Hi Seddit. Im a 20 year old female. And right now Im talking to a couple of guys. But Im having trouble figuring out what they want from me.

NumberOne: I've been talking to NumberOne off and on for a while now. He's in the military so I haven't seen him in a months, but he (now) texts me all the time. Last time we saw eachother, I didn't let him fuck. After that he didn't talk to me for months and now he's trying to rekindle things. Im pretty sure I have him figured out, maybe I hurt his pride when I denied him? Whether I did or not, it was my desicision and he should've respected that instead of running away like a dog with its tail in between his legs.

NumberTwo: I've been talking to him for about three months. Not nearly as long as NumberOne. We see eachother every so often; when I don't have to work and when he's not at school. We've already had sex, but shortly after his brother told me about how NumberTwo tried to pass me off to him. That put a lot on my mind, resulting in me not talking to either for a few weeks. NumberTwo is very affectionate, we get along wonderfully, but that information is lodged in my mind and wont butt-out. The other night he came over, and unexpectedly he brought his brother. But when his brother made a move, NumberTwo got defensive. The mixed messages here are killing me. I don't understand at all.

Any help or words of advice are welcome. If you need anymore information, Id be happy to oblige. Thank you all. Good day.