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Fuck dude. I seriously considered therapy for this back in june... Thanks man
/r/seduction06/09/18 08:55 PM
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How do you work against it? Like I can be around a girl I'm into (and she's into me) yet consistently act against what I want and intend. It's fear of intimacy, like u/africanpyjamas69 said. And I have this deep-set crave for intimacy. Really fucks up my relationships with women
/r/seduction06/09/18 08:50 PM
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Alright cool, I'll keep a lookout, thanks
/r/seduction18/07/16 10:11 AM
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How can one get into stand up comedy? I live outside the city, but I guess one could find a comedy club and request to perform. Do you practice with other people, like going to yoga class?
/r/seduction17/07/16 09:03 PM
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Damn dude you're smart. I fully agree, thanks man
/r/seduction16/07/16 02:30 PM
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Do you do a thousand in one sitting? Dude, I think you might be doing something entirely counterproductive.
/r/seduction23/11/15 05:08 PM
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More often than not I use these kinds of lines, just stating that I want to kiss them. That way they'll know that I'm going to kiss her just moments later. Fuck, dude, teach me how to be alpha pls? Can you please elaborate on how you go about it?
/r/seduction05/11/15 08:07 PM
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During the holidays, I was chilling out with my friends. We smoked some weed and played video games, when a girl in my class called me. The year before I even talked shit to my friends, saying stuff like "yeah Imma do her". The girl told me she wanted to smoke weed and asked if I could come over. She hinted at me, and it was essentially a booty-call. I was caught by surprise, and quickly told her I didn't have any goodies. "Oh... well, you see, I'm home alone all night..." "Okay sure goodbye!" A…
/r/seduction16/09/15 05:35 PM
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Your style helps women screen you. They can tell by the way you dress that you're not their type and vice-versa. Look into your style and develop it dude, it can do wonders just overnight. You have to accept that you have value! Accept that there are tons of women out there who are genuinely attracted to you! It's on you to find them, so keep grinding. I was about to tell you that you look good, but those remarks never seem to do anything. Let me leave you with this though; show off that last sm…
/r/seduction15/08/15 05:33 PM
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Great idea! OP, I think you should start a thread, and include an introduction in the post. Seeing as this post didn't get tons of upvotes we can't expect the mods to implement it right away, so it's on you, or the rest of us. I'd partake right away dude
/r/seduction15/08/15 05:21 PM
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Brobeans, I came for the same reason. 3rd guy so far. Asking them for their permission, regarding kino, seems soo strange to me. Can you please provide some details regarding this?
/r/seduction09/08/15 06:54 PM
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Nr. 24; Courage is acting in spite of fear. So yeah, a cool take on it. I think numbers 6 and 7 are truly great. I've stopped myself mid-sentence lots of times in order to think for a sec. Why am I seducing her like this? I question my intentions, recognise the malicious agenda. After, I adjust accordingly or eject. Praise Manson
/r/seduction09/08/15 06:46 PM
2

What do you mean by being engaged? Great post by the way, thanks.
/r/seduction07/08/15 09:30 PM
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What 30 seconds? I'm clueless
/r/seduction30/07/15 07:26 PM
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Good to hear man, thanks for replying! I think your last paragraph might be the most valuable I've learnt from this experience. I've never encountered that kind of flirting before, and so I will remember your lesson the next time
/r/seduction30/07/15 11:00 AM
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I'd love to have a girlfriend, yeah :) And this girl is certainly suitable. I don't stress when it comes to my virginity. Thing is, this girl really made me horny, and I think that came across in my post. Might be why you're telling me it's no big deal. I feel deprivated though. Also, I didn't have any expectations. Whenever I go out I'm just having fun, often by seducing attractive girls. And yeah, you're right. I should have picked up the chase later. But I was tired and horny af. And when I s…
/r/seduction30/07/15 10:54 AM
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Think rhetorics. I would start by building some trustworthiness. Talk about how her behaviour reminds you of your own, and hopefully how you are part of this community, in order to give you some legitimacy. The latter is optional, of course. Just my 2 cents
/r/seduction12/07/15 06:18 PM
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Yeah, thanks for pointing that out. The formatting got messed up.
/r/seduction09/07/15 01:37 PM
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Social proof I suppose. Makes OP even more attractive
/r/seduction27/05/15 11:11 AM
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Damn good job. You got her number and she even had a boyfriend. Kudos
/r/seduction25/05/15 12:45 PM
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WHAT THE HELL!??! OP I remember you, we wrote this as a collaboration in a thread in highseddit. Anyway, I'm glad people found it useful, and I needed to read it again after some recent experiences. Thanks man
/r/seduction24/05/15 10:08 AM
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I've been thinking about this recently. As for my case, I spend more time working on myself rather than improving game. I go to house-parties nearly every saturday, but I rarely work on game rather than that. I feel like the environment where I live isn't suitable for game, and therefore I'll be going to France for two weeks and iOS, Greece, for a week this summer. My point is that I work on game or myself, one at a time, depending on what I am doing and where I am. I can do whatever I want this…
/r/seduction02/05/15 06:34 PM
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My top advice would also be to limit your intake of drugs, i.e. alcohol, MJ and any other. Messing this up messes up your entire experience so take it easy. Smile, take up space and be assertive. I'm also in high school but in a european country, for the record, and after tons of different experiences, perhaps even more important than limiting your drinks is not giving a fuck and having fun. Any time you feel "Oh no, someone might not like that" or absolutely anything similar, let go and remind …
/r/seduction23/04/15 07:30 PM
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I somewhat disagree with what u/curl wrote below. Don't be an asshole, be authentic and assertive. However, some of the points he made later was good, as long as it is authentic and honest behaviour. Being nice and friendly to people is a good quality, but when you want something or won't tolerate something you have to express it. Be a bit demanding. "Be a bit arrogant. Show her you aren't intimidated by social rules, and she'll know you also won't be afraid to touch her or fuck her rough." Spot…
/r/seduction22/04/15 10:58 AM
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Good to hear you're making progress. First off, the problem is indeed you. As a man in todays society, you are expected to and absolutely have to move things forward. You certainly have a lot of value, I'd say it's your game and awareness that needs work. I got the impression you struggle with conversation skills and escalating, probably being direct also. Don't expect girls to put forth effort to begin with, not until your interaction is tense and you're both attracted. Shit man, I've got to st…
/r/seduction21/04/15 08:18 PM
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Interesting post dude. I somewhat agree, contrary to others here. I agree with most of them, but this post resonates well with what I recently experienced. As of today I'm kind of in the friend-zone. A girl and I we're completely honest with our intentions and wishes, turns out it was also an inconvenient time for me to pursue her. I sought her rejection and got it after a week of trivial drama. Anyhow, I have been a true man ever since our first seddit related interaction and she respects me. S…
/r/seduction21/04/15 08:03 PM
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Bruh, you've just got to approach because the attraction will indeed fizzle, and it's probably happening now. I won't go into detail on how-to. However, if you don't ever attempt to get her talking there's only one outcome: Regret. I experienced something alike once I was at your level and I still regret that I never approached. And really, you approaching her isn't a big deal, it's all in your head. I recommend that you hold that eye contact once and smile. Shortly after, approach and acknowled…
/r/seduction21/04/15 05:22 PM
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I once wrote but didn't post something similar. I felt reborn because I knew I wouldn't die alone or lose my virginity at 28. Wonderful feeling :)
/r/seduction18/04/15 09:22 PM
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I encountered a vastly similar situation which I put a stop to last week. The way you describe how you felt above is spot on with how I felt too. And it's shit. Anyhow, at a party last week I just opened up to her. I felt like the attraction between us had faded and I expected a rejection. Basically I told her I wanted to talk to her, isolated her and said that I wanted to take her out sometime. It went better than expected, she definitely didn't reject me at least. In hindsight, I couldn't just…
/r/seduction18/04/15 01:17 PM
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I personally stick to the 0 second rule, mostly because I naturally just jump up and approach immediately. However, if 3 seconds or even more passes, you should still approach
/r/seduction13/04/15 08:46 PM
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Correct. I agree with you, I'll never search for her, yeah.
/r/seduction13/04/15 07:41 PM
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A lot of sedditors talk about how the quality of our community has declined. What's wrong with it now? FYI I came across seddit during the holidays.
/r/seduction09/04/15 04:04 PM
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Really good post dude, thanks for improving the community
/r/seduction09/04/15 01:49 PM
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I watched this yesterday and I think it's great. keep in mind, I'm a novice. First of all, yes, you could go up to a girl on the dance floor like that (don't exchange names, makes it interesting) and see how it goes. So why wouldn't it work you say? Thing is, it will work eventually, that's the numbers game. After filtering through X amount un-receptive girls you'll find one that complies. Simply being authentic and going out frequently works wonders. Though 95% of guys aren't. And we who are in…
/r/seduction06/04/15 07:16 PM
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OP, I got the impression you've never visited this sub before. Congratulations!!! You've hit the jackpot, but only if you follow this guy's advice. Seriously, OP, abort the arrangement ASAP.
/r/seduction06/04/15 06:50 PM
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Alpha/beta is relevant to the social dynamics of these interactions. However, the post was more about how I had never been so in-state. Thanks for reading!
/r/seduction18/03/15 05:13 PM
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It would be awful to be that notorious "pick-up schmuck" on campus. As for how to be discreet about it, perhaps tone down this aggressiveness. I wouldn't know though, but don't be ashamed of it dude. Own it
/r/seduction17/03/15 08:25 PM
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I feared this was my biggest mistake. I've come to terms with it so I thought I'd own it. From now on I won't tell it to girls. Still, I'm not comfortable with lying about it.
/r/seduction16/03/15 03:19 PM
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It never felt try-hard or fake, though others might have perceived it as just that. Thank you for the great response!
/r/seduction16/03/15 03:15 PM
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You won't give up.
/r/seduction13/03/15 01:52 PM
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Jævlig bra jobba! Å høre slike hitorier gjør meg bare mer gira på å gi faen og stå på. Haha jeg er glad på dine vegne
/r/seduction11/03/15 02:13 PM
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Oh yeah. Though it's a pain in the ass, it's just another logistical problem
/r/seduction07/03/15 09:23 PM
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I wouldn't say your venues are horrible, they have their advantages too, but the slut-mechanism is practiced even in the bigger clubs. Our situation is more of a logistical problem, which requires a logistical and clever solution. You see, I struggle with the same issues and it sucks big time. I recall this issue being elaborated upon in seddit. The responses are great and not mine. Essentially we have to earn a blessing from her friends. This can be done by approaching the group as a whole and …
/r/seduction07/03/15 07:53 PM
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I have to say, I don't go to big clubs either so I think we both meet the same challenges. And my former reply still applies to some extent by the way. Would you elaborate on slut-shaming and your situation?
/r/seduction07/03/15 06:52 PM
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Bring her to the dance floor and have fun. Increase the tension by feeling her up, bring her hips close to yours and put her arms around your neck. There you can sneak in a kiss and even if you don't, you can isolate her and make out after. As for getting her to the dance floor you just have to have fun (you know, enjoying the present) and believe in yourself. Smile while you grab her hand and lead her to dance, while keeping strong eye-contact. Hopefully this helps, it's basically what I've bee…
/r/seduction07/03/15 06:20 PM
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Hahh fuck me! Man I cringed when I read your reply
/r/seduction06/03/15 07:39 PM
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Uhh, what's a devil's threesome?
/r/seduction06/03/15 07:27 PM
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Haha, sadly I agree to some extent. I still stand by my words, she does not sound useless
/r/seduction04/03/15 03:28 PM
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She is likely to have more experiences and wisdom taken from those that mediocre women. After all, men are attracted primarily to physical attributes. So yeah her appearance does matter
/r/seduction04/03/15 02:28 PM
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Damn dawg that was pretty clever. I'll try to adopt this and let it be natural while flirting. Thank you so much for the reply, this was just what I needed.
/r/seduction04/03/15 12:12 PM
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Can you elaborate? I gave no idea what you're talking about sadly
/r/seduction03/03/15 02:21 PM
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Thank you so much for the feedback man. I'm already considering the possibilities. You see I live in the suburbs in Norway, and there aren't any cafés around haha.
/r/seduction02/03/15 03:14 PM
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I've read most of the top posts and I can recall this subject being expanded upon. I'll revisit them right now actually, thanks a lot man.
/r/seduction01/03/15 01:46 PM
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Been there dude. I felt the same too and it negatively affected my behaviour. When I see this group closing in, a thought hits me. "Wow, it looks like they're having fun." or "Ayy good looking ladies", something like that. I would of course rephrase the second thought, but then express it and myself. Get eye-contact, smile at them and say something like the above, however you like. Then all you've got to do is carry on the conversation, perhaps even join them to the next bar.
/r/seduction20/02/15 11:30 PM
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How does this apply to what the girl says? It reminded me of an interaction, and now I'm unsure wether it was sincere or not.
/r/seduction20/02/15 11:21 PM
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you the man! Thank you!
/r/seduction15/02/15 06:11 PM
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ThrowawayPUA's answer is right on. Escalating should be fine, be aggressive, have fun and be engaged while you dance. (I'm having a hard time picturing tis scenario). You should be able to k-close or #-close, perhaps even f-close, after isolating. Tell her you two should get some fresh air outside
/r/seduction15/02/15 09:54 AM
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Maaaaan, I saw the post last night but didn't have the time to enroll. And now it's expired :( Thanks you for the offer anyhow OP!
/r/seduction15/02/15 09:41 AM
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Sounds great. Take on the role as a leader for all your friends, let the fun come from you and organise. This is an attractive trait. Do some push-pull. Let her know that you're there to have fun with your friends and so on. But be genuinely interested in her, it's all about balance and moderation. Remember to kino, isolate her before the two of you split up and get her number.
/r/seduction06/02/15 11:28 AM
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I like you dude
/r/seduction05/02/15 02:22 PM
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Doesn't matter much what you talk about. Just get to know her on an intimate level, and be attractive. If we had some details on the context of what and where, I could give you some pointers. Will it be a blind date or will all of you get together? Good luck anyways :)
/r/seduction05/02/15 01:24 PM
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The other guys here are clever, listen to them. But adding her on Facebook won't change anything or make you more attractive. You'll just be able to see her in that bikini
/r/seduction05/02/15 10:38 AM
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She is above the age of consent. If you want to hit that, just go gorilla on her ass. It sounds like you want to too.
/r/seduction05/02/15 10:31 AM
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Sounds really fun. I don't know what to tell you dude, this just can't go wrong.
/r/seduction04/02/15 07:30 PM
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Why was she un-attainable? Because she was pretty? Fuck nah. Don't bother thinking about why you feel that way. I've been there too though, and it sucks... I would say it's an issue if you don't act on it. And I did so. Holy shit biggest mistake of my life. This might evolve into oneitis. The solution would be for her to make up her mind about you by making a move. Don't treat her/seduce her differently because she's really hot. If not you'll end up like all the other try-hard dudes who hit on h…
/r/seduction04/02/15 05:51 PM
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I too recommend you see a therapist. But that's for you to decide, that depression and stuff doesn't leave completely along with your ex overnight. Read Models by Mark Manson. Don't give a crap about your scars, though, own them. Read a lot on this sub
/r/seduction03/02/15 01:57 PM
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hehe. It should even have been included in his list
/r/seduction02/02/15 10:45 AM
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I've been thinking about this for some time, but have never winged my friends at all. You, the wingman, can't do all that much I think. You cannot create sexual tension between them (friend and girl). Their interactions are not for you to take part in. And so I thought "Well, what CAN I do?". You can create opportunities for your buddies. Let's take a bar scene for an example. The two of us can approach girls and ease them up, show them how awesome we are. Hey, why don't you guys join me and my …
/r/seduction01/02/15 08:06 PM
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When you can't even hear each other talking, and her friends have already given you their blessing, you have to isolate her. There are thousands of contextual/situational things to do, e.g. "I wonder what's behind that wall.. ;)" Most importantly is to look her in the eyes, give her your smirk, grab her arm and lead her somewhere else, and finally close.
/r/seduction31/01/15 09:21 PM
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I can see this being Snapchat, right? Don't respond all the time, especially if the keep showing you how incredibly much fun they're having. Doesn't even matter if it's texting or Snapchat. You know what, don't give a crap about them. (Take this with a pinch of salt and look it up). Seduction happens face to face, so it's your interactions irl that matters. Great to hear you've started working out! It really has a lot of benefits. But go hard man. yeah, it sounds like you've got a long way to go…
/r/seduction28/01/15 08:25 PM
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Indeed a golden opportunity. Point out to her how well your dogs get along and suggest taking a walk in the park later. Ask her to join you around the block or so. I don't know, just tossing ideas around
/r/seduction28/01/15 06:48 PM
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I probably wouldn't bring a girl to a café after my first approach. I've been hitting it off with the girl above so it would've been a valid offer. Oh, and don't be sorry man :)
/r/seduction28/01/15 06:44 PM
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Thank you everyone, I appreciate it
/r/seduction18/01/15 07:51 PM
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There's material on this sub regarding escapes from the friend zone. Anyways just go for other girls primarily
/r/seduction11/01/15 09:12 PM
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Yes! If the girl was to face you, that would be an opportune moment to execute. However, that might not happen, so try to make it happen or just go for it by grabbing her legs once an opportunity presents itself.
/r/seduction11/01/15 11:29 AM
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Damn that's harsh. Are you completely deaf?
/r/seduction11/01/15 11:23 AM
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Yeah that's pretty awful. I agree with Zombiefowl, I know I would've been pretty beat down after 5 rejections. The same thing happened to me, though I was only rejected 3 times before I said fuck it. But I did everything wrong that night and learnt a lot. So dude learn from that experience and apply it within your next night out. GL
/r/seduction11/01/15 09:50 AM
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Just try it once
/r/seduction11/01/15 09:36 AM
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Perhaps it's your body language
/r/seduction10/01/15 12:01 PM
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Working out for starters, that's something everyone can do and enjoy. Plus it is very rewarding. I had developed some pretty malignant masturbation habits, so I quit watching porn at least. I also jacked off less. I read a lot on this sub which helped me stray away from my previous self, a huge AFC. Also I rearranged my pot-smoking habits to become more productive. Good luck
/r/seduction09/01/15 03:16 PM
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Too bad it turned out like that, though this post was very helpful to me, thanks dude :)
/r/seduction08/01/15 10:07 PM
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Haha no I don't know of course. However, and please pardon my foul language, after a lets say a 5-6 day dry spell, I tend to quickly and unintentionally "blow up". Like I sit there and go what the fuck happened? Losing my V-card is no issue thanks to discovering this sub, and yes I am doing my best. What did you mean by too-shy-to-come-out-and-play variety? thanks man.
/r/seduction08/01/15 10:04 PM
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Take a detour. Expand by getting to know other people and then circle back to those you talk of. But yeah you've almost already done so, go for it
/r/seduction07/01/15 08:57 PM
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/r/seduction07/01/15 08:54 PM
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I'm really impressed dude, great story. And I'll be sure to be honest in my approach like you did with the first girl. Very clever.
/r/seduction07/01/15 06:37 PM
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I too create these ideas of what our relationship could be. Nothing bad with it, just daydreaming. And for the record, you weren't the problem, the chicks were. Realise that what you expect or hope to achieve with each relationship can stray far away from what will actually happen. And that is the beauty of it, who knows what might happen :)
/r/seduction04/01/15 03:28 PM
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I think you made the right move by only asking for one number. But she is in a relationship, so I wouldn't pursue her. However, you could befriend her and get to know her other friends better
/r/seduction03/01/15 10:19 PM
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These two types project different vibes. I guess you'll just have to convey a different energy when seducing the bimbos
/r/seduction03/01/15 07:24 PM
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Ordered it right now, you talked me into it. Thanks! :)
/r/seduction03/01/15 07:11 PM
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Do it
/r/seduction02/01/15 10:52 AM
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Oh yes. Until I encountered this community, I had no idea of how many life changing experiences I turned down because I was a little bitch. I never felt sad, on the contrary, I was and still am ecstatic because I know such an opportunity won't pass again, willingly or unnoticed :D
/r/seduction02/01/15 10:36 AM
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I guess you'd call it smalltalk, but the endgame is getting to know more people and expanding your social network through interactions. Building confidence is an inner process, and talking with people can only help. All experience is good experience. Convey it to this process and your confidence will grow. I've felt the same way as you do with your friends. I realised I was just overthinking things and analysing rather than trying. Nothing held me back but myself so I stopped giving a fuck. This…
/r/seduction30/12/14 10:25 AM
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First of all, you are very young to be doing this, and that's great! You've got a head start. I live in Norway, two grades above you and I go to the most party oriented school in the country, thank lord. I hope I can be of help as I see some of myself in your situation. There's really very little we can do for you though. My best advice would be to participate in more social circles. Get to know different kinds of people and talk to anyone you feel like. Even more than that actually. Sometimes t…
/r/seduction29/12/14 09:43 PM
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Never put her on a pedestal. It's my golden rule
/r/seduction19/12/14 11:31 PM
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I'm impressed, way to go man. I definitely wouldn't bring her flowers or chocolate. I think it's a bit soon. Send her a text about when and where, then tell her you're looking forward to it. Her brother might be an obstacle, that's for you to decide. Meet up, go shopping for a while and maybe leave the mall to find someplace to eat or go for a walk. I dunno, doesn't matter much Good luck :)
/r/seduction19/12/14 11:30 PM
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Still, congrats to that guy.
/r/seduction17/12/14 06:16 PM
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That girl knows what's up
/r/seduction15/12/14 03:52 PM
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Buddy, I felt the same way a couple weeks back. Except being ashamed of it. You shouldn't be. Other people give it little thought, no one cares but you. You have a great experience to look forward to! And no you're not shit. You are THE shit man! With this mentality, you will get what you want. The deprivation we both suffer from gives us the drive and motivation to do what it takes. Just work on your social skills and don't fear rejection. I did not long ago, but it actually feels good. When it…
/r/seduction07/12/14 08:57 PM
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