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| 14 | How do dates end? | baguette180 | /r/seduction | 21/06/14 01:00 AM | |
| 7 | Is cold approach significantly harder at large Universities with a huge Greek scene | baguette180 | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 04:24 PM | |
| 2 | What are some ways to get your parents out of the house? | baguette180 | /r/seduction | 10/07/15 06:55 PM | |
| 2 | Is there a more advanced/deeper material on how to converse? | baguette180 | /r/seduction | 17/10/14 08:15 AM | |
| 2 | How do you deal with girls who have different cultural expectations for dating? | baguette180 | /r/seduction | 03/01/15 06:28 AM | |
| 2 | what the do you talk about? | baguette180 | /r/seduction | 08/01/14 11:07 PM | |
| 0 | What do you do if there are no co-Ed dorms?? | baguette180 | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 03:00 AM | |
| 0 | How do you destroy attraction or un-seduce girls you don't want? | baguette180 | /r/seduction | 05/10/14 07:11 PM | |
| 0 | How much better is SUV sex than back seat of a truck sex? | baguette180 | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 05:49 PM |
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| 1 | Has anybody used Mark Manson's online courses to give some feedback on them?Holy fuck I don’t know how I had so many typos in that post! Haha | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 12:43 AM |
| 1 | I'm fit as fuck but never pullAdd game. Looks make it to where you need less game. But you need game. A ugly guy with loads of game can get girls. A hot guy with 0 game will get have a a bad time. The best place to start is the sidebar. Practice what you learn. You could check out RSDNation.com if you want to watch videos. They are very good. They have several instructors all good. Also think about you poast man. How could be possible know what you are doing wrong. You gave us absolutely no information | /r/seduction | 23/07/16 05:25 AM |
| 1 | How to be happy without womenYes but not university. (The autistic thing may be a big Hindrance tho. You'd probably have to grow out of it like Tyler. ) And you can get one night stands with out money or a life. I just really don't think the driven, or materialistic women would be interested in him long term. (Unless he was like a musician trying to make it. But I don't feel like that really fits the description) | /r/seduction | 12/03/16 07:51 AM |
| 1 | These Are the 10 TED Talks That Will Enhance Your Social LifeIt depends on what your sticking points are. Some people need to read a lot. But you have to be going out first!!!!! You will never even know what your sticking points are if you don't. That's how this stuff should be viewed! You read get a basic idea of how to even go about it, then you actively try, and try to figure stuff out. Then you can read to broaden your understanding or to solve your sticking points. (People who can Synthesize a lot of infromatuon should probably just read one method a… | /r/seduction | 23/02/16 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Is cold approach significantly harder at large Universities with a huge Greek sceneDoes it feel like girls who seem like they aren't in a sorority are still abnormally reserved to cold approach as well? | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 04:57 PM |
| 1 | seems like it's much easier to get a number than even a coffee date?Yes. Numbers are really easy. You have to keep getting numbers until they converte. You should try for an I sta-date if possible. Just go and do something right then that will give you time to connect and basically apply more game. Build more comfort. Build more of her investing in you. You sound way too Invested in her. It's just s girl you chatted up. Maybe she is sincere. Or maybe she is not Intreated. My presumption would he you should keep texting her, but not every day. And hopefully it st… | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 04:54 PM |
| 1 | So I got my balls together and talked to this girl..I really like your analogy! I think that sorta happened to me. Yah if you don't think you can get more awesome girls then you will feel like you life is just going to get worse and will never be the same. But if you can get more then it's sad you lost the person but you are also excited to meet a cool new girl and to know what she will be like. | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Where are you guys actually meeting attractive single women?Concerts aren't that great in my experience. There aren't very many singles in the area. And depending on the concert you can move about and mingle. A bar/club district is the best place because there are lots of girls. Or a part of town that utilizes new urbanism/mixed use development (having stores restaurants and entertainment on the ground and offices and housing on the upper flores.) the reason is it is designed to create density and to have people walk on the ground, creating life in the e… | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Talking with your hands vs. Leaving them at your sideTalk with your hands. Tony Robbins Said that is a component of charisma. Which she obviously has a lot of, just don't go way over the top. | /r/seduction | 18/02/16 01:07 AM |
| 8 | How should I go from kissing to sex?If she is a complacent type then don't do this but if she is like more normal then make out, take your shirt off if it feels natural or not. Then lift her shirt up and kiss he nipples then take her shirt off. (If you still have your shirt on take it off too. You don't want her to be naked and vulnerable wile you have you are fully clothed.) then run her pussy then go back to boobs then Take her pants off and go down for a little then go back to kissing and boobs. Take your dick out look her in t… | /r/seduction | 17/02/16 06:52 PM |
| 0 | 40 plus wife here, I am curious if any of you could help me?How long has this been happening? Maybe he is just tired or going to get sick. Maybe he is getting old? Cardio increases lebedo. Idk you can learn to like dance sexy or something or make eye contact and flirt. Sorry if this wasn't that helpful. | /r/seduction | 17/02/16 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?Here is one of the things, you don't usually need air tight game. Like in a college campus you can have bad game and still get girls. At some places you only need decent game at others you need better. Also you can meet someon through circumstances and happen to click, then you don't need game (that's how like 95% of ppl get girlfriends.) Models has a lot of good stuff if there is a part where he shits on other styles igonre it, but take the belefs they are good. I think the real thing with mode… | /r/seduction | 08/10/15 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Tips for keeping heart rate down/reducing jitters before engaging in conversation?Caffeine, aderall (I don't know how it's spelled) pre workout, any stimulant realy, will increase your heart rate and amify nerves. Increasing your cardio may help. Idk. I bet if you approach a lot, you will eventually become comfortable with it. Like do several a day every day or something. | /r/seduction | 05/06/15 11:27 PM |
| 1 | What is fun?Can you provide a photo? | /r/seduction | 05/06/15 11:13 PM |
| 1 | How much better is SUV sex than back seat of a truck sex?But you just having sex outside right ? (Unless I'm missing something) there arnt that many vacant areas, like 20min up a highway by my house there is a farm with huge hay bails I could park behind so that would work, but if I'm not thy my house then that would be kinda far. | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 06:31 PM |
| 1 | My dad alwayse fails my moms shittest. What will happen if I pass them for him?Ok thanks! | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 03:16 PM |
| 1 | "Is this really happening?" "Nah can't be true this is all a ruse"People usualy don't use pick up lines any more. Like I don't realy know what you are doing. Pick up can be really symple. But it is usualy heard for people. Check out this video. It may explain what you wanna knew http://youtu.be/6o8k430ufLA If u have a more specific question feel free to ask! Edit: the linked video won't help with conversation. But it will explain like what all you have to do | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Any women here? What's your thoughts on all this seduction / PUA stuff?Dide shittests are not a big deal. It's fun to pass them. But yah lots of girls don't Realy do many shittest. But if you make your hos pleasing here over time she will shit test you. | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Why are many of us afraid of women?The second choice leads to a life of suffering, because it's hard work to be a high quality male. You need a wayyy different attitude for that haha. Once you make the right coice it makes you feel better. It raises your self esteem which gives you more energy and it creates a upwards spiral. And once you start spiraling up it you start to not want to make wrong choices. You have to drop the "I'm struggling to do what I should. Gotta work hear to to the correct thing." And just like deside to do … | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 05:02 AM |
| 1 | I lost my virginity yesterday. Some words for those who are insecure about being virgins.Well you have to take action. If you just weight for it to happen it litterly will never happen. | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 04:45 AM |
| 6 | "Is this really happening?" "Nah can't be true this is all a ruse"It sounds like You need to learn How to have a conversation wouldn't you agree? (Also you should expect success) RSDTyler has a video on on. And RSD Julien has 2 video. (Both are quite different. I'd recomend checking them out. The number one thing is pratice frequently. Of you go one day with out conversing it will take you well be worse the next day. If u go 2 days you will be even worse and so on. Also lastly add more infromation when you talk. She says "How was your day" Don't say "Good" Say… | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Starting to think I ONLY want to date people I already know at least a little bit rather than approaching strangers.Then why don't you date acquaintances? No one on here forbids you from it. I think Mose people would prefer that. It is easer, more natural, and you not realy have to do anything But... Most people don't have access to an acquaintance that they could date (or maybe they do but it would not be a Graid A relationship and they don't wanna settle) so they cold approach. Also if you arnt that good at women you need to pratice, and if you only get to pratice once every six month when a new acquaintanc… | /r/seduction | 28/01/15 08:29 PM |
| 2 | A girl pulled me to dance at a bar. I rejected her cause irk how to dance. Pls help meOk i here everything your saying. And it make since. I i think i figured out what and why it worked for me. The girls have never been confident in there ability to teach and I was completely confident in my ability to learn/get information from them. That is how I maintained a confident frame wile being taught, i was not really being subordinate. Usually if i have a proper teacher teach me really "beta" | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 09:16 PM |
| 1 | What's it mean when a woman says your name a lot?that is just a tacit of human communication. (or at least in english and Spanish culture). that is going iannnn is a way girls can communicate interest. | /r/seduction | 19/01/15 12:19 AM |
| 1 | The Cultural Movement That’s Destroying Dating For EveryoneOh ya. I totally agree with you. I just feel if the article wants to make a difference (change the norm/ change the opinions of people in society) it would be more effective to use a different word. | /r/seduction | 19/01/15 12:13 AM |
| 1 | A girl pulled me to dance at a bar. I rejected her cause irk how to dance. Pls help meumm learn to dance. you can look it up on youtube, or take classes, or have friends show you. or ask strangers to teach you. | /r/seduction | 19/01/15 12:06 AM |
| 1 | A girl pulled me to dance at a bar. I rejected her cause irk how to dance. Pls help meNah, you can totally be confident and do ask her to teach you. if you are open to learn and secure with your self it is fine. just act like a cool guy who is internet in learning something and like it is not a big deal, (which it is not cuz no one expects you to have all the skills) | /r/seduction | 19/01/15 12:04 AM |
| 1 | I'm 26, live at home, No degree and work part time at a job a high school kid can work. Where do I start?You could get a technical degree to save time, or you could go to college, (id recumbent going to community college for 2 years then real college. it is boring as shit, but it is way cheeper and they don't give you excessive work to try and weed you out which is nice). or you could get a job that has upward mobility. 24hr fitness is big on that. especially if you are willing to move. You could maybe work at a start up and get some legit work experience? idk. or if the start up becomes big then y… | /r/seduction | 19/01/15 12:00 AM |
| 1 | What to do with beta friends?I don't think it is possible. like think of how much you want to change to change your self. If they don't wanna change then the amount of effort to change them would be insane. I think all you can do is leave by example and start crushing it. and once they see all the positive benefits they will be like "huuuuu geee.. lordBobbo use to be a smuck like me, and then he like researched how to improve him self... and now he has a better life.... maybe i should do that." and they probably ask you. (t… | /r/seduction | 18/01/15 11:34 PM |
| 1 | The Cultural Movement That’s Destroying Dating For EveryoneThe definition for being a sexual predator is "a person who has committed a sexually violent offense and especially one who is likely to commit more sexual offenses" There is nothing wrong with looking for a potential mate. There is nothing wrong with being a man in pursuit of a woman. I agree with both of those statements. Some members of society shame people for doing those things. And some members of society hold a stigma to men looking for a potential mate. However sargging/pursuing/courting… | /r/seduction | 18/01/15 11:17 PM |
| 1 | The Cultural Movement That’s Destroying Dating For EveryoneThose words do not represent what I mean. I sarge. that does not make me a sexual predator. a sexual predator is one who molests or rapes. or seduces children. I don't do that. what everyone would interpret predator shaming to be, would be shaming rapists or pedophiles (sexual predators). (i understand that it is a new term so you could technically define it to be what ever you want, but i think it is best to follow the previously set conventions of the english language so people understand what… | /r/seduction | 18/01/15 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Have you guys ever really liked a girl you probably shouldn't?haha probably for the best | /r/seduction | 15/01/15 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Virtual Seduction V3.0uhh what??? most all this is is how to be more attractive and how to behave. I don't think I've ever see anything on here about tricking women... | /r/seduction | 15/01/15 04:05 AM |
| 1 | What does Seddit think about telling a girl you get tongue tied around herAwesome! and good look man! | /r/seduction | 15/01/15 03:48 AM |
| 4 | Have you guys ever really liked a girl you probably shouldn't?hahaha! it sorta makes it hotter playing with fire. but she might do something bad like try and get pregnant. or black mail you or something. your life. but id still recumbent staring clear. | /r/seduction | 15/01/15 03:47 AM |
| 7 | What does Seddit think about telling a girl you get tongue tied around herbut own it. like say it like it is normal, and not a big deal. say it like you would say "i have a peanut allergy" (a completely normal unembarrassed tone.) and if she asks why then i'd say "cuz your quite pretty. or cuz your a pretty girl," or something. just say it in a normal way. if someone said why don't you eat peanut butter, say it in the way you would say "because I'm allergic to peanuts". like casual not like: I'm going to give her a complement so she likes me!!. does that make since. a… | /r/seduction | 15/01/15 03:07 AM |
| 3 | Have you guys ever really liked a girl you probably shouldn't?either YOLO and date her (if she is "fuck up your life" crazy id advise against that). or talk to other girls then you will forget about her. once your brain sees other girls it will not have a crush on this one. (thats how it works) | /r/seduction | 15/01/15 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Is this ever going to happen?here Ill link you to a short guide posted on here a wile ago: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2oupxn/how_to_force_myself_to_make_the_move/cmr21bl | /r/seduction | 15/01/15 02:55 AM |
| 4 | Met a friend at college who lifted me out of my funk just by being friendly and down to earth-how is this possible?the law of state transference. his emotional state and vibe rubbed off on you. If you upgrade your life style, and start doing things you know you should do (based on your own agenda not society's), and stop doing things you know you should not do it will improve your self esteem. thats basically the key. and then try and empathize with people and see things from there perspective. and socialize more. the more frequently you socialize the better your interactions will be. frequency is the key | /r/seduction | 15/01/15 02:51 AM |
| 2 | The Cultural Movement That’s Destroying Dating For Everyoneabsolutely! It's like the "hive mind" of this country does not want people to have sex. cuz they shame men for trying to get it, then women for wanting it to (slut shaming) the only thing is I don't know what id call it but I think of a better term than predator shame. cuz that implies the guy actually is a sexual predator and they are shaming him for it, and if you try to change peoples opinions they seam to be pedantic. maybe courter shaming or maybe pressure shaming. It also makes it sound li… | /r/seduction | 15/01/15 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Just got brutally rejected 14 times in a row, I feel pretty shiity right now...http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2s78g8/2015s_official_30_day_challenge_megathread/ | /r/seduction | 12/01/15 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Just got brutally rejected 14 times in a row, I feel pretty shiity right now...http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2s78g8/2015s_official_30_day_challenge_megathread/ | /r/seduction | 12/01/15 10:18 PM |
| 2 | How do I tease girls?"Hey! This isn't over! You can't leave now!" She was mad! I said, I would have said "you should have struck wile the iron was hot" that basically shows you don't take time for games, and value you own agenda. id imagine she would then be like will "fuck, i played that poorly" Iv never been in this situation, i have know actual reference experiences. that is just what i figured. | /r/seduction | 12/01/15 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Why are really pretty women (8's 9's 10's) attracted to me more often then less attractive women aren't ?I think you have a pretty good definition for neg and would use them in a good way. Neg has a kind wide definition. It pretty much means a back handed compliment, but it is also use to mean a diss. you can use them with different intentions. like if a girl is super hot princess and thinks she's better than you, you can use a neg to lower her self esteem so she will consider you. (kinda mean). There is some fucked up stuff that is out side the community, When i was in middle school i found a arti… | /r/seduction | 10/01/15 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Nevermind Your dream girl, be the dream youOk thanks for your reply! That suck you got needy, but you live and you learn! and if you keep at it eventually you be on top of it all! | /r/seduction | 10/01/15 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone tried Cruises?ok wow! ill probably go some time then thanks for sharing! I know its not going to be as good as the montage but the montage does not really over sell it? | /r/seduction | 10/01/15 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Nevermind Your dream girl, be the dream youHow do you draw happiness from with in? I can control my actions and environment to generate happiness. But how do you draw from with in? | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone tried Cruises?Have you been ?!?!?!?!? | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Why are really pretty women (8's 9's 10's) attracted to me more often then less attractive women aren't ?Pour you you can only get really hot women :'( haha ok so what didled said sounds plausible. also so you do oldschool game with like negs and stuff? In the game Neal said something like only neg (or only neg a lot) the really hot girls because they are use to being treated like princesses but normal girls are not so your just being a dick. also maybe you act differently around the less attractive girls? | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 08:28 AM |
| 2 | Using their friends effective for Push/Pull?I cant make that sound smooth in my head no matter how I read it. (maybe there is a way) | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Persistence Without Supplication?here is a blog post i found today. I have not tried it so i'm not vouching for it. http://www.girlschase.com/content/secrets-getting-girls-dont-let-her-go | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 08:17 AM |
| 1 | How to keep low expectationsI hope that helps you! I bet it will, it really changed the way I thought about relationships a lot, and if you shift the paradigm in you head it should make it easer to control your self. And its not like you can't get optimistic and happy about getting a date or something. Just as long as you don't get needy or weirdly excited that it messes stuff up And don't like start to think and imagine about what she is like and what she would do in this situation, because then you start to fall for the … | /r/seduction | 07/01/15 04:14 AM |
| 1 | A resonating story from Models by Mark MansonYou can I fact use techniques (they are actualy natural) but yah don't fall into the crazy mindset Daniel Had. | /r/seduction | 06/01/15 03:14 AM |
| 2 | (FR) NYE party, time of my life (warning: long)Awesome man! I think the you eyes and smile are pretty and the rest is ugly would count as a push pull. Do you have any typs to get into the social butterfly mode faster? That is my big sticking point for party game, if not that cool haha | /r/seduction | 06/01/15 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Can we talk 'conversation and LISTENING'?I think it works differently for different people. If I purly listen I heardly talk. I have to stay in the mode of talking to keep talking. (Maybe I'm doing something wrong. But I think it is just different for different people.) You usually can't be yourself infront of your family because they will judg you. | /r/seduction | 05/01/15 08:39 PM |
| 1 | I just read Models, and think I have a better idea of how to attract women. The question is, will it be hard to suddenly turn my game on with women who knew how I used to be?Ok so I'd imagen if you strike up a congersation for a little bit and it goes well I think if you just say hay your cute lets go out sometime.then if she says yes ask for her number. Then follow through with planin, you probably have a pretty good shot. (Again idk I sucked in HS and things change after HS) Also I'd do a some keno. | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 10:45 PM |
| 1 | I just read Models, and think I have a better idea of how to attract women. The question is, will it be hard to suddenly turn my game on with women who knew how I used to be?What game did you intend to lay on them? I'm trying to remember the book but other that cold reading (You prabbly can use that one anymore) and push pull it seemed like he advocated not doing anything just be genuine try and talk about emotions instead of facts. If you start to try and game your friends it may seem weird idk. It depends on how you do It. Honestly given the fact that you are friends already I don't that that making a connection would make them like romantically. If some seem inte… | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 09:04 PM |
| 1 | How to keep low expectationsDon't go in with any expatstions if you have high ones you will be too dependent on the outcome. If you have low ones you will underperform. Go in with no expatstion. And assume Attraction and that things will go well. Idk how to tell you how to do it. I'm not very emotional and when I was like 5 my dad told me to control my emotions. So I just kinda do it. But I'm sure there is a way! Also have you read Models by Mark Manson it is really good and will probably get you to think about relationshi… | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 08:45 PM |
| 1 | How to keep low expectationsDo not go in with low expectations. That is bad. That will make you underperform. You should go in with no expectstuons, you just going in to see what will happens. Also assume attraction and that things will go well. Likepertend you are exploring a cave, you have no idea what is in it you Just go in to see what it has inside of it. Also You assume it will be cool. | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 08:35 PM |
| 1 | A Book in Review: Models by Mark MansonI think this is a great article! (Tyler says all that except that it is a "base rate fallacy" (which I don't agree with) and the compensation part) which yes, obviously, that is totally true you can use it to compensate and I'm sure lots of people do, but you also have the potential to learn social skills through being instate and I'd imagen that once one learns more social skills, and it is no longer unfamiliar territory, they would have more confidence. (I have no personal knowledge if you can… | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Tinder QuestionI heard that was the case. And I may have seen that happen with like 2 girls I swiped left on. But I'm realy not sure. | /r/seduction | 03/01/15 07:09 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with girls who have different cultural expectations for dating?That makes since. It did not feel like a shittest or disintrest because she was so affecnent and she seemed realy genuine abut it. I was just wondering if there was any cleaver thing you could do to get her past her Hang ups. | /r/seduction | 03/01/15 07:05 AM |
| 2 | How to become a better dancer in club-style environments.thanks! i have no idea what i did not just google it haha. | /r/seduction | 02/01/15 11:50 PM |
| 1 | How to become a better dancer in club-style environments.haha ok cool! that makes since. I did not know you rotated with latin. thanks for your reply! | /r/seduction | 02/01/15 11:49 PM |
| 1 | No Money = No Date?Try starting a side business? | /r/seduction | 02/01/15 08:13 PM |
| 1 | How to become a better dancer in club-style environments.Sorry is "bboyed" a term or is it s typo for like swing danced? | /r/seduction | 02/01/15 07:51 PM |
| 1 | How to become a better dancer in club-style environments.How do so many more black people learn? Like culturally do your parents or siblings teach you? Or like are you in places where you can watch other people dance then emu late them? When I was a kid I heard music and was like "I should dance" then I tried and then I realized I did not know how haha. | /r/seduction | 02/01/15 07:48 PM |
| 1 | How to become a better dancer in club-style environments.2015! You can learn! There is s different comment that posted a supposedly good YouTube salsa Tutorial. And I'll be sure to check out your links!! | /r/seduction | 02/01/15 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Any tips for younger guys?Ok she probably shut rated you then you failed it and because of that you lost her intrest. You should tell us exactly how the conversation went. That will give you better results. A 20yo not dating a 19 yo is weird. (Maybe if she was nearly 21 and she wanted to move past that earlier stage of her life it would possibly make since) but I think she most likely shittested you and you did not pass it | /r/seduction | 01/01/15 10:30 PM |
| 1 | I'm sick of dumb girls.I've never been to Jersey and I know everyone makes Funn of it, but I highly dought everyone sucks. Maybe stop going after full blown guidettes? Prabably The reason they are glued to there phones and talk about Instagram is because they are board because you arnt breaking through to them. | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 11:30 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid bragging and instead demonstrate value in both conversation and on social media websitesMay I ask you how you have all this money?? Did you buy Bitcoins awhile ago and get rich off fo that? Or did you do something els?? Any good resources?? I'm in your age bracket and would be so happy if I could make some good money. | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Handwritten Letter: Right Move?At I was imagining a long letter like a page. first it seems super "beta" because you are taking all this effort to impress here. But I guess if it is like a paragraph it would be ok. It would prabbly be easer to just hand write a paragraph that to type it a be prent it. And it does not seem that unnatural given to context of giving a gift. But hand writing a long ass letter is defenently "beta." It is not soled game. But yah if she already likes its prabbly ok. And you are not supposed to decla… | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 10:04 PM |
| 1 | How has Neil Strauss' book The Game helped you in seducing ?It gives you some pointers. Some people see hot girls on the street and are like " damn I wish I could go and talk to her." Then they read the game and relies they can be like "hay may I get a female perspective on this??" The the girls are like sure! And they can just keep talking to the girl. For some people just seeing that is all they needed. And it was revolutionary for them. They naturally would have been ok at picking up Girls but they did not know how to open. I also think it has quite a… | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 09:56 PM |
| 3 | How has Neil Strauss' book The Game helped you in seducing ?I'm glad you found the book. | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 09:48 PM |
| 1 | How has Neil Strauss' book The Game helped you in seducing ?i think it is more to do a few things A) chronicle an awesome story. B) show you how once you reach the pinnacle of superficial success you won't feel happy. And you have to valence your life out. C) give you a few tips and pointers. | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 09:47 PM |
| 1 | How to close with no place of your own to go to.If you have no hang up about dishonesty you could Say you just set off a tick bomb and we're going to sleep on your biddies sofa for tonight. Or you could say you live at home because taking out debt to live away from home for college is absolutly crazy absurd retarded and irresponsible. I'd go with the 2nd | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 09:26 PM |
| 1 | I have never been so lost...Also Check out this video for making friends. http://youtu.be/dENi7K2lX4U This should help you in the beginning. Later you should not try so heard to seek report with everyone. And act how you feel comfortable. But I the beginning this should realy help you lesrn social skills. This video is not exactly what you should do for building report with women for the purpose of seducing them. But I think it is a good place to start. And you HAVE TO PRATICE. Also just know that if you can't think of any… | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 05:38 AM |
| 1 | What are you thinking when you're out at a club or running day game?sorry for typos Im a dyslexic on my phone and I'm not going to edit this. Self amusement. Do everything because you find it amuseing. Then you get into state. Then everything is easy and ur in the moment. And like your mouth thinks of awesome funny things to say before you think of it. And then you say them and are like "aaaaaaaaa!!!!! I'm so awesome 😎" and you feel even better and it spirals Up and up. And the girls get sucked in. Because your residence makes them feel better.... Youv read the … | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 05:11 AM |
| 1 | I have never been so lost...sorry for typos I'm a dyslexic on Mobel. Also pleas actualy read my two submissions I spent like 2hr making them for you and promise they are worth your time. So often People just get on here and wine and don't even want to solve there problems and it is really disheartening to put slot of effort into telling someone how to help them selves when they don't even put in any effort them selves. Try and find a social hobby. Or a sport to make friends with? Do to your city's subreddit and look that u… | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 05:04 AM |
| 1 | How Do I Approach A Girl With Her Family?I would not do it. I would not appreciate a girl approaching me if I was with my family. I'd imagen the best way would be to approach indirectly charm her family and win them over by letting them see what a good guy you are. Then later ask her out in s very "polite" "respectful" way. And don't be sexual st all in front of here family. | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 01:46 AM |
| 2 | "You're bad!" she says. What does that mean?It means you don't abide by the social narrative on how guys should act. Or your not doing what you are "supposed to" do (like having sex,your not "supposed to" have sex) Like you are not acting like a good little cog in the system nor being a good little passenger, never rocking the boat nor being a good little guy and who sits complacently and never takes what he wants. You should say something natural that agrees with it. Don't be like "is that s good thing or s bad thing" that's like if she … | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 12:34 AM |
| 1 | I recently realized I've been a really annoying idiot in some of my classes. Is their a chance I can redeem myself and be considered dateable?it is a good book. It also will prabbly help your future relationships a lot! The thing is.... He rights it in a way where when you read it your brain wants to take it as gospel. but there is a LOT of misinformation about other parts of the Community. In his AMA he admitted to doing that as a marketing tactic. Like he dismisses state which is absolutely absurd. And there is. It much stuff on actualy getting girls. If this book works for you and you are happy with the level of success you Achieve… | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 12:20 AM |
| 1 | What do guys want a woman to say after you compliment her?I think if you say "Awww thankyou" and then say how are you? You will be golden. When you did not say anything and left he took that as a sine of disinterest. Just act interested and receptive and in the future and you should be golden. Look in indicators of interest (IOIs) And IODs. Give IOIs And dont give IODs. It is Also importante to keep in mind that some men just like to complement women to make them feel good and are maried and not looking to date. And some men suck horibly this stuff and… | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 12:02 AM |
| 3 | I'm starting everything from scratch. Where do I start?Also it seems like it is what ruined this subreddit. Did you notis that? | /r/seduction | 27/12/14 07:47 PM |
| 1 | I'm starting everything from scratch. Where do I start?I pretty much agree with you. Like I feel like he would be a good resource of he did not compleatly dismiss everything else. Because at the end of the day basically all he says is to do nothing just be vulnerable. But the way he you frames everything is in a way that it would resonate with the average redditer AFC. Like he does give some good advice for relationships. And I guess he does tell some that you can just walk up and be direct. But other than that he gives very little practical advice. | /r/seduction | 27/12/14 07:46 PM |
| 2 | How to get confident sexually?darn that wold be an easy fix. Ok doing cardio helps with mojo and variety. You should talk your vitamins they actually matter. And take zinc (look up how much to take at your age size and what not. Taking too much I'd bad for you but if your don't get enough your immune and reproductive system can't function properly.) avocados help with variety. Coffien hurts virility. Eating like shit hurts varility. Maybe you masterbate/watch too much porn. That can mess up your brain. Maybe you grab your di… | /r/seduction | 20/12/14 02:24 AM |
| 16 | Impractical Jokers - Guy Crashes Random Girls' Dinner, Smooths His Way Through The Entire NightI'd keep it because it demonstrates frame control, and show an example of acting way outside the social norm, and how it honestly is not a big deal. The first time I watched it blew my mind, the 2nd time I say how there was nothing to acting this ballsy but to do it. | /r/seduction | 20/12/14 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Girl said I look "innocent"...should I be concerned?(First off I'm no expert) Ok we're you trying to act like a bad boy??? shittests are a conscious or subconscious thing women do to see if you are how you are presenting your self. They are trying to see if you are just bravado raped up in a façade, or if you are the real deal. the better term for them is congruence tests. They are trying to see if you realy are congruent this the way you are acting. This probably was not a real shit test. So I would not give her shit back. But a good way to repl… | /r/seduction | 18/12/14 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Trying to be funnyA) what resources have you looked into??? I may be able to point you to some. B) once you say something not funny you can just say "no? Not funny?? Well Ok then? And then they laugh. Or you Can say "well that fell flat chuckle then they laugh a little. I'd images you could say "well that sounded pretty good in my head." (I have Never said that but I'm sure it will also work). Just be Unphased by saying something dumb. Like everyone says TUNS of dumb ficking shit, but if you acknowledge that you … | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 10:32 PM |
| 2 | How to get confident sexually?Someone said you are 17. are you on Adderall or some other ADD medication? That's probably your problem. A potential side effect of adderall is to take the fun out of sex. I bet If you are on Adderall that is the root of your problem. As far as the dick infection, I think you just need to have sex again to get a better fresh memory of sex. | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Am I doing this for the wrong reasons?What I'm saying is more like this: you go out to have fun and you say things that are fun or funny to you to the girls. Like you don't say something to the girls to make them laugh and like you. that is bad. You should say something that you find funny to you and will make you have more fun. And draw girls in. Also when you come from that frame it makes you more funny. (Ovdiously not all girl will like your since of humor, and that's fine not a big deal there are 1000s more who will) Like approa… | /r/seduction | 14/12/14 09:29 PM |
| 0 | Am I doing this for the wrong reasons?It's not like moraly wrong. But it is not an effective mentality. Basically the four root of all this is you go out to amuse yourself. If you wanna say doe thing say it because YOU think it is funny. Not because you want to make the girl laughs ad have here get more attracted. And if the girl is not into you you don't realy care because like its insignificant cuz there are runs of other girls. Basically don't try to get girls by doing fun stuff. Just have fun then you are fun and when she is aro… | /r/seduction | 14/12/14 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Planning logistics without a car or a nearby good clubGo back to her place? Take a cab back to your place? If you are scrapping the button of the barrel perhaps you should like get another job and get a car or get a new job or something. And focus more on just socializing with friends and strangers to keep those skills from getting rusty. I don't realy know your situation, and I'm also no expert. But of your life situation is shit you should probably fix it. | /r/seduction | 14/12/14 06:32 PM |
| 1 | The girl I'm seeing has a BF already [photo]Maybe post in changemyopinion. They specialize in breaking down stuff like this. | /r/seduction | 14/12/14 06:19 PM |
| 0 | Rich girls.I have 0 experience with this but In an RSD video Tyler mentioned how he had like a former client or something meat this woman who was maried to a billionaire. The bilionare was boring and even though she was rich her life was boring and then she met the cool RSD guy who was incredibly fun and she left the bilionare got the RSD guy. If that happened that is praby really rare and unlikely to happen. But I think that the takeaway is that if you provide extreme levels of high emotions and fun it re… | /r/seduction | 14/12/14 06:05 PM |
| 2 | How to Transition After a Dance?Dude I have not figured out country game yet either. Once wile they played the rap music, towards the end of the night, I talked to s girl who was not dsbcing to that. So I talked and built like 10 min of report. Then since we had repor she liked me a bit and we danced for the rest of the night. The i have two tips: 1) When my friend tought me how to country dance she told me that it was etiquette to spin the girl at the end of the song and that kind signified the end of the interaction. That's … | /r/seduction | 14/12/14 03:41 AM |
| 2 | How to get action when with friends?Do you escalate??? That's prabbly your problem. Just make sure you make your joke because you wanna and not because you are trying to laugh her pants off. I'm no expert btw. | /r/seduction | 13/12/14 01:58 AM |
| 1 | How to get action when with friends?Do what you think is best. (Obviously there are examples in movies of s firing stoic person) and it obviously works for this guy. But most ppl try and break out of there reserved Shell and express them selves. There are many styles that work. And experimenting is good! Just don't think you gotta be stoic to get girls if it works for you and you like it then great! | /r/seduction | 13/12/14 01:55 AM |
| 1 | How many of you want to be the cool and popular guy that everyone likes?Me! A) there are more facets to life than sex/having a girlfriend B) people skills is usually considered one do the most useful skills in becoming successful C) it sounds fun as fuck to have that life D) when new hot girls are brought to me through my social circle Id just joke with them then keno escalate a bit to gauge interest and if they were interested (which I they probably would be since I'm the coolest guy in campus) I'd be like "let's hang out this weekend then plan something later" and… | /r/seduction | 07/12/14 06:18 PM |
| 1 | How to increase your chances of the girl being at least you're one night stand, from a woman who appreciates them. These things can be enhanced if/when you want to start dating or have an exclusive relationship as well.Thank you for your post! It would be good for a lot of ppl to here | /r/seduction | 07/12/14 05:50 PM |
| 1 | How to increase your chances of the girl being at least you're one night stand, from a woman who appreciates them. These things can be enhanced if/when you want to start dating or have an exclusive relationship as well.She is offering a way to help ppl, that's not very entitled. When my friends houses reek it's prety off putting for a little bit. When I go out and go stuff LOTS (not all) my female friends NEED luxuries to be present to enjoy the experience. I could easily see how a shitty living situation would put off lots of girls. She is conveying that to us. I don't think she is saying "you better fucking get high thread counts and candles for me!" He saying "these are things you can do to make girls feel … | /r/seduction | 07/12/14 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Still excusing myself... Why?!Dude just looking down does not mean you think you are a bad product (perhaps through introspection you come to relise you feel this way then what ills say will not adress that issue.) if u think you look down because your selfessteme is now that prabably not the reasion. Most likely you subconscious has no experence with 8-10s and it is unfamiliar terifory so it is uncomfortable and looks down. Just go out and approach 8-10 at clubs. And you may suck at first but then if you get rejected your b… | /r/seduction | 07/12/14 05:23 PM |
| 1 | New dating app encourages face to face meetings to help with approaches.I bought this will catch on, but if it did, I think it will may be good for alright girls who never get approached. | /r/seduction | 06/12/14 05:42 PM |
| 2 | A little tip on how to become the person you want to be.This is whats up! I'm going to go buy a gernal right now! this is really smart! | /r/seduction | 05/12/14 11:06 PM |
| 2 | A little tip on how to become the person you want to be.Thats awsome! they talk about your life being a movie (book basically the same thing since it is a analogy) This way you litterly get to wright the story of your life! | /r/seduction | 05/12/14 11:03 PM |
| 3 | I'm in a downward spiral.Iv had to deel with this a lot, Im pretty good at nipping it in the bud now First and foremost stup doing the things that make you feel like shit Things to fix: Sleep. get enough sleep, but don't get too much don't lay in bed for a long time before you get up. don't lay in bead all day. stay our of your bead till you go to sleep caffein: It affects different ppl differently, experiment with taking less/ cutting it out or taking more. maybe quit Adoral, For me it made me feel really good when i f… | /r/seduction | 05/12/14 10:56 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Day 21/100 Bar Game + Office GameCongratulations on your dedication and your kiss! Well I'm no expert but it really sounds like you are putting her on a pedestal and you said "this is the hottest girl in my life." so that sounds like you are having scarcity mindset, you go out constantly, there will be more girls that hot to come into your life." also for help with the interviewed questions https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DJ02zPLrbc0 You mentioned you had mixed success with grabbing girls and taking them to dance. in a video RS… | /r/seduction | 05/12/14 10:08 PM |
| 0 | Great video on the "filtering" of the brainI chringged so heard, but id like to think that he did that for the sake of illustrating the concept. he had a oft girl but he held his frame and keep being confident and joking and got her to warm up to him. i sought she went on a date with him because he huge himself int a whole but yah. | /r/seduction | 04/12/14 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Living with dad for a semester... Seems to be a huge turnoff and I lack logistics. What do I do?Obviously not everyones situation is the same but in general: If you think about it, Not living at home is dumb and immature, like you are waisting so much money going into debt to live on your own because you you have to get out now, and you can't weight 4 years when you can actually afford to support your self. caring that debt can have a really big negative impact on your future life. if you have a strong frame and sorta present it that way is should usually not be a turnoff. like if you meat… | /r/seduction | 03/12/14 11:40 PM |
| 1 | The consequences of unclear intentionsRight?? I never understood why people can't let there relationship do what is does | /r/seduction | 02/12/14 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Don't give up after your first try. People change their minds.This advice is to vague in my oppenion. If you get rejected you should not nessassary be like "well fink that is never going to happen" then right her off compleatly. But like you should not keep persweing a woman who tells you no. That needy and puting her on a peristule possibly creapy (depending own what you do) anoying unless you get sucess and inefferent. A player had abundance and If one prison I not intrested in him it is really insignificant because he can get another woman who is easly.… | /r/seduction | 01/12/14 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Don't give up after your first try. People change their minds.Employes have to be nice to costemers. They don't have the luxery of saying "back off creep" (you prabably wernt a creep though nothing sounds creapy) if you Flert they will probably Flert back insted of being rude. | /r/seduction | 01/12/14 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Don't give up after your first try. People change their minds.Employes have to be nice to costemers. They don't have the luxery of saying "back off creep" (you prabably wernt a creep though nothing sounds creapy) if you Flert they will probably Flert back insted of being rude. | /r/seduction | 01/12/14 04:57 PM |
| 50 | The Qualification Manifesto: How to Flip the Script of Seduction using QualificationThank you for making this post! It is exactly what this subreddit has been beading lately. | /r/seduction | 01/12/14 04:44 PM |
| 1 | [m26] Nothing I do worksAlso try assuming you next approach will work. (I'd imagen you assume that it will fail). Assuming success often is phycalogial and makes you act a little different (woo wooy people think that it makes the universe respond positively to you since you are thinking pisivitivly. I don't beleve that I think it is just unconceious behaviors causing you to act slightly different. But who knows) | /r/seduction | 27/11/14 07:39 PM |
| 3 | [m26] Nothing I do worksIt is really heard to know via you post. Maybe like 3 detailed FR and some people could help. You sould like you have a defeatist attitude but I easly may not because you are just down right now. Wre are guesses: Your state is down. You are like hoping that that girls will like happen to go out with u then it will become a great relationship. So you are subcompacts ting bad stuff. Try just like messing and joking around for you own amusement. Then later like kiss for your own amusement (assuming… | /r/seduction | 27/11/14 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Race?Maybe in a racist place. But in a normal place, if you go to a club and your state is raging it won't really be a problem with like 90% of women in a normal place. If you don't have much game. Like if you arnt a natural or don't know game I'm pretty sure race will play a big factor. Iv had several women tell me that they don't really find Asians attractive (they don't like think that they are a lessors race or anything but they just don't really find them that attractive. So if an asian don't ha… | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Could "What's your name?" be an effective opening line?Yes. There are multiple things/styles that work http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x2a28nh_pimping-your-game-rsd-julien-sample-2014-video-product_lifestyle | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Could "What's your name?" be an effective opening line?They mad one TV seasion of Neapolitan dynamite. It was a cartoon and was really funny. Just thought id let u know incase you are interested. | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 06:27 PM |
| 1 | How to pickup in train?Talk And flirt. When She says something funny you can lift up your Arm sideways and bump her shoulder with your forearm and laugh or say that's cool and smile and make eye contact. That is a natural way to start keno Just try and have fun by talking to her. Then if it works she will have fun and then you can try to get an instadate or get here number then go on a date later | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Is this a good thing or bad thing?In life most things are symple not good or bad. Are cars good? They allow us to have get places faster which let's us expand cities and basical allow for modern society, and they creat jobs for people to manufacture them. However, they emit carcinogens, and contribute to climate change. There is a ba side and a good side to them. If your story is true, it is good because you have solid game and can get girls, but it is bad cuz you are loseing friends. Most things are not puearly good or bad | /r/seduction | 23/11/14 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Clothes Shops and Gigs. How do I approach women?Idk exactly but like here is a type: When you talk give extra information Her: "How was your day" You:(if it was Boaring insted of saying ok say) "it was pretty good, I had steak and egs for breakfast then worked out then read and now I'm here" | /r/seduction | 23/11/14 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Am I crazy for feeling borderline sick to my stomach for having been made to feel like a piece of meat?I don't know how rude she said it. Maybe she said it in a horible wany, but if she wants someone to have sex with and you alwayse drink too much to beable to give sex then there is nothing wrong with her dropping you. Like it's like saying I want a 1 on 1 basket ball partner. It is fun to play, I feel like we should kinda be friends so it is more fun, but I got drunk the last two times and I could not realy play basketball. Then he said he did not wanna be my basketball partner anymore. ¿¿¿wtf I… | /r/seduction | 23/11/14 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Is there a way to know how good looking you are?you should learn the seduction material and develop your life style and your self so then the coolest person of your self comes through. you can be really good looking but if your dull you have a really heard getting girls. if you are not exactly good looking like celo green, but are cool, you can get girls. You should workout and dress good and get a good haircut, but work on unlocking your personality and developing your lifestyle. | /r/seduction | 22/11/14 08:38 PM |
| 1 | I can't get a girlfriendHay so if you get close to girls and the speak up can you here them? if so that almost works in your favor cuz you can get close and interment to talk. just don't worry about it. if you have bad hearing no one will expect you to be able to hear well and they won't care, just don't be embarrassed about it. i had dyslexia and never expected people to make fun of me for fairly being able to read, so if a teacher was like read i would say i would rather not, I have dyslexia, and no one ever thought … | /r/seduction | 22/11/14 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Getting girls to make out with each otherThat makes since man. well i don't think it is offensive to gay people (like some may chose to take offense but I don't think it is intrinsically fucked up towards them) because if does crazy things with a gay dude it is just plutonic racy fun, there can't be romantically interest in each other and there is no chance of them getting together. | /r/seduction | 22/11/14 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Found a sticking point with myself, inability to display value.the important thing with the blueprint is to know that using it is not mandatory to get women. (tyler reiterates that a lot but one guy on a forum missed that and felt in secure about his sate, i don't want that to happen to you) just know that state is an awesome thing to have but not mandatory prerequisite to get girls. i guess since you are gregarious to things that you find fun (don't be an asshole) to boost your state. Good luck man! | /r/seduction | 22/11/14 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Becoming TOO outcome independentI mean if your so fulfilled that you don't need women to fill a void in your life than that is good. like there is no point to racking up lays, other that to feed you ego validation. so you would be in a rally good place. Like if your horny and stuff and wanna have sex then you should probably focus on women more. like idk man. maybe just stick to it more. do you like flirt and keno? perhaps you need to do that. outcome independence is good but I pretty sure that is because it lets you be more b… | /r/seduction | 22/11/14 06:40 PM |
| 2 | What's wrong with me?You can like angle your hips to make it work. And iv seen pornstars with dicks that make hooks and it does not seem to slow them down. Also I'd imagen your dick going up would apply more preshure to he g spot to that should be a good thing. You should re frame everything in you mind to it being funny then you should not be worried. Like everything about life is funny. Like Australia was far as shit away from England so they just decided to send their criminals there then I grew into a wealth cou… | /r/seduction | 21/11/14 06:47 PM |
| 1 | How do you know when women are interested in casual sex?No. I have dyslexia + I was on my phone + I was trying to finish my thought before I has to go to class so I did not have time to proof read and make corrections to the best of my ability. | /r/seduction | 20/11/14 06:00 PM |
| 2 | How do you know when women are interested in casual sex?Ok so growing up I was not funny at first but later I became very funny. I mostly watch comedies, but I think Craig ferguson's show is what helped the most. His show is basicaly just being conversation funny. And he gets sexual a lot. Sometimes he has amazing chemistry with the guests. Sometimes it's just alright. His show goes in waves. It will be helsrious. And after a wile it may get manotinus. (I could be wrong this may not be what did it. But I kinda think I may have Atleast helped) If you … | /r/seduction | 20/11/14 04:14 PM |
| 0 | Found a sticking point with myself, inability to display value.I just have a good understanding of theory so take this with a grain do sault: "But I feel like that is not enough" <------ that's your problem. You are puting the nines and tens on a peristyle and sub communicating lower value. Don't like worry. You can get into state. Or do state training: you self amuse and do everything cuz it is fun. And also do that doing the day and then you will become gragarios and more funny over time (check out the blue prent decoded it's dope. It takes a wile to give… | /r/seduction | 18/11/14 08:27 PM |
| 4 | Obviously we don't have a Bugatti but can it ever be this straight forward?Id definitely hop in. thats a once in a lifetime chance!, (i wouldn't assume he was trying to have sex with me though.) | /r/seduction | 17/11/14 09:46 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys use to deal with Anxiety?You can fix it. You should watch the Blueprent Decoded by RSDTyler. That basicaly explains all this to you. The gist is don't try to get layed. Just go out and fun and Amuse your self. As you get better at that your "state" (emotions vibes and charisma) will go up. When you get into a better state you will be more creative and more funny and more gradations. Keep being grafarious at night and also talk to people in the day. As you do that your brain learned that it so safe to be you and be out g… | /r/seduction | 16/11/14 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Going to a party for the first time tonight, need help!Ok so the underlying consent is girls go to party's to have fun. If you have fun you have what the Griles want. And the will be interested. To have fun relax and self amuse (socialy). Also that should increase your "state" (emotions/mood) if you have a higher state girls will feel it and like it | /r/seduction | 15/11/14 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Going to a party for the first time tonight, need help!Parties can vary widely! So don't assume other parties will be like this one. If you drink to much and feel queasy eating a slice of bread can make you feel better. If you get SUPER drunk you should let yourself throw up. Just don't make a mess. Also you will have more fun if you don't get Extreamly drunk. Since it is your first time your tolerance may be really low. Ok game. Just self amuse. And just have fun. Say things to girls because it is funny to you. She will find them funny (use you hea… | /r/seduction | 15/11/14 06:15 PM |
| 1 | 15 M need adviceLook. Everyone is like read read read. Like you should not make pick up be like the thing you do and make it be the core aspect in your life. And you should not sacrifice your future success to get better at pick up now. But like you can have girls. It is better to start dating earlier. An just reading and stuffing and stuff will get you nowhere with girls in the future. You should finger out girls now. Just don't let it takeover your life. My advice would be to look into self amusement. There i… | /r/seduction | 15/11/14 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Help not being a pussyActing butthurt like a woman in a sitcom would have (probably) made you look like a bitch.being angry is not attractive at all, there are way better ways to handle thing than get angry. you probably took it way the wrong way. after high school people generally stop trying to say things to hurt peoples feelings or try to set them up. | /r/seduction | 15/11/14 02:38 AM |
| 2 | RSDTyler's Blueprint DecodedThis is like the best video ever! Id recumbent everyone take the time to watch it! It does not really teach you techniques but it tells you how your mind works and tells you what to do to unlock you best self (the version of you that you only are able to be on occasion, and that feels so good to be) It starts off interesting, but not that practice, but it gets better as it goes on, the beginning is just there so you can understand and hopefully internalize the concepts Love this lecture! | /r/seduction | 13/11/14 11:39 PM |
| 5 | Is it possible to suggest a shower without killing the mood?Aren you doomed to catch something if you go down on girls in one night stands since you can use a condom on your mouth? Or do desease not get spread that easily through oral? | /r/seduction | 13/11/14 08:28 PM |
| 4 | The art and science of great conversation (not just with women)Awesome! this is my main sticking point! thanks! ill get back to you after i watch it | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Shaved VS beard?I think it depends on what looks best in you. It cares from individual to individual. If it is a compleat wash and you don't have a preference then I'd say it is better to be clean shaven because some girls don't like beards but I can't imagen a girl not dating a guy cuz he doesn't have one. I would not really worry about it a tun. Try posting pics of the different states to ask women. | /r/seduction | 11/11/14 10:50 PM |
| 3 | La Timidezza nella seduzioneYou can be confident and shy. Idk how to pull it off. But I saw a lil Wayne interview where he was shy but confident (it was realy weird(not in a bad way)), and it seamed to me that it would be attractive. Idk how you pull it off/ cultivate that. But it defently seams to be a thing. | /r/seduction | 11/11/14 08:33 PM |
| 1 | I started reading about seduction 3 years ago and feel like I haven't made much improvement at all. Looks and money doesn't matter fellas. /rantThose may be contributing to your nervs anxiety. Alos, I use to take adderall in highschool and at the end of the school day when it wore off I like could not function socialy. Even with my friends. One time I went to a part and tryed to mengol, and someone asked me my first period and it took me like 2 minuts to figur out that I have first period off and my 2nd period (first class) was English. I don't think people usually have the side effects I had, but experimenting with out it met help you.… | /r/seduction | 11/11/14 07:42 PM |
| 1 | I started reading about seduction 3 years ago and feel like I haven't made much improvement at all. Looks and money doesn't matter fellas. /rantOk here are my shots i the dark. I have not gone through what you have gone through so this is just my guess. (Props on fixing your life situation and handling your finances and supporting your siblings through college and having money to invest... like dang dude! wtf thats awesome!) ok so do you take stimulants? adrall or lots of caffeine pre workout, some allergy medicines? those can increase anxiety. quitting them may make you nerves gown just a little bit to the point where you can handle it… | /r/seduction | 11/11/14 06:26 AM |
| 1 | You guys might enjoy this. its a documentary about a guy aproaching strangers in the Subwaylol right!? | /r/seduction | 11/11/14 04:44 AM |
| 5 | You guys might enjoy this. its a documentary about a guy aproaching strangers in the Subwaythat araboajo guy really did not give a fuck | /r/seduction | 08/11/14 02:28 AM |
| 0 | Whoa, Julien of RSD forced out of Australia. lolI live Julians videos, and get a lot out of them, but he is a dick. i feel like if they got rid of him it really would make them more respectable. but that also feels fucked up, because (apart from Tyler) he is like the mane instructor, and gives makes a lot of good shit. Like it also seem weird that tyler has him because he does put out shit that advocates being a dick to girls. and like Tyler's core philosophy is to become the shit and just have girls just like you for that. Its just a weird s… | /r/seduction | 07/11/14 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Whoa, Julien of RSD forced out of Australia. lolHe definitely has has valuable information and what not, but he really is a dick, I kinda feel like he really hurts RSD's image. I like watching him because iv gathered some REALLY good shit from him that i never heard from anyone els. but like also i don't see how he did not see this coming. like RSD is obviously controversial and when you go around posting shit like he does it seams obvious that there will be backlash. And iv seen people be completely put off of RSD when they see Julian, which… | /r/seduction | 07/11/14 08:12 PM |
| 3 | How do the principles of seduction apply in more conservative countries.If your country has hostles go to the hostel bars. I hear they are great. And you will meant gregarious travelers from foreign countries. Also it. Seems like you should move. Like get a different corer or get debt. Social life is kinda one of the most important things to be happy. There are tribes in Africa where they don't have dick in terms of Welty and luxury, but they have really close comunity and social ties and they are super happy. If you get zero social fulfillment out of this country y… | /r/seduction | 07/11/14 06:57 PM |
| 2 | How can I come off as a sexual person who likes sex without being creepy?Yah. All those post bitter people say where they are like "step 1 be attractive" are true. But they don't really understand what attractive means. Attractiveness means having value. For women the majority of their value comes from their looks (genetics) for men the majority of their value comes from a multitude of other things which can be cultivated. Genetics/looks is a small factor in men's value/ attractiveness. | /r/seduction | 03/11/14 06:03 PM |
| 4 | How can I come off as a sexual person who likes sex without being creepy?Yah. All those post bitter people say where they are like "step 1 be attractive" are true. But they don't really understand what attractive means. Attractiveness means having value. For women the majority of their value comes from their looks (genetics) for men the majority of their value comes from a multitude of other things which can be cultivated. Genetics/looks is a small factor in men's value/ attractiveness. Edit: I copy pasted this. | /r/seduction | 03/11/14 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Girl r/seduction?Iv heard from the grape vine that there are reasources for strippers to learn how to better seduce men. If they can do and say things to make men like them they will get more money and repeat clients. So maybe you could find those. You can workout and especially do glute exercises. People can get 100,000s of followers on Instagram from doing that. That probably will gives you the most bang for you buck. Also iv notised that some girls have this bright positive warm vibe which makes them way more… | /r/seduction | 02/11/14 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Hey R/Seduction, I have a question about STD's based on what happened last night.I don't actualy know. I don't think it is Likley. Maybe if you directly go pussy juce a on your dick. But I don't think it is very Likley. I'd ask this in /r/sex their are usually people that know that they are talking about over there. | /r/seduction | 01/11/14 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Has anybody used Mark Manson's online courses to give some feedback on them?Like his Conection corse? Im so interesting In that! If it's prig did defently thake it. | /r/seduction | 01/11/14 05:33 PM |
| 1 | What are the styles of seduction?What are your goals? Like modles is not that great fr getting girls. It's nore for relationships. Is you do alright with girls and wanna conect with them then Modles is probably good. If you wanna learn how to go out and get girls if recomend checking something els out. Models slams all other styles of pick up to try and destingwish it's self. (Mark manson admired to this in an AMA) so it may make you bias towards other stuff. If absolutly recomend you read it. But if you arnt good at gettig gir… | /r/seduction | 30/10/14 03:16 PM |
| 0 | Getting girls to make out with each otherI'm a noob so take with a grain of sault. You sounded like u got befitted which probbly Recked your state. And I don't think Tyler Durden ever does those double make outs with a recked state. Also your girl seamed to have opened the other girl pourly. When you get an instant make out (which I have never done) it seams like you have to have good state and vibes and a strong Start. And a leading frame. Idk. That's what I see in tyler Durden. I'm really not qualified in pickup or anything. I'm just… | /r/seduction | 26/10/14 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Today someone said about me: "I think we can all tell ristrett doesn't party." And it really struck me. What does this mean?Maybe upload a YouTube video of your self talking or something. I don't think anyone can examine you through text. Some shots in the dark are: A) you dress conservatory or like a nerd or something idk. B) you are super cautious and a fearful so ppl would assume you don't go to parties. C) you are very stifled and ppl can't see you in a party. Look up unstifling on elliott hulse's YouTube channels or on RsDTyler's chanal. For TYler u can also look up getting into state. (It is kinda the same thin… | /r/seduction | 19/10/14 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Jealous of the officers in my new clubAccording The theory this is because you have sacristy mindset. Sense you don't really go out and see all the hot girls you could get this girl is a sorta like a rare commodity. Cuz you are expose to so few hot girls. Solution: learn game, go out a lot, and see all the girls you could get. It sounds like you don't know her, you just like how she looks. You dot know of she Woold be special for you. (She probbly is not special for you), if you were to go out and just meet lots of women you would n… | /r/seduction | 19/10/14 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Becoming Beta when Smoking WeedWhen ever I stab myself with a knif I bleed. How can I overcome this? Pleas don't tell me to stop stabbing my self. Idk man maybe strategize better. (I don't smoke because of that reasion and I don't like feeling awkward) like maybe don't smoke till you pull a girl and then smoke with her. | /r/seduction | 11/10/14 04:55 PM |
| 1 | What is happening?I don't really know, this is just stuff iv noticed in my self. If you have not exercised in a long time that can mess you up. So try going for a run. If I have not drank in a long time sometime drinking again resets me. If I don't get out of the house and socialize for a long time the I get weird. | /r/seduction | 05/10/14 08:13 PM |
| 0 | How do you destroy attraction or un-seduce girls you don't want?I did that she kept coming back me. | /r/seduction | 05/10/14 07:50 PM |
| 1 | How do you destroy attraction or un-seduce girls you don't want?Yah but then she followed me... I latterly did that. (When this happens the girls are not exactly socially calibrated) | /r/seduction | 05/10/14 07:49 PM |
| 1 | #epostagonder http://blog.graphicmail.com.tr/toplu-mail-gonder/? | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain to me what it entails when a girl acts perfectly normal when she's alone with me but shit tests constantly around (mutual) friends?I'm not like a gooroo or anything at all. So take this with a grain. Of sault. (I got this from the blueprebt decoded). I'm going to have to assume people would not look and you and assume you are a high value male u it'll they talk to you and see how you are. Now the thing is you may have a high value Vasaude. The shit tests or congruence tests are to see if you truly are high value. So my guess is she wants everyone in the groupe to know that you are infact highvalue and she is making you demo… | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 07:37 PM |
| 2 | How do you convince a girl to wear something for you?Ummm. That's not weird. You are asking the to ware something that is universialy considered to be sexy (Atleast in America). It's not like you are asking the to put a horsetail buttplug in crawl around. Your not weird. You don't have a ficked up fedish. | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 03:17 PM |
| 1 | I'm 19 and looking for advice with womenIt sounds like You should study game. Hibistly game is like a field. You are lol asking how do you sleak Spanish. It how do you play football. Idk how much time you wanna invest in this. But I'd recomend checking out RSDTyler and reading the sidebar and reading the top FRs (field reports) If you wanna go more I depth read The Game or listen to it on audio book on YouTube. Then read modles by Mark Manson. Try and get your hands on some RSD products. | /r/seduction | 23/09/14 09:42 PM |
| 1 | If YOU had a gap year, what would you do with it?My friend worked a lot for several mounths then traveled for several mounths. (Which is what I thought gap years were for, maybe I'm worng) but ya. He he worked a lot, then went to Australia and versions south East Asian countries, then he went to Argentina and some other Latin American countries the key is to go to cheep countries. My friend said Australia was really fun but it was really expensive. You are starting later so you won't be able to do as mouth as him in fortunately, however you ha… | /r/seduction | 20/09/14 06:26 AM |
| 4 | RSD have just released their full Blueprint Decoded seminar onto youtube, and I am really enjoying it. 4 days of seminars by Owen Cook (Tyler), focusing on dewiring oneself from sometimes unhelpful social conditioning.Then you will miss out on some of the absolute highest grate material coming from RSDTyler. Julian's like a borderline psychopath. like it seems like it is a pretty cut and dry line, if you wanna learn how to pick up by being shitty, watch julian, if you anna learn how to pick up women, by being fun and cool, and well as improving your self to a better person yada yada, watch Tyler | /r/seduction | 19/09/14 03:35 AM |
| 1 | RSD have just released their full Blueprint Decoded seminar onto youtube, and I am really enjoying it. 4 days of seminars by Owen Cook (Tyler), focusing on dewiring oneself from sometimes unhelpful social conditioning.Lol I dought there will be a later | /r/seduction | 18/09/14 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Something about RSD just rubs me the wrong way...Im a noob but Don't think is what I'm about to say entrusting? Thats the wrong attitude and strategy. I feel like Tyler Duden and Mark Manson have Different beneficial strategies which are useful in different situation. If you are at a party or club, the girl is looking for a fun time. Thats where you use Tyler's method. His method is all about inner game and the way you present the things you say. Here is an example he has more examples too. Mark Manson says to Be venerable and talk about emoti… | /r/seduction | 07/07/14 11:21 PM |
| 1 | These are the 10 TED talks every aspiring Seducer needs to watchWhy not? I enjoyed it. I did not really find any takeaways other than how the it is bad how we frown on sexuality in the US. | /r/seduction | 02/07/14 01:14 AM |
| 1 | How do I enjoy interactions more?Im not big on NoFap but 'id give it a try if I was you. or try and cut back, or try and watch less intense porn or something. and take vitamins. When i watch way to mush porn or dont take care of my self I feel kinda numb towards women. like ill be like "ohh she is quite aesthetically pleasing but don't FEEL attraction towards her." but if iv keped porn things reasonable ill FEEL good talking to her and (in that state) ill also feel excited because really great times may ensue. | /r/seduction | 24/06/14 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Inconsistent when talking to girlsI'm a noob who's read a lot of theory but has little infield experience so take with a grain of salt but I came here to tell you about being "in state" that means how on point happy comfortable and free you are. The YouTube channel RSDTyler has some good videos about being in state. When you are in state it is amazing how easy it is to talk and how funny you are. It is also way easer to make people like you and to get what you want. The times if done it in my every day life it was kinda mindblow… | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 02:00 PM |
| 1 | I'm at work as we speak and want advice! AsapYou are soposed to ask for girls numbers not give yours out. | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Smiling - Teeth or No? Does it matter?It helps some. It can be a pretty big time sink because it can be heard to find someone you want to talk to and who wants to talk to you. Some times it takes me like 5 min, and sometimes it takes like 30 them I'm like ok this is ridiculous so I log off. A nice thing about Omegel is that all the people you are talking to also want to have a conversation so they are going to try to add to the conversation. I think it is a ok tool, but not that great. I view it more as a form of entertainment that … | /r/seduction | 04/06/14 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Can someone recommend a female version book of Models by Mark Manson?I fortunately I don know of any books but... I'm pretty observant. I'd recommend searching for stuff relate to unstifling/getting in state/beigh instate/bio energetics(sometimes applys). Baisicaly we hold out selves in and that makes up less attractive. You become unstifled opean as outward the best you will shine through and you will be more funny fun and pretty and attractive. Being opean and outward realy does make women more attractive. I theories that if women do that it will pull/attract/b… | /r/seduction | 04/06/14 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Smiling - Teeth or No? Does it matter?I'm not a pro so take with a grain of sault. When I'm board I like to go on Omegel to talk and practice my conversation skills. When ever something funny happens that would make me feel like smiling I just mentally increase the feeling and do a smurk/smile/laugh. So a smurk is where you smile with half for your mouth. But i then increase increase it so that it shows teath and opean my mouth the smallist but to let a lough out. I usually get compliments on my smile by girls. If I try to smile for… | /r/seduction | 02/06/14 03:51 PM |
| 2 | How can I stop getting boners when talking to girls?As well as clenching your quads. Idk if this will work id you don't have leg muscles so if you don't and this tequinecue does not work, you should start doing squats and deadlifts or riding your bike on the most dificult gear. If you keep your lumbar fully extended wile sitting down, bike riding will activate your gluts much more. Pm me of u have worke out questions | /r/seduction | 28/05/14 03:26 PM |
| -12 | 19yo British Guy heading to the States for 3 months. Could use a few pointers from the Americans!A lot of American women love British accents so being from England will probbly give you a huge advantage. The coultural differences iv noticed is that Brittish ppl are cruder than Americans or At lead texans and Californians (the majority if who I see), So you may want to dile back your crude-ness. And just don't act pompous or like sence you are smart you are sooo great that won't get your far. Idk what percentage of Brittish ppl have that attitude but some do and Americans hate that. It is ki… | /r/seduction | 24/05/14 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Advice from 30 to 20 old me - TL;DR Live more interesting life.i mean iv bean to italy (dont speak italian) and made some friends and we would bumble around trying to talk in broken english and drawing pictures and stuff. that was really fun. and i learned that even though they are from a different country they are just people there not super different from us. Iv also been to the dominican republic. it has a lot of tourism so lots of ppl speak english. I defently saw poverty there. I really enjoyed those trips and am really glad i was fortunent enough to t… | /r/seduction | 11/05/14 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Advice from 30 to 20 old me - TL;DR Live more interesting life.Could you give some examples if places to Travel to the tough places. Travel? I have know idea where to travel to "Travel to learn. Travel to discover. Travel to the places that will challenge who you think you want to be." | /r/seduction | 11/05/14 12:39 AM |
| 1 | How can I improve upon all the things I want when there's so many: eye contact, touch, voice etc?Somehow I mised the part about improving your voice. Would u mind fillin me in or referring me to a post or video if u have one bookemarked? I'd realy appreciate it! | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Good guy or a chump?i'm really not qualified to give you advice but i think you did the right thing. Also I really like your user name! Its quite cleaver! | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 12:35 AM |
| 2 | How to Keep a ConversationThis is very helpful thank you! | /r/seduction | 09/01/14 09:18 PM |
| 1 | what the do you talk about?That was very helpful thank you! | /r/seduction | 09/01/14 09:18 PM |
| 1 | what the do you talk about?Ok those are really good. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 09/01/14 09:18 PM |
| 2 | what the do you talk about?ok so she had a cracked screan on her iPhone, so like what is an example i could say? (pointing stuff out like that is really unnatural for me so I'm kinda clueless) | /r/seduction | 09/01/14 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Your new mantra: "Make it feel good."I just wanted to say I appreciate you bothering to make the post! | /r/seduction | 24/12/13 04:40 AM |
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