Hi seddit, I've been a long time lurker on here and have made some progress. I'm not exactly sure when I found seddit but I really committed to becoming good with girls during my freshman year of college.

I was an awkward kid in high school who only had a few friends and couldn't get a girl if my life depended on it. The first girl I really liked and pursued (when I was 16) had me so deep in the friendzone that when I confessed my feelings, I managed to creep her out to the point that she blocked me on facebook. The second girl I pursued was a year and a half later, I was so afraid to ask out or talk to, that I asked her out over facebook, where she promptly declined. I went on my first date 1 week AFTER I graduated from high school. I managed to finish high school a kiss-less virgin.

After finishing high school, I committed myself to improving with women. I managed to go from a kiss-less virgin in high school to losing my virginity at the first college party that I went to. Fast forward two years now and I've slept with roughly 20 women, the majority of which were from tinder. This success has made me a bit happier that I've made some progress but I'm still very unsatisfied. The quality of the girls that I've slept with has definitely increased but only a few of the girls that I've slept with I'd consider attractive enough to actually date. I've failed to have a meaningful relationship with even just 1 girl for even a short period of time.

I consider (and know) that I'm at least a little bit above average in terms of looks, tall, and in good shape (skinny but fit). I look at other guys with their arm around an attractive girl and think "why isn't that me, why am I not that guy"? Like I said earlier I'm at least decent looking, go to a good college, am a d1 athlete, dress at least okay, driven, hard working (not trying to brag) etc. However, I still only have just a few friends, don't get invited to a lot of parties/social events. I'm always the guy in the group that ends up outside the circle of people talking, no one's first choice, sometimes just frankly ignored.

I guess what I'm asking is how do I take that next step, to becoming a guy that's invited to lots of social events/parties, gets decently consistent with HB7-10's, and be the guy that everyone wants to be around?

Any and all advice is appreciated.