ok I'm new to this stuff. I don't have any approach anxiety or nerves or anything like that and I'm good looking. But i have know idea what to say.

Today I sat next to a girl at community college, weighting to go in to talk with the office. She was fairly pretty, I was thinking "cool, I wanna practice talking to strangers with her wile we weight." I did not really want to close with her. So then I sat down and thought of nothing to say.


I don't think i talk that much with my friends. I usually lead our group so I talk in those situations and I make joke a lot, but I don't think i talk as much as other people. I guess I'm bad at talking when i don't have a reason to talk other that to talk.


are there any perfect things to say, or is there an in-depth way to fix it.

does talking with stranger only work with outgoing strangers?

book recommendations?


my general philosophy is that you have to figure stuff out and like just get a skill and not read about it, but I don't know where to begin.