the most spontaneous thing she's ever done is. You do the extra question just to make her give evidence to her being adventurous and spontaneous so that she cements herself deeper into being that kind of person.

Then you ask "Truth or dare?"

She basically talked herself into a corner so it'll be very hard for her to back out from game or the truth question or dare which you already know.

An added bonus to the adventurous/spontaneous qualification is that she will feel more of a connection to you by revealing those things about herself so when you get her number the transition to texting will feel a lot more seamless.

I did say it requires skill though. Mostly you need to understand at least the basics of qualification (very few on seddit do) and you need to know how you can actually get her to qualify even if she is resistant to it at first.

I break down the basics of qualification here: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/90nhq3/texting_girls_of_few_words_help_please/?utm_source=reddit-android

Just look for the comment under my username with a gold star on it. I'm on mobile and I don't know how to share the link of a comment on this. Haha

[–]EnvironmentalTwister 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]hunterpua 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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