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Witty as fuck though, Hank Moody style :D
/r/seduction17/07/14 06:03 PM
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So jealous, I wanna take a bootcamp with Todd but he rarely comes to Europe. Can't wait for this Hot Seat to arrive here, I've seen all the Hot Seats so far this one looks like anti-flashy game
/r/seduction17/07/14 06:03 PM
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Yeah, loving the daygame. I'm stealing lines from Todd :D
/r/seduction17/07/14 06:02 PM
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awesome, loving the ending haha
/r/seduction14/05/14 10:06 PM
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I'm sorry about it man but I also didn't think I did anything wrong by posting about a guy already getting laid but clearly I did wrong.. Sorry guys!!
/r/seduction27/09/13 05:50 AM
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Hey thanks! I actually totally resonate with your advice and unlike other times when I have lied and said I will take Redditors advice, I really will be taking yours!! Thanks man :D
/r/seduction27/09/13 05:31 AM
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What did Tyler see in you initially that he brought you into the company and gave you the opportunity to get where you are at now?
/r/seduction05/04/13 01:08 AM
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Super interesting. Women win the first twenty five years at sex, guys win the second twenty five years. Take that Brittany!
/r/TheRedPill04/04/13 10:39 PM
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Water is awesome. I cringe when I see people slurping down soda as if its not loaded down with sugar. Its also extra important for people who hit the gym frequently to get more water than the average person. Not just for obvious reasons but also because if you are bulking, you will be taking in more protein and the more protein a person eats the more water they need. Thanks college nutrition. I notice when I really get the protein I need, which is nearly 200 grams a day, I feel quite a bit bette…
/r/seduction15/03/13 03:23 AM
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Well like lets say your in a social group and there is a girl your attracted to. I just kind of take notice of how I position myself relative to her throughout the interactions and as everyone changes position and such. I then just flip that around and look for those types of things in girls to see if they are into me. Honestly its not even that important or crazy beneficial or anything its more like a fun side project
/r/seduction14/03/13 08:17 PM
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You can totally do that.Whats the WORST that can happen? She pulls her hand away and walks away. I typically grab her hand on the dance floor. The more fun your having, the better it works
/r/seduction14/03/13 07:26 PM
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Hey man its whatever works for you. You have to figure out what works best and go from there, but I would definitly advise you to not ask if you could join. Its like how you don't ask a girl if she wants to dance, you just grab her hand and start dancing. Field time is king. Practice enough and you can come back here and report what has given you the best results
/r/seduction14/03/13 05:38 PM
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By asking if they mind if you join them you are giving them an excuse to say no right off the bat. I would say something more like Hey it looks like you are having fun, or whatever the situation warrents but not start it off with a question
/r/seduction14/03/13 04:07 PM
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I read somewhere about something an advanced guy did. I think it was an rsd instructor or something, don't remember but he was good. He would say, thats cool bro, or whats up bro, to guys. He would frame them as bro's in a kind of negative light to the girl. The power of suggestion is scary, once she has the idea that they are a tool she will look for signs that they really are and ignore signs that would suggest them being otherwise. You can also suggest to the girl that a guy is a tool or some…
/r/seduction14/03/13 12:41 PM
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I feel you on being able to read people better. In the last few months I have had a massive shift in my ability to read situations. It's like I don't really try anymore, instead I just get kind of absorbed into whats going on and through that I can see things that my brain had never picked up on before. What has helped for me is to observe how I position my body when an attractive girl is nearby that I would like to talk to. I look at what I do, and then look for those same things in girls aroun…
/r/seduction14/03/13 12:36 PM
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Wohh, yeah. Definitely do not go with the We were born for each other response.. It does not offer value in this situation by any means
/r/seduction14/03/13 12:31 PM
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It might be useful to know if you were looking for details on a particular country in particular? I'm from 'Murica so personally I don't run into many problems with content not being tailored to me but I can understand your situation.
/r/seduction14/03/13 12:30 PM
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Well if they are saying that its pretty much a sign that they do not want to hang out. I would focus less on trying to re-frame that into something good and more into making a more solid approach. Are you opening confidently? Good eye contact and a smile? Loud voice and good intonation? The more you work on fundamentals like that the more you are going to see girls being receptive and all of a sudden not being out on a girls night. On the other hand, if you really just want to go for it you can …
/r/seduction14/03/13 12:28 PM
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He was portrayed as a creepy ass closet fuck lol.. I find it hard to believe that people still base their perceptions of RSD on the Game. That shit is mad old. Everything about the company has changed since it came out. I see Tyler as a guy who works his ass off and offers massive amounts of value to people. I was on rsdnation last night and there where something like eleven thousand people on the forums. I thought that was insane. Juliens videos are the next big thing. He is fucking hilarious t…
/r/seduction12/03/13 05:58 PM
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I recently bought a watch so that I would not have to check my phone for the time. I think weaning yourself off of the phone is a great idea
/r/seduction12/03/13 05:53 PM
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I'm not there yet, is how I'm doing. Two years ago I would have been unable to even approach a cute girl on the beach or whatever. Now I now I would be able to approach fairly confidently and talk for a while and not run out of things to say and really depending on the situation things could go great or spark out. I know this sounds beyond cliched but right now I am more focused on school and chilling with my friends then pickup. However, what I do is have intense summers. Well, I did it once at…
/r/seduction03/03/13 02:54 AM
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I will tell you my goal. This has been my baramoter for success for the last two years. I want to be able to go on vacation. And meet a cute girl, at least an 8, and hook up. In the space of an average vacation which is a week. That, for me, is my goal. And be able to consistently do that, not just got lucky drunk with girl from my hotel and it happened.
/r/seduction28/02/13 03:09 AM
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Yes. In order to get good with one girl, you have to get good with everygirl.
/r/seduction28/02/13 03:05 AM
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Yeah I'm pretty sure he had too after a harem of chodes used it as a rationale to act like total fucking idiots in the club under the pretense of "beasting". Sometimes I think that those instructors don't realize just how much influence they have on the unlaid masses
/r/seduction28/02/13 03:05 AM
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Yerppppp I know what you mean. I used to get tremors at the thought of closing or even opening in a less than optimal environment. There is a way to get over it. Its not neccesarily easy but it is doable. You have to man the fuck up, take the chance of destroying the vibe and just ask for the number. There is no reading, no tricks, no gimmicks, no anything that is going to get you over this fear other than doing it. The more you do it the less nervous you will get. For me, talking to girls in cl…
/r/seduction28/02/13 03:02 AM
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lol yeah I laughed when I read it too
/r/seduction24/02/13 07:19 AM
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Take that back! Buffalo is amazin-- oh wait, yeah Buffalo is the special brother that you pretend to love but secretly hate on the inside. Just going to college here. Miami and New York are my two real cities <3
/r/seduction24/02/13 07:19 AM
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You could try checking /r/rsd they post a bunch of stuff thats more about lifestyle development and hobbies and all that then just pickup. I found out about meditation from them and that has been a game changer for me. Also some awesome books. But yeah, I know what you mean about the position of scarcity. When you are in it, it can seem like there is no way out of it
/r/seduction24/02/13 05:28 AM
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It takes a little while to start to recognize them. You have to establish a baseline for what is normal for each girl and then recognize when she puts out IOI's based on that baseline. Every girl is different.
/r/seduction24/02/13 02:07 AM
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This is something I did http://i.imgur.com/Dwxvqyy.jpg Had only talked to this girl very briefly a few times and happened to find her on Facebook. Start with something simple, easy question or statement, build a bit of rapport just like texting then think of something fun that you can do together
/r/seduction24/02/13 02:05 AM
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I think your approach is solid. I was reading a post earlier about a guy who creeped out girls at his small school and gained a reputation from that. It would be better to avoid that. Friendzoning girls can be good. If I am romantically interested in a girl but things are not going quite right or I don't think logistics will ever work or something like that I always try to friendzone rather than push and push so that it falls apart and when we see each other on campus its weird. Knowing lots of …
/r/seduction20/02/13 04:39 AM
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I would say The Physical Game by Ozzie. More content than you could ever possibly put to use in quite a long time. Not just about being physical either he talks about everything from telling a compelling story to dealing with a large group to girlfriends. Interesting stuff.
/r/seduction20/02/13 04:34 AM
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Thought this was a solid write up. Definitely something I am working into my game
/r/seduction19/02/13 08:38 PM
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Having a sister is cool
/r/seduction18/02/13 12:08 AM
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He has changed ALOT. Nobody likes him if you just base it on the game. He's portrayed pretty damn negatively. The game is mad old.
/r/seduction17/02/13 07:02 PM
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Well man I think its just something where the more you practice the better you get. You can practice on anyone who has to talk to you like clerks and shit. When I walk down the street or whatever I generally just look about ten feet ahead of me and don't make eye contact with people. Or I look straight forward and don't look left and right all the time. Idk man its all subjective and what works for me might not work for you. Deff something I think you can get over though
/r/seduction17/02/13 07:01 PM
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I like the part where you actually went out, crashed and burned and got results. I think some people still believe that if they spend another five hours on Seddit they will become pimps and not need to ever actually approach to get better
/r/seduction17/02/13 06:58 PM
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Good shit mate. If your rugby socials are anything like our rugby socials your doing headbacks of Captain and singing the Norwegian National Anthem right now
/r/seduction17/02/13 12:41 AM
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I think its just getting more experience. My heart rate used to SKYROCKET when I even thought about asking a girl out or talking to a girl in class or whatever and now it barely blips. Meditation can certainly help. It helps you stay centered and remain in the moment. I'm opposite you on one thing though, I LOVE public speaking. I get super stoked at the concept of standing up in front of my whole class because it gives me a chance to talk loud and demonstrate that I am a cool person of value. I…
/r/seduction16/02/13 09:12 PM
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Well I don't know what your budget is like but finding a place to live is hard. Craigslist has a billion appartments but the good ones get taken literally withen hours if not less. Its insane how fast they dissapear. So yeah, finding a place to live can be a bit of a challenge unless you have more money and can pre arrange something or other. Other than that, Meatpacking is where its at. That would be two blocks from the 14th st station for the A or C train. You can google Cieolo or Beer Garten …
/r/seduction16/02/13 09:06 PM
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I kind of feel you on this. Pimps of the likes of Snoop dog and shit have talked about this how they sometimes they want the girl to actually make it hard for them. There is this girl who I think is cute who refuses to accept any of my advances but were still friends and it drives me nuts because even though I talk to cuter girls my mind keeps drifting back to her because I can't have her. I would say you need to challenge yourself more to talk to girls who will not show obvious IOI's. The hotte…
/r/seduction16/02/13 08:59 PM
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Mmmm I have a good idea. You don't just pull a girl straight back to your place. You move her around and gradually work up to it. LEAD her to get a drink, LEAD her upstairs, LEAD her outside, LEAD her back downstairs, basically you are setting the pace of you beeing a leader and she the follower so that when you say let go back to my place its just a continuation of all the leading you have already done.
/r/seduction16/02/13 08:55 PM
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Yeah, at this. You don't have to have friends to get laid. Think about instructors like Julien and Tyler. They go to different crazy ass cities every single weekend and get laid consistently. You can bring the vibe without the entourage and if you can learn to do that, then when you do have the entourage you can absolutely kill it fucking dead. I only have 130 friends on FB. You know what my wall looks like? Girls liking my status, girls posting pictures, girls commenting. Think about it. Every …
/r/seduction16/02/13 06:01 PM
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Solo travel is soo solid. Perse it might not be travel but I went to NYC for a month by myself and the shit I learned there has been a game changer. I really just want to bum around Spain or something crazy like that.
/r/seduction16/02/13 05:48 PM
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I like your username. I can relate to it
/r/seduction15/02/13 03:52 PM
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Nah man own that shit. Post gym is a glorious nimbus of awesome. All your muscles are big and you feel amazing. Great mindset to go into a date with
/r/seduction15/02/13 12:44 AM
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Well shit man you gotta build yourself up a bit. I am the next James Bond, fuck yeah! She's not out of your league you are both equal. Chill out, have a beer and have a good time.
/r/seduction15/02/13 12:41 AM
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I'm going to go up to girls and say "I couldn't help but notice the vacant sign hanging above your cervix" I might even get my first slap
/r/seduction15/02/13 12:39 AM
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Hmmm well this is all very encouraging. Not. You said 14 or 15 girls or something right? Wonder what guys like Tyler Durden who have probably surpassed 500 are like.
/r/seduction15/02/13 12:36 AM
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Sorry that happened man. I can imagine the thoughts running around in your head are not good ones.
/r/seduction15/02/13 12:10 AM
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Hey, I know this might sound crazy but fucking up with girls is how you learn. When I started, every girl I lost hurt me emoitnoally. After 20 or 30 girls It started to change. Now its like, fuck her who is next This is all in a very psoitive way. Fake it till you git it in was my strat. for a long time. WEll, it works I guess. Idk, overal you gotta move a a new point. I am sorry. Rather drunk at this point but jsut becaseu of that that doesnt mena jack shit. Its an almost gurantee I hav BLOWN i…
/r/seduction14/02/13 07:14 AM
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It is GRADUAL. For a while I felt like shit because I would read about guys like Tyler and Jeffy pulling stunners and getting laid so much its just nuts. After a while though I decided to change my thinking and was like fuck the comparisons. Tyler Durden got into the game when he was 21, I'm still only 20. I have plenty of time. Fuck man I took a bootcamp with Brad 2 months after my 20th birthday, Brad didn't even start going out till he was 25. Shit is gradual and you can work up to it. Like I …
/r/seduction13/02/13 08:22 PM
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@this. Showing your vunerabilities can be fine and help out your case. Sometimes I act gay for a few seconds around girls and they love that. They think its mad funny not just because it is funny lol but because I'm not some huge ego guy who always has too look super cool and on top of everything. Also, you can get a bit emotional about stuff that upsets you. Like I was telling a story about pretty much the worst night of my life and I relived it a bit and got into it with sad eyes and looking d…
/r/seduction13/02/13 08:18 PM
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I think you already nailed it with music. Shit always pumps me up. Id say being slugging and wacked outa it is better then being hyper nervous and giddy. When I get really tired some I do some pushups, that wakes me up a bit you could try that too
/r/seduction13/02/13 08:14 PM
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lol thats sick. the fact that you got the date makes it gold
/r/seduction13/02/13 05:01 AM
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Yeah nailed it with the indirect to direct. Talk to them, build rapport but also you don't want to get friend zoned so you can do a few simple things to avoid that a bit like cutting interactions short on high points and leaving so she is thinking about you on a high note and making comments instead of asking too many questions and deffinitely some kino like arm on the shoulder or something like that
/r/seduction13/02/13 03:17 AM
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It can be easier cause your less nervous with girl you don't really care for so things just naturally go better. Ive deff done the same thing. But yeah, if you can befriend the friend she can be your ally instead of cock blocking
/r/seduction13/02/13 03:15 AM
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New York modafucken city!!!! Yeah its gonna suck right now a bit because its cold but still SOOO much to do. And the thing about the city is shit is POPPING every single night. When i went there Sunday night was just as busy as Thursday. It will basically allow you to go out every single night and make some mad gains.
/r/seduction13/02/13 03:13 AM
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Yeah just put a smile on your face and start up a conversation. Going situational is fine, "hey ive been seeing you here forever where are you always headed too" or something simple like that. worst that happens is she says go away and then you make no eye contact when you keep seeing her
/r/seduction13/02/13 03:10 AM
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Helps to include the friend. Maybe like a sixty forty split, sixty percent attention to your target, forty to other girl. Or fifty fifty. Or whatever the fuck number you find works best but at least some attention to friend. Also, you can put your number in her phone, that way its less like your getting her number perse which can be a difference maker. Just some ideas
/r/seduction13/02/13 03:08 AM
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Yeah man if you 15 just chill a bit. You have plenty of time. Tyler Durden whos a gangsta pimp hustler threesome scoring motherfucker did not start till he was 21, Brad Branson 25, Jeffy 20 something, maybe even later. Enjoy high school. Stop filling your head with crap. If you can't go out and apply it in the field information is fucking useless and can mess you up a bit
/r/seduction12/02/13 10:14 PM
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Slowly. No kino. Keep it chode as hell. Ask lots of questions. you have to build rapport and after a while when she is more open then you can step it up and initiate kino and other such activities.
/r/seduction12/02/13 10:13 PM
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There is no importance of text game This. Texting is for setting up dates and getting to know her (if thats what you want to do) after you have fucked. Get a new girl. Chasing like this is depressing, I say this from personal experience. It wears you out and feels weird and off. She should be chasing you.
/r/seduction12/02/13 10:11 PM
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Yeah your right about that lol... I think giving up weed is about eighty percent of the battle, jerking off is small beans. I wish I could go back and reclaim those years of my life I was stoned and achieved nothing. Oh well though, whatever at least we realized it now and stopped
/r/seduction12/02/13 06:03 PM
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I broke my problem with jerking off about two weeks ago. I mean I really just fucking took that habit outside and shot it with a rifle. I go out and hit up girls but still jerking off was lowering my game and I knew it. Finally I had enough and powered through it and it feels amazing. Also, can relate. I broke my weed problem about a year ago and am so fucking happy I did. I look at guys who smoke every day and I'm like, how the fuck do you do that? Is it even fun and exciting anymore or just so…
/r/seduction12/02/13 05:29 PM
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Do not take what the girl says seriously. Its like when she says, ok we can go back to your place but just to talk. Yeahhhhhhhhhh no. So yeah you don't want to go crazy with kino right off the bat but just be natural with it. On moments when your both having fun you put your arm around her shoulder and other stuff like that. Keep it light and fun but let her know your a sexworthy guy as well
/r/seduction12/02/13 05:26 PM
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Don't let it get you down. Shit happens and you have to power through it sometims. Alot of times.. At every level guys continue to drop out of the game from right when they start to even advanced guys. Its the one's who stay in that really reach that next level insane type shit that we all dream about. Its nothing to beat yourself up over. Shit happens and we all do dumb stuff all the freaking time. /r/rsd might have some stuff you like, its about pickup but also more than that like mediation an…
/r/seduction12/02/13 03:45 PM
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Your going to lose her. I'll save you the trouble now
/r/seduction11/02/13 02:36 PM
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haha perfect
/r/seduction11/02/13 06:08 AM
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lol
/r/seduction11/02/13 04:16 AM
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I have found, over and over again, that the more I text the more chances it gives me to screw it up. I love to text so this is kind of hard for me but I use it as a tool to meet up and thats all. Few texts, hey whats up, then lets meet up. The more texting you do, the more chances you give yourself to say something stupid or have her not text you back and then your in a rough situation
/r/seduction11/02/13 03:59 AM
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"So whats up" no question mark
/r/seduction11/02/13 03:31 AM
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What this guy said. Also, my friend always likes going to there place because then after sex he can just leave and not have to deal with cuddling and waking up in the morning and stuff. Personally, I kind of like that kind of stuff but thats just me. I would say overall though success rate for guys who don't have all their shit totally down would be higher at their own place because they can control more variables
/r/seduction11/02/13 03:30 AM
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Hey are you free X day, want to grab some X with me?
/r/seduction11/02/13 03:29 AM
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Once I have a bit of rapport I usually escalate fairly normally. Arm around the shoulder, putting my hands on her shoulders, grabbing her hand that type of thing. Hugs can be cool too but I don't really do them much. Its really just about recognizing how much is too much. There was this story in Tucker Max about how he was with this really quite shy girl and the two of them were chilling with one other girl and as soon as that girl left the shy girl pounced on him and fucked his brains out for t…
/r/seduction10/02/13 11:33 PM
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Pretty much every song here is great otherwise I wouldnt have paid for it. http://i.imgur.com/ksiRKZZ.jpg Mostly electro house, a bit of other stuff but all winners. If you check out no other track Youtube Will Sparks AH Yeah. Absolutely insane club banger
/r/seduction10/02/13 10:23 PM
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Well, I'm glad you recognized that it can mean she is nervous and its not always that shes just not into you. You seem to be coming from a good mind space all around. For me, I just drop all pretexts of trying to "game" her and just talk normally. No or very little physicality, I just build rapport. After a while when she is more comfortable I amp shit up but for however long it takes I just chill out and enjoy talking to her. All stuff you probably already know though
/r/seduction10/02/13 10:01 PM
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Check out Take Me Over (Bingo Players Remix) and What Happens in Vegas by Chuckie. Two SICK ass drops. Loads more where that came from too I can list more if you like those
/r/seduction10/02/13 09:58 PM
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omg man that was epic. First time I have seen it and it certainly will not be the last. those girls....
/r/seduction10/02/13 09:56 PM
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Looks don't matter. A core RSD principle. Perhaps they do matter somewhat but the man behind the company of RSD, Tyler Durden is an average height balding red head and one point had a huge beard and pulls stunners all the time
/r/seduction10/02/13 09:52 PM
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I listen to filthy house music with big drops. But your idea is cool too. For me, at all times, pretty much my greatest inspiration is this video http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUpazytmt1M&feature=related It always puts me right where I need to be
/r/seduction10/02/13 09:41 PM
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Thats a pretty neat idea. Did this come from Fight Club? Maybe not but I think Fight Club says something just like it. Good stuff
/r/seduction10/02/13 09:37 PM
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Mmmm college parties. Good shit on making stuff happen. I know that It feels made good. Reality is what you make of it. If you want to check out some more stuff reddit.com/r/rsd has a post or two about college game. Not sure if you really need it but there might be something you can learn. I wish I had gotten a makeout at the party I went to last night but it wasnt in the cards. I ended up smoking my first bogue in months, ashing on my floor and staring at poster on my wall buzzing hard. Enjoy t…
/r/seduction10/02/13 08:03 PM
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Man up and do it. What do YOU want? A friend, or a person to have hook up with. You cant have both so its really up to you to decide. Personally, I would choose risking it and trying to hook up. You can always meet more girls who are cool.
/r/seduction10/02/13 07:32 PM
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Meditation is a long term thing. Three days is nothing. Stick it out, do twenty minutes a day for three months and youll notice some positive results. You'll get over falling asleep if you continue to do it.
/r/seduction07/02/13 10:17 PM
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Things bad wingmen do, be oblivious. @this, your a smart guy.
/r/seduction07/02/13 03:34 PM
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Don't ask him to elaborate. He probably will
/r/seduction07/02/13 03:33 PM
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I would have something like You lazy sloth Idk if its a full out shit test though, it sounds more like kind of playful banter/teasing type thing Your response sounds pretty good though. Good job
/r/seduction07/02/13 03:33 PM
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I read this somewhere and It actually helped me alot more than you think one quote would. I will paraphrase because I don't remember it exactly. "An average person is looking for approval but a more fulfilled person will be talking out of the love of it and will not care about their words effect on other people" Wow, thats really paraphrased but the general idea is that you talk because you love it and are expressing yourself, reactions from other people be damned. I found this espcially useful …
/r/seduction07/02/13 03:29 PM
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Well meditation could be a start. Its not going to magically solve your problems but it could help. Also, affirmations. You could check out the book What to Say When You Talk to Yourself. Pretty cool stuff in there. Mostly though I would say you just need to talk to more girls and gain that reference experience that they can actually like you. I mean, you like girls right? Well girls like guys and you are a guy. Pretty simple logic. You don't have to think about impressing here either. You can j…
/r/seduction07/02/13 03:23 PM
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This is something your just gonna have to figure out on your own. Its very subjective. No matter how well I describe my state of mind, you will never actually be able to emulate it down to a T. The fact that you know about the idea of an empty mind is a good start. So start trying different things in your conversations and find out what works best for you. Whatever produces the best, most authentic results for you is all that matters.
/r/seduction07/02/13 02:18 AM
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Mediation is amazing. It has brought me to a new level of game and a new quality of life as well. reddit.com/r/rsd also has something posted about something similar to mediation I think its a Eastern type deal or something. It looks interesting I might check it But yeah, after a year and a half of meditation, my only wish is that I had started doing it five years ago...
/r/seduction06/02/13 10:59 PM
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Off limits? What are the police going to come arrest you for talking to some girls? Nah but really I know what you mean. Its totally fine. Picture the absolute worst case scenario; they say we are having a private lunch can you please leave.. It might suck at the time, but really in the grand scheme of things its not even a blimp on your life. At reddit.com/r/rsd there is a video posted where Todd talks about rights with police and stuff and I only bring it up because he talks about knowing your…
/r/seduction06/02/13 08:25 PM
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For me, not jerking off actually helps with this quite a bit. After about a week I start to see girls in a far more neutral light. That is to say, I still think hot ones are sexy as all hell but they are just girls and fat ones are unattractive but again, still just girls. It kind of levels everything out. Another thing would be to get to know cute girls. The more time you spend with them the more you realize that they get nervous, sad, upset, heartbroken stressed just like everyone else. Tyler …
/r/seduction06/02/13 08:21 PM
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Approach! Approach again! Talk to girls. If this is your first time going out itll be easy to get stuck in your head. Fuck dat shit, 3 second rule. Don't give your brain time to wimp out
/r/seduction06/02/13 06:35 AM
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Your just starting to get into your head. Idk about you but my problem used to be that I wanted to impress her and as soon as that happens your sunk. Its by giving zero fucks that you end up impressing here in the end. Just talk to more girls thats about the thick of it. If you feel like you need to work on conversation mechanics you can read Conversationally Speaking. The way you described it though it sounds more like you just need to get over this and you'll be fine. You sound like a normal g…
/r/seduction06/02/13 03:36 AM
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Thanks. Check reddit.com/r/rsd and click on the Julien player video if you want to watch him talk about the subject I just stole that quote from. pretty interesting
/r/seduction06/02/13 02:30 AM
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What you should have asked is how can I make no progress with the opposite sex. Because thats what staying in your comfort zone is, zero progress. Game is getting the most reference points possible in the shortest amount of time ~Julien That means pushing the fuck outa your comfort zone
/r/seduction06/02/13 02:04 AM
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Do it from a high value standpoint when you are both having fun. Doing it from a lull is not really the best idea. Also, you can work up to it. Like first claw her, then hug her then pull back then go back in for the kiss. Just charging in for the kiss with no physical rapport doesnt always work out so well
/r/seduction05/02/13 09:11 PM
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Calibration is important. You can easily be too physical and they get nervous and its over. If I'm with a girl like this I almost let her escalate on me. Like I offer lots of value by being funny and outgoing and loud and all that stuff and I might touch her a bit like on the shoulder or something but not much and not for long. She can only take so much before she starts getting physical with me and basically reversing the scenario. Also, pushing them away can be good. Like playfully denying her…
/r/seduction05/02/13 09:09 PM
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Also, reddit.com/r/rsd just posted a video where Alex talks about this exact kind of thing if you want to check it out
/r/seduction05/02/13 04:37 PM
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Tell those fucken bitches to learn English! Nahh but this can actually be a sick way to develop game if you can learn to do it without language. That means sick body language and physicality. I would check out Ozzie's physical game for a thorough guide on all that good stuff. Or learn French. Preferably both
/r/seduction05/02/13 04:14 PM
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This is a cool post. I like your take on everything and the fact that its actually well written and interpreted. Upvotes
/r/seduction05/02/13 07:32 AM
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Screw up with enough girls, getting close to sex, that you can calibrate enough that you can lead to sex. The first chance I had to have sex I couldn't even get a boner and that was that. From there I talked to a bunch more girls and lost my virginity to an attractive girl who I actually really cared for which was cool. Anyways, I used to build sex up before I got it and now its like, yeah its great, but its just sex. Thats the kind of mentality you have to have.
/r/seduction05/02/13 07:29 AM
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Hmmmmmm
/r/seduction05/02/13 07:27 AM
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Like all these guys said, definitely normal to feel weird at first. You are becoming a new person, change can be very uncomfortable. I certainly experienced this. After a while though, it just adjusts and becomes normal. You don't think anything of it. People who know you from your beta days may judge you and try to put you back in your old place but such is life. A good friend will understand and support you, an average friend will ask you why you are acting weird. I've lost some friends I thou…
/r/seduction05/02/13 07:26 AM
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Ahhh, I did not think anyone else on Seddit would have read this. Impressive
/r/seduction05/02/13 07:07 AM
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@this
/r/seduction05/02/13 07:06 AM
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Naturally high energy, yes. You have to go out and practice being social and focus on the things you want to improve. As you get better your body will naturally give you more energy to focus with and it can keep going deeper and deeper until you have so much energy you feel like you are going to explode. Seriously though I'll use the example of producing music. When I first started I could not do it for more than twenty minutes, I got jittery and had to go do something else. Now, I can focus for…
/r/seduction04/02/13 08:34 PM
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And the answer is noooo, least not in the long term that is. If you got a girlfriend right now and started having sex you might feel great but after the novelty wore off it would still be the same old you. I can relate though. Before I actually had sex for the first time I was pretty scared of doing it. I think the unknown of it was what really made me jittery. I was convinced that I would never be able to pull it off. After sex for the first time, I forgot about most of that. My first girl chan…
/r/seduction04/02/13 08:30 PM
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Hmm Idk then. Yeah it needs some love but its better than it used to be.
/r/seduction04/02/13 03:53 PM
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I think slightly peacocking is cool because it always gives you a fallback conversation starter or even a chance for a girl to open you. No need to go overboard though. I have an irish cap I like to wear. Unique and it looks pretty sick, I would go down that route if your looking for some cool headwear
/r/seduction04/02/13 03:08 PM
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I came from the other direction. I'm one independent mofo and my first two years of college I always looked at my super clingy roommate and was jealous of all his friends. Doing your own shit and setting up your own rewards systems is the way to go. I think a pretty cool video to watch would actually be Julien talking about how he became a super pimp. He talks about setting up his own reward systems and valueing his own inputs and all sorts of cool stuff. Its near the top of reddit.com/r/rsd if …
/r/seduction04/02/13 03:04 PM
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Go to the gym and get big. This is the proactive approach as people are less likely to try shit with you for every pound heavier you are. If you saw some crazy ass football player talking to your girlfriend odds are you would be very polite about asking him to leave as opposed to some skinny white kid you would probably get up in his face even if you had no intention of fighting him because you knew he would back down. reddit.com/r/rsd actually has a post about this, Its called Todd and knowing …
/r/seduction04/02/13 03:01 PM
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Try kissing girls. Seriously. What will happen is probably a quarter will no longer want to talk to you. Half wont care. And the best part is a quarter will start kissing you and from there if you can't lead it to sex then thats on you. If you just try kissing girls like this you are being pretty damn clear what your intentions are. After doing it a few times you will be able to calibrate it better and maybe after a while fifty percent of girls kiss you back instead of twenty five percent. The d…
/r/seduction04/02/13 02:58 PM
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Approach modafucken anxiety
/r/seduction04/02/13 02:53 PM
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For sure man. I feel you all the way. Sometimes I get blue when I think about people like Julien and Tyler pimping it and having threesomes but then I remember I am so happy to be where I'm at and I think about all the positive things that my life now encompasses. RSD has been huge for me because not only do they have great shit about pickup but they stress lifestyle in general. They are the reason I got into meditation which has been huge and even eating healthier and being positive are all tie…
/r/seduction04/02/13 06:53 AM
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Your certainly not the first guy to feel this way. The good news is that you are capable of overcoming this. I can relate to this. A few weeks ago I met up with this girl at her room, we were vibing it was going great. I was digging her too. I have a thing for Russian girls and she speaks fluent russian which for me makes any girl one point hotter so I was digging on her. Took her to a bad party and everything went south and it was way worse losing her after all that attraction then just another…
/r/seduction04/02/13 06:44 AM
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Looket, its not for sure but my first instinct would absolutely be to say that they are telling you this because you have been completely friendzoned. See the thing is this. You said you started getting more comfertable with girls right? So that means you used to be not so good with them. Girls are not going to change their mind about you and start seeing you as the sex worthy guy because you got more comfertable talking to them. What you have to do is take this newfound comfort and then go talk…
/r/seduction04/02/13 06:41 AM
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It's not really steps more like ideas. But whatever, its up to you to do it
/r/seduction04/02/13 04:21 AM
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My god is that guy funny
/r/seduction04/02/13 04:09 AM
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I don't so much make affirmations as I do away with ANYTHING negative. I cease negative thoughts as soon as they happen and magnify positive ones as they pop up.
/r/seduction04/02/13 04:04 AM
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At some point your going to have to learn to talk. You can pickup girls without talking, guys go to China and shit and get laid all the time but you have to be on point to do that. Lots of sub communication which if your have never been laid you sure as hell do not have yet. If you need a logistical approach to talking try reading Conversationally Speaking, awesome book. If you feel like you know the mechanics of having a good conversation then there is nothing left to do but talk to lots of gir…
/r/seduction04/02/13 03:58 AM
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Ozzie's book The Physical Game deals with this a bit, or even more than a fit I think he goes fairly into it but I have not read it in a while so I can't say for sure. How I deal with groups is that I don't deal with them. I go into the group with the girl I want to talk to in mind and then start trying to isolate her so its just me and her or maybe me her and her friend or whatever. But if you find yourself in a group more important than anything is to offer value. They are most likely having f…
/r/seduction03/02/13 10:55 PM
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This is good. Doesn't give your bitch brain a chance to act up. Upvotes all around
/r/seduction03/02/13 10:53 PM
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Nice. Blowjobs are sick
/r/seduction03/02/13 10:52 PM
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I'm thinking about just becoming an alcoholic, drunk me is much more interesting and courageous than sober me Brilliant. You have solved all your problems. In fact, you havn't experienced being interesting until you have done cocaine thats where the big boys play. Seriously though, getting drunk all the time is not the fucking answer at all. I'm sorry girls won't talk to you when they see you. I know that kind of shit can hurt. Your gonna have to get over it though. You really only have two choi…
/r/seduction03/02/13 10:48 PM
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Daygame is my favorite and just because you don't go out doesn't mean you can't get laid. Daygame for numbers, day 2 for dinner, hookup and your asleep next to cute girl (if she stays) by bedtime. Everyone going out and getting hammered isn't having that much more of an amazing time really anyways
/r/seduction03/02/13 03:03 AM
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Yeah I feel you about not being in a frat. Any dorm job is great like I already said. It gives girls an excuse to talk to you and tons of great things like that. Also, going to the gym can be cool too. You start to meet cool guys there and see them out and you can always say whatup I see you at the gym and its like an instant bond, more so than just walking up to a guy who looks cool and being like, hey want to chill or whatever? Just my thoughts thoughh
/r/seduction03/02/13 02:45 AM
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Are you in a really small town or something? I mean how are other people going to find out if you hookup with a troll? Its not really a huge deal, when I had easy girls who were not that attractive I have done it because it was there. I really wouldn't worry about it though. Do what you gotta do and make progress and someday you'll be sipping Mai Thais on a beach in Miami where nobody gives a fuck who you've hooked up with
/r/seduction03/02/13 02:43 AM
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Ooooh I had this super complicated technique called talking to girls. How did I get past AA? I fucking manned up and did it. I did a newbie challenge, 30 nights in a row of going out. There where times I wanted to jump off the fucking balcony rather than approach but I pushed myself to do it and now its not such a big deal anymore. After talking to enough girls your logical brain finally comes out and is like, ohhhh shit wait Maybe walking up to that cute blonde will not result in dire consequen…
/r/seduction03/02/13 02:41 AM
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lol good shit. I'm the guy holding the cat and the fruit punch in the wine glass. It was my birthday
/r/seduction03/02/13 02:37 AM
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I don't tell my friends I'm a PUA or even identify that with that term at all. To me, all I am is a guy who talks to an above average amount of girls and knows how to handle himself socially. Would you feel shame about being a guy who talks to alot of girls? I sure as hell don't
/r/seduction03/02/13 02:35 AM
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Fuck man
/r/seduction02/02/13 10:36 PM
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Sooo then the answer is fairly obvious to go out and talk to people isnt it? I mean you already answered your own question, get out of your apartment and if you can't do that very much then you have to be DOUBLY social when you are out. That means talking to lots of people, not leaving interactions staying in them and accepting social invitations that you don't necessarily want to.
/r/seduction02/02/13 10:34 PM
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Oh shit man a 50 in lone wolves is legendary status! I only ever reached 43 and I was proud as hell of that lol Nah but I whole heartedly agree with this post. I got myself a cashiering job in the dorms where I interact with hundreds of students every night and I know SOOO many people, guys and girls from it. Sometimes girls come up to me at parties and are like, hey your that guy from X job. Not bragging just saying its mad convenient. It builds on that principles, lord knows what its called, t…
/r/seduction02/02/13 10:32 PM
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God damn son buys some books! If you do nothing else at least you can start reading.
/r/seduction02/02/13 10:29 PM
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Perhaps there is a name for it, idk. I sit somewhere comfortable with my legs crossed and eyes closed and don't think about anything for 30 minutes. Although, I only recently started doing 30 I did 20 minutes up until last month. Like anything, you have to stick it out a bit before you really start to understand the power of it but I can tell you personally that the results are amazing. check reddit.com/r/rsd theres a post about the benefits of meditation if you want to read further
/r/seduction02/02/13 10:26 PM
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Sooo when you do this its not really all that important where you take her but it IS important how you ask her. Whatever the hell you do, do not be like hey are you busy X day, or what are you doing X day Look at it like this. You have found something fun to do and you are inviting her along with you. Hey, I'm going to X place on X day, do you want to come with me? Hey, I'm going to get drinks at X bar on X night do you want to meet up? Also, your going to have to face the harsh reality that she…
/r/seduction02/02/13 03:47 PM
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This can be a bunch of different things. Sometimes its that shes just not in the mood to be touched at that given moment. Other times it means shes no longer into you. Other times it means shes just teasing you and really is liking it. This is the type of thing where you really just have to have the reference experience to decipher whats going on because every girl is different. Where one girl might be doing it to get you to touch her even more another might be legitimately wanting you to back o…
/r/seduction02/02/13 03:43 PM
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Sick you approached. Sometimes that decision can be mad hard but always worth it in the end
/r/seduction02/02/13 03:39 PM
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I want to what are some SPECIFIC things I can focus on to keep the attraction alive, lead me to having a good time, and eventually lead to sex. Blow it with girls. There is no other way. I was in the same boat as you. I grew up a goodlooking guy, thanks genetics. That was all swell and good except that I was not smooth or confident. I used to focus on my looks way more than was healthy and it just basically completely fucked me in the head. After getting blown out by a slew of girls though it so…
/r/seduction02/02/13 07:09 AM
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Also they have a reddit page at reddit.com/r/rsd Its not great right now but its getting better, I go through there sometimes they seem to be be putting more shit up now
/r/seduction02/02/13 07:02 AM
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RSD for me has been the shit. Yes, they are absolutely going to put out contradictory stuff because they have like what, 6 instructors??? (Brad, Tyler, Julien, Jeffy, Alex, Ozzy) So yeah everyone is going to have a unique point of view and set of beliefs that works for them. I would totally prefer this contradiction then like a company stance so that every guy had to back up a set point of view. What has helped me is to mainly stick with one instructors advice. Like I took a bootcamp with Brad s…
/r/seduction02/02/13 07:00 AM
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Well lets see. I trolled a SHIT TON of online forums and read some books and then I just lost my approach anxiety like that.. lol I talked to about a bagillion girls, duh
/r/seduction02/02/13 06:55 AM
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Looket I don't want to be an asshole but you listed what, like four girls or something that rejected you? Multiply that number over and over and over again and we will have something to talk about. Also though, a DJ competition thats cool. I DJ a bit but really I like producing. Mad props to everyone who works the crowd and deals with bullshit requests from drunk girls asking for Sean Paul
/r/seduction01/02/13 08:11 PM
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No. Unless she doesn't like dick its the same thing. Look at Tyler Durden aka Owen Cook. Guy doesn't drink a drop of alcohol and he still kills it fucking dead all the time. Check the video here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aTdk0-bpv90 It starts off with him doing crazy shit infield and eventually pulling two girls for a threesome You can go out and not drink is what I'm getting at
/r/seduction01/02/13 08:08 PM
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Julien is funny as hell. When I saw him at a freetour his story about approaching a girl and talking about a lion and being alpha male was so off the hook I laugh to this day. Great individual
/r/seduction01/02/13 07:43 PM
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Four words. Meditation. Wait was that only one word??
/r/seduction01/02/13 07:42 PM
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I will definitely catch this movie at some time thanks! And nope, I pull a double shift tonight :D
/r/seduction01/02/13 07:41 PM
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Yeah man thats why a smile is so key. If you do this in semi crowded areas like the mall or street or cafeteria or whatever she's not really going to think your going to hurt her because so many people are around so its really not something I would think about if I were you
/r/seduction01/02/13 07:40 PM
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Oh man I can totally relate to this. Around cool people I used to qualify myself and in when I was a real idiot I went out with some advanced guys a few times and It was nuts how strange I acted, in hindsight of course. Anyways, its not as hard as you think it. Several things you can do. First is realize that you have the capability to be that cool guy too. Even just realizing that you can reach the level these kids are at someday can help you maintain your sense of self in their presence. Anoth…
/r/seduction01/02/13 07:39 PM
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Definitely do not wait for her to go past then walk up behind, creepy. Lets say you make eye contact, she seems attractive, you walk right up to her WITHOUT breaking eye contact (ideally with a smile on your face) and say hey I'm Chad or whatever the hell you want to say the words are unimportant. Smiling though is definitely important. Cool, fun vibe not random dirty semi-creepy stranger walking up. Anyways, youll figure it out and the only way to learn is do it a few times
/r/seduction01/02/13 07:34 PM
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I think the simplest idea comes down to giving ZERO fucks. As soon as you stop trying to control what other people think of you and just be yourself you will find yourself being the funny, kinda cocky guy that you are with your friends. Also, remember that other people are just as nervous to be themselves around you as you are to be yourself around them. If you can really realize this and apply it its a game changer
/r/seduction01/02/13 07:31 PM
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It sounds to me like girls might be interpreting the way you are trying to make eye contact as kind of creepy. This is an easy fix but also let me say something on the subject. Girls do not tend to hold eye contact. Its just a fact. Sometimes they will but as a general rule unless you are talking to them they will look down right away regardless of what you look like or what your posture is. If I were you I would try this. Practice making eye contact with girls at stores and cash registers and t…
/r/seduction01/02/13 07:26 PM
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I don't. I replace her with someone who actually wants to chill with my sick ass
/r/seduction30/01/13 04:54 AM
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@This. Fuck those numbers they don't mean shit. Some girls might take twenty hours and if they are worth it than thats totally cool and some might fuck your brains out after half an hour
/r/seduction30/01/13 04:53 AM
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Some people were having sex in an indoor concert venue at Yelawolf show I went to. I glanced to my left and saw him fucking her doggy style. Zero fucks were given that day
/r/seduction30/01/13 04:51 AM
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Girls love sex. Does that help?
/r/seduction30/01/13 04:50 AM
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Pulling off the dance floor can be the thing to do sometimes. Dancing is physical which is great obviously but if you don't talk to her at some point you might as well be a ghost. Total props for grabbing and twirling though, its the right way to do things
/r/seduction30/01/13 04:49 AM
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Haha I love that shit about not being able to stop smiling thats sick!
/r/seduction30/01/13 04:47 AM
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These things happen. Its not the end of everything by any means. If you want to accept the good that can come from talking to girls and being social you have to accept the bad. In time it will become more even sailing but you have to stick with it.
/r/seduction27/01/13 07:07 PM
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lol your going to need lots of book to get over AA? No, I don't think so. Your going to need to approach alot of girls to get over your AA. There is no other way. That being said, here is a good reading list of books relating to pickup and lifestyle betterment in general http://www.reddit.com/r/rsd/comments/1765rw/rsd_required_reading_some_awesome_books/
/r/seduction27/01/13 07:00 PM
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Andddddd upvoted
/r/seduction27/01/13 06:59 PM
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This is big. One of my favorite quotes "I don't chase, I replace" Which actually tends to end up in them staying around anyways
/r/seduction27/01/13 06:58 PM
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Ah but plenty are sadly. I work at a junkfood store aka "convenience" store and it can be awfully hard sometimes seeing the crap that people buy
/r/seduction27/01/13 06:40 AM
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Yeah no doubt. Well like I said its a big maybe but I would certainly love to see him do one and I would have a few questions for him myself
/r/seduction27/01/13 02:19 AM
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Ha yeah its like looking for Waldo, seeing where his comments will pop up in the threads
/r/seduction26/01/13 09:29 AM
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Brad is chilled ice. He's the only one I've really talked too. I saw Julien at a free tour and he was riot. Guy had the room laughing their asses off. Come to think of it Todd had everyone cracking up too when he was describing his techniques for keeping girlfriends. Awesome stuff
/r/seduction26/01/13 09:28 AM
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THIS! You are going to do something fun and you are giving her the chance to come along for the ride. Spot on
/r/seduction26/01/13 09:25 AM
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I think its a solid idea. My only thing would be it sounds like quite a bit of booze involved. If your mate is sloshed to hell h'll walk up to the hottest girl there not giving a fuck even though sober it might scare him shitless. Perhaps a way to offset this booze effect? I'm not sure
/r/seduction26/01/13 09:20 AM
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Some possibility that I could get him to do an AMA. Not entirely likely but not out of the question either. It would probably be a short one like the Presidents but better than nothing for people who want to ask a few questions from the crazy king of pickup himself
/r/seduction26/01/13 09:17 AM
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I do agree with you that there are cute girls everywhere but I certainly think some places have more. I have heard wonderful things about Sweden, I am going to go someday and I'm studying Russian in school now so that I can take in all that Moscow has to offer
/r/seduction25/01/13 06:28 PM
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Personally I think its cuz of his passive pecs. Chix dig big pecks
/r/seduction24/01/13 04:01 AM
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I know what your talking about. I'm not on that level yet but in my more serene moments I catch glimpses of it. I think if everyone understand Fight Club and its principles on a very deep level the world would be an entirely different can of apples
/r/seduction24/01/13 04:00 AM
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I don't. I promise you that
/r/seduction24/01/13 03:57 AM
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My biopsych teacher just said the brain weighed 1400 grams. If the brain was heroin, well hell we would all be wealthy
/r/seduction24/01/13 03:57 AM
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You sir, are so right! The beginning sucks a fat crap. My brain reels at all the girls I creeped out, got rejected by and certainly not fucked by. After a while though it becomes less of a chore and more of something fun to do. I'm glad you recognize the process for what it is. RSD catchphrase is that there is NO FUCKING SUCH THING AS A MAGIC PILL. If all a guy had to do was get great posture, great eye contact and talk firmly and pull, well everyone would get laid. No one is above the process
/r/seduction24/01/13 03:56 AM
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I know just how you feel. My first two years of college were wasted so I'm making up for it with my last two years. Its GREAT that you realize this now and NOT after you graduated. Gives you some time to enjoy all the gazillions of girls around. Idk about you but my school has 20K some people so if I want to ditch every person I have ever known and start an entirely new social circle its so possible. Sometimes I'm tempted to do it just for practice lol
/r/seduction24/01/13 03:53 AM
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This is good shit for your average afc. I think it is super important to understand neediness
/r/seduction24/01/13 03:50 AM
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Your boned man. If you have this much invested into her already the odds of you being confident enough to ask her out and then have the date go well even if she says yes are slim. That being said, hit that shit up! Ask her and then ask another ten girls. Something important to remember is that if you want to get good with one girl, you have to get good with every girl.
/r/seduction23/01/13 05:43 AM
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I was hoping the question would be, Will you marry me? We could have retired to Naples and accumulated a collection well respected wine
/r/seduction22/01/13 11:59 PM
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This is my personal favorite. "Hey, I'm Sam" HB "Hello" "Blah blah bluh blah....."
/r/seduction22/01/13 11:38 PM
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Anything that would try to change your emotional frame. Example, girl Friday made a quip about me wearing the same shirt all day, I smiled and told her to shut up. She said I needed plastic surgery, I smiled and agreed with her in a funny manner. Shit tests are crazy awesome. They can be a blast if they are coming from a girl in your league. If some model girl through that at me with ice, woh fuck goodbye state. Talk to enough girls, you will start to see the pattern
/r/seduction22/01/13 11:35 PM
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Of course everyone can relate in some form. I think the ideal, pickup at is greatest, is learning game while simultaneously developing yourself as a person. Discover your passions and peruse the living fuck out of them. Example, I love making House music on the computer. When I do it, I feel grounded in myself and come across solid when talking to girls. If you have shit in your past, figure it out! Read books, there is so much information available it is mind boggling. The general idea that I t…
/r/seduction22/01/13 11:32 PM
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I think that for me I would avoid it strictly because It might lower my emotions hearing all that stuff. I don't think it has much to do with pulling her in any fashion. If I heard that girl I'm trying to hook up with is fucking some cool guy, my state would not take it so well. Best forget about it and focus on the here and now, eg your cock and its soon to be budding relationship with her.
/r/seduction22/01/13 11:27 PM
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I encountered something like this. I really liked this girl but it didn't work out. I thought sleeping with her co-worker would help me get over her; it didn't. Time helps and realizing there are 3 billion females hanging around
/r/seduction21/01/13 09:51 PM
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Cool. I would love to see Africa some day.
/r/seduction21/01/13 09:47 PM
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You said you get anxious at the idea of going to a club or bar. Totally understandable. Something you could try though. Give yourself SUPER low expectations. Alright, Its Friday and I'm going to go out to X bar or X club. I will buy myself one beer, drink it, stay for half an hour and leave. That's it, you can pull that off right? Then after a few times, OK this time I will stay for forty five minutes and talk to one person, guy or a girl. Now an hour and two people. You don't have to dive right…
/r/seduction21/01/13 09:44 PM
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I love daygame! I'm more comfortable talking to a girl walking around or eating or whatever than I am when she's surrounded by three other girls in a loud bar. Just my take though
/r/seduction21/01/13 09:38 PM
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I like the quote, "Its better to be looked over than overlooked". I don't run around with peacock earrings and a stovepipe hat but sometimes being a bit different is a good thing
/r/seduction21/01/13 09:19 PM
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I would say move on. Heres why. Without some commitment she is likely to not hook up with you. Now even if you like her and start having sex, she's still a home girl as you said and that will interfere with your relationship in ways you probably can't even think of yet. Also, if you take her virginity she is going to become pretty attached to you and while this may seem cool. It could also lead to a set of circumstances down the road that you may not want to deal with.
/r/seduction21/01/13 05:20 PM
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This man knows what he is talking about
/r/seduction21/01/13 05:17 PM
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A rocket scientist who's into girls and not his work. Psh, no such thing exists
/r/seduction21/01/13 05:00 PM
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I think you got it. I think a bit of Brad would help too. Rocking the lime sunglasses lol imgur.com/wGHl96F
/r/seduction21/01/13 04:54 PM
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Is mustard sufficient or does it have to be food?
/r/seduction21/01/13 04:41 PM
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