Need Life Advice.... :(

fuckinator_1 · 2016-12-11T15:51:09+00:00

Slow down, it seems like you are depressed and you try to fix that by getting a girlfriend. You won't have a happy relationship unless you are happy with yourself.

You need to learn how to take care of yourself, make yourself happy, develop hobbies. Build yourself up. Don't make women be the center of your life, because even if it can work, it will always end up in a disaster as you will be too needy to mantain a healthy relationship.

So look around: what options for self-growth do you have? Are you hitting the gym? Do you have any hobbies? Is there anybody in your environment you could become friends with to practice social skills? What do you do every day to push yourself? Are you constantly trying to stay inside your comfort zone?

msmiitz · 2016-12-11T21:52:11+00:00

Give up girls suck

2016-12-11T16:20:39+00:00

You seem to be in a state of neediness still, it's like you are doing things in the attempt to make women more attracted to you, why not attract yourself? You don't have to do any of these things to get women, be confident within yourself. Women are the icing on the cake my friend. I'd rather sleep with just one girl and be completely satisfied with myself and strive to be better (not out of necessity but because I want to) than to fuck 100's of girls and be down and depressed.

Work on you brother and make those fundamental changes, it's okay to have a lot of failure, it makes the successes that much sweeter!

Title	Need Life Advice.... :(
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Date	December 11, 2016 3:43 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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