| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 125 | I think I realized why I'm so shit at this. | _saint | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 06:06 PM | |
| 59 | [FR] I SUCK AND HERE IS PROOF | _saint | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 02:45 AM | |
| 28 | [FR] Out alone in Poland, approaching like a machine | Field Report | _saint | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 01:04 PM |
| 9 | Anyone looking to sarge in Providence? | _saint | /r/seduction | 27/01/12 05:38 PM | |
| 6 | Great old post for more advanced players, on how to maximize your results | _saint | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 12:48 PM | |
| 1 | What advice would you give to someone caught in this negative thought cycle: | _saint | /r/seduction | 08/05/12 06:41 PM | |
| 0 | So who was the douchebag here [FR i guess] | _saint | /r/seduction | 05/07/12 11:56 AM | |
| 0 | My friends make fun of my openers. | _saint | /r/seduction | 04/03/12 04:49 PM |
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|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | Moving to a new town. How to quickly build a social life?Go out to busy bars and clubs 4-7 nights a week, talk to everyone, and the rest should come pretty much by itself. | /r/seduction | 24/01/13 04:50 AM |
| 0 | Billy's Guide to LooksHow can you write an article on the role of looks in seduction, and yet be oblivious to the almost universal truth that women value looks in a mate less than men do? No offense, but to me it sounds like youre projecting your own admiration for guys with six-packs onto women. | /r/seduction | 11/01/13 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Billy's Guide to LooksI’ve never seen guys go crazy for a nice rack the same way women will freak out over six pack abs Are you kidding me? Are we living on the same planet? Other than that, pretty good stuff. | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 11:21 AM |
| 1 | How to overcome AA if I AM a selfish douchebag?What does being a douchebag even have to do with AA Sorry your post makes no sense, try again later | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 11:18 AM |
| 7 | Question about approaching..duhhhh | /r/seduction | 05/01/13 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Creative Shit TestsCant upvote hard enough | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 05:44 PM |
| 6 | Creative Shit TestsWow this is the stupidest thread I've seen in a while. You must be fucking braindead if you don't know how to resist this guys' "charms". Just... dont fuck him? What else even is there to say about it? Do you even know what a shit test is? It's not something employed deliberately. Do you think other girls are going around thinking to themselves "UH OH, A GUY IS TALKING TO ME, BETTER EXECUTE SHIT TEST SUBROUTINE OMEGA TO GAUGE HIS SEXUAL WORTHINESS"? Here. I will give you the ultimate shit test. … | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Is there a way to reverse the effects of oneitis with a girl I'm currently interested in?I think you should kill the oneitis itself, rather than simply trying to treat the symptoms. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Let's take a break from theory! What's the funniest thing that has happened to you while out sarging?Only the first one is stupid at all, and none of them are funny. Lemme break it down: You made crude fun of a girls name. Again, only arguably stupid one. Still boring, though. You approached 2 girls and they liked you but you ran out of things to say. Umm.. yeah? Does running out of things to say not happen to everyone on a regular basis? Acted too nice, then dropped a beer bottle. OH MAN. WHAT WERE YOU EVEN THINKING???? Sorry just kidding neither one is at all memorable, again everybody does t… | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Probably the wrong place for this, but can anyone relate, offer advice?This is just a guess, but to me it sounds like you aren't going for the close. I'd say you have to recognize what you need to do to get sex, and then just do it, even if maybe you arent in the mood or arent feeling it for whatever reason. | /r/seduction | 28/12/12 08:02 PM |
| -4 | How to approach random girlsI know, I know. The most beginner sounding question of all time Then don't ask it. Go read the damn sidebar | /r/seduction | 25/12/12 02:40 PM |
| 1 | [Q] What is the effect of my impulse?This should be in r/askseddit | /r/seduction | 25/12/12 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Favorite openers?Hey, you look like you're having the most fun here. | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 05:47 PM |
| 6 | facebook encounters with AMOG on the girl's pageThis should be in r/askseddit, not here | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 05:37 PM |
| 2 | K-ClosesSame signs that means she likes you. Why wait for signs anyway? If you think it might be time then go for it. If it works, it works, and if it doesn't then you know shes not into it and you can go find another one. Don't overthink it. | /r/seduction | 23/12/12 04:16 PM |
| 1 | K-Closescheck with the pros You are in the wrong place. That said, if a girl likes you, my advice would be to wait for the first pause in the conversation and then just go for it. Or maybe bounce to a better location and then go for it. Just don't wait too long or youll be wasting both your own, and the girl's time. And don;t sweat it if you get rejected, its just her own issues at work, go find another girl. | /r/seduction | 23/12/12 02:33 PM |
| -4 | [FR] "Put your phone away so I can hit on you properly"That;s retarded. If they are lying to you and telling you they have a boyfriend if they don't, they are saying they don't like you and asking you to leave them alone. | /r/seduction | 23/12/12 09:59 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Hello, I love you. Won't you tell me your name?You gave the bartender 20 bucks for the sake of making a joke? | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 08:45 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Failed club pick-up, too loud?she went for my head and wanted to kiss me. I avoided it Ahahahahaha what the fuck man | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 08:34 PM |
| -1 | Any tips on speed dating?You should treat the whole thing like a big joke. Because taking speed dating seriously will make you look like a loser. | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 08:29 PM |
| 13 | Could use some help improving my club gamePersonally I don't recommend approaching girls on the dance floor. Instead, try approaching girls at the bar, right after they receive their drink. There are a few reasons for this. The biggest one though, is that there are several reasons a girl might be at a club. One of these reasons is to get laid. Another is to dance with her friends. Guess where all the girls who are just there to dance will be? Yup, on the dance floor. The ones who are open to meeting a guy and maybe going home with him a… | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Call it a K-close when you K-close. Call it a kiss when you kiss her in the middle of the night. K-close is when you kiss at the end of the night and then part ways. That is all.Digestivee, you are exactly right. Wish we could get a mod in here to confirm. | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Call it a K-close when you K-close. Call it a kiss when you kiss her in the middle of the night. K-close is when you kiss at the end of the night and then part ways. That is all.No. NO. If it's anything, a K-close is the FIRST kiss with a particular girl. | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 08:09 PM |
| 6 | The club scene seems pointless to me but it has the hottest chicks. Solution?The hot girls ARE the point of clubs. | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 10:31 AM |
| -1 | Some little things that changed in my life which resulted in a lot more girls flirting with me.It is just the blind leading the blind here. The only posts I read are from the mods now, cuz I assume everyone else is like this joker. | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 12:33 AM |
| -1 | Some little things that changed in my life which resulted in a lot more girls flirting with me.I cannot believe you are being downvoted for this. | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 12:26 AM |
| 2 | [FR] i cant believe my three way actually worked outSo... you want to find resources for her to read... but not subject her to having to read them? What? | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 12:12 AM |
| 1 | [FR] i cant believe my three way actually worked outAgreed. Saw "threesome" and was curious how the guy made it happen. Found out it was a girl and didn't care. | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 12:11 AM |
| 1 | How about just saying "kiss" instead of "kiss-close"?Well I guess people can do as they like. Myself, I'd be embarrassed to use words like K-close, F-close, AMOG, IOI, etc., even on a forum like this where most everyone will know what they mean. Because they are just so damn nerdy and unnatural. | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 12:07 AM |
| 9 | [FR] i cant believe my three way actually worked outJudge judgey judge Look everyone look at judgey mcjudgerson over here | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 01:07 PM |
| 0 | How about just saying "kiss" instead of "kiss-close"?I cannot think of a single case in which using "K-close" or "F-close" conveys any more meaning than "kiss" or "fuck". Why make up new codewords, when there are already normal english words that mean exactly the same thing? | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Easy holiday K-CloseThis sounds like a great way to make the simple act of kissing a girl really complicated and overwrought and awkward. | /r/seduction | 17/12/12 12:46 AM |
| -10 | Date ideaI think I know a comic that can help you out. http://www.mspaintadventures.com/sweetbroandhellajeff/?cid=035.jpg | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 06:48 PM |
| 4 | [FR] F-close, but either I misread signals or it really is "it's not you it's me"sounds like some shit that is not worth dealing with and you should forget about her. | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 02:35 PM |
| -2 | Rejected in day game rejected at a bar rejected at a rave. Beginning to think I'm just not attractive.Uh oh you got rejected THREE TIMES??? OH NO YOURE LIFE IS OVER YOULL NEVER GET A GIRLFRIEND EVEEERRRRRR | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 02:24 PM |
| -1 | Hey seddit guys. If a girl is so attracted to you that she immediately ends up sleeping with you, do you lose respect for her?gayyyyyyy | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Hey seddit guys. If a girl is so attracted to you that she immediately ends up sleeping with you, do you lose respect for her?A key that opens many locks is a good key. A lock that can be opened by many keys is a bad lock. | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Needing help with these boys.he should've respected that instead of running away like a dog with its tail in between his legs Maybe you should respect his decision not to talk to you? If a guy doesn't talk to you it doesn't mean hes a coward or whatever, it means he doesn't like you. | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 08:38 AM |
| 50 | Hey seddit guys. If a girl is so attracted to you that she immediately ends up sleeping with you, do you lose respect for her?No, I like girls who are sexually open. It actually makes me respect them more, knowing they aren't a prude. Also, if they sleep with me, that shows that they are good judges of character. | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 08:28 AM |
| 3 | Post PUA. How do you turn off?stop wanting to approach attractive girls Have you considered castration? | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 07:14 PM |
| 6 | Clubbing solo. Any tips?I follow it up with "Oh, really? Huh, I thought you were from X because I noticed Y about you blah blah blah..." | /r/seduction | 09/12/12 05:29 PM |
| 6 | Clubbing solo. Any tips?I rather like this guy's strategy: http://www.rooshv.com/going-out-alone The two openers I like to use on random girls when I'm all alone at the club are "Hey, you don't look like your from here" and "Hey, you look like you're having the most fun here". Both stolen from Roosh as well, but they work. | /r/seduction | 09/12/12 12:09 PM |
| 2 | What are the thoughts about sleeping with a girl, although you have a gf?"almost in a relationship"? That doesn't mean anything, you've gotta give the details of the situation for us to know whats going on. Not that any of our opinions should really matter to your decision. But hey, whatever. | /r/seduction | 06/12/12 03:02 PM |
| 9 | Dealing with a boyfriend when talking to a girl you didn't know was takenLook surprised, look at the girl, point to the guy, say "Oh, this is your boyfriend?" If she says yes, just be cool maybe say hey and shake the guy's hand or something and be on your way. If he gives you shit just say you didn't realize she was taken. Nothing more you can do really. | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Getting out of this vicious cycleToo inexperienced? There's a first time for everything. Whats the worst that could happen? It's not out of your hands. If going out solo's what you need to do then you should do it. Ease yourself into it if it helps; you don't have to talk to anyone or do anything other than just show up, the first few times. Sorry but it really sounds like you're making excuses for why you can;t succeed, so that you don't have to try. | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 06:32 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First Post: Flying soloSounds like you should find a busier venue | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Getting out of this vicious cycleHow is it that you notice the women aren't interested in you, if you don't approach them? If your friends dont want to take you out with them (wtf kind of shitty friend is this but i digress) then just go out by yourself, maybe it seems scary but if you try it a few times you'll find that it's okay and no one will judge you for being out by yourself. | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 03:55 PM |
| 16 | [FR] Proving a point: Sometimes it just doesn't matter what your opener is.You must be new here! Welcome young padawan | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 02:52 PM |
| 2 | "They" say go out 4 nights a week to practice picking up women in order to really improve, but this seems a bit excessive...But I go out at most 1 or 2 nights a week and it's usually with friends so picking up girls isn't usually the central focus of the night So what you're saying is that you don't practice game, or not regularly at least. The more you hit on girls the more success youll have and the better you will get, simple as that. So going out 4 times a week will improve your game at least 4 times faster than going out once a week. | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 01:54 PM |
| 0 | Reddit, here's the story of your least typical college grad who's 55% along the way to being a 40 year old virgin...Was this meant to be a reply to the OP? | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Reddit, here's the story of your least typical college grad who's 55% along the way to being a 40 year old virgin...I think my point still stands! You wont know what you value in a romantic partner until you experience enough of them. | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 11:52 AM |
| 6 | Reddit, here's the story of your least typical college grad who's 55% along the way to being a 40 year old virgin...I'm sorry but I just don't buy that you know what you want when youve never been in a sexual relationship. How would you know? | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 06:28 PM |
| 1 | [FR] My first night when no fucks were given. [Question] I hate clubbing and I want to change that. Is it worth it?the game is very different here, getting a number is very easy and doesn't mean much This is true everywhere. | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Reddit, here's the story of your least typical college grad who's 55% along the way to being a 40 year old virgin...If you know that "building things up in your head" is causing you problems, don't just dismiss it with "that's just the way I am". That's nothing but an excuse. You need to realize that you are capable of being any kind of person you want to be, by changing your thoughts and behavior. And I think that's what you'll need to do in order to become successful in relationships. | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Is this a good opener? From a semi-AFC/still total noob who happens to have had 100% success with it.It's when a girl is looking at you, you make some kind of gesture or action that forces her to do something in reply, like waving or sticking your tongue out. If she smiles or looks shy or laughs or whatever, then congratulations, you've just forced an IOI. | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Is this a good opener? From a semi-AFC/still total noob who happens to have had 100% success with it.You're thinking too hard. | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Your friends will hold you back.Are you drunk pinkhero | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 05:47 PM |
| 4 | Need help guiding a female friend toward a better view of seduction (also a little rejection story)THANK YOU | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Need help guiding a female friend toward a better view of seduction (also a little rejection story)You're giving her man advice. She is a girl, it doesn;t work the same way. Girls shouldn't approach men, they should just subtly invite approaches with eye contact, smiling, etc. Girls who actually go up to guys and say that they like them get labelled sluts (sad, but true). | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Cold ApproachesIn my book, this means it doesn't work well at all. | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Do you still sometimes feel that a particular girl is clearly "out of your league"?Yeah, I think the OP is talking about girls he doesn't know but wants to approach. Not girls he's already in a sexual relationship with. | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 06:47 PM |
| 1 | #1 pickup artist in the world = TOTAL FRAUD - YouTube This is so bad. WOW.Ok that was pretty hilariously bad haha. I don't like a lot of Mysteries techniques, not for me at any rate, but yeah as others have said this isn't proof of anything. | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 09:20 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Out alone in Poland, approaching like a machineI like telling girls I have no friends. But just out of curiosity, what would you recommend saying to girls who ask me if I'm here with friends, or where my friends are? Also hanging out alone is badass. If a girl thinks its creepy shes probably uptight and won't put out anyway. | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 07:14 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Out alone in Poland, approaching like a machineI tap on girls who have not noticed me at all. In that case, I'd have to say that just putting my hand unexpectedly on the small of their back seems very aggressive in the creepiest possible way. Should I lie and say that I do have friends? (No) | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 03:53 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Out alone in Poland, approaching like a machineThanks. For some reason, NOT being a douche seems to yield more success. Crazy, right? | /r/seduction | 18/11/12 12:09 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Out alone in Poland, approaching like a machineI actually forgot/left out quite a bit. Like, I think I may have made out with another girl besides Patricia, only I'm not sure which one or whether im just misremembering. Also each conversation had a lot more to it that what I wrote here, but I only mentioned the stuff I could remember off the top of my head. | /r/seduction | 18/11/12 12:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Out alone in Poland, approaching like a machineReally? The one that said no to pretty much everything? Well, if you say so, haha. Anyway thanks | /r/seduction | 18/11/12 01:31 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Out alone in Poland, approaching like a machineI think its likely a combination of both? lol | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 10:00 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Out alone in Poland, approaching like a machineWhenever I did that I was standing next to/in front of the girl. In general what I'd do was introduce myself, shake her hand, and pull her toward me so I could speak right into her ear. Then I'd put a hand on her back while she was close. Getting physical immediately. | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 09:58 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Out alone in Poland, approaching like a machineI've been here one month, planning on staying till july. My polish is currently just really basic shit like thank you, excuse me, hello | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 05:05 PM |
| 9 | [FR] Out alone in Poland, approaching like a machineDon't be offended if i take your advice with a grain of salt kid ;) | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 05:05 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Out alone in Poland, approaching like a machineB-but its haaaaaard... Nah man youre right. I've been lazy with learning polish, I need to crack the books again. | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Question for Planet Fitness members (incident there got me curious).I wouldn't read anything into it. | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do guys TRY to make me nervous? How do I stop giving them that satisfaction and become more confident?I think you are assuming that what you find attractive in a man, is what men find attractive in women. | /r/seduction | 14/11/12 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else suspect a surge of fake [FR]s lately?This guy doesn't even describe the actual seduction, just gives some advice, explains his mindset, and gives his opening line. What makes you think it's fake? | /r/seduction | 13/11/12 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Why do guys TRY to make me nervous? How do I stop giving them that satisfaction and become more confident?All else aside, why don't you want to be cute? You do realize that guys like cute girls, right? | /r/seduction | 13/11/12 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Just got home. Passive girls.Sounds like it was a low-energy venue. | /r/seduction | 11/11/12 06:32 PM |
| 20 | Got out of the Friendzone thanks to you guys!Hear that guys OP's not an AFC anymore Pack it in we're done here | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 02:33 AM |
| 18 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.I think this comment was made with good intentions, but I don't think it's good advice at all. Do you think Tyler Durden sees a girl and thinks, "She's cute, but... what can I REALLY offer her? Hmm..." No, he's got an attitude that makes him a worthwhile person to know, REGARDLESS of his particular circumstances. So while I don't advise OP to let his financial and physical wellbeing go to shit, I do think that there's no reason not to be interacting with girls even when he's poor, friendless, ou… | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Maybe you don't belong here...Sorry dude, his sentences make perfect sense and he used "strawman" correctly. I hate to break it to you but you come off as though you're simply butthurt that others are putting in more time and seeing more success with women than you. Also, baselessly calling your opponent a fundie and implying that he doesn't enjoy his life are not good techniques of argumentation, fyi. | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 03:39 AM |
| 4 | Maybe you don't belong here...Agree with OP 100%. The dudes who come on here to get advice on that one and only girl, they are not going to get anything out of this subreddit. Canned material won't help them because they won't be congruent with it, and putting to use any advice on proper mindset will take more time and effort than they're willing to commit. And what's more, their posts and comments are not going to add anything constructive to the subreddit, because they have no idea what the conversation they're trying to c… | /r/seduction | 16/07/12 11:59 PM |
| 2 | It seems like to me a lot of girls sexual personality can be very simply defined as passive-aggressive. Does anyone else agree?If you are expecting girls to ask you out, you are doing this seddit thing completely wrong. | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 03:07 PM |
| 2 | How to use your day game to help improve your night game.So did you actually DO this, or is it just an idea you had...? | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 02:49 PM |
| -1 | My girlfriend asked me to hit on someone else to prove I had game.Haha, you fucking beta. Your girlfriend sees you touch another girl on the BACK... and you APOLOGIZED? Weak. | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 06:38 PM |
| 0 | I've never felt strongly about any girl and it feels bad. What do I do?It's probably cuz you're like 16 and still think there's such a thing as a perfect relationship, or that all good relationships should go down in exactly such-and-such way, or whatever. Correct me if I'm wrong. | /r/seduction | 08/07/12 07:49 PM |
| 1 | I would like some help in improving my seduction.I say your "we should talk more about books" shit was weak. You gotta convey sexual interest at some point bro, might as well do it early on instead of pussyfooting around the issue. Otherwise you're headed for the friend zone. | /r/seduction | 08/07/12 07:07 PM |
| 5 | [FR] First approach ever...thank you Seddit...so much.Nice, tell the guy to try and marry the first girl he ever approached. Way to be a bro. | /r/seduction | 08/07/12 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you have any links to blogs about women, travel, sex and adventure?rooshv.com has a bit of that, I enjoy it | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Older, divorced mom is begging for my D. Would I be less attractive to girls my own age if I accept?I just can't understand why you'd think banging this woman would prevent you from banging other girls later. Almost seems paranoid. | /r/seduction | 06/07/12 03:54 PM |
| 1 | So who was the douchebag here [FR i guess]...I appreciate your candor. | /r/seduction | 05/07/12 01:14 PM |
| 0 | Are white knights overwhelming Seddit?Absolutely pathetic that this post has been upvoted so much; this has convinced me more than anything that white knights really are running rampant here. | /r/seduction | 04/07/12 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Are white knights overwhelming Seddit?I hope you don't expect me to read all that. | /r/seduction | 04/07/12 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Dear Seddit, Is it possible to break the best friendzone?If I was going to write an over-the-top parody of Beta-male thoughts and behavior, it would read basically just like this. It's like a PUA/AFC/whatever variant on Poe's Law is in effect here. OP, did you read the "NEW HERE" sidebar? The header does say you must read it before posting. If you didn't already, go and read it now and hopefully it will give you a little bit of insight into why you do not need to seduce this girl; what you actually need is to reevaluate your life and your attitude tow… | /r/seduction | 04/07/12 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Dear Seddit, Is it possible to break the best friendzone?He won't. Look at the shit he says. Sad, really. | /r/seduction | 04/07/12 01:56 PM |
| 1 | What I know about INNER GAMEFucking incredible. I think I just found a new must-read piece for people I introduce to PU. Though I wonder just how much a complete newbie could actually get out of it? | /r/seduction | 04/07/12 01:42 PM |
| -3 | Remember, never take girls' advice on picking up girlsYeah, I'm rolling my eyes pretty hard right now. | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone here ever heard of the Dark Triad personality group? Do you think there's anything that can be learned from it?Practical application: Always act like you're JFK. I've heard much worse pickup advice. | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Souring a venue?Pretty much. Who says that chatting with girls has to be done in an obnoxious way that will get you banned from cafes? | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 07:08 PM |
| 3 | How to make things sexual?Be sure to start kino early (immediately), always be leading the conversation in the direction you want it to go. With that in mind it will just be a matter of you getting more experience interacting with girls this way under your belt. | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Good at Day Game, mindset crumbles at night.Eh if it was your first time out don't sweat it too hard. Try a couple more times and you'll discover it's really no different at night than it is during the day. | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Change must be good... Right?Sounds like you're doing it right. Who cares what your friends think? Who cares what the old you would have thought? You gotta do what seems right to you in the moment. | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 02:37 PM |
| 2 | I can't get over this rejection. No matter how hard I try, I just can'tI laughed out loud at this post. But then I realized I wasn't supposed to. Oh well, thanks for the chuckles OP! | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Why I went home with YOUR dream girl last nightHaha willingness to approach really is 90% of the battle! Congrats dude, never lose that killer instinct. | /r/seduction | 01/07/12 11:36 PM |
| 9 | Does bodybuilding really get women flirting with you?Even extremely physically attractive guys aren't usually approached by women. I mean, I'm sure it happens, but it's still the exception. An insanely goodlooking (whether that means buff, lantern-jawed, whatever) guy might be able to coast on women who approach him. But his success with women still won't compare to that of a guy with the proper attitude who goes out, does approaches, and makes things happen himself. | /r/seduction | 30/06/12 08:39 PM |
| 1 | I've decided. Tonight's the night I stop giving a fuck.Wow dude, way to be a negative nancy. The guy takes a step in the right direction, and you rain on the parade by saying it won't be enough. | /r/seduction | 30/06/12 08:36 PM |
| 2 | So exactly, how willing are most women to having sex the same night?You should stop posting. | /r/seduction | 30/06/12 05:10 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Lesbian LoveCool stuff, just one comment to make Some of you might say im an asshole or a creep Stop thinking this, it's dumb | /r/seduction | 28/06/12 01:42 PM |
| 8 | How do you guys find girls when you don't have a car?Hey welcome to seddit! Have you read the sidebar yet? | /r/seduction | 27/06/12 10:12 PM |
| 1 | [FR] HB9 at Ikea. Too young?Definitely agree with the other posters saying you just went for it to early. You hadn't interacted with her at all, so you were still a complete stranger at the point you asked for the number and a future date. That's not a proposition most girls would take up. So she had to make up some reason to turn you down and the (pretty minor) age difference was the first thing that occurred to her. Just try shooting the shit a bit before trying to number-close/instant date/whatever. Gotta show her you a… | /r/seduction | 26/06/12 01:45 PM |
| 1 | It looks like there are only a small handful of cities that have Seddit lairs. Why don't we post where we're from and potentially start some new lairs?Boston MA, I'm 24! Would be good to know guys into PU, none of my friends get it :P | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 03:56 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I SUCK AND HERE IS PROOFNot my first time at a bar at all, but the first time in a while I've gone out alone and for the explicit purpose of pickup (though I told myself I wasn;t gong to worry about picking up anyone, just talk to people and have a good time) I didn't enjoy being the only person there alone. I didn't enjoy the lukewarm reactions. I didn't enjoy feeling like i had to bail so shortly after I opened and not really having anything to say. Most of all I didn't enjoy walking home feeling like a failure. You … | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 03:58 PM |
| 3 | [FR] I SUCK AND HERE IS PROOFMy friends are mostly negative on the idea. | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 01:59 PM |
| 6 | [FR] I SUCK AND HERE IS PROOFPosture's probably fine. Voice projection probably sucked cuz I was nervous. Body language, with the two girls at least, also probably sucked. I probably avoided eye contact and leaned in to talk. | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 01:55 PM |
| 3 | [FR] I SUCK AND HERE IS PROOFI said it. She smiled. I smiled back. She nodded. I nodded in return. After a few seconds of this I was fucking OUT, PEACE LADY. However the "joke" might look on paper, its delivery and my behavior following it were very reaction-seeking and it felt obvious I was reaching for something. | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 01:42 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I SUCK AND HERE IS PROOFNo I really didn't have fun, sorry to say. I just felt creepy while I was there, and guilt and self-loathing afterwards. It almost seems like having fun is a skill that you have to learn, one that I am basically clueless at. And one that's almost a prerequisite to meeting women. | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 01:38 PM |
| 5 | [FR] I SUCK AND HERE IS PROOFIt's a reasonable suggestion and you aren't the only one to make it. I've been going out with friends quite a bit, but I always feel like I'm "supposed" to be talking to my friends and not chatting up strangers. Also if an interaction with a girl DID go anywhere in that situation I'd probably feel really self-conscious trying to escalate in front of my friends. I thought that going out alone would free me from some of that, which, I mean, I guess it did. | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 01:32 PM |
| 1 | What advice would you give to someone caught in this negative thought cycle:Thanks for the input, everyone who's commented. To elaborate a bit, "let people see that I'm not getting laid" also extends to demonstrating bad game and just generally embarrassing oneself. | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 01:22 AM |
| 1 | What did I do wrong at the club? (male/19)Sounds to me like you only hung out with your own group instead of opening any new sets. That's a problem right there. | /r/seduction | 13/03/12 03:49 PM |
| 1 | My friends make fun of my openers.I think I'm going too far with the strategy of initially breaking rapport... | /r/seduction | 05/03/12 01:48 AM |
| -10 | Online dating: Need a comeback!Don't. Go outside. It's not scary once your eyes adjust to the sunlight... | /r/seduction | 04/03/12 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Anyone looking to sarge in Providence?Lol. So, are you looking for people to roll with? | /r/seduction | 29/01/12 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Anyone looking to sarge in Providence?Contacted. | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Anyone looking to sarge in Providence?Hey man that's a great offer, unfortunately Foxwoods is a 90 minute drive from where I live. You do make it sound like it might almost be worth it though! | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Anyone looking to sarge in Providence?Who cares? I'll roll with anyone who isn't a drag to be around or an embarrassment to be seen with. I sent you a message. | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Anyone looking to sarge in Providence?I've been frequenting the Colosseum, its a little pricey and the music is too loud to hold a conversation but it's the only place I've found that draws the sorts of crowds I'm interested in. | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 02:48 AM |
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