I (29M) knew this girl from work about 2 years ago. In January, she hit me up to catch up and link. She says she likes me and always did when we worked together, and I did too. We’ve hooked up a couple times since then. However, the past month has been kinda slow. Basically, I find she’s not as enthusiastic to meet up even tho she’d still make room it or would be engaging in the conversation. For example, I ask her to link up on a particular day but she says she’s not free. Then she offers “maybe next week” or “I’ll let you know” i usually have to dig a little bit more to have her confirm the day she wants to meet. I tend to be the one scheduling the time to meet. She would sporadically send sexual IG memes or comment on my story “you’re hot” etc.. but she usually won’t just hit me up to meet up if I don’t. So I thought I’d change strategies.

Few weeks ago I travelled outta town and she was extra flirty over snap/IG and was waiting on me to be back. When I did, I tried scheduling a date but she said she was busy and maybe next week? So instead of keep trying to bring up days that’d work for us both, I told her to let me know what day works for her but she didn’t provide a date so I just left it and haven’t been texting her much. We were chatting this past weekend and she was engaging as usual and she invited me to her friend’s party tomorrow.

Now, would it be a good move to go to this party? Since she never seems to be available often when I ask and hasn’t put in much effort to wanna see me. I can also socialize and flirt with women at this party if I notice she’s giving negative vibes. Or just decline and use it as an opportunity to schedule something?