Need some help/advice for highschool

muddagaki · 2014-12-29T21:00:59+00:00

hey man I'm in highschool also just a grade below and what you should really do is work on yourself right now because like you said "dont shit where you eat" learn to do stuff you want to do and find people with similar interests if you don't have friends right now maybe you should look to join a club or something like that its a really great way to meet people don't worry about cold approaching right now, what you can do is compliment girls and talk to them like a normal person i feel like your really stressing to get an early start when what you need to chill out and work on yourself, you always hear about highschool break ups and shit? yeah why would you want all that drama anyways?

lordBobbo · 2014-12-29T21:43:05+00:00

First of all, you are very young to be doing this, and that's great! You've got a head start. I live in Norway, two grades above you and I go to the most party oriented school in the country, thank lord. I hope I can be of help as I see some of myself in your situation.

There's really very little we can do for you though. My best advice would be to participate in more social circles. Get to know different kinds of people and talk to anyone you feel like. Even more than that actually. Sometimes though it's better to observe others. Think objectively of why he (Local player) gets girls. What defines his behaviour, what makes him stand out and so on. Pay attention to body language as well. It's sad to hear you live in such a place, you deserve better now that you want to grow. So don't go to the mall, focus on school. It is a good arena for personal growth. Strive to become a more social character that people will want to be around. As for your game, I recommend reading here every now and then. Most important however is that you don't quit, be outcome independent and find out what doesn't work.

I understand that you want to learn to attract girls over texts. But that is almost impossible. If a girl is already attracted to you, her desire for you might grow if you can make her feel great over texts. Building attraction happens face to face. It works for keeping in touch though. Text as little as possible. Please learn from my mistakes, as texting can backfire easily if you push too hard

ThrowawayPUA · 2014-12-29T21:16:21+00:00

Forget project go, it is screwing you up.

JWilikers · 2014-12-30T02:10:33+00:00

/r/highseddit

muddagaki · 2014-12-30T03:31:13+00:00

Well for creating bonds with your friends my best advice is talking 1 on 1 with them and just get to kmow them better ask questions and joke around pretty much have fun and just talk, thats my 2 cents hope i helped at least a little

Title	Need some help/advice for highschool
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Comments	9
Date	December 29, 2014 6:37 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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