What to do with beta friends?

mrsamdick · 2015-01-18T16:41:01+00:00

Don't try to control the people in your life. Just be yourself and live by example. If what you're doing is so special they'll realize it eventually. Or they won't, in which case it's their loss.

Either way, it's not something to waste your energy on.

lordBobbo · 2015-01-18T19:51:00+00:00

Thank you everyone, I appreciate it

stefanhc1 · 2015-01-18T20:41:59+00:00

I'm also new to Seddit but I've experienced this somewhat with my best friends. It's hard not to want to share all this great information with people you want to see succeed, especially if it'd be fun to progress together. However, in this situation it's better to let your actions speak for themselves. Try not to tell them about how great Seddit is and how everything they do is wrong. Instead, you can "show them something interesting you found", maybe ask them what they think so they are exposed. Then when you are out, you can show them. I went out with my friends when I visited them and one night I told them we'd play a game. (I was pretty drunk so I had no AA whatsoever) I told them to just point at girls and I'd go talk to them. It was a great night and by the end one of my friends was joining me to all my sets. The other guy is in a "white-knight" relationship and finds it all "creepy" but he was impressed by my courage to approach. The point is, don't try to shove it down their throats. If they are interested and see it will benefit them, they will join you or ask for help. If not, then find yourself some pickup buddies. Hope this helps.

baguette180 · 2015-01-18T23:34:28+00:00

I don't think it is possible. like think of how much you want to change to change your self. If they don't wanna change then the amount of effort to change them would be insane.

I think all you can do is leave by example and start crushing it. and once they see all the positive benefits they will be like "huuuuu geee.. lordBobbo use to be a smuck like me, and then he like researched how to improve him self... and now he has a better life.... maybe i should do that." and they probably ask you.

(this is just my thoughts on how id imagine things to work, and what people usually say)

Id imagen if you could expose them to a larger group that use the same paradigm you do, they would maybe adopt it. (that would he heard to do though)

gexxx007 · 2015-01-19T17:13:21+00:00

Use your friends to keep the fat chicks at bay while you get with their hot friends.

thehappysoul · 2015-01-18T17:40:28+00:00

We live in a world that is more or less selfish. Focus on yourself first and after you stat getting results there are two things that can happen 1. Your friends ask you to teach them 2. Your friends are going to pull you back to your old self. I am actually from braindirector ( Some of us has spent upto 8 years in social dynamics) i am telling you from experience 1. You do not need to worry about "Teaching Your Friends" Leave it upto them. Let them observer your success and let them decide whether they want to learn these techniques or not. Trying to impose/force game on your friends is most likely to backfire.

Title	What to do with beta friends?
Author	lordBobbo
Upvotes	0
Comments	7
Date	January 18, 2015 4:34 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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