Hey guys, I know it may sound insecure and what not, but I had enough. I really want to fix this. I was in a small city in Canada and one of the reasons I was telling myself that I am not finding any hookups or relationship was because it was very small and conservative. I went to Calgary now, and it is literally the same. Tinder, bumble aren't working at all, and the sad part is whenever I go a club and hangout with random men, the first thing they say is," God dam good ur good looking, u probably have a woman every single day." Which is nice, but makes you think of what you are doing wrong . My self esteem is really low as it is, and one of the reasons I don't cold approach in malls and these places is because I don't want it to decrease anymore, or maybe I don't want to find out if women actually see me unattractive. It has been in my mind for a year now and I really want to fix it. I want to live the style of a man who can talk to any woman and try his chance with it, it sounds stupid but I want to live it as I am young before it is too late. What advices/ things should I do to start fixing this? Any advices or critics will be taken I don't care.

If you have anymore questions let me know and thank you so much !