Need insight on quick tinder/bumble escalation

2018-02-22T09:18:52+00:00

I’ve got two dates lined up through Bumble/Tinder for sometime this or next week.

And another two girls who told me they’re busy and would hit me up at the end of the month/beginning of March (expecting nothing from these two, but I’ll reignite come that time and see what might happen).

I assume you have the basic foundation for a good profile down, but make sure your passion or favorite thing is in your bio. It’s key. Both the girls that I have setup dates with brought up hockey (my favorite thing), and I would bring stuff up about them/their pictures or tease about wanting to teach them about hockey.

And a couple messages were long winded. But I wanted to get a point across, show my passion, but also not come off as boring...most guys’ text read like a math lecture.

I find Bumble and Tinder are good for finding girls with common interests, but it’s definitely 1000x easier to escalate in person. So don’t take the apps serious much at all. Expect nothing, because I have 2 sure dates out of 40 matches...

But anyways, you do have to be quick. You wanna set up a date or get their snap/number/facebook/etc in about 10 messages. Or less if possible but I like to build a bit of rapport.

TruthSFree · 2018-02-22T12:51:55+00:00

Simple, play 'questions'. I suggest questions, we both take turns asking three personal questions and at the end of which we have to decide if we want to meet each other. The psychology of this is women want to feel that they have earned what they get, she wants to feel like she is winning you over mentally as well as her picture. So ask shallow questions that seem deep and at the end of the three questions each, she will be receptive to meeting, because that's what she wanted in the first place, but now she feels like she has earned it. Another pro tip, move fast on tinder, women are on there "when" they are horny. Usually.https://www.truthrelationshipmanagement.com/new-blog/2018/1/23/trm-tinder-game-part-1?rq=tinder

tab13092 · 2018-02-22T19:15:57+00:00

So, in my own experience this is generally what I do.

Send a fun/casual opener (something funny) or open with a question about them (generally best to actually read their bio and pick something from there if there is anything)

Generally chat back and forth for a few messages, get her number, and then switch to texting (or snapchat or whatever)

Then just set up logistics (date/time/place) for meeting up.

If you're not looking for anything serious, as you have done just be upfront about it early on so there are no mixed signals. (Best bet is something like "I'm not looking for anything serious, I'm just going with the flow")

HuntDownFascists · 2018-02-23T23:06:22+00:00

Just say hey. Limit small talk on the app. After a few bullshit messages say something like:

"Lowkey hate chatting on tinder. Anyways, I'm busy tonight but If you ever want to hang out just shoot me a text whenever insert phone number here"

And then don't say anything else to her at all. Within a few days you'll get a text from her almost guaranteed as long as you don't give in and start pestering her or acting whiny/entitled.

The operative principle here is aloofness and showing sexual self restraint and mastery over your impulses.

Title	Need insight on quick tinder/bumble escalation
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Date	February 22, 2018 8:05 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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