I am starting to get a lot better at this. Being 22 and still in school, I typically go out to the bars/clubs on the weekends where dancing occurs. Lately I have had a lot more success dancing with girls, just by having a good time, smiling a lot, and not giving any fucks.

I'm having trouble moving past dancing though. As an example, this past weekend I was out with a few friends, 2 of us spot two 8s dancing by themselves and so we go in. The girl I go after I lock eye contact with and walk towards her with a huge smile, grab her hand, and twirl in. She laughs and obliges. My friend goes into the instant back forth grinding mode which everyone in the clubs do (quite boring imo). She gets really into it, and soon enough we are grinding face to face. I get in really close and make sure she can feel my breath on her neck and even brush my lips along her neck. She was smiling and definitely enjoying it. I glanced over at my friend who was still just going left and right, the girl looked so bored. I went in for a kiss after a while and she turned her head away but kept dancing so I wasn't giving up and she was still smiling. I grabbed her hand again and twirled her out further from me and just danced holding hands for a minute, but her friend started whispering to her and shortly thereafter they left. The night ended shortly after and I went home an AFC that evening.