You might have seen posts with this title hundreds of times, especially by many who claim to be nerds. But I have a different story to tell, please give it a quick read I'll try to keep it short, especially all the experienced alphas and PUAs out here, I will be forever grateful for any help!

So to give you my background basically I am an Indian lad studying and living in UK and trying to get integrated in the western society. I moved to England when I was 19, a complete innocent virgin (grew up in a religious family). Living here for more than two years now I've met quite a few girls, moreover recently as I hit 21. I keep a well-trimmed beard, have tanned skin tone, in a good shape (working out for 3 years), tall and quite good looking (above average) as I've had quite a few girls show interest in me when I joined uni and when I met housemates female friends. I have dated couple of girls for short period, one of them almost turned into a relationship, but didn't last long.

To be completely honest I only have been with one girl, after dating her for a while, on and off, she was really into me and got me in bed and we tried having sex but I couldn't penetrate as I wasn't turned on. Did this couple of times but I figured I get really nervous when in bed; she was blonde, blue eyes, good face, just a tad bit unfit bodywise. She was pretty much my girlfriend as she understood my issue and was totally fine with it. It lasted until she moved away within two month to start uni in a different town, she had mental issues and didn't want any relationship going into uni. Fair enough.

I am completely past that, and this is where my main obstacle is and know many of you guys can help me here. So I have started dating this girl 26, accountant who I met on Hinge app. She's also blonde hair, blue-eyed and quite tall. To be more clear she's 6 feet tall, almost the same height as me ( I am 184 cm). I totally love this as I am weirdly into tall girls and get aroused really easily around tall women for some reason. Perfect case! Been on two dates with her, she seems okay but I don't seem to have her complete attention. She is interested in me but I think I am not captivating her mind or making an emotional connection, she definitely is attracted to me as she kissed me on the lips at the end of second date, but seems to be a little bit sceptical or expecting something more.

Now here I am, trying to organise a third date, something she would be really into (she is pretty basic London girl, likes skiing tho and Indian food. First date- cocktail bar, Second date- ice-skating and Indian dinner) and most importantly somewhere I could properly make out with her and ask if we should go back to mine or hers. Obstacles I have :

  1. Don't know how to pick the right environment to get physical or show hints of sexual attraction (especially in a busy city like London).
  2. How to seduce her on a date and make an emotional connection, as I realized I've overlooked this so far.
  3. How to organise going back to the house, as we both meet in central London where she works, and both live 45 min-1hr away from London in different directions.
  4. How to perform confidently in the bed, especially for the firs time, as technically I am still a virgin, but been in bed with a girl before.

Any advice would be really really appreciated as I don't wanna miss this opportunity. I know you guys would understand as you've been in similar situation at some point in life.

Thanks