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Good looking, confident, funny, Virgin, never had a legit girlfriend, But can't always think of stuff to say to strangers, Iv watched nick sparks "how to hold conversation like a man" Iv Watched Tyler Durden's video on it, where he says not to worry about the quality of what you say, just now that what ever you say is awesome cuz you said it. and I've seen the conversation threading, which i always naturally did.

Iv also read models by mark mansion, and was only slightly able to apply being venerable and talking about emotions.

In the blue print tyler talks about not trying to make conversation but just being present and having funny interesting things "float up". when I try that nothing floats up, (outer that like where are you from) maybe I'm not present enough. when i have been social with strangers i do think i was present, but i need to be able to do it consistently.

Iv hade conversations with strangers before but I'm really inconsistent, and part of me wonders if things only go well when it is with a girl who is good at conversations, and once we start it them I'm fine.

I think this is my only real sticking point. this made me completely not have a dating life in high school cuz i was afraid of the things being awk, now I don't care if there is a silence, i don't get like uncomfortable, just things get boring and then end.

I really wanna get past this. I whet two stepping and there was a girl touching me heavily and what not (probably cuz of my looks and confidence), but I had little to say other than the lame regular things. after the song ended she left. (i don't really know how i could have kenoed back since my hand was under her arm, all i could do is tough her back and pull her closer)

I feel like if I can gain this ability ill be competent at game. and should be able to get good with practice.

does Tyler talk about conversation more in Foundations? I have that but have not watched it yet

any help would be appreciated! I feel like ill be able to really make progress if i can get this.